[question for red pill] what strategy would you advise for a woman seeking a relationship to be able to meet your standards and not be either ghosted or placed as “recreational use only”? How could she prove she meets your standards if she really did?

The standards that I’m implying are some general standards I hear the most from my time in red pill spaces which are:

1. She can’t have a promiscuous past/a lot of past sexual partners.

2. If she’s interested in you, she needs to be willing to have sex by the 2nd or third date max.

3. She needs to be humble and not have rediculously high and superficial standards. Meaning she’s fine with a guy being 6ft and making 6 figs. But she doesn’t have an overinflated sense of self worth where she feels entitled to it and won’t accept less.

4. She needs to be coachable. Edit: coachable in general and not just with sex.

5. She needs to be feminine.

The first three standards are what I mostly want to focus on. Because it seems like they heavily contradict each other in some way. The other two at least can fit together. The only way I see a woman being willing to have sex on the 2nd date while not having a promiscuous past is if she would only say yes to a date from millionaires or something. If she doesn’t have super high standards while also not having a promiscuous past, the only few ways I see a woman having sex on the 2nd date is if she made an exception for you and compromised her values, she isn’t very attractive to men, or she is fresh out if high school. Which being just out of high school still doesn’t guarantee anything. And I would assume you want her to be good looking as well.

Another question I have is if she did meet these standards, how could she prove it to you? I’ve seen some RP men say they wouldn’t care about waiting for sex if she wasn’t ever promiscuous. But it seems like the mentality is that all women have a past of hooking up or would do it if the right guy came along. So how could she prove that’s not the case for her without it being perceived as being dishonest or ignorant? By ignorant I mean she doesn’t know she would do it for a certain type of guy because she hasn’t met that type of guy yet. If there is a realistic strategy, I don’t see how there can be more than one especially if she’s only interested in monogamy from both her and you.

Edit: original wording implied I thought there’s only one way for a woman to have sex quick without having a past and not having too high of standards even though I explained 3 possible ways to achieve that. Changed the wording around.