Hey all, I found this community recently and just want to add some hope and positivity based on my experience. I have struggled to find a partner but I choose to believe that I can. I choose to believe that someone is out there who LIKES nice men. I'm done nurturing pain towards women who have rejected me. I am ready to let go of labeling beautiful women as entitled because I just don't care anymore. So what if she's entitled? Wipe the butthurt of your ass and go talk to another woman.

I'm finally starting to understand the concept of "focusing on you". Somewhere between meditation, journaling, and growing older there exists a path forward for me and for you. A way to thread the needle of being both gentlemanly and irresistible. You must commit yourself to patiently growing in your relationships with the opposite sex and **trust** that you will find your person.

In addition, I want to give kudos to the Blue, Red and Purple pill communities. They all contain truth. At the end of the day the take-away from any of them should be the same: keeping growing and don't quit. Many individuals are quitting on dating. But you're so close!

You have to understand that love is beautiful because it is worth the pain. Love is the process of seeing someone else's bullshit and choosing to continue to connect with them. Do women have BS? Yes. But I choose to continue to pursue them because love is worth it. I have a lot of BS too so maybe we can talk about how awful we both are together as a first convo.

Good luck out there.