It’s a trend I’ve noticed being in this “red pill” space for quite a long time. I’ve met enough people in this space to observe general trends and also men who are less red pilled.

The red pill dudes simply don’t do better with women. They don’t even get with better looking women on average. The ones who “seem like” they do on social media do so because other MEN want them to do well. These dudes worship these men (which is a feminine trait btw), boost their money, boost their social status, and then inevitably when they make more connections, they can get more access to women (who are often indirect fake looking prostitutes looking to leech off those men). The average dude watching this kind of content all day like a cringe “consoomer” is almost always doing jack shit and is usually just used as a funneling ground to enrich the dudes they worship.

The entire charade is a self fulfilling prophecy. The average dude into these spaces isn’t actually doing better with women. It’s a complete and utter meme.

Secondly, red pill dudes are more likely to hide their failures and exaggerate/lie about their successes. Other dudes are more honest about their failures and don’t exaggerate their successes. This again creates a false perception that red pill dudes do better.

Last but not least, a lot of red pill dudes don’t actually follow their own red pill advice. They complain about whores but end up going for them. They talk about the importance of controlling a woman but don’t establish boundaries with a woman in a mature way or instead become emotional and spastic instead of being calm and focused. The entire thing is a charade. Just to give you one anecdotal example, a person I knew was dating a woman for years but allowed her to be close friends with an ex and they would end up gossiping about this person. This person would send me red pill content literally daily which warns you about this kind of stuff.

A lot of red pill tactics do work on women though. A lot of the advice works. You should never put a woman above you. But you shouldn’t also be this cringe try hard “wannabe” alpha who’s looking to game every single woman through some strategy. Women can see through you when you’re performative and will only use you once they notice