this is a skill to practice to perfection. because when the moment comes, fumbling around with a bra clasp will splash icy, uncomfortable water over an otherwise perfect sexual routine.

i'm posting about this because i was reminded this weekend with two different girls about how awesome/critical this little detail is.

when i was able to unhook the bra effortlessly with one hand, each girls reacted differently but both very positively that led to even more passionate kissing, teasing by kissing/licking her breasts and then amazing sex.

one of the girls reacted more innocently and asked if she should be worried that i can unhook a bra so easily, suggesting that i am a player. i could have denied this by trying to appear to be a nice guy, but i've learned that the "agree and amplify" technique works wonders to continue escalation/flirting. i just joked that i have a closet full of bras that i practice with every night, and she enjoyed the joke and continued making out with me.

here's a fairly mediocre how-to video on the topic. if you guys know of a better one, share it below. (by the way, the only non-creepy way to practice this is to do it on actual girls.)