This is why you don’t give ugly men chances.

Maisiebr · 2020-09-11T12:36:16+00:00

He's ugly, she's average, that's already way above his league.

heleninthealps · 2020-09-11T12:06:58+00:00

This is why we don't approach or give men proposals. You're not good looking enough for him if he hasn't pursued you himself. Period.

Amy3e13 · 2020-09-11T12:19:22+00:00

He will bench her until he is 100% sure that no attractive woman wants him.

siberiansummer · 2020-09-11T14:33:30+00:00

Spoiler alert: he will still date the average girl and use her for sex/emotional labor/support/social life etc etc. Then when the right woman comes along he will dump her regardless of how much time and effort she invested into him. Or if the right woman doesn’t come along he will keep her as a forever gf and constantly neg and complain that she isn’t all that. That’s why throwing yourself at a man is ALWAYS a bad idea

Neorago · 2020-09-11T11:53:41+00:00

How about put effort into your looks, personality and career dude lmao

supremelyparanoid · 2020-09-11T11:36:19+00:00

I hope no one goes near his dick for as long as he lives

vietnamese-bitch · 2020-09-11T16:33:21+00:00

If a guy says he's good looking, he's average.

If a guy says he's average, he's fugly.

If a guy says he's ugly, he's a gremlin.

Remember that.

Blackishcat27 · 2020-09-11T12:50:56+00:00

He's going to wreck that poor girls life. No doubt she's bought into fake feminism if she's proposing to him. I feel awful for her and I hope she levels up and runs like hell.

ChristianGirl93 · 2020-09-11T11:42:04+00:00

Let’s be honest ugly guys are just guys who refuse to take personal responsibility for bare minimum looks and don’t take personal responsibility to be more interesting than the average Joe, because deep down, it’s not that they’re boring, they feel entitled to more than the average men who respect themselves and others. Period

2020-09-11T12:23:16+00:00

I love how these same guys expect ugly women to date in their own lane. How are they suppose to date in their own lane if you don't my dude?

dollymyfolly · 2020-09-11T15:42:54+00:00

I feel like when women say “looks don’t matter,” we mean what you’re born with and can’t change doesn’t matter that much. What you CAN CHANGE (hygiene, fitness, education, earning ability, charisma, manners, charm, style) matters A LOT.

SadVibesGirl · 2020-09-11T14:22:22+00:00

This dude don't deserve any woman on this earth

whymenaregarbage · 2020-09-11T11:43:04+00:00

please please link me the post. I NEED to ask him to explain us WHY he should expect an attractive girl whereas he is an ugly guy.

GingeroftheDead · 2020-09-11T13:44:29+00:00

And I'm sure according to him he has a shining personality that more than makes up for his looks, therefore he deserves a beautiful woman way above his league!! Barf.

FantasiaWrites · 2020-09-11T15:44:23+00:00

The guy is a mentally ill, 22-year-old addict who plays on TOR for 'reasons' and refuses to get help for 'other reasons.' There is no proposal, because no woman in her right mind would want this uggo so bad she actually proposes to him. Much less without any prior commitment from him?

This isn't even male fantasy, it's just straight up BS. He wanted ragebait to help him fit in at the MGTOW subs, and even THEY didn't want to touch this lol.

SansaDeservedBetter · 2020-09-11T14:26:26+00:00

I bet that poor girl he doesn’t know if he’s in love with is his girlfriend of 5+ years.

Proud-Purpose · 2020-09-11T12:19:52+00:00

I think any man feels this way, ugly or not

Youdidntfindthis · 2020-09-11T14:00:11+00:00

Yikes 😬 what an ass if you’re ugly at least don’t be a dick 💀no wonder.he doesn’t deserve that girl

daisy_0720 · 2020-09-11T15:47:20+00:00

Yet more proof that ugly men are the shallowest people on the planet.

watch_earthlings · 2020-09-11T12:37:15+00:00

Hope she gets some standards for herself! Jesus

pao664 · 2020-09-11T17:47:44+00:00

Daily remember that the so called “sexual revolution” is what created this bullshit entitlement mentality we see in so many men. It used to be that a man had to OFFER something to get an average looking woman to even smile at him. Now, these men have not only been spoiled by cheap and easy sex, but their brains have been deformed by viewing massive amounts of pornography that they have lost touch with reality. Because they see all these “perfect porn” women, they FEEL ENTITLED to a “perfect 10” It is truly disgusting. I hope this dude rots in momma’s basement. He does not deserve ANY woman.

ms_monquis · 2020-09-11T16:28:11+00:00

Don't we all just wish we had HER username??

dragon_wolf4 · 2020-09-11T15:12:41+00:00

Smh men like this make me want to sometimes become like a female monk or something, someone who has renunciated men lol

ItsFreezen · 2020-09-11T18:17:57+00:00

When these scrotes say "average" the girl is always attractive. But they want a supermodel/porn star looking women.

figureskaterforlife · 2020-09-11T16:04:58+00:00

Everything about his text makes me furious.

theninjalibrarian · 2020-09-11T20:12:14+00:00

This just goes to show that we’re all just placeholders for men. They will take what they can get from whoever they can get it from and not care one single bit. They will use you, manipulate you, and lie to you. He will keep this girl waiting, string her along, until the “right person” comes along and then dump her like it’s nothing.

This is also why you should never, ever pursue a man. Don’t ask him out on a date. Don’t text him first.And for goodness sake, NEVER propose!

Proud-Purpose · 2020-09-11T17:30:11+00:00

Date in your own lane or pay, fuggo.

2020-09-11T16:25:38+00:00

Also why you don't approach men

seraphinelysion · 2020-09-11T13:53:34+00:00

I haven't committed yet.

I feel terribly alone and wish to have a girlfriend.

So I assume this guy is single and never had a gf before based on what he wrote here?

I know a average looking girl who's in love with me.

Today she proposed to me.

TF? I assume they aren't even dating if he said he wants a gf (but doesn't have one???) so why TF is she proposing to some guy she's not even dating?

Am I missing something here???

--qtbunny-- · 2020-09-11T17:50:34+00:00

He’s ugly. So she’s way out of his league already.

2020-09-11T22:57:09+00:00

Even if he manages to get a model girlfriend, he is not going to love her. He has that LVM logic and any woman is an object to meet his needs

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2020-09-11T19:22:15+00:00

Another reason why you don’t ask men out or take the reins in the relationship. I hope this woman recognizes what time it is 😤✌️🏃‍♀️

2020-09-11T19:32:09+00:00

I feel attacked by his mindset sis, feels like harrassment to me.

Feminineprincess · 2020-09-12T01:11:58+00:00

I bet he’s extremely overweight and with a receding hairline

nothingwasevertrue · 2020-09-12T01:56:55+00:00

OMG what a loser

PollyAnnaSunshine · 2020-09-11T15:56:34+00:00

And this is also why you don’t propose to men!!

Tinkerbeller0 · 2020-09-11T18:46:33+00:00

I think he’s just looking for a free prostitute 🤪

UnstrirringCoffee · 2020-09-11T20:50:49+00:00

WTF? Post has been removed and underneath it is a link to this sub, labling us a hate-sub. Perhaps this was a bait post?

CassieGreen85 · 2020-09-12T00:56:49+00:00

This dude needs both some self-level-up (good diet, good sleep schedule, exercise, grooming, fashion, healthy and diligent approach to house chores) on top of lots of therapy.

AotearoaCanuck · 2020-09-11T17:22:54+00:00

Yikes

Sewud · 2020-10-19T16:15:23+00:00

Is anyone else just completely disheartened by the way men think about women even outside of the lookism aspect? The way he's thinking about "should I accept this girl now or wait to see if I get a better girl but risk not getting another as good as this one". They literally see us as objects. This is how I might think if I'm shopping for a used TV on craigslist.

I have had boyfriends and I have NEVER thought "could I do better" or "better grab this one because I might not find another". It was always about just him and me.

Title	This is why you don’t give ugly men chances.
Author	ShitFaced_Dumbledore
Upvotes	515
Comments	113
Date	September 11, 2020 11:32 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/iqopvj/this_is_why_you_dont_give_ugly_men_chances/
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