This guy

spinsterchachkies · 2021-02-13T16:38:00+00:00

Wants a family

is 43

witchingsauce · 2021-02-13T17:01:33+00:00

I’ve learned that sentences like “Not broken” is scrotespeak for lack of compassion for women and less privileged ppl in general. He thinks he’s showing he has standards and is HV but it just shows his arrogance tbh. Good for you, dude, you’re a male in a patriarchy. We get it.

Exsqueeze_meh · 2021-02-13T17:55:13+00:00

“I want a woman who isn’t broken ... so I can’t break her”.

babybellenotcheese · 2021-02-13T17:35:20+00:00

This reminds me, the last time I tried online dating I came across a profile of a man who was 67 and said he wouldn’t date women over 22 because that was our “peak” and we went downhill and were “broken” after 22. I immediately deleted my account 😂

AwkwardDisaster4150 · 2021-02-13T22:44:37+00:00

Any guy who really wanted a family would have done something about that before he’s 43 ffs

thewetdog_ · 2021-02-13T18:32:40+00:00

“Not broken”: so she doesn’t know any better and *I** can break her*👹

“Career oriented”: so she pays 50-50

“Wants a family”: at least 15 years younger than me and willing to childrear while paying that 50-50

Madholley · 2021-02-13T17:01:02+00:00

Thanks I hate it

WingLate · 2021-02-13T22:07:12+00:00

This screams “projection.” 43-yo rich techie couldn’t find a girl because he’s the one who’s broken. He wants some Mother Theresa type to fix him. Ty next.

millennialpink2000 · 2021-02-13T16:44:49+00:00

Hey Luke? That's not the definition of a Renaissance person, but nice try.

Also bud, next time, do a better job containing the contempt you feel for all women in this little gem of a bio

advice1988 · 2021-02-13T17:32:44+00:00

Men who ‘break women’ are the ones who like to use the concept of a ‘broken woman’ 🙄 they did someone dirty, know the ramification it has on a person and now think they can start over and find someone they deem to be ‘free of trauma’ worthy of them and naive enough to mistake them a good person by virtue of being a ‘renaissance / old fashioned’ man, aka a heteronormative imposing man child who wishes to revert to the relationships he has seen modelled in the 1950s & despite a life time of running around doing what he pleases thinks he ‘deserves’ a ‘clean’ woman. Women will always be a commodity to him. Madonna/ whore complex shit that’s not original but they are not realised enough to comprehend it.

purasangria · 2021-02-13T19:07:01+00:00

Tech men tend to be trash. I don't date tech men.

complex_answer_22 · 2021-02-13T19:21:06+00:00

My mom made the funniest joke about older men wanting a family. She said their sperm is probably using a walker trying to beat each other to the egg.

janeaustenfan99 · 2021-02-13T22:13:59+00:00

“Renaissance” men don’t tend to call themselves that.

veruscka · 2021-02-13T19:51:14+00:00

I bet he likes Elon Musk

dontbeadumbassjuice · 2021-02-13T19:45:14+00:00

“i’ M A ReNaisSaNcE mAn” yeah sure ya are

BabyBlankieieieieie · 2021-02-13T21:36:08+00:00

I hate everything about this. It’s Andy from the office but only the bad things.

Barbie1995b · 2021-02-13T16:23:51+00:00

We’re all broken in some way

Big_Ol_Pigeons · 2021-02-14T04:35:26+00:00

“20 years in the Dotcom & tech space” LOL Damn, what a reminder that I need to have the confidence of a mediocre white man.

ConditionOrdinary · 2021-02-13T18:56:12+00:00

Not surprised he’s in tech lmao.

ItsFreezen · 2021-02-13T20:40:08+00:00

Why does he think he's pure?

2021-02-13T19:15:40+00:00

What the fuck is a Renaissance man?

ApprehensiveGiftBox · 2021-02-13T17:54:35+00:00

Oh babe your sperm is dusty and useless. Don't date men over 30 ladies.

capresesalad1985 · 2021-02-13T19:29:23+00:00

I can’t stand when they put in their profile “keeps in shape” - translates to unrealistic Instagram model. I keep in shape, I work out and I play a sport. When I go to the dr and get blood work or other tests done, I’m in great health for a 30 something year old. But my BMI standards I’m a little overweight. I’m 5’ 10” and weight 185. I got a little extra cushion around my midsection but for all intents and purposes I’m “in shape” but I bet to this guy I’m fat.

pao664 · 2021-02-14T17:03:53+00:00

They want it all. What a joke.
Pick two- outstanding mother, beautiful, career driven.
It is NOT possible to achieve all three. It’s like the old paradigm of project management. You cannot have all three- cheap, fast, and good. Pick two.
These men haven’t a goddamn clue.

pikkpie · 2021-02-14T06:55:45+00:00

Lemme guess, he wants "50/50"

ribsinthegarden · 2021-02-13T20:50:09+00:00

« Not broken » what a POS ! Probably did some breaking of his own back in his day. Old fart wanted to start a family with his dusty sperm, what a joke.

plummyjellyfish · 2021-02-15T10:07:39+00:00

An ambitious Renaissance man, who sets out to succeed at everything he does, would have surely already accomplished his dream of having a wife and children by age 43. Also - he wants a woman who presumably is:
- Younger than him
- Beautiful and athletic
- Has her own money/career
- Will put all of that on pause to have children
- Resume fitness and beauty regimen right away after giving birth

Hard pass

catlady4u · 2021-04-05T23:18:03+00:00

It's always nice when they tell on themselves up front

Title	This guy
Author	UmmmHiHello
Upvotes	184
Comments	88
Date	February 13, 2021 4:19 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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