So a lot of women seem to recognize that most men hold a misogynistic way of viewing women and the world around them, and they execute it in the most toxic masculine manner that they are actually proud of, right?

So, why is it so hard for women who reply with such a backward argument to comprehend that "good men" - who see them as equal and even work towards equality and on themselves in general to be a good fellow human being - would be treated badly and despised by the majority of men?

Those men are looked down on by other men who think of them as "not masculine" and "betas", and are viewed and treated by women like any other man, based on the "men will always be men" argument.

Edit:

What I mean by support is at least acknowledging their goodness by simply treating them like you'd treat any good girlfriend of yours, uplifting them, trusting them without prejudice because of their gender, and being charitable to them and understanding that they're trying to change the literal programming that they grew up with instead of waiting for the slightest inconvenience.

NOT starting a movement for them on behalf of them. That's a silly thing that no one is actually demanding

Edit 2:

There's no world where the equivalent of feminism for men is a thing. Men never went through gender-based discrimination and they are not oppressed for that to happen. Any talk about that is irrelevant