Where do we as a species go from here?

[There is a little bit of controversial language in this post, but please bear with me...]

If women cannot overcome thier hypergamous nature, and a large portion of men cannot raise themselves up to be deemed as suitable partners. Then where do we as a species go from here?

I spent a long time thinking about this and cannot come up with any good answer that would be ethical to all parties involved.

The social (and largely religious) institutions which deliberately implemented monogamy are quickly disintegrating. The rapid downfall of this cultural paradigm has led to a re-examination of all our moral values, a process which we have not yet completed.

Monogamy isn't (and never was) the natural state of human relationships so naturally it is a moral process that is now under scrutiny. The concept of one woman being paired with one man for life was only adjudicated into our moral vocabulary relatively recently. With the earliest records of "marriage" being a scant few thousand years ago in Mesopotamia. And even then, there isn't much proof it was a widespread practice.

Even if you don't exactly see hypergamy as an issue, I think most of us can agree having lots of permanently single men with no incentive to participate in society is a very bad thing.

This is a discussion which does eventually need to happen on a large scale. And a solution does need to be formulated. But what exactly that is, I have not the slightest clue.