Omg I don’t even know where to start. So my STBXW is claiming that she wants 50/50 split of the all the finances and equity in our house, despite her only working 1 day a week during the marriage for 5 years. I bought our house before we were married and I put a down payment of 35k down and she put down 4k. I just found the record of it. Is my ex seriously going to dispute that she should get 50/50 in light of this evidence? I don’t want this to go on forever, and don’t want to throw her in front of a judge, but her mental state seems questionable.

The other thing, we did IVF and we had 2 kids through it. We have one embryo left and there’s actually a possibility that she wants to try to keep it?? Wtf. I’m not going to bring a 3rd child into this world into a broken family.

Last piece, she’s still living in the house, says she won’t leave until she gets her cut of the equity. Um people leave before it’s final all the time. How do I get this nutcake out of my life, she’s absolutely lost her mind. Seriously, who is this woman.