LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

Cjaylyle · 2025-01-04T09:18:50+00:00

Sub MASSIVELY over estimates the traditional white guy archetype and underestimates mixed race/black guys appeal to white women

Lift_and_Lurk · 2025-01-03T17:50:16+00:00

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sine120 · 2025-01-03T17:43:24+00:00

If our baby comes out ugly but my wife and I are both 7's, who's to blame?

Spread-Em-Plz · 2025-01-03T16:54:52+00:00

Being good-looking and having actual sex appeal are cooperative partners; they are not one in the same, ya bums

Mouslimanoktonos · 2025-01-02T21:23:10+00:00

What body-positivity crowd doesn't seem to understand is that there is a big difference between chubby/plus size/thick/corpulent and obese. The former can absolutely be attractive and is very attractive to a significant group of men, but calling someone fatphobic for not finding a mountain of lard sexually appealing is just delusional. Women don't need to be skin and bones to be attractive, but being obese is very different from just having few pounds extra and it's completely natural for men not to find an unhealthy blob attractive.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2024-12-31T15:27:33+00:00

Q4W: shoes for NYE festivities. What do you choose, Comfort or style?

Alwaysnthered · 2024-12-31T02:43:18+00:00

New topic I've never heard discussed here before:

men can instinctively just "know" when another men is viscerally attractive to most women. it's an instinct we possess. its 90% looks, but also personality/style can just make him more lethal.

sometime you can't explain it - but it is similar to what women "sense"

therefore, if you see a guy and you also sense this, its 95% likely that he is used to attracting women - and I've been right over and over again.

if you don't sense it, he might not struggle but he rarely elicits visceral arousal and will need to rely on his personality / etc to attract her over time.

It's seeing the broad shoulders, tight shirt against thenm. the straight jaw sticking out underneath the ball cap with a large skull shape.

it's the low deep voice and towering height.

sometime it's the curly DARK full hair.

you just know.

and you know he will make your women wet with DESIRE and you can't do anything about it.

hope he doesnt smile at her.

(post was kinda homo I know lol)

TheRedPillRipper · 2024-12-30T23:19:53+00:00

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Learned PPDers, what would you rate her on a scale of 1-10? I’m at an 8.

TheRedPillRipper · 2024-12-30T21:31:27+00:00

CMV: Lizzo is more attractive, to more people, than Margot Robbie.

By whatever metric, rationale, or reason in context to attraction, this conclusion will always remain, fact.

I’d really like to see how others rationalise the counter argument.

Additionally, I’d really like to see how those that agree with me, think. So please come and argue for the OP too if so inclined.

Prove to me, I am not as smart as I think I am.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2024-12-30T21:24:52+00:00

Mfkers be like "red and blond hair and light eyes are so beautiful because they're rare☝️🤓"

Straight hair is the most common hair type in the world, and yet for some reason kinky and curly hair aren't equally desired for their "rareness"

Things that make you go hmmmm

platinirisms · 2024-12-30T20:34:33+00:00

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BichonFriseLover · 2024-12-30T19:43:29+00:00

The 1 thing I would improve if I could look wise is height. I’m average height in my country. I seriously wonder what going out would be like just for 1 weekend at 6’5. I don’t have a problem with dating but I would just like to see the difference for one weekend.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2024-12-30T18:45:22+00:00

Q4W: long hair on a guy? Yes/no/indifferent?
Any preferences?

MalePsychopath · 2024-12-30T16:46:44+00:00

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RedditLiesMore · 2024-12-30T02:59:42+00:00

A bad thing about the lies regarding the importance of physical attractiveness within the dating world is that it can lead to people allocating resources and time towards endeavors that won't make them more attractive.

While my outcomes improved as a result of living in a big city, nice neighborhood, and being more social, it probably pales in comparison to the effectiveness that could have come from jaw surgery or facial plastic surgery. It would have been less expensive too. Ofc there are risks involved, but I wish I could've spoken to people about it. My more attractive friends just exist and get attention. Doesn't matter if they're in all lot of debt, jobless, or live with their parents. Theit most salient characteristics are their height and face. Those outweigh negative characteristics, especially during first impressions.

Another thing:

I read another comment in this post that short men date and marry less attractive partners with increased BMI. This is a really important fact that needs to be acknowledged when giving short men advice. Especially advice that relies on that fact that most people have a relationship eventually. It's frustrating to have one's options be limited to people who live lifestyles completely incompatible to one's own. Perhaps better advice would be to talk them about the risk/benefit analysis of leg lengthening because that would have direct benefits on their outcomes.

MalePsychopath · 2024-12-29T21:12:16+00:00

Are there any flaws that you actually like and find attractive? Things like a tooth gap, stretch marks or acne scars.

PurplePillDebate-ModTeam · 2024-12-29T14:04:49+00:00

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scwizard · 2024-12-29T07:36:57+00:00

I just pulled 10+ years of work history, including building and selling a $1 million+ company, off my resume and binned it because people just want to hire a pretty face and a smile.

What the fuck? Is this really what being a woman is like?

Patrickstarho · 2024-12-29T01:38:59+00:00

It’s sad that women are so absent minded.

They will go on dating apps, put on height filters and just swipe right on dudes who have good photos. If the photo is “okay” they will read the bio and scan for a job, hobbies.

For me I am drawn to ppl who look like they don’t get matches. I think they are unique, they have such a different experience and they are more willing to talk to you. I’m curious about that person. I wanna know what their life is like.

Women do not share this curiosity at all. It’s insane to me.

Like set your height filter to the shortest mfers and ask them what their dating life is like. Instead they will form their opinion on short guys or incels from the internet on Instagram etc.

This is the flaw in most women. They just lack curiosity. They lack drive. They just wanna be coddled and made to feel they are important.

I envy the gay man

treadmarks · 2024-12-29T01:03:48+00:00

If your looks bar filters out 80% of the dating pool, the rest of your wish list doesn't matter. For most people, your dating budget has essentially all been put into looks and that's all you can expect to get.

PrinceDuneReloaded · 2024-12-29T00:51:56+00:00

How men judge women:

90% looks
2% money
3% status
5% personality

How women judge men:

80% looks
15% money
3% status
2% personality

note that while men value looks more, women have MUCH higher requirements to be seen as attractive. most women are able to reach men's looks threshold, most men are not able to reach women's looks threshold.

this is just my opinion (its also correct)

MalePsychopath · 2024-12-28T23:38:41+00:00

Kristen Stewart is ugly cute in just the right way. She looks so sickly and endearing. 🥰

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pence_secundus · 2024-12-28T21:05:27+00:00

I went from being a fat guy to a super ripped guy 2 years back, the change in the quality of my dating life was insane, I went from near-zero tinder matches to 40+ matches a DAY.

Then I basically just serial dated multiple first dates a week until I met my wife, shit was easy.

Lose weight, get fit, control your mealplan, it's worth it.

TheRedPillRipper · 2024-12-28T20:09:23+00:00

CMV: Attraction can be quantified objectively. Thus, beauty, is NOT subjective.

Pick my viewpoint apart.

Reasonable_Style8214 · 2024-12-28T17:41:06+00:00

Height and Body Mass on the Mating Market: Associations With Number of Sex Partners and Extra-Pair Sex Among Heterosexual Men and Women Aged 18–65 - PMC

Men who are shorter than average appear to be at a disadvantage on the mating market: Their partners are more likely to be less healthy, have lower incomes and education, and have higher body mass index (BMI; Stulp, Mills, Pollet, & Barrett, 2014).

Thanks dad for giving me above average height genes, otherwise I'd have to date a broke landwhale.

waffleznstuff30 · 2024-12-28T17:33:00+00:00

Order of importance for hetero men: face>height>money>status>body>age>personality>D size>rest

Order of importance for hetero women: body>face>age>N count>personality>height>money>status>rest

K4matayon · 2024-12-28T17:28:56+00:00

Looks > all

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