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[–]adertinaFDS Newbie756 points757 points758 points 6 years ago (44 children) | Copy Link
im sorry but dick cannot be that good
[–]xButFirstCoffeexFDS Newbie[S] 223 points224 points225 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I concur lmfao
[–]bqluoeoednFDS Newbie178 points179 points180 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dick itself can never be that good.
[–]kre995FDS Newbie114 points115 points116 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I don't get why men think so highly of their dicks - like, dude, your dick can easily be replaced even by a vegetable, it's nothing special!
[–]TigreImpossibileFDS Apprentice67 points68 points69 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dicks are a dime a dozen. Market value extremely low.
[–]TheWarmestHugzFDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Best thing is, the vegetables don’t complain afterwards.
[–]junesunflowerFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is amazing, I’m saving this one!
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[–]redpeithosFDS Apprentice35 points36 points37 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Who needs to pay for dick pics when women get unwanted dick pics anyway?
[–]PostcardtoalakeFDS Newbie56 points57 points58 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lesbian seconding this
[–]CSardothien_1FDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I concur.
[–]xosunnybunnFDS Newbie61 points62 points63 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
18 dollars a month is all men see to watch women on onlyfans?
aghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
[–]radical__daphneRuthless Strategist38 points39 points40 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Apparently the market is saturated
[–]adertinaFDS Newbie24 points25 points26 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Needs to be just blank checks tbh
[–]xosunnybunnFDS Newbie65 points66 points67 points 6 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Truly
It's a luxury for a beautiful woman to smile at a man
18 dollars...
That is barely a meal at an middle class restaraunt...
[–]wedgetailhawk0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What the fuuuccckkk 😂😂😂😂
[–]JozyAltidore0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Supply and demand yo
[+]SaltwichPickmeisha™️-92 points-91 points-90 points 6 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link
“Not to come off as _________phobic...”
Proceeds to make needless low key phobic comment about said group
[–]xosunnybunnFDS Newbie54 points55 points56 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
this is how things are here
we are allowed to not spare the feelings of one good dick
[–]KatVanJetFDS Newbie67 points68 points69 points 6 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Heterophobia isn't a thing lmao get a grip
[–]radical__daphneRuthless Strategist27 points28 points29 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
But buut... She's straight! How else will she play the victim on the internet?
[–]KatVanJetFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dang....can't she....idk....pretend she's 1/18th of some minority??
[–]radical__daphneRuthless Strategist0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cherokee princess great-great-grandmother!
[+]SaltwichPickmeisha™️-24 points-23 points-22 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
It is a thing, and it's wrong. It may not be a social problem, heteros may not suffer institutionalized discrimination or persecution, but it's still wrong. If you believe it's ok to say pejorative stuff about one group for a physical attribute or orientation that they can't change, you're just making things worse for everyone. You send the message that discrimination its self is ok, you just have to target the "right" people. If you actually care about making the world a better place, you won't tolerate ANY kind of discrimination even against people who aren't currently suffering widespread persecution.
Honestly I shouldn't even have to tell you this. Stop being an asshole and use your head, ok? Fuck.
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[+]SaltwichPickmeisha™️-17 points-16 points-15 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
1) We aren't labeling ALL men as being LVMs, we're teaching women to weed out the LVMs so we can find good partners. I don't really see how we can be any more specific about that, we even named ourselves Female Dating Strategy. 2) Being a "LVM" low value male is not an attribute or orientation. It's a choice. These men make choices to be assholes and treat women like shit. They know what they're doing is wrong, they don't care.
Look, I'm not going to argue with you about this. I did my part, I called out needlessly discriminatory language. If you want to jump through mental hoops to justify making/supporting pejorative comments about sexual orientation, because your ego is sooo fragile it can't even handle being told you're wrong by a fucking stranger on the internet, then that's your problem.
GOODBYE.
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[–]blackredrosepetalsFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
wow. do you understand what oppression even is? it’s not someone making a joke, or preferring a certain genitalia over the over. it is widespread power one group has over the other on a social, political or economic scale. there really is no arguing with your level of stupid if you genuinely think straight people are oppressed due to their sexuality. no straight person needs to worry they will be killed or disrespected for the simple fact alone that they’re straight. certain women being able to earn a few extra pounds on an only fans is not an example of fEmALe or hEteRoSexUaL prIviLeDgE or whatever angle your mentally challenged ass is trying to get at here.
if you truly feel so bad for men that can’t do this, then how about YOU go pay to see their dicks on only fans. i’m sure they’ll appreciate it. now get the fuck out of here and play the victim somewhere else.
[–]blackredrosepetalsFDS Newbie21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
calm down. it was a joke. honestly, anyone who believes heterophobia is a genuine thing that straight people actually need to worry about is fucking stupid. stop trying to make drama for no reason, there’s a lot of better ways to use your time. its pretty pathetic you come here just to pick a fight.
[–]adertinaFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t wanna fight but like I could’ve said “not to sound too gay” but that would only work if everyone knew I was, in fact, super into exclusively having sex w women. I felt this was quick, implied I wasn’t straight, and felt less like an attack and more advice from a lesbian
You as a heterosexual (presumably) queen need to know youre not your attraction to men.
You are a queen.
[–]adertinaFDS Newbie29 points30 points31 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wanted the disgust to come off as a me problem to make my point less attacking.
[–]radical__daphneRuthless Strategist23 points24 points25 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Imagine being this delicate when you're a heterosexual woman. How embarrassing for you.
[–]Amy3e13FDS Newbie494 points495 points496 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Imagine if you would put all that effort and energy into yourself? Where would you be in 5 years?
[–]faith1357FDS Newbie162 points163 points164 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
THIS. I realised the other day if I'd put half the effort into myself and my dreams that I had put in for my ex I'd be a lot closer to my goals now. Lesson learnt and I'm fully investing in myself now!
[–]Parking-ActFDS Disciple30 points31 points32 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same!!! That's a good way to put it. I'm going to keep this in mind when Im doing my homework from now on.
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s worth it. When I broke up with my ex I didn’t go through the post breakup “glow up” because I was already working out hard at the gym, fixing my appearance and putting in so much time on some nice outfits 🤣 some part of me thinks I already anticipated the split subconsciously. I also felt bad that I wasn’t putting that much work in the relationship but I had to match his energy 🤷♀️
[–]ceilingkatwatchesusFDS Disciple105 points106 points107 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
say it louder for the people in the back sis!!..🗣🗣🗣
[–]Parking-ActFDS Disciple56 points57 points58 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Seriously!!!! I was reflecting on the damn near two years I spent bending over backwards for the ex demon. I realize damn near everything I did for him was because I wanted it done for me, that mixed with me being a romantic.
I am leveling up so much right now! I know exactly what I want now and am working towards it! In just a years time I will be so much more excelled than I was when I was with him.
I had no plans for myself when I was with him. I was just coasting and catering to him. Now, I have goals and my 5 year plan is so fucking regal!
[–]MaisiebrFDS Apprentice17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Preach! Imagine the opposite too: if you put all your effort into the relationship, where will you two be in five years? I can guarantee that even if you break your back catering to a man, it still won't be sure that your relationship will progress in any way.
[–]nooraaniFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just wanna thank you for this comment. I’ve been single for 6 years now, in that time I got a bachelors and masters degree and now I’m working in a hospital.
I often feel bitter that I’m not partnered but I’m thankful I didn’t let some idiot come along and force me to sacrifice my goals for him.
[–]makotokin012 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Whoa. Thank you for this.
[–]thruwuwayyFDS Newbie505 points506 points507 points 6 years ago (26 children) | Copy Link
Unpopular opinion: men who beg a woman to pay for “presents” aren’t men, they’re just tall ugly children.
[–]_boring_daven_FDS Newbie81 points82 points83 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
they’re just tall ugly children
I just want you to know I laughed at this
[–]girludontbringhomeFDS Newbie104 points105 points106 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
My ex tried to get me to buy him a pair of expensive shoes a few months ago. I played dumb with him to see how far he would go and this man legit texts me the link and his shoe size. It made my blood boil.
[–]thruwuwayyFDS Newbie95 points96 points97 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
LMAO the fucking nerve. Men punish simping in other men but demand it from their female partners. And I’ll bet he never sprang for a pair of Louboutins for you, either.
[–]girludontbringhomeFDS Newbie67 points68 points69 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He really thinks he’s hot shit because he dated me and then was the one who dumped me. I feel stupid for letting his ego get so inflated. I was young with low self esteem when I was with him so I accepted his shitty behavior and looks (I should have dumped him tbh), but now I know better and know that I am way out of his league. He only asked me to buy those shoes for him because he thought he still had a hold of me and tried to take advantage of that. Boy was he wrong, so pathetic.
[–]LittleBoBooBooFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ughhh my fucking ex did this shit. i got a job as a fucking phd student (which are unbelievably low paying but at least I had a steady income) while he was still in pharmacy school and he'd ask me to buy shit for him all the time. and I FUCKING DID!!!!!!!! SMDH
[–]leftclicksq2FDS Newbie56 points57 points58 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Remember that idiocy referred to as "Steak and Blow Job Day"? That's what OP's submission reminds me of. I haven't seen anything about it in a few years, so maybe it died out!
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[–]kahootofficialFDS Newbie93 points94 points95 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Another reason why I’ve divested, people say I’m judgmental but I don’t care: grown men obsessed with video games is a TURN OFF. They seem to love 2k so much they’d turn down sex with their actual girlfriend, I’d much rather try new things like camping or paddle boarding or any “white” activity than sit behind a man playing the same game.....every day.....for hours on end
[–]ceilingkatwatchesusFDS Disciple158 points159 points160 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
This. all day, everyday. Most black men act very childish and are boring. Just speaking from my exeprience. I' m an very outdoorsy, active female. Whenever I suggest camping, hiking, etc. I always get asked if I'm white.... I can go on and on like 🙄i can👏🏿not👏🏿
[–]degnan1214FDS Newbie98 points99 points100 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You love being outside in nature and they denigrate you for that? Ridiculous! Not liking the outdoors and the natural beauty all around us is LOW VALUE.
[–]ceilingkatwatchesusFDS Disciple62 points63 points64 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I pay them no mind and continue living my life with my cats and friends.
[–]shadowwhoreAt-Risk Pick Me Youth75 points76 points77 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
They act like this but are weirdly hypermasculine and expect you to respect them or be submissive, all while they're largely dependent on the women in their lives.
Ironically despite being a black female myself, I haven't been approached by black men to attest to their feelings on outdoorsy things(I feel like being dark skinned and living in LA has something to do with it, which is also ironic because it's mostly nonblack and traditional minded men who approach me) but I can agree from observing the men in my lives that outside of older men their interests are mainly goofing off, sports and video games. They also exhibit the most LVM attributes and popularized the going half, simping, lack of any interest in marriage or committment and all the other things popular misogyny in the manosphere these days.
[–]ceilingkatwatchesusFDS Disciple35 points36 points37 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Gurl. It's all over the world. I currently am an Expat in an Asian country. They still the same over here as well ahahahahahahah. Black men from all nationalities, still the same and honestly it's most men that I have come across over here. Mostly, black men and other LVM out side of our community.
[–]shadowwhoreAt-Risk Pick Me Youth22 points23 points24 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's so unfortunate. I try not to sound like one of those black men that down black women all the time, but it just seems sooo many black men just do not hold the values I hold dearly.
[–]PostcardtoalakeFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hoteps yo
[–]gigababejflFDS Newbie59 points60 points61 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm so embarrassed bc I have no argument to offer and everyone can see this. This PS5 meme is not cute to me for this very reason and I see nothing funny about it
2 days ago I saw a tweet go viral. It was a black guy who took a snapshot of someone he labeled Lawyer Chick. She sent him $1k for the PS5. He wrote back saying it didnt cost that much and she said it's for games and accessories too
He made sure to write back that he is still not her man
The comments went wild with a lot of dudes joking and asking for the same and people shaming her for being so thirsty. A lot of bw were against this of course but you know pick mes were working for free all in there.
It was just ..embarrassing
[–]shadowwhoreAt-Risk Pick Me Youth24 points25 points26 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I saw that and aside from the pickmes just...why don't black men have any shame about this? Is it from the pimp culture that's been popularized in music?
[–]StrawberryMoon3FDS Apprentice5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is so true.
[–]Mayonegg420FDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Girl YES! I’m like.... where they do that at? Is it Christmas? Ramadan? Valentine’s day? Why do men expect presents just because it was released and what does hat have to do with their girlfriends? Lmao
[–]PostcardtoalakeFDS Newbie43 points44 points45 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was told from an older uncle figure cop that “black women love their sons and raise their daughters.”
That stuck.
[–]frogbcool431 points32 points33 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Abso-fuckin-lutely.
[–]mermaid-babeFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My co worker told us he’s trying to push his gf into buy him a PlayStation and even made a joke like “she thinks we’re gonna play together.” I wanted to throw up. She apparently makes way more then we do but I couldn’t imagine not sharing and being happy to with someone that bought me an $800 toy ??
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tbh I’ve never heard of anyone buying their bf a console, is that a new thing?🤣
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist277 points278 points279 points 6 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
Pickmeishas are currently in a race to the bottom
Next gen will suffer the biggest consequences of that...and we already know how that's affecting the dating market rn with these below average spoilt rotten pornsick princess men who can't lift a finger
That's why the militant tactics of FDS are needed!! All hands on deck!
[–]adertinaFDS Newbie82 points83 points84 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Getting myself into shape, attention isn’t worth giving up my throne 👸🏻
[–]sadcelloFDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hopefully they wisen up as they get older and their daughters learn not to be like her.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think they next gen of women are waking up? I think the millennial women took the biggest hit.
[–][deleted] 217 points218 points219 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Doesn’t sound fun to me. It’s wild how women are the ones expected to sacrifice that much, and for what? Literally, for what??? Women are entitled to also ENJOY their lives and not suffer. At the core of a lot of misogyny and tradition is believing we all (especially women) need to ‘suffer’. PSA, that’s totally made up to oppress us, and we don’t. We deserve to be truly happy, enjoy life, and our partners (if we decide to have them).
[–]terrn1981FDS Newbie76 points77 points78 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We are supposed to "sacrifice" - be angels that care only about others, otherwise we are selfish, a bitch, a nag, a c*nt...miss any??
[–]LittleBoBooBooFDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
it's CRAZY how ingrained this is. I literally feel guilty whenever I'm happy/having fun, as if I'm doing something wrong. Definitely comes from my parents (or at least my mom) who believed women should be as miserable as possible and give 1000% to everyone but themselves in order to be "worth" something
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[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ew. No offense to teachers on here, but that's a job that pays a crap salary for new employees (at least in the US). He wants you to have a "nice girl" job so you can babysit his daughter over the summer and cook meals for him after work.
You hit the nail on the head!
[–]sushiwalrusFDS Newbie89 points90 points91 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yep. I bring absolutely nothing to the table. I decorate the table that’s already been built. If you aren’t capable of building a table, bye. If you’re capable but want me to do the labor for you, bye. I refuse to lower my standards.
[–][deleted] 51 points52 points53 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I decorate the table that’s already been built
That's the best piece of advice I've ever heard summed up in to such a short sentence. Kudos
[–]sushiwalrusFDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As single women we already have our own damn tables. These idiots are insane if they think we will leave the tables we worked hard on to go help them build theirs. Fuck off lmao. I’m only leaving my table if you have a significantly bigger, better table that benefits me. If it’s a table that’s equal to the table I already have why would I abandon my table? If it’s shittier than my table why would I abandon my table? Men are truly delusional.
[–]PostcardtoalakeFDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is magic
[–]LittleBoBooBooFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
hahaha i love that.
[–]AnonPinkLadyFDS Apprentice83 points84 points85 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Christ women that give men threesomes and still insist that the guy loves them are so. Sad.
[–]blackrain89FDS Newbie112 points113 points114 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The craziest part is they do all that and still get cheated on
[–]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist35 points36 points37 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly right! If you’re going to have a relationship with a man, as a woman, make it work for yourself.
Work on your goals, and have that time apart. He’s gonna cheat anyway, sis. If he uses you not being available enough as an excuse, it’s literally just a cop out.
[–]noavocadoshereFDS Newbie62 points63 points64 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
who knew the ps5 would be the breaking point?
[–]gigababejflFDS Newbie63 points64 points65 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just want everyone to note how many upvotes this has while in other subs, men are literally saying that the standards are too high and women don't have to do anything and are ungrateful.
Let me go ahead and save this thread.
[–]eatchickpeasFDS Newbie59 points60 points61 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
men make women pay for bills even if they cook/clean/raise children full-time?!?! this is wild lol
[–]ObserveTheSpeedLawFDS Newbie78 points79 points80 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hop on over to /r/relationships & /r/relationship_advice and you’ll see the aftermath of the pickme lifestyle. Forever girlfriends, multiple children, boyfriend doesn’t work and won’t care for the kids, won’t do housework, just plays video games all day and expects sex on demand even though he rarely showers. Oh what ever may I do to get through to him? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
It hurts my soul to know that so many women are supporting these LVM’s and receiving nothing but grief in return. Yet they keep having babies? So many of these posts will say they have 2 kids and 1 on the way, and in addition to the fact he won’t work and won’t clean or care for the kids, he also has a “best friend” who is his ex girlfriend that he talks to allll the time and spends nights at her home.
So many women today have zero standards for who they allow access to their lives and bodies. Literally, it’s free to ride, anyone is welcome! Just line up as I bend over! Tons of these guys don’t groom properly and expect blow jobs when they have shit hanging from their ass hairs—one post the gal said he tasted like stale sweat and urine and she still finished him off. How TF can we raise a stronger generation? I have a little girl and I’m terrified of raising a pickme. I will have failed her.
Dude! I banned myself from visiting those subs. How many times have you seen where a pickmeisha starts to give advice and to establish credibility she states that she’s been in a 7+ year relationship 🤦♀️
[–]saint-jezebelFDS Newbie80 points81 points82 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I cringed the entire time. Like, you’re paying half AND have to supply the entertainment. Omg.
[–]Caspian-seaFDS Newbie55 points56 points57 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is so tragic - and will only get worse, as others said, since pickmeishas are lowering the bar ever further into hell... only when you thought it couldn't get worse...
[–]ChobyoFDS Newbie21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Its a devils circle, they lover the standards and guys being guys, underperform even more to not have any expectations on them.. which leads pickmeishas to continue the lowering..
Truthfully: Its always better to be single than being together with someone who doesnt meet your standards.
[–]ErikaNaumannFDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If I'm with a man, he better get ME a ps5
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[–]ErikaNaumannFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is a women's sub, you are not allowed to post. Fuck off.
[–]JarJarOnAStick1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm sorry. My question is valid though, in my opinion. No need to be rude.
[–]cremeblushersFDS Newbie83 points84 points85 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’d swallow the ocean before I do half of those things on the list lol
[–]outside-perceptionFDS Newbie59 points60 points61 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😬😬😬
Where's the lie
[–]SaitschikFDS Apprentice18 points19 points20 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I love giving men who are used to behavior like this a cold shower and be extra demanding
[–]smolsmollerFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Could you give some examples of what it means to be extra demanding? I am taking notes.
[–]SaitschikFDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
In basically doing the contrary of the above + calling them out when they do something I don't like. Also, I don't stop dating other guys until commitment is established
[–]smolsmollerFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you.
[–]ScarletFate779FDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And they claim they are okay with half and half while bitching the woman works part time and does literally everything else, it’s not even just the upkeep of the household not even the cooking and cleaning it’s arranging everything that happens day to day in a regular household. Making basic appointments is one but the bigger part is REMEMBERING everything you know he will forget.
[–]leftclicksq2FDS Newbie31 points32 points33 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Does this person know the guy who constantly texts my friend for a threesome with his wife? Because she described him to a 'T'.
[–]warinmymind94FDS Apprentice12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For anyone that's getting frusterated with LVM and struggling to keep leveling up, sometimes thinks or misses an ex, sometimes almost wants to send that text instead of blocking him... just remember ITS HARDER AND MORE EXHAUSTING To be a pickmesha. I cant even imagine how these women do his housework, cooking, cleaning, and are somehow still in the mood to give him blow jobs and sex after being his maid all day. They happily go Dutch and even pay for expensive gifts or dinners or whatever the guy wants when the guy doesnt even want to drop $20 on a lousy cubic zirconia necklace from the clearance bin at j c Penney. Wow. Then being told that she is needy and clingy and too sensitive. Imagine being a pickme and dealing with all of this only to be told that he doesnt like what you cooked and that hes going over to the guys or gonna ignore to.play video games all day even though its nice out and you wanted to go to the park and beach! It's a lot less exhausting to put that time and effort into yourself and leveling up. You rarely if ever will let yourself down. Next time you find yourself struggling and thinking should I block his number, well maybe I should cOmMuNiCaTe just imagine that horrible life as a pickme and take yourself out to eat or take yourself shopping instead. Buy yourself that nice dress, or have a glass of wine and a nice hot bath.
[–]SorayaSevenFDS Newbie32 points33 points34 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I could have a V-8 instead. LOL!
[–]badnewsbroad76FDS Newbie89 points90 points91 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men are rendering themselves obsolete. Any woman can go buy a sex toy that will give them much better multiple orgasms without the risk of pregnancy, disease and having to put up with men's stupid bullshit. If they want children, they can go to a spermbank. If they want a fun night out or companionship, they can hang out with their girl friends. Men bring nothing to the table anymore but, endless dumbassery..too much cost and risk with a very low payout
[–]VaporwaveVampirePickmeisha™️20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Your presence is your present :)
[–]ChoiceMarionberry8FDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's not always easy to be single. But almost every woman I know in a long term relationship with a man is miserable, resentful and exhausted. None of the men do even close to half of the housework and child care, and a lot of them don't work out of the home either. Like what exactly is the point then? If a relationship isn't going to add something to my life, forget it. What are women getting out of these relationships? Certainly not a partner. Dick? I can find dick in five minutes, and men try a lot harder for a stranger than they do for their wives or girlfriends. Women are pressured and guilted and frightened into settling down with men because it's the only thing that works. Unfortunately, it's very effective on a lot of women.
[–]OnMyQueenVibeThrowaway Account22 points23 points24 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel this in my soul.
[–]jojosbabymomsFDS Newbie25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sex will never be that good for me to lose my dignity like that......omg
[–]LattikaFDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Going half on bills as you're both doing a double income no kids deal seems fair to me... then again I live in a city where you're paying 650 a month for a room. A ROOM.
Also how tf does somebody get in an arrangement where they "have to" have a threesome every 4 months? In my personal experience, threesomes just sort of happen and it's never if any of you are engaged in anything serious. Some pickmeishas are crafting a special sort of personal hell.
[–]AnonPinkLadyFDS Apprentice4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I relate big on the 3 somes part. I cannot stand women that encourage and enable that shit. The ultimate pickmeisha move I mean. COME. ON. He is sleeping with another woman there is no excuse. Those men are hoes
[–]MonsieurRavioli4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This severely reinforced my CF status. Having a child only bonds you to more suffering and the man who you had a child with who, chances are, is also a child. NAH
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Indentured servitude 🤣
[–]hjholter2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just want someone who likes me. Jesus.
[–]i_poop_so_much9010201 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wish I was ballsy enough to share this.
[–]goldengirll27FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
All of this during a time when women are still only making $0.73 for every $1.00 a man makes. Smh NOPE!
[–]coda000 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
No, u don't have to. How bout finding another man?
[–]Shadow7676Throwaway Account5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What happened to "Stay single, sis"?
[–]coda001 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or u can stay single, whatever makes u happy
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