Question.

Why does it matter if a woman did some sex act with someone else that she now refuses to do with you?

Like if she had never done that act before would it be OK for her to choose not to do it? Is it only not OK because she did it before and won’t do it again? If there’s a specific sex act that you’re into why are you OK with giving that up for the woman who’s never done it before but not for the woman who has but doesn’t want to do it. Why do you want one woman to do something she doesn’t want to do and not the other? This gives me some strong Madonna/whore complex vibes.

It just seems like if the issue was sexual compatibility it really wouldn’t matter if she did the act before or not because she’s not doing the act with you now or ever. Are you OK with just not engaging in that act ever because she never did it before but upon discovering she has now you suddenly can’t live without it? And if you are OK with not engaging in that act because it’s not something you’re particularly interested in why demand that she do it again when she doesn’t want to just because she did it with somebody else? The whole thing just makes no sense. It must be a Madonna Whore complex that’s the only explanation.