Woman’s UNEMPLOYED husband could handle being a stay at home dad for THREE days so she had to shut down her business and lay-off 13 people.

1Here4Bach · 2020-05-23T14:03:23+00:00

In case there any men lurking here, THIS is why women initiate 80% of divorce. There is an overwhelming amount of men like this. Men want us to pay half the bills but when it comes to them doing half the child rearing or housework they can’t take it and women are stuck with the burden in the relationship. This builds resentment which leads to deadbed rooms, unnecessary fights and ultimately, divorce.

And this is why so many men want women to be stay-home moms. They want nothing to do with housework or actually raising their kids. Sure, they want to toss the ball in the backyard with little Billy every once in a while and be there for all the fun stuff. But changing his diaper, punishing him, dealing with his tantrums, educating him, cleaning up after him and feeding him? No way.

Bethy_Seed96 · 2020-05-23T16:05:40+00:00

This guy is so fucking negative value hes dragging down strangers' lives.

blackredrosepetals · 2020-05-23T15:10:41+00:00

Fuck the bar is on the ground and men still dig

lemonheaddass · 2020-05-23T14:11:02+00:00

This is why you never dismiss red flags. Things just get worse

lluviaazul · 2020-05-23T15:04:46+00:00

Damn.. imagine being that useless.

saltyandpepa · 2020-05-23T15:37:26+00:00

Jesus Christ. To think I was optimistic enough to hope the lockdown would lead to greater egalitarianism in household tasks... Nope, this is what men are like.

abirdofthesky · 2020-05-23T15:42:25+00:00

God I was SO ANGRY when I read this. And it was portrayed so...uncritically? Like “oh yeah obviously the company should shut down.”

The husband did refuse an interview request. So maybe the reporter felt they couldn’t go too hard on him. But stil.

jenneschguet · 2020-05-23T16:20:09+00:00

Wow that guy is single handedly responsible for 13 people losing their jobs, imagine doing that much damage to complete strangers.

Ngwanuza · 2020-05-23T14:27:16+00:00

Motherhood and fatherhood are not equal loads....and the God's honest truth is most of the women who've seen this story agree their husbands wouldn't be able to hack a weekend alone without calling in the calvary (aka another female/caregiver substitute like said husband's mother, sister, cousin...). It's an open secret quite frankly

Pogojen · 2020-05-23T16:31:59+00:00

Even outside work hours, Hannaford would field emails and take calls as her son, Ryan, climbed into her lap and tried to grab her phone. Her husband would plead with her to “get off the computer,” she said, teaching Ryan a trick to get her attention: When she wasn’t responding, her son would call her “Aimee” instead of “Mom.” (Hannaford’s husband declined to comment for this story.)

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-05-23T15:55:05+00:00

She should've fired that husband.

KAT_85 · 2020-05-23T16:26:28+00:00

She was probably afraid that his resentment of watching their child would morph into neglect or abuse. She should throw the guy out, sure, but let’s not pile on her for making peace with the red flags screaming at her and what might amount to a lack of social support if she’s a single mom. Women are blamed if they leave and are blamed if they stay. I’d be shocked if she wasn’t from a conservative upbringing

nopuedeser818 · 2020-05-23T21:41:26+00:00

No one EVER would expect a father to quit his job or dissolve his business because his wife couldn't handle one three-year-old at home. NEVER EVER. Maybe if the kid was extremely special needs or something, but that clearly is not the case here.

I am sure that a three-year-old is a handful, but could you imagine EVER someone excusing a wife for not being able to "handle" the care of this child, to the point that the husband has to quit work and worse yet, shut down his business? EVER?

Oh my goodness, this is so crazy.

giftofnocondemnation · 2020-05-23T18:57:23+00:00

see this is why a woman becomes a slave to a man if she has kids. Here this womans life is ruined and centered around raising the next generation of disrespectful men and women victims of men.

RadarFemef · 2020-05-23T18:23:48+00:00

Nope. He goes into the pit. Better to be single than deal with a bottom feeder like this

2020-05-23T20:43:57+00:00

So in that article one thing that pissed me off - her husband taught her son to call her by her first name if she wasn’t answering him when she was working, and he was prone to grabbing the phone from her.

I bet she would not have to spent 12 hours a day on her computer if she had had uninterrupted time to work! If she’s spending all day begging her PIECE OF SHIT HUSBAND WITH NO JOB to mind their child so she can put a god damned roof over their heads!

Infuriating!!!

thowawaywookie · 2020-05-23T18:24:04+00:00

What a pathetic worm. I hope she threw him out and was able to find someone to help her.

I guess I can be a little bit proud right now. My daughter is away on a business trip for a week and her 20 year old son cares for his 2 young siblings as well as 2 cats and 2 dogs.

Her brother used to watch the now 20 year old for a few hours here and there, from when he was a toddler.

I guess as a mom and grandma it was important for everyone to pitch in with what needed done.

Picaboo13 · 2020-05-23T20:24:42+00:00

The husband did not want to comment for the article lol. No shit! He even he knows he is an embarrassment.

PicklesNBacon · 2020-05-23T19:25:49+00:00

Fuuuuuck that. I’d shut down the husband

GraveyardH2020 · 2020-05-23T20:33:33+00:00

I love the “couch creatures” tag 😂😂😂

outside-perception · 2020-05-23T18:52:16+00:00

But why did I put off my own state job to continue handling childcare? Ladies, if he can't handle the child YOU BOTH have together, he doesn't deserve the sacrifices you make.

chungkingxbricks · 2020-05-23T21:29:00+00:00

What a pathetic loser. I fucking hope that she leaves him in the dust.

Rdrses · 2020-05-23T22:58:47+00:00

Reading these comments i am once again so relieved I didn't reproduce with my ex husband. He claimed he wanted a baby so bad, but his competence and ability to care for the dog was enough for me to know better. I have conformation now that it was INDEED an ego thing for him, not that he actually wanted to raise a child. His new gf is pregnant with a girl now. I know for a fact he's immensely disappointed its not a boy and will show even less interest lmfao

skyerippa · 2020-05-23T23:17:32+00:00

Damn “some of y’all do a whole lot to have a husband” just gave me like ptsd to how much I do for a shitty boyfriend

2020-05-23T23:43:11+00:00

This is bullshit.

Edit: she should save some money in a secret bank account, file for divorce, and demand alimony for being a SAHM.

General comment: Men who say they want to have kids often expect the woman to do all of the childcare and also work full time. They’ll also give you zero support if you want to go back to school, and guilt trip you for doing anything that advances your career. Families often reinforce this guilt tripping.

2020-05-24T00:52:23+00:00

I can’t believe this— she was a CEO and he wasn’t even working!!! She totally shot her future in the foot, and the future of any children she has!

So what if her job would have “broken” her husband?????? Let him fall to pieces!’

greenteaapplepie69 · 2020-05-24T01:50:34+00:00

NO more of this shit, i can't take it!

too many pickmes giving up on their career and education for fucking LVMs.

are we in a circus? because all i see is CLoWns and MentAL GYMNastICS.

Alybank · 2020-05-23T15:46:56+00:00

I can’t find the article, so it would be helpful if someone linked it. Also, I have so many questions, why is he unemployed? How are they going to pay their rent/mortgage with NO income? What did her 13 employees do that they couldn’t go on without her? This is just crazy.

wowzerlol19 · 2020-05-24T05:01:28+00:00

This is really messed up. Ditch that retard not your loyal workers :(

ImPiqued1111111 · 2020-05-23T18:35:56+00:00

I'll be honest and I know this is going to offend people, but I really have trouble understanding the point of having kids.

QuebecMadonna · 2020-05-24T04:49:03+00:00

If this is marriage, I DONT WANT IT 🤮

bey124 · 2020-05-24T07:20:28+00:00

Why the f become a parent if you are “unable to” care for your child for three days. If you’re going to be that useless, perhaps it’s not the best idea to procreate. Also, how dare anyone expect this of a woman. What a “partner”, this guy. I hope she dumps him and focuses on her business and indepence instead.

2020-05-23T20:38:53+00:00

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Jenloubak · 2020-05-24T10:05:29+00:00

RAGEEEE!!!!

lickyblickyuhh · 2020-05-24T00:16:59+00:00

I’m speechless LMFAOOOO

DrLeePhDMd · 2020-05-23T20:46:58+00:00

Women are clearly the stronger sex. I feel very bad for her and her employees.

MandJtraveltogether · 2020-05-23T23:36:36+00:00

Men are absolute dogs.

No, even a dog would take care of their puppies.

2020-05-24T04:05:03+00:00

Could she shoot down the business because it was more beneficial for her financially? And use this as excuse for protect herself from government demands? This 13 people can have stimulated checks and government help? Sorry, i want to believe that people are smarter than they are

SpamNEggsDeuce · 2020-05-25T15:43:10+00:00

Primary Caretaker = Father. He's not a nanny. He's one of the fucking PARENTS.

sadcello · 2020-05-26T10:55:18+00:00

This is why fathers are trash. Parents are not amazing fuck no, mothers are amazing, fathers are trash.

sadcello · 2020-05-26T11:05:29+00:00

I would divorce him and put the child on orphanage if he doesn't want him. Why raise another useless manchild while throwing away your life and dream?

Title	Woman’s UNEMPLOYED husband could handle being a stay at home dad for THREE days so she had to shut down her business and lay-off 13 people.
Author	1Here4Bach
Upvotes	642
Comments	176
Date	May 23, 2020 1:58 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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