Daily Community Chat Megathread

chilikettlechips · 2023-12-18T07:54:36+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/18kvvw6/one_womans_dating_journey_observations_from_date/

The men who seemed most mature and actually looking for a relationship initiated the first date, picked a location either halfway or closer to me, chose something more expensive than coffee (ranging from a sandwich shop to a $300 a ticket concert), and paid for the date without any awkward moments or hints.

What a coincidence, maturity = paying for expensive dates lmao. And of course all the "yes queen" sentiment in the comments.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-18T07:49:45+00:00

Fashion really does have transformative power. When I put on my flannel nightgown I feel like the dutiful wife of a humble, early to mid 20th century blue-collar man who will be home shortly after a 12-hour shift at the factory to have brief missionary sex with me and then pass out.

dbz__f · 2023-12-18T07:49:41+00:00

I like how my literal shitpost already has over 50 replies. I wonder how many it will max out at.

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-12-18T07:38:42+00:00

As a man, how am I supposed to feel when I'm told I have a "Ladies' ass,"?

dishonouronmycow · 2023-12-18T07:26:34+00:00

Millions aren’t enough for me, I want

Nate_Reborn · 2023-12-18T06:59:59+00:00

Everyday won’t be a good day and that’s ok. You being alive is proof you’re built to last.

y2kjanelle · 2023-12-18T06:54:26+00:00

Women should date more like men. Men’s advice towards how women “should date” leads to failure and maltreatment.

As soon as i dated with male strategies while being feminine, dating was so much easier.

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-12-18T06:23:58+00:00

I think I have neanderthal skull genes. My cranium is oblong and extends backwards, my forehead is tiny(less than 3 fingers) and heavily sloped, my brow ridge(ridge of bone where your eyebrows are) is fairly prominent, and my jaw is very forward grown.

Basically the left skull in the linked article.

Is this an incel or chad phenotype?

blebbyroo · 2023-12-18T05:52:56+00:00

5 gifts under the tree for our girl from us. At 2 I think hats more than enough.

And note to any parents out there: Wrapping an assembled mini soccer goal net is hard

AdAnnual9985 · 2023-12-18T05:37:29+00:00

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iliyb · 2023-12-18T05:10:02+00:00

William at 28 and Kate at 29. He aged like milk.

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AdAnnual9985 · 2023-12-18T05:02:09+00:00

Off topic but I must vent. The airbnb I stayed at.... the host banged on my door asking me if I poured coffee down the drain. I had no earthly idea what he was talking about. He said he would have me thrown out. I contacted airbnb and then went to bed. He just left a review saying I trashed the place (fuck. you.) and that I am racist. I can't fucking even anymore I hate all of you

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-12-18T04:46:32+00:00

Women are so privileged and given so much in life for free. Why can't women just be nice and give validation and attention to men?

Women were privileged to be born with a full cup while men are born with an empty cup. Women should be giving back for fairness and to achieve at least some equality and social justice.

mummydontknow · 2023-12-18T04:40:36+00:00

How many bad experiences should you tolerate before making sweeping judgements?

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-12-18T04:38:37+00:00

actually the whole hymen = virgin thing implies a virgin who hasn't masturbated using a dildo, does this make them extra virgin compared to virgin who dildoed their hymen away

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-18T04:34:26+00:00

There’s an important factor that is not discussed enough when debating how the bill should be covered on a date: the sassiness of the man. The sassier he is, the less he should pay. If he’s mildly sassy or non-sassy at all, he pays the whole bill. If he’s moderately sassy they go Dutch. And if he’s extremely sassy the woman pays the whole bill.

missionglowup · 2023-12-18T04:16:33+00:00

over the past month, i have had the strongest urge to have a baby. like not just an ovulation phase urge but like an everyday, consistent urge. to the point where i think about having kids multiple times a day and everything small and cute makes me “aw” and i get super emotionally attached to it. and ill send my bf a bunch of reels that have babies and kids in them. i just want to unconditionally love and take care of a little human.

meteorness123 · 2023-12-18T04:07:21+00:00

One thing I realized is that fun is not for men. It's for women and children.

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-12-18T04:03:56+00:00

I don’t want to go to work tomorrow. If I get skinny enough and some plastic surgery maybe a wealthy man will marry me, cover all my expenses, and make me a stay at home mom.

GreatSmashPlayer · 2023-12-18T03:58:37+00:00

I'm not good at Street Fighter. Turns out the Smash Bros skills do not translate well. However, just like when it comes to picking up chicks, the path forward is to play the game, make mistakes, and most importantly enjoy the process.

dbz__f · 2023-12-18T03:57:21+00:00

thoughts on covid sex? yay or nay? I mean if you're both sick might as well go all the way.

mrastml · 2023-12-18T03:56:33+00:00

Q4W who like long hair on men: is there an age for a man where you think long hair starts looking bad/weird, or is it fine as long as the man stays physically fit/ages well

armpitpics · 2023-12-18T03:54:43+00:00

Cuck culture guy is back:

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missionglowup · 2023-12-18T03:31:50+00:00

i remember when i used to date short men… crazy times😵‍💫

Anti_Thing · 2023-12-18T03:31:49+00:00

When talking too/beginning to date a woman who natively speaks a different language from you, is it weird to learn words or phrases in her language?

WhiteLotusGauntlet · 2023-12-18T03:29:41+00:00

If this sub really wants to stop all the blackpill rhetoric they should be quicker to ban the blue pill trolls that horribly strawman blue pill arguments.

If all the incel stuff never existed it would get created in one day on here listening to how silly some blue pill arguments are.

AceOfSpadesGymBro3 · 2023-12-18T03:27:36+00:00

Thought of the day: men and women both want the same thing: each other.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-12-18T03:19:13+00:00

https://twitter.com/oprahsidedied/status/1736586330392658319/photo/1

If an nba player gets you pregnant and you get an abortion, you might be an idiot lol. I don’t care if he offers you 100,000 you will get WAAAAY more over the life of that child. You basically hit the jackpot and don’t have to work for the next 20 years

Interesting_Show_962 · 2023-12-18T03:18:18+00:00

As soon as I get my GED, and a job, and move out of my moms basement, and get a car, and regrow my hair, and lose 100 lbs it’s OVER for you bitches!!

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-12-18T03:10:21+00:00

Q4All: which is the most likely out of the group to exist and why (you can only choose one)

-Aliens

-Gods/Goddesses (for the maidens)/Demons/Angels

-Monsters (zombies, werewolf, vampire, ghouls etc.)

hannahg000 · 2023-12-18T03:05:54+00:00

does anyone here know neil the seal?

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-12-18T02:52:46+00:00

does anyone here have ED problems why do I always get ED ads

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how the hell does this contraption work does it hold your dick up

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-12-18T02:51:10+00:00

Science will eventually go too far and make sex dolls too realistic. They'll only want Chad 😞

missionglowup · 2023-12-18T02:50:28+00:00

so i joined my current state’s “are we dating the same guy” facebook group because im nosey and love drama and some of these girls are literally insane. yesterday i saw a post about girls bragging about having multiple daddies? and today, i saw a post where some girl was talking about finding her bf’s porn twitter, and some of his comments talking about women’s body parts which indicated that he didn’t understand how women’s bodies work whatsoever. and instead of calling her bf out for his misogynistic ignorance, she just laughed at it and said “men are so dumb😂😂” come to find out she also has a daughter with this guy.

i called her out for encouraging that behavior and she came for my age and said i didn’t know what i was talking about. like 21 isnt young and while i might not be 30+, i have more respect for myself than to date and have sex (let alone kids) with dumbasses who spew misogynistic information about what women’s body parts should look like. or even date a weirdo who comments on porn. i need the girls to do and want better.

feeling: angry😡😤🤬

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-12-18T02:41:57+00:00

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meteorness123 · 2023-12-18T02:40:48+00:00

A woman taking her man's last name and them creating a family under that name is a very beautiful thing.

hannahg000 · 2023-12-18T02:39:26+00:00

i noticed that despite being very left leaning that i still have some soft conservative values which i don’t think is an issue. but i find it weird that people think people with leftist politics can’t be more traditional in their personal life

itzReborn · 2023-12-18T02:35:40+00:00

Why do you think some people fear change? Like me for example, I know I need to change if I want a social life that will lead to a dating life but actually taking those first steps are like the scariest thing imaginable in my head. Part of me feels like I’m scared of trying and failing but at the same time also scared of trying and succeeding

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-12-18T02:33:43+00:00

I wonder how many dudes have gotten pussy based of a girl thinking he is a certain celebrity but he just looks like the guy. Like I see it all the time on social media of women taking pics with guys says omg I met [insert this guy here] but he’s not him 😂

meteorness123 · 2023-12-18T02:27:16+00:00

Demographics is king. Logan Paul is a tall millionaire but he's a dumb internet personality so the women he'll be dating will always be superficial whores. The regular male college student has a better chance at having a good relationship with a good woman than Logan Paul.

TheArchmaghea · 2023-12-18T02:18:30+00:00

Do you think someone with an horrible face can improve via surgery?

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-12-18T02:13:50+00:00

"The wall" is probably not as bad outside of white countries because white girls are more prone to UV radiation skin damage, and it's made worse by their addiction to tanning.

Like, do they not realize that they'll end up looking like prunes 15-20 years down the line?

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-12-18T02:11:31+00:00

I 👁 suck 😜💦 his 👋🏻 dick ⚖💯🍆 with a smile 😊 for hours 🕐 at a time 🕐
Stare 👀 at his 💦 nutsack 🌽 while I 👥 hold 🛂 back 🔙 my cum 💦 tonight 🌑
And when ⏰ he 👥 ask 🙏 me what position 💯
I 👁 say 💬, "doggystyle"
(And when ⏰ he 👨🏿‍🏭 ask 🙏 me what position 😻
I 👁 say 🗣, "doggystyle")

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-18T02:02:09+00:00

What are you supposed to say when a little kid is speaking gibberish to you? Some random toddler came up to me today and started babbling and showing me a toy and I had no idea what to do so I just looked at him.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-12-18T02:00:20+00:00

Lookmatchs or no?

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-12-18T01:59:54+00:00

I feel like we haven't had a passport bro post in a while.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-12-18T01:58:03+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/s/c0pJ3h9aiR

That's called being emotionally stunted.

OkHoliday8798 · 2023-12-18T01:51:42+00:00

Every time I see a post/comment complaining about women’s dating standards I imagine that wojack of a dude angry crying and I laugh inside.

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One_Government4818 · 2023-12-18T01:49:33+00:00

why has this the israel palestine conflict triggered such an intense emotional reaction from so many people?

Gladboys · 2023-12-18T01:45:04+00:00

rain is god tier weather, so cozy and conducive to chilling out with music and hot cocoa

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-12-18T01:27:24+00:00

Trevor Lawrence would be an incel if he was 5’8

meteorness123 · 2023-12-18T01:23:52+00:00

I consider a man that has one satisfying relationship (and a bodycount of 1) more succesful than a man with a bodycount of 60 (hot chicks included) but who can't hold down a relationship.

GreatSmashPlayer · 2023-12-18T01:11:21+00:00

Women want male friends way more than men want female friends. The reason for this is because women usually have something tangible to gain from male friends (protection, resources, etc.) whereas female friends are usually a liability for men, unless she's able to introduce him to some of her friends.

meteorness123 · 2023-12-18T01:05:12+00:00

Average and below average looking women are fully aware of their looks and they adjust accordingly and don't seek out "chads". The idea of average women chasing 10%of men is a mansophere myth.

butagoodpersonality · 2023-12-18T01:02:03+00:00

Time to end my bender

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-12-18T01:00:16+00:00

-> Are those deadbeats attractive?

-> i wish they were!! hideous and she's absolutely stunning

Whenever women use this line ("All my friends are stunning/I am conventionally attractive") in the context of dating and complaining about guys, most of the time it means she has lower standards for women .

missionglowup · 2023-12-18T00:58:22+00:00

Q4All

How would respond if you were in a relationship and your partner told you they wanted to get some form of cosmetic work done? (ie botox, leg lengthening, implants, bbl, buccal fat removal, nose job, etc)

hannahg000 · 2023-12-18T00:44:34+00:00

to answer that do people find you boring thread, yes, they definitely do

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-12-18T00:38:03+00:00

Do you think that familiarity breeds contempt?

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