[Q4ALL] Whats your thoughts on the idea/phrase of “We all pay for sex/It’s cheaper to pay straight up”? The argument is that paying for sex is more efficient/cheaper than regular dating.

Im very pro prostitution, let me be clear. The fact that people are thrown in cages for engaging in voluntary transactions is immoral.

That’s being said I never got the whole “we all pay for sex bro”, “it’s cheaper to pay straight up” thing. I’m not talking about dudes who have done it a handful of times in life, it’s the guys who almost exclusively pay for it. Like the only sex they have us paid for.

1.)In regards for price I think these men are referring to dates/gifts. My first dates have always been cheap as hell with an easy exit strategy. Walks in the park, drinks at bar, coffee, ice scream shit like that. I’m spending MAYBE 20 bucs on these dates. I’m not big on gifts, but I’ve only given them to GF’s. For example my current GF I bought her an nice gift for Valentine’s Day but that’s after we became exclusive and we smashed like 10 times already.

2.)If we are going to talk about money, legit escorts are hundreds to thousands an hour. The typical guy is living paycheck to paycheck with no real savings. He doesn’t have money to spend on hookers, the only ones he can get are legit crackhoes who will blow you for ten bucks lol, or other bottom tier women. To me Going to a bar and getting drinks/appetizers, vibing with the chick and then she letting you smash anytime you want>>>>paying 400 dollars every time to have sex.

3.)In regards to time the Typical dude has a lot of downtime. If you on your phone 15 hours a week I don’t wanna hear a goddamn thing about how “I don’t have time to go on dates”. How long is the typical date anyway? Mine are usually less than 2 hours. The first time I had sex with my GF, we went out to brunch at like 11. That lasted about 45 mins, she invited me back to her apartment, she rode me like a stallion on her couch, and I was out after 30 mins. That total date lasted maybe 2 hours. You can’t clear 2 hours in your day?

So the great people of PPD, what’s your thoughts on this common idea about how “it’s cheaper to pay straight up or that everyone pays”. I don’t think either are true, especially the “cheaper to pay”. I’ve heard it from many guys both off and online my entire life.

I respect the dude who is honest and be like “look I’m lame, I’m Ugly, have no game so I pay women to be physical with me.” I’ll never shit on that guy. But the dudes who make excuses like “it’s cheaper to pay” or my personal favorite of “I don’t have the time to date” those dudes are clowns lol.