It never ends

CrazySanta7 · 2024-09-18T17:09:43+00:00

When women hit 'the wall' and can't attract men as easily.....it's all of a sudden your fault. All of a sudden, the grass is not greener on the other side. Too late bi%%%!

northdakotact · 2024-09-18T16:12:51+00:00

Last time I saw my ex was 6 years ago. I moved out of state a d we maintained a bare minimum of communication until I was emancipated from both adult kids. She is blocked, I will never have to hear a single word from her ever again.

008muse · 2024-09-18T14:44:58+00:00

you mean to tell me this is what I have to look forward to 🤦‍♂️ brutal man.

Rollercoaster72 · 2024-09-18T14:02:14+00:00

Since your kids are teens, there is absolutely no need to call nor message. After my first happy birthday wish from ex I blocked her everywhere except her email. So we email. I open her email when I want to, and don’t look very often at my email.

In case in any emergency, make sure your kids have your number as emergency number with them so you don’t miss the real emergencies. Other than that I really don’t know what other emergencies there are.

Icerunner45 · 2024-09-18T05:55:47+00:00

If kids aren’t involved, I would block her.

Subtle-Catastrophe · 2024-09-18T05:50:46+00:00

"Boo hoo hoo." Make that your voicemail message, and put her on block.

upvotersfortruth · 2024-09-18T01:33:45+00:00

Holy shit. At least you know you made a lasting impression on someone.

alwaylearning47 · 2024-09-18T00:00:56+00:00

Put her on ignore. If she wants to get in contact with you, it can be through your attorney.

6-demon-bag808 · 2024-09-17T23:34:35+00:00

Only a year into mine. I would do almost anything to be in your shoes. I want my life and my family back

NetherworldMuse · 2024-09-17T23:19:40+00:00

So, just ignore her. Once the ink dried on the divorce, what you do is no longer her concern and how she feels about what you do is no longer your concern.

The best skill I ever learned is how to shrug, walk away, and give zero fucks simultaneously.

Diablo_Canyon2 · 2024-09-17T20:27:05+00:00

"New phone who dis?"

Movieman_Steve · 2024-09-17T20:00:22+00:00

If you don't have kids together, change your number

ColdEstablishment172 · 2024-09-17T19:19:10+00:00

Why did you and your wife divorce in the first place?

Mopstick86 · 2024-09-17T19:14:59+00:00

My ex that I divorced last year called me to say happy birthday and she missed the nasty and fun B day trips we would do on a nice tropical beach every year for my Birthday day. I laughed it off, kept it short and got off the phone.

Crazy mind fuck because I was thinking of her and not the woman I’m dating now the rest of that day. I’m thinking of changing my number. Nobody should have power over my emotions like that smh. Memories I didn’t think of at all flooded back. She knew what she was doing.

Betteroffalone1111 · 2024-09-17T18:19:12+00:00

She’s just checking to see if she still has control of you

CulturedGentleman921 · 2024-09-17T18:11:18+00:00

"You're a terrible person!!! When can we get back together???"

Mixed messages much?

Dude, gray rock this chick and go live your life.

If you have children with this creature then use a court approved coparenting app like "Our Family Wizard" or something like that.

Lean_BigDaddy · 2024-09-17T17:55:57+00:00

You haven’t blocked her yet? Or if you have kids only communicate through a parenting app!

Domesticated_Dave · 2024-09-17T17:34:08+00:00

My ex takes me to court every year and we’ve been divorced for 2.5 years. This is discouraging.

Dismal-Attorney701 · 2024-09-17T17:20:29+00:00

I’ve been divorced eight years. I’ve been with a different woman since divorce for probably 6 1/2 years. my ex still can’t let me go. She doesn’t directly text me because I don’t put up with it, but she indirectly sticks her nose into my adult kids. She used to text me through my kids phones since they’re on her phone plan and berade me. I had to put and end to it and tell her to act like an adult and text me directly, but I told her if it’s not about the kids and something important I’m not going to respond. She tells all her friends and talks bad about me and isn’t happy. It’s ironic she hasn’t found a partner in eight years since I was so bad. She had that princess mentality I tried to do everything for her, and I mean everything didn’t matter, unhappy, still unhappy. In the end, she’s living in a house full of women. I’m happy though and I’m glad you are. The further away from the divorce the better.

Miserable_Ad_1172 · 2024-09-17T17:04:48+00:00

Sorry she’s like this dude.

All jokes aside in the comments but honestly how do I stop myself becoming the bitter one. I feel like I’m so far behind my ex wife who in 2 years has left me,sold our home, rented,divorced me,then bought a place and then finally two weeks ago has a new boyfriend of 6 months.

Heavy_Guitar_4848 · 2024-09-17T16:54:18+00:00

Yep and never backslide when you have a new GF. They’ll become detectives and message her in a heartbeat. It’s just a form of control.

Keityla · 2024-09-17T16:52:49+00:00

I'm not a guy, but please ignore her no one deserves to be miserable

silmarp · 2024-09-17T16:51:39+00:00

Study the grey rock technique. Don't answer her. Tell her that every conversation is only pertaining to the kids.

If you don't have kids just block her.

domgamepat · 2024-09-17T16:51:38+00:00

Why are you entertaining this? Let her know that any communication should be strictly about the kids (if any are involved). Otherwise it's harassment

ArizonaSpartan · 2024-09-17T16:33:23+00:00

Unless kids are involved, don’t answer her calls.

If kids involved, sort out situation amicably and cordially, as soon as she changes it to another the call is finished. Don’t offer details you don’t have to.

Bretweir_jerky · 2024-09-17T16:30:16+00:00

If ever there were a time to show off, treat and show respect to a new girl… right in front of the ex. Tell the ex you’re too busy to talk, bout to get another bang session in

guy_n_cognito_tu · 2024-09-17T16:16:14+00:00

"I don't want you, but I don't want anyone else to have you."

-Women

Title	It never ends
Author	Interesting-Drop3599
Upvotes	68
Comments	61
Date	September 17, 2024 4:08 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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