What is the most low value reason a scrote has tried using to manipulate you?

modernmedusaa · 2022-03-09T23:02:43+00:00

Pretended his mom had cancer as an excuse to run off to other women he was dating

mythrowawaypdx · 2022-03-10T00:37:05+00:00

I nearly forgot, when I was in college I befriended a couple named Fernando and Fern lol. Fern and Fernando broke up and she moved away due to mental health issues. Now newly single Fernando decided to tell me that Fern was too big, I'm going to talk about appearance now cus I think it's relevant. Fern might have been a size 14 - 16, blonde bombshell and absolutely stunning, he was cheap beer in a can.

He started to talk about how nice I looked and that he wanted to be with me while dating her. This could have been one of my 1st scrote encounters, I had no idea he ever saw me as more than a friend. I was really disturbed as she was a good friend too, he asked me out & I let him down gently because I actually cared about not hurting the feelings of losers at the time.

He then said if I didn't date him he would join the military I think the army, I guess I had some Queen in me because I was like "oh well, if you feel that would be the right decision I wish you the best. Thanks for deciding to serve our nation" he was like "really?" and I never spoke to him again yet others said I was rude for responding that way but it wasn't. What kind of start to a relationship is that? "Well kids I thought your papa was totally gross but when he attempted to use emotional blackmail on me I knew I couldn't call his bluff. Now you exist and get to witness a marriage void of love and respect firsthand. Don't make moms mistakes :D"

Ok-Nefariousness9646 · 2022-03-09T23:15:24+00:00

We were 16/17 at the time and a guy tried it with me and friends, saying he'd be dead by 18 because he had a 'vasco-cardular disease'. Thankfully, I quickly called out that it's cardio-vascular and if he had it, he would know that. He ended up a bit of a laughing stock because he said his Mum was dead and someone found her on Facebook and messaged her like 'I thought you were dead?!'

It also started as me platonically comforting him and then him suddenly pestering for sex out of the blue. Gross.

PeanutButterPigeon85 · 2022-03-09T23:21:24+00:00

The most LV reason? There are so many candidates, but I think the winner would have to be the time that my ex assaulted me without a condom, admitted that he knew it was wrong, and then tried to convince me that he was the victim because -- he told me -- I was now going to abort his child...the child that didn't exist because I was not and have never been pregnant. I told him the latter repeatedly, but it was like talking to a brick wall. He was fixated on the idea that I was going to cruelly abort his [imaginary] baby. It was so bizarre.

In retrospect, it was clearly just a way to keep the attention on himself and turn the situation around so that he could play the victim.

ConnieCapybara · 2022-03-10T02:04:08+00:00

I lost a close family member when I was around 13/14 and a NVM who had been one of my best friends since like kindergarten, sent me a dick pic in the middle of a text convo where I was mourning and just crying my feelings out. I was so shocked by that and I felt such immense anger that I stopped being sad for like 10 minutes. I was so disgusted by this and replied with something along the lines of 'wow, is it really that small? I feel like I've seen bigger? :/ '

He got defensive right away and got angry at me when I told him it was fucked up he sent me that. Stopped talking with him after this and thankfully he dropped out of my life and went to make himself useless far, far away from me

Platipus6 · 2022-03-09T21:53:50+00:00

He just divorced because of a dead bedroom, and he's never felt such sexual chemistry from texting before. (I was being dry and bland af. Literally nothing was going on. ???) But he wanted nudes.

My guy, if your own wife doesn't want to fuck you.. why would I?

Dead bedrooms are like a 1 star rating from the ex-wife lmao

birdonthestreet · 2022-03-10T02:21:25+00:00

Not me- but my friend told me once that her bf disappeared for a week and wouldn’t return her calls. She was freaking out thinking he died. He shows back up out of nowhere and she starts thinking he’s been cheating. She starts asking questions and he starts bawling and says that his daughter had died.(he had a 1 yo baby). She obviously felt awful, and let the cheating accusation go. But she started asking for details about how it happened and when the funeral was. He was being shady about it and kept disappearing. She called every funeral home in the area where his daughter lived bc she wanted to send flowers- no luck.

She finally gets ahold of baby mama- turns out not only was the daughter alive and well, man was still in a relationship with the BM and my girlfriend was the side chick. She had been seeing him for like 6 mo and thought they were in a monogamous relationship.

LVM are so depraved, they will lie about their own child dying to save their ass from cheating. Disgusting.

_cnz_ · 2022-03-09T23:33:01+00:00

- Collapsed on me during a party and ask for help taking him to the bathroom. Once I hit the lights to walk him in, he slammed the door and tried to rape me

-Person in my cohort was a cancer survivor and had a host of lingering medical issues that impacted his day to day life. He texted me while he was having one of his episodes and when I came into the room, he had all the lights off and groped me while trying to get me to give him a massage to "alleviate the pain"

-confronted someone who assaulted me who seemed sympathetic and apologetic at first but then asked for nudes because he missed me

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2022-03-09T23:49:25+00:00

Not sure if it’s the most low value, but it was certainly pathetic. “All my friends think you’re wasting my time and I’m wasting my time with you.” By a 37 year old man, because I wasn’t yet sleeping with him after a couple of months (because he had messed up a few times so I didn’t yet trust him, and also, he worked away so realistically We only went on 5 dates!)

Reasonable-Slice-827 · 2022-03-09T22:06:53+00:00

"My therapist says you're acting like this because of pregnancy hormones". My youngest was 7 at the time and I hadn't even had sex with the scrote who said this.

mlwheart · 2022-03-09T21:26:15+00:00

That’s pretty low. For me, they use the fact that I’m over 30. Not to brag but I’m a 10 where I live, and these ugly poor old men I know constantly want to use that as a reason to tear me down, in hopes that they can have a chance. It’s so sad, instead of anger I just have pity for them.

QueensJuju · 2022-03-10T02:03:04+00:00

Somewhat similar to yours, but a bit worse. We had a mutual friend die, I had only met him once but he tried to use his sadness over his friends death to 1. Try to convince me to date him 2. While he was still in a relationship with a partner who already didn't trust him to be faithful 3. While attacking my current partner for not being "my type" 4. Was an obese 5. Drug addict 6. 15 years my senior.

Blocked and deleted. It especially hurt because he came to me for emotional support about the loss of a person we both loved, and tried to turn my friends death into one extended, gross pickup line 🤦‍♀️

itslikeoldyeller · 2022-03-10T01:23:44+00:00

My (male) best friend from highschool very suddenly and tragically passed away a few years ago, and his older brother tried using his death as a way to slide into my DMs - he did this with other women, as well

And I've had an ex-boyfriend use every low value excuse in the book: telling me his mom is dying, threatening suicide, threatening suicide in the same way I've had friends/family die, threatening murder-suicide, telling me I'm getting old basically trying to coerce me into settling (I was 21/22! Lmao!)

dark_midnight_sky · 2022-03-10T00:50:17+00:00

This guy I was texting with said he was at the hospital with his cousin, who got into an accident but would be ok. But you know what would make him feel better? Pictures of my boobs 🤦‍♀️

AyemHerself · 2022-03-09T23:42:40+00:00

Constantly using his dead wife for sympathy points and narcissistic supply.

MonkeyMoney21 · 2022-03-09T23:17:33+00:00

I was the victim of the data breach and a hacker tried to sexually blackmail me and said if i didnt they would leak my intimate photos- he did not even know where i lived- absolutely pathetic

GreytracksuitPants · 2022-03-10T09:09:55+00:00

Went out one night with my sister, her boyfriend and his scummy friend who would just not stop harassing me all night long it was tiring and so disappointing my pickme sister and her boyfriend just laughed along, even though I was clearly annoyed.

We went back to her place (after he accidentally pepper prayed himself with mine, how I rejoiced) and lo and behold he kept trying to get into bed with me, then started crying on the floor beside me saying his brother was sexually abused when he was a small child by a man in their house.

I was like wtf! How is that an excuse for you to do the same??? Albeit I wasn’t a child thankfully and could tell the scrote to F off, but my god the audacity.

Last I seen he’s married with 2 kids. I hope they’re ok.

naturopathicfantasti · 2022-03-10T04:41:17+00:00

Oh! I’ll go. Another baby trap story for this post!

I was a kid, 22. Dated a man 10 years older (ugh) who worked in the kitchen of the restaurant I served at while in college.

He told me he was infertile and spoke of it often as he was very torn up he’d never have his own children. (Lies to hit raw that I believed)

One day I realized he had been slowly moving his things into my apartment. He spent less and less days at his own 30 something home. He would not go back home. He decided he lived with me now.

I woke up, noticing the hobo sexual behavior. I paid the months fee and broke my lease. I told him the day I was moving out. Left him there with his belongings.

2 months later I fainted & after an at home test realized I was pregnant with this INFERTILE mans baby!

I invited him to a public place, Waffle House (south represent) and told him I knew he was lying about being infertile & that I’d be aborting my pregnancy. He knew I was child free.

This man stood up in the Waffle House and screamed that I was killing his one and only chance at ever having a child. That this was a miracle.

He then scream recited in the middle of a crowded Waffle House, memorized entries from my journal he’d read. My first person musings of sexual encounters with my ex.

I guess this was meant to publicly slut shame me into keeping his manipulated miracle baby.

He looked like a fool. I left, did not yell, and had an easy chemical abortion. Never to see him again. Then went on to secure sterilization at 30. Best day of my life.

They have taken so much from me. They won’t force me to give birth. They will never trap me, ruin my body, force contact because of children. He wasn’t the only one who tried, but he thought he’d succeeded.

Aik2 · 2022-03-10T15:51:37+00:00

A guy I was friends with in middle and highschool sent me an unsolicited pic of his micropenis to wish me a happy birthday when we were in college.

It literally came out of nowhere, "hey happy birthday! I was thinking about you. Here's a lil gift for you..."

Emphasis on "lil.". Blocked him immediately after and still blocked over ten years later.

rideoffalone · 2022-03-10T08:39:36+00:00

Losing my virginity would hurt less if he didn't use a condom.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2022-03-10T06:22:04+00:00

I was really young and stupid and fell for: "my boner hurts, I have blue balls, you're evil/ cruel of you don't take care of it, look what you do to me."

📸 His boner and his biological reactions to you are not your problem! ✌️

eatapeach18 · 2022-03-10T16:27:47+00:00

I traveled back to my home country for five weeks to visit my ill grandmother in her small village. She had cancer and was very weak and frail, so I did all the home care for her (cleaning, laundry, dishes, etc), ran all the errands (driving into the city to get groceries and meds, going to the bank and the post, filling jugs with water from the well). I did go out every evening with my cousins and friends for dinners and drinks once my grandma went to bed at 9, but this trip was by no means “a vacation.”

My boyfriend at the time used this opportunity to make a bunch of online dating profiles to talk to a bunch of women (I had no idea he was doing this). When I came back home from visiting my grandma, everything was normal. I didn’t suspect a thing. I went to get my hair done and the stylist was an acquaintance of my boyfriend’s roommate. She asked me “how I was holding up” and I had no idea wtf she meant. She said “well I’m assuming you know about Mike… I saw him out at a bar with some girl. I figured you two broke up.” I was shocked, but played along and said “yeah I’m holding up just fine!”

Saw my boyfriend later that night and pretended that my phone died and asked to use his phone to make a call. I then locked myself in the bathroom and started going through the phone, I found three different dating apps, with quite literally HUNDREDS of messages to and from women, many that predated my trip. I confronted him and asked him why? And he said he was jealous that I was “having a nice time on vacation” and “barely talking to him while I was away” and that I “posted photos with good-looking dudes” and he assumed that I was cheating on him, so he did it to “get back at me.”

I told him that taking care of my sick grandma wasn’t a vacation, that there was a 7-hour time difference so chatting on the phone was near impossible (though I did send him texts daily!), that those “good looking dudes” were my cousins, and that his messages were from long before I even left to go on my trip. He cried like a little bitch, begged me not to break up with him, said that he was sorry and promised to never do it again, but I didn’t care. I dumped him.

A few months later, he was in the newspaper for having been arrested twice in the same weekend, both times for DUIs. And he got disbarred.

elainejay82 · 2022-03-10T18:55:17+00:00

Back when I used OLD, a scrote used me to show off at his 30th birthday party to his "friends." They weren't really even close friends, just gym buddies he had. Things were going great for two weeks up until his birthday. Friends liked me, blah blah, and he made it seem to them like we had been super serious for a long time. 🤣 They didn't know any better since none of them were really tight knit with him. After that, he ghosted me.

Another I met on OLD used me to show his parents he was "normal" and "levelling up in life" so they would leave him their brand new truck as they were planning a move to an island. To be fair, the man still pursued me hard after they gave it to him, but it was only a few short weeks of dating him before he brought me to his parents' house to meet them on VALENTINE'S DAY. Could you be more obvious?

And men say women are the schemers and scammers?

Madholley · 2022-03-09T23:29:32+00:00

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ilikedogsbutmenmore · 2022-03-10T04:10:06+00:00

Didn't have any money until his next paycheck so maybe I could "take him out to dinner", when i said no he asked for nudes.

Title	What is the most low value reason a scrote has tried using to manipulate you?
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Date	March 9, 2022 9:14 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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