🚩met him on OLD

🚩asked me out to coffee (I said no)

🚩called me “intense” when I was just being myself

🚩said “grandma mode” when I showed him my cross stitch (not-so-subtle neg)

🚩made vague plans for food and then a movie “if things went well” (didn’t even bother to decide on a movie)

🚩suggested meeting at one of our houses first then driving to the date together (we would be driving out of our way to do that)

🚩we made these plans over a week ago and he never set a time (only said that he had nothing else going on that day)

🚩texted me this morning “when are we doing this”

I was already pretty decided that I wasn’t going to go, but that last text made it much easier. Pre-FDS I felt like I had to go on dates once I had agreed to them. But I don’t owe anyone anything! Especially some LVM who lets the mask slip before even the first date 💅🏻 I told him it wasn’t going to work out, blocked him, and I’m going to enjoy my day off by myself. Maybe see a movie if things go well 😉

THIS is women empowerment. Thanks FDS!