How can he pump & dump?

deckran · 2022-01-27T10:18:13+00:00

She's so tired of hookups, but when Chad comes and whispers a few sweet nothings into her ear she breaks her "celibacy" just like that...Honestly the only thing i'd say to her is that you got what you actually deserved. What self-respecting woman let's a random dude she just met cover her hair in his juice? Serious question. You treat yourself like a human sexdoll and expect the man to treat you differently. No. Act like a lady, with standards etc. and get lady's treatment. Act easy and like a 304 and you get a 304's treatment. Simple.

silver-in-a-cloud · 2022-01-27T09:57:39+00:00

what a comlpete cum dumpster...took him to her house, fucked him and didn't even bother to get some real contact on the guy before doing so ...

who on earth does this before having a mobile phone number, facebook or any other information about the partner except for a sad match on a sad dating app ?

she probably got some new STD to her collection now...

how dfq do you even plan to track him down if you figure out later that he gave you AIDS ? dumb thot

SnakeEyeskid · 2022-01-27T10:19:44+00:00

Women are so self-absorbed that the male perspective is inconceivable to them. Ofc he found her somewhat attractive. That hair didn't get cum in it by itself.

But she thought being a slut would give her commitment? Why would he or anyone commit to someone like this?

I-am-the-lul · 2022-01-27T10:25:40+00:00

To answer the question, men on average are willing to bang women far less attractive than he is, for example, many a Chad-9 is perfectly content to bang a willing and eager Jane-5 because when it comes to sex, guys often have low standards as it is a sexual strategy that increases his chances to pass on his genes.

Women, understand this, just because a hot 9/10 guy was willing to fuck you, doesn't mean you are a 9/10 yourself, unlike women who only want to bang top-tier guys, even the top men can and often do bang average looking women because they are a great source of quick and easy sex.

Boar_excrement · 2022-01-27T10:12:14+00:00

Whoa! Sounds like someone is missing courtship. Things like romance, wooing, pursuit and, you know, actually getting to know someone before you let him blow his load in your hair. But all of those things were ceremonially burned in the name of sexual liberation.

You laydeez wanted the freedom to slut around, well, now you know the price: your character will only be valued by your behavior.

On second thought, never mind, I overthought this. She sounds like a post-Wall thot that could not stick the landing off of the cock carousel. Carry on, gentlemen.

Revenge_best_served · 2022-01-27T10:02:47+00:00

He was probably tired of spanking the monkey, and he needed to nut and phony words of affection are cheaper than a callgirl.

Just accept your flashlight status, or lock it up forever, because this is what the majority of "dating " is today.

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2022-01-27T10:00:00+00:00

Important mod note regarding her last sentence:

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Focus on her behavior and her consequences.

gentle_lemon · 2022-01-27T11:37:13+00:00

Wait till she finds out about women marrying men they're not attracted to.

HolyGourdofJerusalem · 2022-01-27T11:15:34+00:00

"I knew it would make me feel like shit, but I did it anyways."

duh!

I'd say she's worse than a child, but children (at least up to a point) aren't aware of the consequences of their actions.

This one was...and did it anyways.

Her low self-esteem and need for validation, combined with lack of impulse control has led her to allow herself to be used in a self-perpetuating cycle of ever-increasing psychological damage. This woman is broken but doesn't know it.

Don't ever marry someone this damaged (yes, past matters, regardless of what nutty feminists would have their "sisters" believe) and ideally, don't date them (or even P&D them)...nothing but misery awaits, whether it is eventual divorce r@pe or getting a call one day and being told you are going to be a dad.

on another note, the guy should have texted her right afterward and got her to acknowledge that the sex was consensual before he ghosted her...an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure and the last thing anyone needs is an angry woman filing charges because she feels disrespected

Joaquino7997 · 2022-01-27T12:21:24+00:00

I'm getting tired of women not taking responsibility for their actions.

When men get dumped, it's the man's fault.

When women get dumped, it's still the man's fault.

gingerjoe98 · 2022-01-27T10:13:58+00:00

Post nut clarity

p3ngwin · 2022-01-27T11:47:16+00:00

"I told myself i'd be celibate this year ..."

Proof that for women they have so many options, that they have to actively CHOOSE not to have sex, hence dispelling any "female incel" myth".

She's obviously a sex addict,and/or tied her self-worth to sex, so she fucks on the 1st date and can never say "no".

She's invites them to HER place, yet blames the men for "initiating", because she has no agency, and in her head she's a "target" of so many men who want to "use" her, but she can't say NO because somehow that would be "rude" or something ?

Lady, learn to stop fucking on 1st dates, get to know the person enough that maybe towards 3-5 dates you entertain the idea of knowing if they're worth fucking.

If you give up the goods on the 1st date, what the fuck do you think is the reason to hang around after that ?

AngryCockOfJustice · 2022-01-27T11:03:46+00:00

Cum dumpster got dumped by cum. What's she complaining about? That he should marry a leftovers of other dudes before him? 🤣😆🤣

He or any dude doesn't owe her a relationship.

TheFyree · 2022-01-27T11:51:55+00:00

This should have been rephrased to “Why, when I act like a whore on the first date with a stranger, do they then discard me like I’m some whore?”

InevitableOwl1 · 2022-01-27T11:40:21+00:00

“If he didn’t want to fuck me” - erm he did. But that is all he wanted 🤦‍♂️

jmpires · 2022-01-27T11:18:45+00:00

Wise choice, the hair. Really tricky for her to spermjack.

InevitableOwl1 · 2022-01-27T11:37:36+00:00

She caved after less than a month?! Assuming it was posted in 2022

Cristoff13 · 2022-01-27T11:48:25+00:00

She needs to understand that men think differently from women.

Chiliresident · 2022-01-27T12:17:48+00:00

Why can’t I find true love on Tinder? I only select Uber hawt guys and they never stick around. I guess they don’t like my foul mouth and boorish personality for even a second night of cheap sex? Dumb thot is dumb.

tiernach · 2022-01-27T13:16:46+00:00

Life's hard. It's harder if you're stupid.

Aldabruzzo · 2022-01-27T14:30:04+00:00

"Attractive". Women keep using that word. I do not think it means what they think it means.

Chick - he DID think you were attractive. That's why he fucked you. To men, "attractive" means one thing and one thing only - fuckable. When a man says he thinks you're attractive, he's saying he wants to fuck you. When he says he wants to spend time with you, he is saying he wants to fuck you.

When a man gives you any attention at all, he's telling you he wants to fuck you.

First, we find out if you're attractive (fuckable). Then we figure out the rest - compatibility, friendliness, can we get along, do we want to spend nonsexual time, etc. But we have to take care of the "fuckable" part first.

To women, "attractive" means whatever the woman saying it means in her head at the time. it means

--fuckable (but only sometimes - usually women say "hot" or "gorgeous" when describing their fuckboys)

--nice

--"he has something I want/need right now, and I want it".

--funny, good sense of humor

--"he has money and a good job"

--"I think he might make a good husband I can use, exploit, and take advantage of"

--"he might make a good father for my children"

To women, fuckability is presumed. Of COURSE you don't fuck women you don't want to fuck. That's a given. That's why she thinks men are fucking women who aren't "attractive". Because she thinks men are looking at everything else BUT fuckability to decide "attractiveness. She thinks this because that's what women do.

kiaeej · 2022-01-27T10:06:38+00:00

Cos…shes an idiot.

OracleofFl · 2022-01-27T11:38:23+00:00

Maybe she was simply a terrible or boring lay and it wasn't worth his time to hit it again?

WeRAllOnThisBlessedD · 2022-01-27T13:37:11+00:00

I’m so tired of men…basically using me for sex

At least she probably got a free meal, free drinks, free coffee, walk in the park, etc. Who knows, maybe the guy even changed her flat tire or listened to her bitch about her day.

Try being a guy who does those things for women thinking he’ll get sex out of it (or at the very least some sort of confession from her that she has feelings for him) only to realize that she had no intention of ever fucking him, she never saw him as anything more than a friend (and we’ll use that term loosely), and she was just using him for attention and free favors while she was getting fucked hard by Chad. Now try being that guy for months if not years on end, praying that eventually she’ll realize that he’s the Great Guy^TM that she’s been hoping for her entire life, and that he’s better than these bad boy assholes she’s been dating.

Never, never, never fall into that trap. If you like a chick then make a move or move on with your life. This isn’t a Disney movie. She won’t wake up one day and finally realize she’s in love with you.

InevitableOwl1 · 2022-01-27T11:39:08+00:00

And to think - I was put out when the first girl I met off of bumble (and probably only the second ever off of OLD) clearly unmatched me as she walked out of the pub. Gone as I checked whilst walking away

GoneWithTheZen · 2022-01-27T13:27:59+00:00

Did none of these people read "If you give a mouse a cookie" when they were younger? Women have signed their own fates. If you give men the right to pump and dump you they will pump and dump you. Yall wanted to pull that sexual freedumb lever. They have made their bed and now they have to lay in it.

ZZoMBiEXIII · 2022-01-27T16:02:09+00:00

Even in the throes of her rejection, she applies lady logic to a man's possible motivations. "He's probably regretful".

No, honey. He's not regretful. He got exactly what he wanted. And here's the kicker, he most likely DID find her attractive. He just knows there'll be another woman willing to spread her legs without the assumptions next time he's eager to bust one out.

Ladies, if you are all gonna chase the same 12 guys, then you are no longer the prize. It's time you all learned that. And every year, more men are learning to laugh at your "demands". He'll just go find another willing agreeable woman who won't deny him. Meanwhile the guy who would do anything to see you smile and make you happy will just come here and join us. Wait, you know what, forget what I said. Just keep trying what you know isn't working ladies, "YOU GOT THIS, GIRL!"

Subtle_Demise · 2022-01-27T13:20:47+00:00

So many women going on a hookup app looking for LTRs. Why? My theory is that's the highest concentration of Chads. Sadly for the ladies though, they only want hookups, because we'll that's what the app was designed for

StinkingDischarge · 2022-01-27T14:01:40+00:00

She apparantely hasn't gotten the memo that most men will fuck literally anything when they're horny enough. Hell, it doesnt even have to be human. So she's spot on about being seen as a walking fleshlight by men. I'm just going to go out in a limb and say she's in her mid 30's-mid-40's, was probably attractive enough in her younger days to get plenty of male attention which mistakenly led her to believe she was "hot" when she was just average. And for a horny guy average is more than good enough. Now she put on some weight and has a few wrinkles and saggy bits but she's still good enough to be used as a fleshy cock sleeve but that's about it and she doesnt understand. She played the field in her younger days but thought she had forever to lock something down. You know, the feminist trope about being able to "have it all". Somewhere along the line she went from playing the field to being played BY the field but hasn't figured it out yet.

Sagefullygood · 2022-01-27T15:22:23+00:00

"A man can eat a filet mignon every night of the week. But if he's hungry, he'll eat a cheese sandwich. Some of you ladies need to realize...you're that cheese sandwich."

Paul Proteus

FormerBTfan · 2022-01-27T13:18:34+00:00

What she wrote is really who she is. Oozing low self-esteem hence she keeps taking pipe from guys hoping to gain some solace and fill that dark void running through the middle of her.

Probably had a bad family situation growing up and then having stupidisim and the you go girl female empowerment lie shoved down her throat ( like so many tinder cocks).

She secretly loves being used like this and believes its her worth. The venting is only a faint attempt at distraction of being the victim, where it is the opposite and she is the aggressor on getting "whoreazontal" with the tinder boys.

What's that saying? Women are the gate keepers of sex so its as simple as not spreading or dropping trou and bending over. Got 10 bucks that this one has an only ho's page with some predictable content.

ihateshadylandlords · 2022-01-27T12:52:25+00:00

Someone should’ve told her that just because a man will sleep with you, it doesn’t mean he loves you or even likes you. FFS men will fuck a McChicken(Google it if you dare). Sex with a guy is terrible measurement of interest because that bar is so low.

ijustdontcare74 · 2022-01-27T13:50:58+00:00

Her nativity and blindness to the truth of her situation is exquisite...she is just a hole to men because that what she made herself. Her own actions defined her worth and by going on hookup apps and sleeping around...she got exactly what she paid for, to be used as nothing more than a cum dumpster.

NoNameAvailableSee · 2022-01-27T14:30:40+00:00

Maybe she isn’t a good lay? Seems they never think of that. Beautiful woman with a big vajaja and no blow job skills is ok to take to parties, but nothing long term unless you get a side chick. Jeez.

JayMeadows · 2022-01-27T14:35:15+00:00

That's funny. She feels used but she's the one going out of her way to meet these guys.

cyrusol · 2022-01-27T14:50:25+00:00

It's so unbelievable. They just don't know how they themselves nor how men function. They just don't understand it. Instead they believe in this social constructivist bs narrative and equality and thus assume that everything would be mutual, symmetric and balanced, all the instincts, feelings, motivations to act the way you would act etc. Even women 2000 years ago understood more.

CommunicationSmall17 · 2022-01-27T17:23:18+00:00

5$ says it'll happen to her again 🤔

wathon2 · 2022-01-28T07:02:13+00:00

"how do men fuck people they don't find attractive"

Unlike women, the average men do NOT have the luxury to only fuck women they find attractive. Otherwise, no one beside Chad would get laid. The average men take what they can get. Just goes to show women have no idea what's it like to be men.

Women are the one with all the choices, and so, they have no one else to blame for choosing poorly.

crippledhermit · 2022-01-27T13:37:36+00:00

It's quite well known that Tinder is a hook-up app, so...I don't know. Don't complain about getting bitten when you jump into the alligator pit?

Saianna · 2022-01-27T15:06:32+00:00

she matches with chads, gets used, blames all men... And then she repeats the cycle..

Sigh.

meerita · 2022-01-27T15:31:15+00:00

This woman starts to understand how things work. In our minds, sex is only a physiological matter, we are made to spread the seed, no matter how beautiful she is. Women are meant to receive and keep, but well, before that, they need to be SECURE because sex for women is EXPENSIVE (David Buss, 2005) so there must be a serious involvement or she has to have second men secure to provide for her. For us is not expensive, we move on, we don't get pregnant, we don't fall into feelings unless we commit to it, and we can have dozens of plates and not want a relationship with any of these.

NoonTimeHoopsMVP · 2022-01-27T20:55:48+00:00

You are tired of the hookup culture but you willingly participate in it.

I am tired of NFL football but I am going to watch every playoff game!

See how dumb that sounds?

Act like a cheap tart, you will be treated like one. It is quite easy to gain respect. Don't be so easy.

sharedisaster · 2022-01-27T19:27:58+00:00

I had a brief relationship with a woman like this.

Nice body but the face was rough. The sex was good, but she was so insecure and clingy that she pulled me in almost right away. Had me meeting her sister, parents, friends right away.

Had the break it off after it got too crazy.

nihilismMattersTmro · 2022-01-27T19:49:36+00:00

It's almost like they using sex for commitment and then surprised pikachu when it doesn't work

Arnold_Incelinator · 2022-01-27T21:37:14+00:00

She is lying, she enjoys getting used.

“Oh no, I dont want this but it keeps happening even though this is my choice, dont know why reeeee...”

SirLoose12 · 2022-01-27T14:45:02+00:00

Ahh, it's all his fault for using her. No part of this is her fault. Got it.

vegasbadboy702 · 2022-01-27T14:23:19+00:00

It’s really shame our ancestors didn’t figure out a clever way to avoid women being used as pump and dumps like inventing “marry before you carry” and such.., oh wait holy cow it’s a miracle there is a way. Lol.

She can’t stop because she doesn’t want to stop. She knows what OLD is all about, her first paragraph says it. It’s why she was trying to be “celibate”. Unfortunately she is addicted to Chad and riding the CC. she will moan and groan about this but guarantee she will hop back on when Chad looks her way.

CisgenderPig · 2022-01-27T17:52:01+00:00

Because pussies and mouths generally feel better than a hand.

2022-01-27T19:29:39+00:00

I think her phone autocorrected to "rock"

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2022-01-27T09:57:47+00:00

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niks2592 · 2022-01-27T13:32:16+00:00

She had me in the 1st half. But at least she is accepting that she is part of the problem, i ll give her that. Most women simply wont admit they are wrong.

kapriece · 2022-01-27T16:11:33+00:00

There answer is staring at her in the mirror. It's women pushing the whole hookup culture. I've heard many say it's empowering, brave and living their truth. On the flip side you get posts like this. Full of regret and somebody will boost her up and blame the guy instead of her own choices.

Bob_and_Virginia · 2022-01-27T16:23:32+00:00

Moron, imbecile, or idiot?

Honey, the answer is: Because they can!

pukipukie · 2022-01-27T16:37:14+00:00

Be ultra easy thot get pumped and dumped by chad....oh no me is a human size fleshlight topkek!!..

moorekom · 2022-01-27T21:06:36+00:00

This goes to show that women go through two kinds of rejection:

When a man looks at a woman, decides that she is not worth it and rejects her.
When a man expresses interest in a woman (feigned or real), decides that she is not worth further investment and then rejects her.

Women don't mind #1 because they don't approach themselves and are not even aware of the everyday rejection they go through with many men. They take no ego hit from this and prefer to not know. ¹ Sure, men go through similar rejection too but we are so rarely approached that it does not even factor to us. We have to make the approach regardless.

As you can see, what really bothers women is #2 and it can be especially damaging if it comes from a high value man. That stings. It stings so much that women become bitter and abusive towards men they think are unattractive. ² Women who go through this do not gain perspective or maturity. They become bitter or manipulative and eventually decide that they must have control in their relationships to make sure that they don't get hurt. Don't get involved with these women. Don't be the punching bag for their pent up anger.

¹ As a side note, this is why women scream online that MGTOWs should just go their own way and stop talking about women.

² https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1948550615584196?journalCode=sppa

ccashdan · 2022-01-28T01:46:45+00:00

We are missing parts of this. So it appears they went to a hook up site, hooked up, he came and conquered and left. She obviously had a great time if she is so upset about it. Plenty of women do the same thing to men, and maybe that’s what he is used to. Maybe the sweet nothings “I’ll text you when I get home” is the nice way of saying “it’s been fun, see ya around”

Also I’m curious. Did he wine and dine her? They said they were both sober, but I’m curious to know how they got to this point. Also any one find it strange that she either met a stranger at either a hotel or at her house?

She clearly didn’t know that guy and just invited him for a bang? We need more back story

Either way I don’t know what she expected

dardy_sing · 2022-01-28T09:07:46+00:00

Lol, sometimes when you’re hungry the meal doesn’t have to be gourmet. Doesn’t mean u want to eat it again though 😂

IceCorrect · 2022-01-27T17:47:28+00:00

Ive asked my older family this question. If person send CV to 100 companies and almost all of them agree to hire them, so this person have all of posibilities: coast, mountains, plains, rural or city area, cost of living, literaly almost all of the posibilites you can imagine. Of cource some (maybe even half) are "safe bets", but there is much likely to have almost perfect job. Then its company fault you pick with no future prospect but in nice area? NO, its only this person fault to pick this not other job.

This is job this women pick, nice looking building from outside with great marketing, but inside is pro-bono internship with toilets covered in cum

GentleHawk1 · 2022-01-28T03:57:54+00:00

It's her personality fault. After the guy "unloads" the cum, he enters a state of post-nut clarity and sees his partner's low-quality personality without the blindness of lust. She is a low value woman, there is no attractiveness beyond the sexual part. He feels disgusted and wants to escape from that situation.

That's the difference between real feeling and pure lust. If you have a good relationship with her, if she is more than sex, you want to be after bed. If it all comes down to lust you might even be disgusted with her after bed, overall you want to get out of there as soon as possible.

Silver-Discipline550 · 2022-01-27T19:34:43+00:00

Post-nut clarity 😂😂😂

washerelastweek · 2022-01-27T16:11:38+00:00

"hormones"

;)

bo3bitty · 2022-01-27T22:21:32+00:00

How can you be self aware, and not self aware, at the same time?

nunhgrader · 2022-01-28T05:01:51+00:00

Self esteem.

valueresponsibility · 2022-01-28T07:23:00+00:00

First I come and then I come to my senses.

coke501 · 2022-01-27T15:56:24+00:00

How do men fuck people they don't find attractive.

Well, honey. Imagine a world where the only men that would want to fuck you are the men that find you attractive. You wouldn't like this world. In this imaginary world your planned celibacy wouldn't have been voluntarily because, you'd be creeped out by those that'd actually see more in you than a cheap cumdumpster. Just like you are creeped out by them now. That's why you chose someone to use you instead of someone that found you attractive.

last_minute_life · 2022-01-27T21:30:58+00:00

Sometimes, you think there's enough chemistry, and you want to find out, but you don't know until after the fact, that there just isn't any.

There could be a lot of reasons for that. Maybe you just don't fit together well, maybe you're both submissive people, who knows, we get turned on, and off, by stupid human stuff.

MetalArla · 2022-01-27T23:17:35+00:00

Got screwed by a douchebag and is mad about it. Maybe take it as a learning experience to not go for douchebags in the future and wait a few dates before serving the poon if you want a meaningful relationship.

BigAggravating1299 · 2022-01-29T02:13:49+00:00

And this is why I'm never marrying lol.

RuskinBondFan · 2022-01-29T10:44:00+00:00

"Why are all men like this ?"

"Not all women are like that"

🤡

Nightowloldschool · 2022-01-30T04:36:44+00:00

The title itself is proof women are just delusional

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2022-01-27T18:48:02+00:00

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Typo-MAGAshiv · 2022-01-28T00:26:40+00:00

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YungUrbanTurban · 2022-01-29T00:54:25+00:00

“How can he slap?!” An interesting twist on a timeless tale

LordFlakkko · 2022-01-31T13:05:05+00:00

him:"Ur hot lemme come over bitch and ill, "cum over ;))"

her:"Well he seems like he wants a relationship with me and likes my tits so I guess ill fuck me some chad tonight. Ill deposit some sex tokens into him and ill earn a relationship"

her 40 minutes later: "ALL MENZ ARE EVIL I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY I LET CHAD ~~MAKE ME SCREAM AND CURL MY TOES~~ USE ME LIKE THAT ALL MEN ARE BAD >:((((

boomershack · 2022-01-31T08:32:22+00:00

Lmao, am doing this a girl rn.

Noitrasama · 2022-02-21T19:35:44+00:00

Welcome to the boat. Men are tired of being used as ATMs & then get jailed for it.

PaulWrit · 2022-02-28T12:41:39+00:00

If any women read this men are biologically programmed to spread their seed. Looks don't really matter all that much.

Now I'm guessing he didn't plant his seed. But the need to fuck is there regardless of the outcome of planting a seed or not.

That is how we can have sex with someone we aren't attracted to. Physically yes. But emotionally no. Not when we just want to nut.

Title	How can he pump & dump?
Author	asdf333aza
Upvotes	565
Comments	251
Date	January 27, 2022 9:50 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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