Let’s say you’ve somehow gotten a magical entity indebted to you, and they offer to use their magic to let you meet your ideal partner. Physically, this person would meet your exact preferences (which we do not need to know nor argue about), but the spell has a limiter due to ethical concerns: magical matchmaking can only guarantee you up to three personality traits of your choosing. What would your three traits be, and why?

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