It’s been over a month & this conversation still makes me want to vomit

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-08-19T14:05:00+00:00

Aka “I’m going to manipulate my way around the age filters you have set and then try to bully you into thinking it’s not creepy because I’m yOuNg At HeArT aNd HaVe HaIr...” Because hair is the cornerstone of a good relationship, and not not being a lying sack of shit (even tho we all know he’s not trolling for young girls on Tinder because he wants a relationship)

eveninghope · 2020-08-19T14:13:22+00:00

I hope he has to pay for a lot of coffee and never gets laid.

understatedalways · 2020-08-19T14:46:51+00:00

What a lying loser. All of the ladies his age I know are fantastic looking. They just won’t put up with his ass, so he is looking for young women to prey on.

Sage_Planter · 2020-08-19T14:53:05+00:00

"I make bank so I live on my own!"

Ladies, can we all give a standing ovation to Mike who at the age of 32 has somehow managed to earn a livable wage and get his own place? What an accomplishment! How incredibe! Bravo! /s

Fatt3stAveng3r · 2020-08-19T14:56:40+00:00

He says he's 32, which means he's probably 38. Why lie about this at all?

user_5011 · 2020-08-19T15:45:06+00:00

Idk how to update this post to show more screenshots of the convo, but I said “Right, so you see nothing wrong with pretending to be 6 years younger than what you actually are? Instead of just putting that you’re 32 & adjusting your age range?” His response? “I think continuing to mislead or lie to someone about how old you are is wrong but I see nothing wrong with setting my age younger and disclosing”. To young women in their early 20’s, a guy saying he “makes bank” & lives on is his own (we aren’t gonna talk about the hair because we know there’s a lot of men who post old pictures of them in their prime when they were a lot younger that don’t truly replicate what they look like today) is so attractive, but... at the age of 32, you should have a job & live on your own (or with roommates, or something)! That’s not impressive, that’s the minimum standard. I cringe when I look at this post because I’m embarrassed at how long it has taken me to realize stuff that is minimum standard that before the “cool girl” in me would have mistaken as other people being too picky or bitchy. Old naive me would have totally fell for this guy, but me today...just think’s it is plain old creepy that he has to resort to lying about his age to pick up younger women (that he only wants to fuck), disgusting that he thinks I should be honored he thinks I’m hot (& that 32 year olds are disgusting) & finds it concerning that he can’t get a women his age

paperbagskirt · 2020-08-19T14:58:34+00:00

Yeah his hairline is massively receded, I can see in the small pic. By “lots of hair” he means on his back

peaka25 · 2020-08-19T15:47:15+00:00

Lol so ignoring the fact that he thinks all women in their 30s are apparently ugly, he knows that women filter based on age (rightfully so!) and wants to appear to the 'hot' young ones, so he makes himself 24.. and openly admits it! 🤦🏼‍♀️

He's also immediately trying to call you out by implying that you're lying about your age when HE'S LITERALLY DOING THAT. The projection is hilarious. He essentially called himself out by even bringing it up. All you have to do with these dudes is sit back and watch and they'll hang themselves.

whatprettygirlwhere · 2020-08-19T15:35:37+00:00

"Funny you should ask, I actually AM a lying piece of shit!"

painmakesyoustronger · 2020-08-19T14:37:53+00:00

My philosophy for avoiding OLD:

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

Why would any woman want that bullshit in their lives?!

typeadhd · 2020-08-19T14:33:57+00:00

Huh so age is just a choice now and fluid? Ok

Pasdepromesses · 2020-08-19T14:14:54+00:00

There are heaps of younger women who have the age settings till 45 or something. I was one of them. There’s no need to lie. He can also set his own preferences. Only thing that he ‘wins’ now, is engaging with women who specifically don’t want to match with him. He crosses their first boundary before they even match! Super selfish and toxic.

warinmymind94 · 2020-08-19T14:24:32+00:00

Yeah he has some hair for now but everyone knows clowns are bald up top and just have a little bit of hair on the sides... for now... and it won't be there long!

Some women get boob jobs, lip injections, botox, fillerS, tummy tucks, wear fake lashes, tan, or wear fake hair/dye hair and scrotes haven't heard of hair transplants 🤡🤡

HamiltonSucksAss · 2020-08-19T16:04:08+00:00

The audacity he had to ask you if you were lying about your age, then 2 seconds later admits he was lying about his age. btw your age if poorly censored, might wanna change it, just a heads up !

jeanneeebeanneee · 2020-08-19T17:04:44+00:00

1:1 odds that this same guy complains about women "playing games" lmao

coolestgirlyoueverme · 2020-08-19T15:56:34+00:00

🤮🤮🤮🤮

notochord · 2020-08-19T16:22:14+00:00

🔥🔥🔥🤬🤬🤬OH SCREW HIM! (Not literally, stay away from this scrote)

I’m 32 and have guys 18-50+ throwing themselves at me. They think I’m 23, not that age matters unless you’re trying to have biological children. Ugh.

That guy is such a manipulative, audacious pervert.

Disastrous_236 · 2020-08-19T16:16:45+00:00

LMAO he really did try to paint it like it was a good thing with that response

Omg and your emojis mocking him are absolutely golden!!!

lemonybees · 2020-08-19T20:11:48+00:00

This used to happen to me A LOT. They honestly think if they make you care about them or feel a connection, you'll overlook the lie. If I wanted to date a man in his 30s when I was 22, I would have set my filter to include that age range, but I didn't and it was purposeful. Good luck if you push back on them and tell them they're gross, they'll gaslight you into believing you're shallow.

I went on a date with a man in his 40s (at least) when I was nineteen. He'd lied and said he was 22 and used very old photos. It was so uncomfortable. Fuck these guys.

fdsonlynoscrubs · 2020-08-19T18:19:41+00:00

TL:DR truth and honesty mean absolutely nothing to me!

Garbage man, thanks for clarifying that up front!!!

unbaguetteable · 2020-08-19T19:24:41+00:00

Because OLD is full of NVM like him, the ones that are seemingly good catches are still LVM. Not saying all, but a majority of them are 🤢 One time I went in for a job interview and at the end, the interviewer brought up that he saw my profile on an app. During the process, I felt he was interested in me in a non-professional way. I was around 21 at the time; he looked like he was in his late 20s or early 30s. I gtfo of there... talk about inappropriate.

shakethat_milkshake · 2020-08-19T21:36:08+00:00

I love that he opens by immediately projecting his own lie onto you. "Are you really 24? (cause I'm not) "

dntbfllikeidid · 2020-08-19T16:56:21+00:00

Disgusting scrote! I bet he doesn’t look like his profile pictures either! 🤮

tauruspiscescancer · 2020-08-19T18:57:32+00:00

Are men okay??????

plummyjellyfish · 2020-08-19T23:16:59+00:00

I despise how he goes, 'lol massively' when told there is , indeed, a massive difference between a 24 year old and a 32 year old. That tells me that either a) he's delusional and thinks there really is no difference (so he hasn't developed at all since he was 24) or b) he knows there is a big difference but he has to gaslight women in order to keep his fragile ego intact.

OrchidLion · 2020-08-20T03:09:39+00:00

30+ males tend to be ugly as shit.

supadupamuaks · 2020-08-19T18:34:27+00:00

Ugh, gross.

munissa · 2020-08-19T19:18:53+00:00

Ew. This is disgusting.

howdoilogoutt · 2020-08-19T20:46:07+00:00

Always vet the guys! Recently had a girl at work who went on a few dates with a man, and then found out he was using a fake name when he dropped his credit card! Also had a newborn baby *puke*

kittyopuppy · 2020-08-20T04:30:11+00:00

Wow, they really are that stupid. Like on those cliche movies where the villain dramatically and stupidly shares his entire plan to the main hero. Hah.

2020-08-19T18:37:04+00:00

nasty

2020-08-19T18:37:18+00:00

and thats on projection

2020-08-19T20:00:36+00:00

Yuck

throwawaynevermindit · 2020-08-20T00:19:35+00:00

Saying "I have hair and live on my own" like it's in any way special is such a 30-something hitting on early 20-something thing to say I don't even.

_Hellchic_ · 2020-08-20T00:58:56+00:00

I can't see the screenshot for some reaosn I can never see things like this

notbasic4karen · 2020-08-21T01:23:45+00:00

The problem isn’t that 32 year old women (like myself) are ugly, the problem is we think he’s ugly and therefore he can’t get a gf his own age.

Title	It’s been over a month & this conversation still makes me want to vomit
Author	user_5011
Upvotes	298
Comments	83
Date	August 19, 2020 1:59 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ico56f/its_been_over_a_month_this_conversation_still/
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