Okay, forget looks, which personality would you pick?

Bikerbats · 2024-07-17T15:13:13+00:00

I don't think I'm going to surprise anyone here. Sally.

Edit: Wrong one, I wanted the one with the motorcycle.

Gold_Supermarket1956 · 2024-07-17T15:09:48+00:00

I'll take the bullet none of these are attractive personalities

Friedrich_Friedson · 2024-07-17T15:09:23+00:00

Anna: Geek. Speaks in movie quotes. Has extensive knowledge of the Star Wars expanded universe. Plays video games and kicks your ass at them. Spends quite a lot of time online. Insists on having a gaming PC. Ships male characters from shows together. Reads and writes fanfiction. Talks at you about Omegaverse like you understand what it is. Draws yaoi.

why you had to ruin the perfect woman withe the shipping and yaoi thing lol.

anyway, i still choose her

kongeriket · 2024-07-17T15:19:14+00:00

Sally.

It's not even a question. Minus the roadtrip part and the preference for tents, that's pretty much my wife, lol. We take the train and the airplane and she hates tents, lol.

Jane could work too.

Anna and Tina make me choose the tree.

Lovers691 · 2024-07-17T15:37:44+00:00

Jane is my choice. Sally would have been fine but the camping in the woods is a definite no, Anna is an annoying consoomer but in female from, Tina also the woods

RikardoShillyShally · 2024-07-17T15:36:07+00:00

Jane. She's the most normal out of the bunch. Anna would have been great if not for shipping and yaoi.

berichorbeburied · 2024-07-17T15:13:39+00:00

2 questions.

Why when you say “only focus on personality” you actually include descriptions of their looks?

Like skin care routine. Looks clean.

That’s looks related.

Why is your definition of personality just someone’s hobbies?

I thought personality meant behavioral habits obviously but also thoughts on situations/cirmstances. A world view. Morality. Etc etc.

You’re just mentioning what they do in life or what they want to do for fun.

Now to answer your question.

None of them.

But if I had to choose.

Then anyone. It’s really interchangeable.

I get along with a lot of people. I don’t feel the need to police or control their free will. I’m not going to be unattracted to someone because of their personality. And I’m not going to be attracted to someone because of their personality.

But if I had to choose one in particular. Then I would assign each woman to two numbers on a 6 sided die. And then roll the dice. And whatever number comes up. Cross reference the name to the number assigned and I’ll “choose” that one.

Tbh I do have an ideal personality type.

But that personality type won’t make me attracted to someone.

So inherently personality is not that important just based on that observation.

Barely-moral · 2024-07-17T15:53:58+00:00

Jane

Nothing bad about her. Nothing good about her either. Acceptable.

Sally: Once decided to "just go to Italy" and then did.

Red flag. Would rather avoid.

Anna

Shares some hobbies. Slight positive. Acceptable.

Tina

Nothing bad about her. Nothing good about her either. Acceptable.

Anna because of slight positive.

Cunning_Linguists_ · 2024-07-17T16:15:28+00:00

Probably Jane or a mix of Jane and Anna

KayRay1994 · 2024-07-17T16:33:55+00:00

if myself not being vegan isn’t a deal breaker id be all over Tina

abaxeron · 2024-07-17T18:05:12+00:00

EDIT 2.0: No love for Tina :(

Tina needs to stop smoking weed; then she and Sally can fight to the death for my hand.

Until that, sorry Tina, Sally it is.

tacticaltossaway · 2024-07-17T19:28:36+00:00

Talks at you about Omegaverse like you understand what it is.

Why are you assuming I haven't amassed all the cursed knowledge I could?

GrandpaDallas · 2024-07-17T19:58:11+00:00

Jane - seems a bit vain, even if she's pleasant to be around normally.

Sally - Seems fucking rad and I'd be into the nomad lifestyle. Loving minions is a big time beige flag

Anna - Speaking in movie quotes is a bit cringey. Fun for video games, sure, but not for me dating wise.

Tina - Into her plant lifestyle, not so much into veganism. Picking up dead animals and turning it into art might weird me out too much.

It's Sally with Jane riding close second. Anna third, Tina last.

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Dry-Ad3452 · 2024-07-17T15:11:29+00:00

Jane, I'm used to women taking an eon to get ready. I'll watch the true crime with her even though we all know why some women get addicted to it.

No to Sally, not a person who just up and leaves without a plan.

No to Anna, Star Wars sucks nowadays anyway.

No to Tina, I hate spiders.

CraftyCooler · 2024-07-17T15:26:02+00:00

Ok - this true crime obsession would be a great bonus, I love true crime. The second one is probably my wife. However all my gfs were in first two categories.

wtknight · 2024-07-17T15:53:59+00:00

Sally is the least annoying of the four, although I probably wouldn’t date any of them.

EveningEveryman · 2024-07-17T16:00:06+00:00

Sally maybe? I like compitent women. But once again, which one is the kindest?

The geek/gaming PC girl would probably like me the most, I could just let her borrow my machine and I know a bit about star wars.

Involved_Currently · 2024-07-17T16:08:07+00:00

Hmm. I think Id pick the first (Jane), it just vibes better with my personal lifestyle. I like going out, I like meeting people, I like socializing, I like being trendy and up to date with society. The make-up thing is a bit worrying, but Im just going to assume that she has taste and elegance and isnt a clown. Idk maybe 30min are necessary to not age your skin. Idc if she has deep knowledege and insight about it I can kinda dig it. -So this mask I just rub it on and let it dry?

If they all have a good personality and equal compatibility it doesnt really matter. But im inferring that Ill get along better with someone extraverted and socially active, than with a lone wolf/tombboy kinda girl, homebody geek or alternative spiritual introvert.

If you told me they are all equally introverted I would probably pick Anna. If they were all equally extraverted and social I would probably pick Jane or Anna. Im interested in technology, not interested in car/motorcycles, im a city boy, Im not vegan and I dont like dogs.

But honestly this is all personal preference, no red flags.

PMmeareasontolive · 2024-07-17T16:11:41+00:00

Sally. She sounds like the least precious of the lot.

Unable_Evidence_4028 · 2024-07-17T16:15:58+00:00

Sally. If you didnt add the yaoi to anna she would be the best.

MalePsychopath · 2024-07-17T16:21:46+00:00

That’s a tough decision. They all sound super fun.
I think I’d pick Sally.

shadowrangerfs · 2024-07-17T17:17:33+00:00

None are appealing to me. Jane is a hard NO. The weed is the deal breaker on Tina. The others I could live with if they are ok with me NOT participating in their hobby. Gun to head, I'll go with Anna. We might have a little more in common.

MrSaturn33 · 2024-07-17T18:03:04+00:00

Tina. (until you said she smoked weed.) On second thought then because of this, I may be happier with Sally, but her constant need for "regular road trips" sounds like it could be demanding. I didn't even consider going with Jane or Anna. They are both totally bad choices for me, in different extremes.

Nature is undoubtedly more interesting than fashion (Jane) or entertainment media consumption. (Anna) It's to the point I don't know how anyone could disagree. (Sally's interests in travel sound much better than Jane or Anna: her motorcycle or car is a means to an end, because what she really loves is travelling)

It's interesting that Tina was the most unpopular choice. I don't think it would be like this for all the men on the world, but more speaks to the demographic of this subreddit and Reddit in general. (Maybe her interest in insects that you put there for fun was a deterrent for many men, but again, you have cultures in places like Asia that wouldn't necessarily feel the same way about any of this, if not having many people with a largely vegan diet) And all the four types of women you brought up actually do exist in real life.

fundamentally_comfy · 2024-07-17T18:19:16+00:00

They are all cringe, shoot me

DoinIt989 · 2024-07-17T18:51:46+00:00

I liked Tina until you said dog. Dog is a no-no. Jane it is.

flakybottom · 2024-07-17T18:58:02+00:00

I'm already friends with 2 IRL Anna's, so I guess I would pick her.

East_Effort_9813 · 2024-07-17T19:39:23+00:00

I wouldn't go with any of them. None of them seem like my type. I like basic chicks, who are normal, but if I had to choose one I would go with Tina. She seems the most normal.

purplish_possum · 2024-07-17T22:09:19+00:00

I'd be down with either Sally or Tina. Leaning toward Sally because I have a motorcycle that needs some repairs. But I do have a big old maple tree that could use some pruning and half acre lot for a garden so maybe Tina as my home girl and Sally for road trips.

KentuckyCriedFlickin · 2024-07-17T22:31:52+00:00

Okay, forget looks, which personality would you pick?

Not even a sentence into the post

"Always looks her best. Always looks clean. 10-step skincare routine. 30 mins make-up every day."

DzejSiDi · 2024-07-18T00:26:59+00:00

Tina

Believe me or not but "dog mommy" is the deal breaker for me.

Sally Once decided to "just go to Italy" and then did.

I don't know if I would go for somebody with personality this different, but overall sounds fine.

Jane

Sounds as much 5/10 as possible personality-wise. Also fine.

Anna Plays video games and kicks your ass at them.

Doesn't exist. But let's forget about that, excluding some cringe choices she's also fine.

IDK, Jane or Anna likely, can't be arsed to analyse what fictional character I would pick.

lastoflast67 · 2024-07-18T01:22:53+00:00

Sally i dont give a fuck about cars tbh but she seems like shes the only one who isnt insufferable

aslfingerspell · 2024-07-18T02:55:17+00:00

It would all depend on how the dates would go, but if we're treating this as profile descriptions alone Jane or Anna.

As tempting as it would be to just say "She fits my hobbies the closest.", I wouldn't just want to date a female version of myself. I would appreciate someone who is different enough from me to be challenging and interesting.

Sally and Tina are challenging, but I don't know if I'd have a romantic connection. They're outdoorsy, but more adventure or animal oriented, whereas I'm more of an exercise kind of outdoorsy. Quite literally a "Not everyone you're attracted to is someone you'd want to date." kind of thing.

Anna would be fun, but is at very high risk of being more like a friend than a romantic partner. As much as I like a lot of aspects of nerd culture, on some level I do in fact want someone who is different than me. I don't want to date a female version of myself. Sharing hobbies can be great but I know that having different interests isn't necessarily a turnoff. It's when those hobbies interfere with the relationship because they can't be done alongside someone else's interest (i.e. painting miniatures while someone knits can both be done a table, someone who wants to go backpacking will just have to leave someone who watches TV) that they become a problem.

Sally's interests are close enough to my own (true crime is something I sometimes get into) while also bringing in her own distinct things she must do for herself. On paper I think I can get 100% onboard with a 30-minute makeup and skincare routine. Makeup artistry isn't something I follow, but it has always been a "Wow!" kind of hobby to me, seeing how people can totally transform themselves when they have a lot of skill. As for the logistics, on the scale of hobbies 0.5 hours a day is absolutely sustainable and compatible with other people, especially since makeup is in fact her hobby and not something she feels obligated to do and have 0.5 hours less free time she has for things she enjoys.

Quiet_Firefighter_65 · 2024-07-18T12:08:29+00:00

Jane, seems like she has the usual hobbies women my age have. Masculine hobbies are a bit of a red flag for me.

jymssg · 2024-07-18T13:14:11+00:00

I'll just stay single lol

PiastriPs3 · 2024-07-19T08:24:20+00:00

Lol. Sally. Im definately in that Ive sworn off social media. And I'd like to become more "in the present moment", so she'd be a good influence on me.

Fabulous-Suspect-72 · 2024-07-17T15:23:16+00:00

It's between Anna and Sally. Side note, she is not beating me in FPS. That's just not going to happen. Other than that, I'm a motorcycle and car guy and a geek, so it's not really a problem either way

kvakerok_v2 · 2024-07-17T21:00:56+00:00

You had me at Tina until vegan. Hard nope on that.

Sally it is.

Anna is second.

Jane is third. If they look the same, what's the point of dating her?

Tina is last.

Title	Okay, forget looks, which personality would you pick?
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Date	July 17, 2024 3:01 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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