What’s your hobby?

ZepperV2 · 2022-03-20T03:05:23+00:00

Airsoft, Weightlifting, MMA, Cars/Track Racing, Fashion, Videogames, and just general athletic healthy shit like running, hiking, diet, supplements, etc…. All these made my social skills grow and opens up avenues for dating and making friends.

KennyisaBadFinger · 2022-03-20T03:48:43+00:00

guitar, music, going to concerts/gigs, museums, history, and travel :)

Ocaton · 2022-03-20T03:14:18+00:00

i'm an audiophile and a photographer. I also road cycle

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2022-03-20T04:18:32+00:00

One hobby??? You don't have to hold out for some all-consuming lifelong passion. Just go try something and if you like it do it again. Do that for awhile and soon you'll have a nice variety of hobbies.

P.S. Volunteering for a good cause is a great hobby.

dnaisdmt · 2022-03-20T03:19:57+00:00

Basketball, psychology/self development, science, camping/hiking, surfing.

its_whot_it_is · 2022-03-20T03:59:18+00:00

Mountain biking

ChildSlayer3001 · 2022-03-20T03:52:57+00:00

Singing, Playing Musical instruments (I can play three), Cooking, Weightlifting, Reading, And Movies (I have seen practically every movie on the planet from different countries and times). I also like classical music.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-03-20T03:04:20+00:00

Muay Thai. Would highly recommend taking up a martial art like MT, BJJ, Judo, etc. It’s life-changing

majicegg · 2022-03-20T04:05:45+00:00

Music production, sound design, bass/ piano. I’m also a cyclist, lift, and have a homemade forge that I do basic lost casting with.

I’m fairly confident in myself, but I am a sperg so I often come off as “quirky” to women, or gay. It doesn’t bother me though and I pursue anyway to decent success.

jellybean_cray · 2022-03-20T02:44:44+00:00

Tbh, I am about to try and pick up valleyball. I like the sport and girls play valleyball are hot bro. No whales there

Nukethewhails · 2022-03-20T03:24:38+00:00

Snowboarding, Fly fishing, Rock climbing, Tabletop games, Reading, Archery, Golf, Music, Video games

FalconVita · 2022-03-20T04:46:21+00:00

simping

Acceptable-Sand-8011 · 2022-03-20T04:02:54+00:00

Mma , bjj, judo, boxing, running, yoga.

Nick_Nav10 · 2022-03-20T04:09:54+00:00

Muay Thai, Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, Meditation/yoga, and experimenting with psychedelics. They really benefitted me by building up my confidence, took away my anxiety, learn different truths/meaning to life, as well as improve me as an individual. Helped me step out of my comfort zones and take on the world with a smile on my face

BlancheCorbeau · 2022-03-20T04:46:53+00:00

Looking for a hobby IS a hobby, if you're diligent about looking. Try all the things! Reserve some of the more exotic oand/or fun attempts for date ideas, whether they wind up being viable hobbies or not.

I've had great luck with gardening, personally... But I've tried almost every board-on-water sport, painting, writing, and various types of video production. But still, I don't think I have a hobby that makes my eyes shine the way I see in others sometimes... And I may never find a discrete thing like that. But just foraging for fun, and insights into what others enjoy in their spare time or makes them feel super passionate about... is a pretty great hobby in itself, I think.

What it really comes down to is this: if you haven't found your thing, then BE a seeker. If you discover something new that sounds like no, say YES. If it's scary, boast about how scary it was after you tried it.

randomuser8654 · 2022-03-20T14:37:13+00:00

Going out to different cafes and restaurants

TheCuriousMan · 2022-03-20T03:45:00+00:00

Golf.

BetterCallPaul4 · 2022-03-20T03:54:52+00:00

Reading, playing the piano and working out to name a few.

pixxxieu · 2022-03-20T04:50:37+00:00

I like to study kinetics and proxemics and put it to practice

RProgrammerMan · 2022-03-20T05:07:30+00:00

Soccer and salsa dancing are my main hobbies. I also ski. In the past I’ve sang and played a musical instrument.

great_account · 2022-03-20T05:11:09+00:00

Weightlifting, basketball, video games, movies, sports traveling, going out, dancing. Going to restaurants.

ICastPunch · 2022-03-20T07:12:19+00:00

I fight.

toilaKhoa · 2022-03-20T07:45:43+00:00

Taekwondo, Calisthenics, Reading...And investment too. I absolute enjoy my time learning/doing them. There was a time I was looking for mine too, so here is my advice: Just try everything that sparks in your mind. It may or may not turn out to be your hobby, but the important thing is that you tried.

Eventually you will find it, and on the way you will have so much fun and things to learn.

throwwwawayyy187 · 2022-03-20T09:12:59+00:00

I like anime, djing/producing and electronic music

I usually just play on the decks at mine with a girl

Once I actually watched yugioh with a girl. I was like fuck it felt like watching it. Ya gotta own what you love in life

Mr_Wasteed · 2022-03-20T21:40:49+00:00

I paint sometimes but recently i have been reading more. I do exercise and am learning few other skillset but i dont consider that hobby as its mostly for work right now or something i want to do in future.

With reading, it varies a lot (philosophy, finance and psychology mainly).. for seditor's purpose.. i would suggest David Buss books and papers which are actual research. In order to get introduced to his stuff, you can type him in spotify or youtube and listen to an interview of him (on a podcast that you like). I have found a lot more benefit in learning about myself and realizing my cognitive/psychological biases and being aware of it. His stuff is mainly on male and female evolution psychology stuff which is very fascinating. I have seen a lot of dating advice (here and a lot in youtube) which are geared to wards the Dark Triad trait.. which is horrible in long term.

Another one i highly recommend are Mark Mansions, models and subtle art of not giving a fuck. For these, i recommend audiobook. I have SAONGAF in audiobook and listened to the book multiple times. The models, had some really good exercises and basic stuff on posture, vocal, few other specific things which fell under honest living (or lifestyle). I have realized these small exercises have definitely helped me identify my weakness and improve on them and i have already noticed the imporvement in social and professional settings.

ScotiasWorld00 · 2022-03-20T03:27:41+00:00

Pilates!

UnusualLight0 · 2022-03-20T03:58:23+00:00

I like sports watching them (too many to name that I watch but I play rec volleyball, softball, and golf when the weather is warm), outside of that my friends go bowling about once a month.

2-3 times a year I do some traveling (mainly in the US for now). I have this Regal Pass so about 2 - 4 times a month I am at the movies.

depressedBullsFan3 · 2022-03-20T04:01:10+00:00

Competitively, boxing and running. Reading, going out for drive, watching Chicago Sports, going out to the bars and drink with friends.

lacaguana · 2022-03-20T06:21:01+00:00

Weightlifting, miniature war gaming, miniature painting, MMA those are my main hobbies, in another time of my life I would have kept secret the mini thing but surprisingly my actual girlfriend finds it incredibly interesting

nbh1995 · 2022-03-20T06:33:08+00:00

Recently got into chess and running. Highly recommend both.

Leomko · 2022-03-20T10:05:04+00:00

Working out, started dancing a month ago (HipHop), music, reading, programming, bodybuilding, since I’m vegan I like to try out new food

macroxela · 2022-03-20T10:05:28+00:00

Partner dancing (Bachata, Salsa, Swing), outdoor activities (hiking, camping, trekking), urban exploration, coding, and learning languages. It's a good mix of social hobbies and solitary ones.

2022-03-20T14:22:20+00:00

MMA I recently started it and my confidence is through the roof because of it this was one of the main reasons i wanted to train MMA

2022-03-20T23:10:48+00:00

Music production, DJing, gym, video games, walking

Musing-on · 2022-03-25T16:23:46+00:00

Swingdancing made me só much more confident in being physically close to women - and leading with my body. Also: it's a lót of fun.

shinymusic · 2022-03-20T08:07:12+00:00

Ultimate frisbee, Bitcoin, chess, money

gmos905 · 2022-03-20T04:37:00+00:00

I run a philosophy club, do bjj and read about the gang wars in Chicago and find a way to bring them into every conversation

anoyingprophet · 2022-03-20T03:46:39+00:00

Fitness, but I’d say it’s more of an obsession than a hobby.

britterin329 · 2022-03-20T04:04:04+00:00

I love photography. It’s been ages since I shot just for me, but I’ve been thinking about picking my camera back up,

DeJuanBallard · 2022-03-20T06:17:10+00:00

Hit the gym, best hobby there is , hands down

Fucking guns bro, join some tactical subs, and the gun sub for your state, start watching some of the big channels , invest in a handgun( sig or glock), good carry belt, duty ammo (Speer gold dot, or federal HST) and a light ( surefire, streamlight, modlight), take a course if theres one near you available,

And medicine, every team/office/family needs a medic and anyone can learn so, you can always be an asset, kinda goes hand in hand with the gun hobby and makes you much more capable as an everyday person just having a iPhone size case of basic first aid stuff , you'd be surprised got many people font, all the way up to a full IFAK (individual first aid kit) and a Tourniquet.

It goes deep and being educated on these things makes you look very desirable and you can encourage others to learn, which is always beneficial

Extra: Paint , I love it. Can do it alone or in groups , and while listening to music, nature, or silence.

Tldr: working out, guns, medicine education, extra: painting

PaleontologistNo2785 · 2022-03-20T05:05:37+00:00

soccer

RussGotTheSauce · 2022-03-20T10:27:02+00:00

writing music, drawing, american football,wrestling(mma in general),journaling, meditating, reading, football, weightlifting, basketball etc...

hungarian_builder · 2022-03-20T07:17:38+00:00

Bodybuilding, riding a motorcycle. Both have been just started. I will pick up saxophone classes as soon as I have time for it. Language learning is a big plus also.

I don't do hobbies for my own pleasure. It's all for my image. I wonder if there is anything else that greatly increases my attraction. Any ideas?

5_7pickup · 2022-03-20T12:04:53+00:00

I go to nightclubs and pick up women.

Rumpleforeskin404 · 2022-03-20T07:15:21+00:00

Molesting myself (sometimes with my cat), listening to the same exact music, play games, browse some good adult videos, and then repeat.

itsblakechall · 2022-03-20T04:22:02+00:00

Squash, Gym, Reading, Research, Vinyl, Music, Restaurants & Wine. Sounds weird but I’d kind of consider making money a big one too.

yaminub · 2022-03-20T04:27:43+00:00

Musician.... And I guess video games? That's kind of it really

hypollo · 2022-03-20T04:31:56+00:00

Skiing, mountain biking, DJing, soccer. Those are the ones that keep me busy most of the time.

bulldawg91 · 2022-03-20T05:28:40+00:00

Learn to dance

Hurtlock3r · 2022-03-20T05:32:59+00:00

Rock climbing, skiing and tattooing

burncushlikewood · 2022-03-20T06:10:53+00:00

I don't know if I have hobbies, I like to learn and watch movies and such, I'm always trying to read whatever I happen to be interested in, I like to shoot hoops, workout, cook, clean, whatever. I spent a lot of time in school so I like to keep my mind sharp and informed. I also have a passion for programming and computers/software

2022-03-20T06:31:06+00:00

Bodybuilding, i’m about to make my one year mark and in less than a year i went from not being able to deadlift 1 plate to deadlifting 3 plates and a 10 for 1, it’s so therapeutic i at least ask you to try it out and if you don’t like it then move on and find something else.

Bhardwaj-littlesub · 2022-03-20T06:44:56+00:00

Cooking , Editing animated videos & watching anime

aStonedPanda94 · 2022-03-20T07:10:58+00:00

Music producer/audio engineer, snowboarding, hiking/backpacking, music festivals, gym, cooking

bobbiesbunions · 2022-03-20T07:11:57+00:00

Working out and guitar honestly.

I play video games, smoke pot and party too but I wouldn’t consider those hobbies that are good for self improvement.

My main ones are music and physical fitness

TSG321 · 2022-03-20T07:50:14+00:00

Music production/DJing and cars

Sometimes artworks

DarkSun18 · 2022-03-20T07:52:21+00:00

Video games

canuckpuckbeaut · 2022-03-20T08:34:53+00:00

Music. Playing guitar, producing, singing, whatever it is

luxuryUX · 2022-03-20T09:08:47+00:00

Travel, reading, gym/fitness, style/fashion

AssociationSecure150 · 2022-03-20T11:12:23+00:00

Learning about almost anything ranging from philosophy, psycology, space, astronomy, history, playing chess, wannbe calesthenics, self improvement, non fiction books, reading comics sometimes, learning new skills etc, I haven't discovered much of things, so idk, my hobbies will change quickly

pineapplejamm · 2022-03-20T11:33:41+00:00

I love motorcycles (and cars too), travelling (try to travel to one country a month. Hiking and climbing mountain on regular basis as well) and photography (not just taking photos, but editing them for hours too. Getting into videographylately as well). They all 3 just compliment each other soo nicely. I try to do one or two road trips across Europe and just get lost in all three of those.

I also love DIY and active sports too (snowboarding and sky diving).

As for sports, HUGE fan of f1. It's the only sport that I know and love. I don't watch races again. But ever since I started to watch them in 2010, I know winners of each race ever since. My brain is that invested in that sport.

Hobbies are one area of life that I got no complaints over. I don't need anyone else for it. I have good collection of them so that I can enjoy them while I am locked in my room and also when I go outside.

I do dislike excersise, but I want to live a good life for as long as possible so have to do it. Walking with a camera and heavy bag is how I get most of my cardio. Finding new music is how I motivate myself to lift weights

deep_soul · 2022-03-20T11:36:45+00:00

Pick up an hobby because you like it. Not for other reasons like filling up voids and conversations with girls.

elaynee_ · 2022-03-20T12:00:06+00:00

singing, drawing, fashion&styling, cooking, meditation.

Ljknicely · 2022-03-20T12:12:32+00:00

Hiking, biking, kayaking, reading, macrame, coloring, gardening

KyleGuap · 2022-03-20T12:27:25+00:00

Cars, motorcycles, drifting, video games, golf, thrifting

cinephiller · 2022-03-20T13:28:15+00:00

I am a cinephile, I watch movies not because I look for entertainment or I have free time. I make free time just to watch good movies and understand the culture, societal norms, philosophy of life of a land and people that I never visited nor met anyone from there. So it fills the void of need to travel but can only do it in my comfort zone. So Cinema watching and discussing the complexity of life through its lens gives me some pleasure that I cannot find in any social settings or from any human.

dw-herrmann · 2022-03-20T13:41:15+00:00

For me it's photography, cooking, enjoying movies (I know, everybody does, but really I love them), web design/dev (as a designer it's fun to have a side business where you can do all the stuff, you really want to do, not the ones, the boss tells you to do).

What are your interests? Especially the ones, that could develop into a hobby

rickiestm0rty · 2022-03-20T14:03:07+00:00

Productive hobbies: Working out, Playing piano, Coding

Not-so Productive hobbies: Gaming & Partying (Although they also improve my social skills and concentration)

FlanneryODostoevsky · 2022-03-20T16:00:44+00:00

Playing guitar in a metal band

SmolAnus · 2022-03-20T16:17:44+00:00

lifting heavy things and putting them down, playing guitar, reading, video games, going to random volunteering events I see online.

TightButLoose · 2022-03-20T16:24:28+00:00

Guitar. Disc golf. Chess. Reading. Writing. Hiking.

coffeedrinker1217 · 2022-03-20T17:08:31+00:00

Accidentally found boxing. When I told my friends I’m taking classes, all they said was “that’s good. It’ll release all your anger.” LOL I guess I have too much anger hidden.

freel0der · 2022-03-20T18:42:09+00:00

Motorcycles. I mostly like dualsports that I can go offroad with as well as drive on the street. I am kinda into cruisers as well. I like gardening fruit trees and such and all that comes with that. Fishing is also a major hobby of mine.

Devin1405 · 2022-03-20T19:13:21+00:00

Dance music, model trains, volunteering, foreign/indie films, hiking, detrashing!

kylomorales · 2022-03-20T19:32:49+00:00

Origami, bouldering, ethical hacking (currently hobby and hopefully career eventually), digital illustration, F1, Rocket League among others. I tend to go in cycles of being really into one thing and then going to the others and back again. So atm ethical hacking is my main focus and F1 is the thing I follow

gabriel497 · 2022-03-20T19:59:02+00:00

Cycling, archery, video games, drawing, food enthusiast.

itsamarisskywalker · 2022-03-21T00:19:31+00:00

Roller skating and painting and reading and film photography and concerts and going to my local rock climbing gym

bytheninedivines · 2022-03-21T01:17:35+00:00

Music, homebrewing, video game making.

Tiko853 · 2022-03-21T01:23:21+00:00

Cars, Guns, guitars, Computers, video games and pre 19th century lego minifigures

No_Acanthisitta5052 · 2022-03-21T05:31:22+00:00

Work. Weights. Surgery.

xzpw · 2022-03-21T07:35:18+00:00

I can’t say that these hobbies have really improved my “confidence”. (I still find that to be a nebulous and contentious topic)

Partner dancing (blues, lindy hop, fusion, Argentine tango, kizomba, bachata, etc… tried a lot of them). <- probably the best way to get good at interacting with women with low stakes and getting used to touching people.

Woodworking, driving/fixing cars, motorcycle riding/rebuilding, lots of DIY type stuff around the home, and typical old fashioned “manly” stuff where you’d normally hire a professional, I’ll just do it myself. Photography is a big one but it’s very off/on and something I used to enjoy more with my wife (I did like doing it alone at a point but got tired of it).

Gonna be real with you though - I have a large list of hobbies beyond what I’ve listed. Women are neither impressed nor interested. None of them give a single shit when I mention anything I’ve ever been super interested in or have accomplished. So if you’re doing this to impress women - don’t expect it.

That said - women are impressed when you do something. Fixing shit for them - teaching them stuff - wowing them with your skills, etc. That is what is attractive. Telling them though or showing them something? Not usually that attractive… So, food for thought there.

LordPoopyIV · 2022-03-21T07:38:26+00:00

Go to some (free) introduction lessons for salsa and any other dance styles, martial arts or other activities. There should be plenty to find. You can meet people there, or ask girls along to be your dance partner.

Hobbies like biking are fun cause you learn to be a mechanic half the time while getting cardio and learning tricks or exploring nearby places for the rest.

Remote controlled vehicles are fun cause you get the building and experimenting experience like with Lego's but you learn about electronics and engineering stuff along the way and you can trade parts and race with people or hang out in public places and let people try.

Growing plants and mushrooms is fun cause you will build discipline in taking care of them, and the more time you've put in, the more invested you will feel. People will always want to trade seeds and spore prints, and when harvest comes you can invite someone to share the trip or meal with you.

The hobby through which I've gotten in contact with most girls though is just going to raves and having fun. 100 bucks worth of trip toys and drugs will get you laid more than an expensive car or months in the gym.

Czekraft · 2022-03-21T17:21:29+00:00

Ukulele. An amazing instrument to take anywhere.

Sensitive_Yam_6661 · 2022-03-21T17:39:40+00:00

I have plenty of hobbies. But none of them get me around new people.

lazercrazy3 · 2022-03-24T12:35:08+00:00

Breakdancing.

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