It seems as tho they, namely, landlords, women and companies, are like carbon copies at the moment. Looking for some ethereal perfect fit...Rejecting en mass and...being left with nothing at the end. Empty Rentable Apartments, empty job positions, and single and alone women(who may or may not be "dating" all the same guy). As if....this weird notion of there being endless options kinda leads to searching forever but never finding. Thus, I dont think that hypergamy or personality getting you things, or game or whatever or any of that nonsense exists. Its just...what happens when you are presented with the illusion of choice and dont have the needed wisdom(brought about by a hard and harsh life) to realize that, your actual options are very very very small. Thus I think that...the consumerist idea is what is actually behind this. The idea of the individual going about in the world, and picking his pick from it. Rather than the actual lived reality for thousands of years that, no, the landlord, the company, the woman, the man, none of that is an individual but a part of a whole. And the responsibilities to the tribe come first, the benefits only second. And if we are to guess who originated this its the Merchant class. After all, the consumerist idea is the perfect capitalistic tool of persuasion. Thus I say that, its individualism and consumerism that ruins society, not women. And neither men.