Online beta providers

RandomAttackHelpMe · 2019-08-13T19:18:50+00:00

Jesus, why pay when there is so much free porn available? If you're THAT desperate, why not just use what's there instead of giving them money?

Orange_Paisley · 2019-08-13T20:00:06+00:00

I don't know of any dudes like this, I hope. I always wonder what kind of guys do that, or buy jars of bathwater or whatever. My dad and my partner have both complained about receiving emails or texts or DMs from women offering nudes in exchange for gift cards, but neither of them sent anything (that I know of).

I do know an ex-stripper who had a client buy her a house. He didn't gift it to her, but charged her ridiculously low rent for years until she was able to afford to buy it from him.

NockerJoe · 2019-08-13T18:52:18+00:00

This is tagged as discussion and not Q4W so lemme say a couple of things.

Like half of young couples begin online. We usually take this to mean OLD but there are guys who make it work. However they have very different strategies feom premium snap betas.
These men inspire a fundamental scorn in other men. I tabletop GM and we had a guy at a pick up game who was into that beta wallet lifestyle and had the top 10 insta accounts basically memorized. His character was rewritten at the last minute to be that kind of girl. Even before his gurl Delphine sold her bathwater my bunch of nerds roasted him endlessly. I would sometimes add money and loot for him explicitly sent by pathetic orbiters and see if he'd complain about the free money that actually cost his dignity.

He quit not long after and we don't miss him.

petrichordium · 2019-08-13T19:55:02+00:00

WHY DON’T YOU ASK THEM? And not a bunch of random women who aren’t e thots and know nothing at all about being e thots.

What they get out of it is live interaction with naked women who would not otherwise interact with them for free. IE it is a service not a relationship.

The median american woman is fat, overworked, and wants nothing to do with the raw libido of the median american male, who is also fat and overworked. The median male KNOWS this on some level and chooses accordingly.

These men are not choosing naked e-thots over the American Dream. They are choosing e thots and atomized loneliness over atomized loneliness sans e-thots. I have dated multiple women in the naked girl business. It is not all idleness and bath water. It involves dealing directly and acutely with people’s insecurities and humanity. A seasoned 20 something year old internet whore with a good brain probably understands men better than some inane therapist with a degree and a bunch of mothballed cultural anthro garbage rattling around in her head.

Emervila · 2019-08-13T19:48:44+00:00

What do you guys think of this trend?

Simping is toxic, if anything can be labeled as toxic masculinity is simping. This damages both men and women, on men deteriorates men value and on women it enables bitching.

oneprettycoolcat · 2019-08-13T18:51:15+00:00

It's pathetic, and it will only grow more common as the standards of women continue to skyrocket and access to sex continues to grow rarer for all but the top percentage of men.

These guys need someone to smack the shit out of them too.

peterlongc · 2019-08-13T19:12:05+00:00

recent news:

" A seemingly youthful Chinese vlogger known as “Your Highness Qiao Biluo” was outed to be a 58-year-old woman when the face filtering software she used to make her look younger glitched during a livestream. "

i'll predict a market bust within the decade when anyone will be able to look however they like in real-time with video software. catfishing is going to reach absurd and disturbing levels very soon.

Nobodykers · 2019-08-13T19:26:20+00:00

Online beta providers deserve to be thrown into a vulcano

ArborioRice · 2019-08-13T19:11:36+00:00

without even hopes of getting anything in return.

They have plenty of hope she'll pick him from the crowd of thousands of other thirsty betas paying her for risque pics or whatever she's doing for money. Any random girl's insta comments have plenty of guys complimenting, asking questions, proposing...they damn well have a glimmer of hope she'll find them special.

Do you think it's something that will continue for a long time?

Yes, for as long as the legions of thirsty men have the hope some online thot will pick them out of a crowd. If men value themselves that low then fuck em, those girls are smart AF.

diffdedbed · 2019-08-13T20:42:19+00:00

Some guys are pathetic, nothing new.

Pathetic women collect figurines and cats.

Pathetic men collect cam girl thank yous.

FlavFal · 2019-08-13T19:24:25+00:00

Several men like that have offered me money and gifts. A few straight up ask "can I give you money?". Some of them even know I'm in a happy relationship and they don't care.

People who like gaming know that women in places like Steam get free gifts all the time.

LivelyChartreuse · 2019-08-13T20:50:00+00:00

I know zero online beta providers and I thank god every day for that.

GridReXX · 2019-08-13T21:11:49+00:00

Men like paying for women.

verticordia · 2019-08-13T22:27:59+00:00

Since I started my channel on pornhub (I do let's plays of those weird hentai flash games) I have only encountered 1 orbiter. Although I only have like 300 subscribers, so 1 in 300 isnt bad right? Well, technically I have 1 patron and one guy sends me 40 dollars twice a week for no reason. I told y'all I was gonna get my stacey bucks.

Idk, I wouldn't call it orbiting but I donate to content creators I like. I'm not under the false pretense that all beta orbiters are just huge fans of hypothetical e girl's content though lmao. It might be satisfactory to the male urge to provide for a pretty woman.

vosidit98 · 2019-08-13T18:50:39+00:00

Here's a video from this eastern European woman who's worked both in academia and as cam girl.

Financial Domination 101 - What is Findom?

flamingoinghome · 2019-08-13T19:48:52+00:00

These guys aren't "beta providers", they're CUSTOMERS. They're paying these women for a service. They're like guys who go to strip clubs, except they're squeamish about going to actual strip clubs.

kandyapplez · 2019-08-13T19:59:36+00:00

for a long time i had my amazon wishlist linked on my twitter and pretty frequently had random guys buying me stuff off of there. i never had to even ask them to or mention it

Bekiala · 2019-08-13T20:26:12+00:00

It is pretty much like the magazines of the past but they cut out Hugh Hefner.

AggravatingTartlet · 2019-08-13T22:19:21+00:00

Because some men would rather share a Stacy than be in a relationship with a much lesser woman. A high value woman can attract lots of suitors, attention and money--and she can parcel herself out to a lot of men. Just like a high value man can parcel himself out to more than one woman.

Except with high value women, the effect is magnified.

SunflowerBurst · 2019-08-13T22:27:50+00:00

Men don’t do this just for access. They do it for the feeling if it being personal, the feeling that the woman sees them and individually connects. But most of all because the women are damsels in distress. Men love a beautiful woman who doesn’t have the best judgment; they hope her risky judgment includes banging him, and then he wants to save her from the crazy risky decisions he thinks she’s making,. They love the wildness, they just want it all for themselves and then they throw money at her to “save” her from herself or other bad men. This is a very strong male instinct as long as they think that female craziness will benefit him.

catbrainland · 2019-08-13T22:36:40+00:00

Gamblers gamble knowing full well the house always wins. It's a fault in our cognition (dopamine reward even for always-losing odds). While seemingly irrational, it's absolutely crucial for most living organisms to do it. If all individuals gave up because the odds are low, there wouldn't be the few ones who are lucky and propagate the species.

This is essentially the basis of nihilism - it's rational individually, but irrational to do for species as a whole.

decoy88 · 2019-08-13T22:47:59+00:00

A large portion of men enjoy buying things for women

Like, it’s an entire hobby in itself. There are men that simply love that role and get gratification from the act of spending money on these hoes

meomeowmeoww · 2019-08-14T01:15:18+00:00

Ugly men would rather pay for the company of a beautiful woman than looksmatching.

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SqueaksScreech · 2019-08-13T20:02:29+00:00

I know a lot of online beta providers. Some have said they don't care if they don't get anything in return it's their money. In all honesty I don't care it's not my life nor do I care.

I had people message me saying they pay me for a selfie. A simple selfie no nudes or boobs nothing. I even got a few for feet pics and a simple one minute phone call. It's not my thing nor do I really comfortable doing it. If others do it good for them I guess.

graaarg · 2019-08-13T22:03:28+00:00

A friend of mine does that. He has a girlfriend, he's a genuinely nice person, he just likes cute girls, without second goals. He's Just a fan of cosplayers and e-thots.

SparrowInAHurricane · 2019-08-13T22:13:05+00:00

At some point when the market is truly saturated and price wars start for customers, it may not be worth the effort for the producers (girls). When everyone is paying Walmart prices, how much effort are you going to put into giving individualized attention? How many different poses and conversations can you have before it gets boring?

says_harsh_things · 2019-08-13T22:52:18+00:00

Gross

Triadfamilyties · 2019-08-14T02:11:41+00:00

I think that without the internet alot of these guys would just be alone in their houses without any contact with women and I think that this is kinda a bubble that will pop given that the economic conditions that have made sex work such an appealing option for so many women are unsustainable.

analt223 · 2019-08-14T04:06:29+00:00

Online beta providers became a major thing due to social media for sure. I know plenty of women on twitch who don't realize this, but the men that sub to them are secretly hoping it will lead to a relationship or something. Almost all women on twitch are "omg im single". No, they arent. Most are dating, they just know appearing single is part of the gimmick.

Go look at how much the donations stop when a man enters the real life of the woman. Its an odd time.

grand_tiremaster · 2019-08-14T05:02:43+00:00

What do I think of it? I think the guys are losers.. but I gotta hand it to the savvy business minded women who are making bank off of the loneliness of losers.

It's fucked up but at the same time brilliant. I would 100% sell nudes/nude cosplays to losers, if I didn't have morals or want a normal life. I feel that being that kind of woman totally ruins your chances at getting a good husband type of man. The good ones out there don't want to share you.

Zippo-Cat · 2019-08-14T05:11:33+00:00

We all know beta providing is a romantic and sexual strategy for a lot of men, but that has always been something done only in real life up until recently. Now men are throwing money at women in the internet without even hopes of getting anything in return.

It's almost as if you have it wrong and beta providing was never a "romantic and sexual strategy".

celincelin · 2019-08-14T07:13:51+00:00

Well, somebody posts on PornHub comment section too.

Some of us are just weird like that.

[deleted] · 2019-08-14T11:51:28+00:00

These men are pathetic, on a lot of occasions I just feel that my gender has become bunch of pathetic idiots.

HiDefFX · 2019-08-14T16:10:02+00:00

Dudes are online buying bathwater from chicks online. I honestly lie awake at night and think about how far we've come from pretending to be a girl in an MMO to get in game items.

I am at the point where I just don't think anything of it and people can do that shit if they want to. If it continues then let it, as long as I'm not doing it then I don't believe I should have a stake in it.

poppy_blu · 2019-08-14T02:16:23+00:00

It’s not new. Men have always paid for companionship and for fantasy in addition to paying for sex.

Men are not paying cam girls or stuffing 20s in g strings of strippers because they think they’re providing. They’re paying for an uncomplicated fantasy of how deep down they wish women could be — always willing, loves only what he likes and begs for more, and caters to his ego.

Title	Online beta providers
Author	ColCrin
Upvotes	17
Comments	189
Date	August 13, 2019 6:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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