I did the math and I’ll be out more than half a $mil after this divorce. The amount includes 401k, equity, and total spousal support. Doesn’t include child support which would make the amount even higher but I’m fine with paying that. I guess the old saying is true; it’s cheaper to keep her. She says she doesn’t want my money, her actions/demands say otherwise.

I get pissed thinking about it but the silver lining is at the end of the day - it’s just money. The time I fought for and will have with my kids will be more valuable.