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[–]ShegoGreenFDS Newbie 829 points830 points831 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
"Thank-you for not sexually harassing me"
[–]cat_lioFDS Newbie 473 points474 points475 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
He already crossed that line when he asked her.
[–]finalbosskittenFDS Newbie 414 points415 points416 points 4 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link
Some people are so dumb tbh. Like, weird guys basically can play them like a fiddle when they just lower themselves and play innocent for a second. The bar is in hell because they expect the worst from men (even if they don't admit it) and then clap and holler, "omg, this stranger asked to objectify and use me! He's soooooo special and self-aware!"
Btw, there's some very interesting research on the subject of people immediately trusting and emphasizing with someone that feigns low-status "I know it can be annoying, but..." A lot of very questionable men have gotten very good at this.
[–]dating-adventuresFDS Newbie 49 points50 points51 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Do you have any links to that research?
[–]alpinepunch2021FDS Newbie[S] 109 points110 points111 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'd also be interested in this. The funny thing is, though, that women do this all the time in an effort to make themselves seem smaller or more humble, yet they don't get away with half the shit men like the one in my pic do.
[–]Platipus6FDS Disciple 59 points60 points61 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Right, women are apologizing for 1% mild inconvenience that anyone with emotional regulation wouldn't be annoyed by.
Men are sitting at my dining table, flicking through Tinder and saying "I know this is bad etiquette but..."
Then stop it, dickhead. Get out.
[–]finalbosskittenFDS Newbie 87 points88 points89 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
There's two wings of it; the underdog effect (people emphasizing and rooting for underdogs/low status people more)...and then the idea that anyone on the power hierarchy can actually play with this and temporarily posture themselves to be on a similar level to someone, or just below.
There are so many weird borderline incel type men that are god-tier at this and even many of the mainstream reactions around low status men ("give him a chance!") are based in the fact that people give them the benefit of the doubt and more empathy even more than other people (i.e., vulnerable women) that are low in the power hierarchy in the same situation...or even worse ones. They're better at marketing their low status as being a feature, and a lot of people are pre-programmed to subconsciously be attached at the potential catharsis of them "winning" (i.e., winning a girl). A lot of women are extreme underdogs but aren't perceived as such by society because the optics around them are different. A lot of men also have an explicit agenda to cancel the "underdog" or victimhood status of women - there's many examples of it - of downtrodden, low-power women...as a consequence, many have less social support. This is why many assholes derail stories of victimhood around women or say vapid shit like "men are ____ too!" without caring, or why victim blaming exists as a patriarchal mechanism of oppression. There's power in being an underdog and, absolutely, NVMs/LVMs have found a way to play it like a trap card, just like how marketing firms use it to play into peoples' hearts.
I will post some links in a bit, I have to do something.
[–]KingkazolaFDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A good example of this, would be Mike and Ximena from 90 day fiance (if you guys have seen that show).
Mike was this super socially awkward sex tourist, who all the incels and pick-me's were rooting for because they could relate to him and he was "so pure and innocent". Ximena was a poor woman from south america that had 2 kids.
They demonized her because she didn't like him, due to his poor hygiene issues and him being immature and acting like a child. Everyone also expected her to cut him some slack because, he hadn't been with a woman in such a long time and he was "A good guy."
When she was trying to break up with him, he even had the gall to say "You're loosing the best thing in your life." And he kept trying to get her to physically fight him by REFUSING to leave her house even after she asked multiple times.
Unsurprisingly, after fliming was wrapped up she came out saying he physically abused her.
[–]Equal-Ear2312FDS Apprentice 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There are so many weird borderline incel type men that are god-tier at this and even many of the mainstream reactions around low status men ("give him a chance!") are based in the fact that people give them the benefit of the doubt and more empathy even more than other people (i.e., vulnerable women) that are low in the power hierarchy in the same situation
women are vulnerable every day. they are tired of it.
men are vulnerability tourists, like some people are poverty tourists (dunno, grimes and Musk seem good examples of it).
[–]PerspicaciousCatFDS Newbie 402 points403 points404 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No, there is no bar. Every day I see something worse like this that proves that 😞
To call this “sweet” is revolting and disturbing
[–]whiskey_and_oreosFDS Apprentice 676 points677 points678 points 4 years ago (26 children) | Copy Link
Do they really think a poorly lit photo of a death gripped disembodied dick is a turn on for us because that's what turns on their pornsick brains?
[–]all_or_nothing_betFDS Apprentice 338 points339 points340 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
They don't think. It's a compulsive disorder where they get off on the fact that SOMEONE lays an eye on their dick. Remember those creeps who catch you off guard and open their coat to flash their junk? Same. But that was risky and online is safe, therefore we see more of this behavior nowadays. It's literally every second man that has this deviation, probably because they fried their brains woth porn.
[–]pickmieshaexorcistRuthless Strategist 193 points194 points195 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It’s exactly like flashers. It’s the thrill of having someone see it, and often the non consent is a big part. Him asking is a smokescreen because guaranteed if she said a flat NO he’d start pestering her to accept. And the fact that he asked puts her on the spot and she’s still thinking about his dick now too.
[–]ButterfliesHurricaneFDS Newbie 102 points103 points104 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I often think some (most?) of these vile creeps would be secretly quite happy to return to a primate world where men can just help themselves to any woman they see and even ‘consent’ is a fun challenge to overcome. No wonder only cam girls and prostitutes gives them the time of day.
[–]whiskey_and_oreosFDS Apprentice 59 points60 points61 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They can get off on even just making someone think about their dicks like in the OP. He might not have even meant to send a pic (but let's face it, he probably did) but he's got her thinking about his dick and made her think he's into consent.
I literally just saw a Hinge profile proving this. The guy said he was circumcised a few years ago in his 30s just to put his dick front and center in the conversation and force women to ask about it.
[–]dinosaurnuggetzzz 26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That makes a lot more sense because I have always been confused as to why they would think that sending a pic of their junk would make girls swoon. Like are they really that diluted? But more of a flasher mentality now that fits a lot better with these creeps
[–]SakuraGirl88FDS Newbie 231 points232 points233 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
I've always wondered this. Do guys really think that dick is THAT appealing to the naked eye? I mean, dick is ugly, if you ask me. And I mean the appendage itself. And since most guys are horrible lovers, that just makes it less appealing.
[–]whiskey_and_oreosFDS Apprentice 174 points175 points176 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Oh completely agree, dicks look weird af. Paired with a white knuckle death grip and pasty untoned thighs, who can resist? 🤢🤢🤢
[–]all_or_nothing_betFDS Apprentice 92 points93 points94 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And a rash on those thighs. There's always rash or acne. So gross.
[–]whiskey_and_oreosFDS Apprentice 99 points100 points101 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ingrown hairs galore because they've never exfoliated once in 35 years 🤢
[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple 38 points39 points40 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think genitalia in general is ugly. Why would I want to see a pic of it?
[–]lolmemberberriesFDS Newbie 36 points37 points38 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah. Most men are aware of the fact that D pics are only a turn on for gay men. They get a thrill out of going against an established boundary comparable to exhibitionists.
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[–]msxchrisxFDS Newbie 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's like a cat bringing me a dead mouse. I can see you're proud of it, but I'm just gonna throw that shit away without ever touching it.
[–]yetanotherhailFDS Newbie 44 points45 points46 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's a turn-on for themselves, therefore it must be for us, too. Pure projection. As fucking always.
[–]ButterfliesHurricaneFDS Newbie 29 points30 points31 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You just described eVerY guRL’s dream 🤦🏼♀️🤣
[–]shoesfromparis135FDS Apprentice 80 points81 points82 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
A Dic Pic? Is that like a dubbed Sailor Moon gif?
[–]SakuraGirl88FDS Newbie 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🤣🤣🤣. This made me giggle. Not dubbed sailor moon! 🤣🤣
[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple 63 points64 points65 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wtf, why would a man "raised right" with respect for women and consent and not wanting to sexually harrass even mention d pics?
[–]all_or_nothing_betFDS Apprentice 325 points326 points327 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wth, who broke her like that? He is literally asking a woman to shove his dick up her face and she is celebrating him for "politeness" 🤦♀️
🙄
[–]GoldandGlowingFDS Newbie 132 points133 points134 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is straight embarrassing on all fronts.
[–]dkwantsdkFDS Newbie 59 points60 points61 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The second hand embarrassment i'm feeling is physically painful. Holy shit.
[–]Biracial_tooth_fairyFDS Newbie 115 points116 points117 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Must be great to be a man. You get praised for the most absurd things
[–]spinsterchachkiesFDS Disciple 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude yes! I’d love to be a man these days. It would be so damn easy to live
[–]millennialpink2000FDS Apprentice 116 points117 points118 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In the words of Samantha Bee, "gentlemen, objectively your dick is the most hideous thing about you'
[–]edwardianemeraldFDS Newbie 85 points86 points87 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
FUCKING PORNSICK
[–]enchantedglowFDS Newbie 100 points101 points102 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
"because wow" wow what? He can't even properly compliment her lmfao. And he really thinks she's just dying to see his dick. Yuck.
[–]Platipus6FDS Disciple 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
ohh damn do these smoothbrains think it's a compliment?
You made my dick hard, LOOK
[–]spinsterchachkiesFDS Disciple 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They really do think it’s a compliment. Maybe it’s not easy to get it hard. So it’s like “wow, I’m suprised something worked!”
[–]eagleverestFDS Newbie 26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The bar is so low that Satan is sitting on it.
[–]kumquat_fdsFDS Disciple 50 points51 points52 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“Because wow” from a scrote can refer to either any woman or a McChicken. Not really a compliment.
[–]myheartisfullofloveFDS Newbie 52 points53 points54 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If I was her I woulda been like, "Well, let's see what the local police station think about this. <3"
[–]purasangriaFDS Disciple 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why is their first reaction to a beautiful woman "Oh, I think I'll send her a dick pic?" Why are they so proud of their dicks? I don't get it.
[–]MajesticSkyPachydermFDS Newbie 36 points37 points38 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🤦🏾♀️
[–]KitKat1705FDS Newbie 34 points35 points36 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🥳 pick mes are out. Still waiting to be picked however lol
[–]MooMooPuppyFDS Newbie 30 points31 points32 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's in line with the "at least he was honest about it" people when a guy admits he cheated or whatever.
[–]fdsonlynoscrubsFDS Newbie 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OMG why do men have the impulse to send us photos of their dicks?!?! I just had a phone call with a guy who seemed like a relatively normal human being on the phone, no weird conversation or comments, we had a few things in common, pretty decent chat. Then afterwards he sends me a photo of his crotch in sweatpants. WHY?!?! I was like dude you ruined it! Block and delete.
I also think guys brains are getting jumbled bc of porn and only fans. They don’t know how to interact with real-life women. So they do garbage like this. And want to be praised if they don’t send us pics of their dicks ?!?!? What in the hell is this shit?!??
[–]windowseat4lifeFDS Newbie 28 points29 points30 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The only "bar" that exists is the one guys use to try to drug unsuspecting women.
[–]ButterfliesHurricaneFDS Newbie 36 points37 points38 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ve just checked the gutter and found the bar…..😳
[–]Sallou9FDS Newbie 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am embarrassed for that woman.
[–]softensonicFDS Newbie 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why is there not a disgusted emoji? Is this it? 😖
[–]lolmemberberriesFDS Newbie 21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I really hope that guy is getting catfished by another guy.
[–]alpinepunch2021FDS Newbie[S] 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Unfortunately not. OP was a woman with an OF account, so it's not that surprising, but it's still pretty sad.
[–]lolmemberberriesFDS Newbie 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's a bummer. Catfishing is what he deserves.
[–]mothboonFDS Newbie 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
WTAF.
I don't understand anything going on in this world anymore. 😑
[–]ironglaciersFDS Newbie 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
See, this is what an actual gold medal participation trophy looks like. Literal easy mode shit.
[–]InappropriateMommieFDS Newbie 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Omg though…. Men send unsolicited dick pics because “wow you are so hot look you made my peepee hard, here is proof”?!?!? This is why?? HAHAHHAHA omg I did not know! I thought it was them showing off their sad goods. Not that this is better, but at least it makes more sense.
Ah Christ these phones with cameras - what a bad invention.
[–]Keepers12345FDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What!!???? What woman actually wants to see that???
Like seriously .
[–]spinsterchachkiesFDS Disciple 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
…. Would like to send you a picture of my dick because … “Wow” ???
What? How is this a compliment?
[–]CrazyPaineFDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
.... Hm✨OK✨ 🙃
[–]HealingirlFDS Newbie 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What the actual...
[–]mtan15FDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Jfc.... was the word dic meant to soften this insult?
[–]idestroythingsfora-FDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"So sweet and refreshing" I have a headache why is "I want to harass you, but I'm not going to do it" getting described the same way as lemonade
[–]Equal-Ear2312FDS Apprentice 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
whoever raised you did it right so they get to be the first to see your dickpic.
more like it.
[–]eatapeach18FDS Newbie[🍰] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They’re like monkeys… always wanting to show their peepees to anyone with eyes.
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