I have seen a lot of backlash from men on social media, real life and on this sub about how women have an unavoidable minefield of icks that are almost impossible to avoid.

And whilst yes, sometimes women as individuals have an occasionally baffling ick, these are rare anomalies much like random phobias. Overall, the things that give women the ick are actually reasonable and if as a man you do some very basic work on yourself you'll more than likely naturally not be doing these unattractive behaviours, unconsciously, instead of feeling frustrated that you have to "mask" and that you can't be "you."

List of things that will fix themselves automatically if you exercise, eat well, challenge yourself by chasing goals, place yourself in a social setting regularly and gradually take on more and more responsibility as you grow and mature.

Posture, Hygiene, Voice, Effeminate physical gestures, Desperation and neediness, Communication, Assertiveness, Temper, Being too emotional, aka, inappropriately over emotional and investing too much without cause, Child like physical gestures, Indecisiveness

If you work on yourself by exercising, placing yourself into social settings, challenge yourself whether it be in your career or passion and allow yourself to accept you're own maturity as you age instead of holding onto the past when mommy coddled you, then you will eradicate almost all ick worthy behaviour. And yes, it really isn't that unreasonable that women find those things unattractive.

So my debate is, that I am asserting that women do not have unreasonable icks, and that these are things any adult woman should raise an eyebrow at in an adult man.