Which situation is worse:

Dateless: You can't get dates, and you get rejected every time you try to get any intimacy. Maybe you'll have luck in a decades when someone settles for you. Meanwhile, however, your job situation is great and you live comfortably. Your finances are great.

Jobless: You are a hs or college graduate but you can't get a job. You spend most of your time looking for jobs. You are going into your savings and you're in a lot of debt. Meanwhile, however, you have a partner and you can get them quite easily. They don't mind that much that you're unemployed, but they stay with you anyway, but you're not mooching off them or living with them. Even if you break up you can still get dates easily and your prospects don't mind that you're unemployed (although you're not gonna mooch off them either). You have a very cheap crappy apartment and you often question if you'll be homeless soon.