As a disclaimer, I am fully aware women are not a monolith. But there are patterns and common occurrences I've experienced that are worth noting. Here is what I've experienced over two years of my dating life:

1) A woman's initial interest has a window of time to it. If she likes you on the first date, she'll give you 2-3 more other dates. You must skillfully drive things in a sexual direction or else you'll get rejected no matter how much of a good match you may be. You don't want to blow through multiple dates being a platonic chit chat buddy or she will friend zone you (Took me way to long to learn this sadly).

2) Women are all about the vibe. If you have a good, uplifting, confident, chill and happy vibe, naturally people will like being around that more than a nervous vibe. I was on an interview panel, and the women didn't like any of the candidates who came in with a heavy nervous energy.

3) Women love plausible deniability. They love believing things just happened on their own. If I text "Want to come over and have sex?" I will 100 percent be left on read and blocked. If I text "Hey do you like wine and board games? If so, do you want to come over and see if we vibe? Wine and checkers lol." This works a lot better. Never text anything sexual. It'll just give her anxiety. Instead always give her plausible deniability.

4) The first kiss is a big chemistry check for women. As a man, if she kisses bad I don't really care. But if the first kiss is bad for a woman, she most likely won't want to progress towards sex.

5) She will never give you honest closure. Honestly, it's not even worth asking. I've gotten it maybeee once out of 40 dates. Instead you'll just get the vague platitudes. Chances are you know where you screwed up more than she does anyways.

6) You have to get good at reading her signals. Blowing through multiple dates doing nothing isn't good, yet shoving your tongue down her throat within the first 5 minutes of meeting is even worse.

7) A date at your place is 100 times better than a date at a restaurant. Even if sex doesn't happen, just hanging out on the couch and vibing feels a lot more intimate than being around a bunch of other people in public.

That's all I know. Any thoughts are welcomed or anything that you've learned is welcomed to. Again, sorry for making this about women, but I simply don't date men.