Now I'm are this is not unpopular opinion. I think a decent number of guys and women know this. However I think most people still are confused to if this is really true. I'm hear to tell you that yes indeed women are insanely complicated despite all the discourse that says they are not.

Humans are complicated sure but I'm talking into relations to men since men are seen as the easier to understand sex and less complicated version. Especially so when it comes to dating. Guys are recruit difficulty and women are Halo Legendary with All Skulls On.

I was more so motivated to make this post because I think alot of people seem to get it confused and say women aren't complicated. They are just like men. And a lot of ways they are. They kinda want the same things that everyone wants. A fulfilling relationship, emotional connection, great sex, etc.

Despite everyone's attempts to tell me women are just human.... Like we already dont know that already. Women are extremely complicated.

How you say? Well we'd be hear all day. But I can at least summarize some reasons that I have pulled excerpts from when it comes to other redditors I have read in the same topic.

1."Try seeking some solutions instead of seeking validation when you're talking.

You're complicated because you talk about your problems, avoid conflict, and refuse to have any explicit opinions, then when we suggest solutions, assertive actions, or offend your hidden opinions, you claim it's our fault we're not mind readers."

  1. "Women are not actually more complicated than men.

It's just that men are under enormous societal pressure to be direct, pursue, initiate and take charge, so we rarely have leeway to be ambiguous or indirect.

Women have virtually no pressure and no accountability in this regard. It's considered normal for women to be inconsistent and to contradict themselves or change their minds for no reason.

"A girl can change her mind".

"If you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best".

"I'm strong and independent. So you should pay for my dinner".

And so on and so on. Things like these make dealing with a lot of women very complicated."

3."You seem to instinctively hide what it is you want. Just working out what you would like for dinner requires FBI level interrogation skills. But almost everything you want is like that. It has to be disguised or communicated in secret code. Its like you're afraid of people understanding the real you so you hide it or play a role instead of being yourself. A lot of you do it so much you don't know who you are"

Now of course there are some small points that are exaggerated that doesn't apply to all women. But I think these are spot on