Imagine being a completely average man and thinking a woman needs to “earn” you😒

suspended_animation_ · 2020-07-11T21:27:34+00:00

Single fathers have the audacity to post on OLD. Women don't complain about it nearly as much as men complaining and hating on single mothers.

purasangria · 2020-07-11T21:46:16+00:00

All these broke dudes worried about gold diggers....

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-07-11T21:18:16+00:00

Why does he think any woman would want him. He also seems poor af.

SpookySparkle7 · 2020-07-11T21:42:50+00:00

What is it with men and this "free meal" hang up?? Like bro, I'm pretty sure any woman could easily treat herself to a nice meal whenever she wanted it's not that big of a deal. And I think most women would rather eat a shitty meal alone than eat a nice meal with shitty company...

Also: he's cheating. Thus the video chat only.

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2020-07-11T21:50:00+00:00

You must be in premium physical condition, but also you get no commitment from this guy and he wants to beat you in bed.

sexxxybae · 2020-07-11T21:57:12+00:00

If a man can't afford to take out a woman because he's spending on his kid, he shouldn't be dating. He's not entitled to women

mars888999 · 2020-07-11T21:27:36+00:00

Hmm why didn't he list a single reason of why a woman should "stick around and earn him"?

CharTheCatMom · 2020-07-11T22:23:42+00:00

Ex military, BDSM, non monogamous, and poor.

Wow what a catch. Let me swipe right immediately, I don't want to miss out!

cupittycakes · 2020-07-11T21:23:23+00:00

I watched something once (can't remember the program) about a man who was refusing to date anymore bc women were not putting in effort for him and he was tired of [being a man] having to chase/put in effort.

Face palm🤦

He was legitimately an ugly man as well... GTFOH!

Like yes, he was saving women from getting hit on any longer by his repulsive self... But he was so in denial about why he had REALLY stopped dating

redbirdflies · 2020-07-11T22:01:24+00:00

Dude is so afraid of ‘dine and ditch’ but can’t even afford a decent pair of shorts.

Like I need some abusive ex military scrote to feed me 🙄

Ms_Tilly · 2020-07-11T21:27:02+00:00

This is so pathetic, but I'm glad he put it there so women could swipe left/get rid. A lot of men are smart enough to keep their bad attitudes off online dating. If you're lucky, they show it in the initial messages. I don't use OLD anymore. I'm not sifting through 99.99% shit men in hopes of finding a unicorn anymore.

dntbfllikeidid · 2020-07-11T21:37:18+00:00

You’re*

applestorm · 2020-07-11T22:11:21+00:00

So.... Cam girls only??

SaltKoala · 2020-07-11T22:36:06+00:00

Cargo shorts alone are a reason to swipe left

RavenAva · 2020-07-11T21:35:07+00:00

I can’t handle the lack of punctuation and terrible writing. I personally weed out people if the first impression they give (via social media, OLD, or texting) is that they are uneducated.

AyemHerself · 2020-07-11T22:56:19+00:00

Amazing. Every sentence he wrote is a glaring red flag.

Anne-Lister · 2020-07-11T22:31:01+00:00

Enough red flags to make bunting and that's before you mention the horrocious outfit.

0kfornow · 2020-07-11T22:47:31+00:00

Wow what a turn off. He's obviously been on a bunch of dates where the women have had the good sense not to go back and instead of dealing with his underlying problems he's complaining about the cost of the meal.

JuddHerpatow · 2020-07-11T22:36:27+00:00

He wants all these women to make their bodies and all of risks involved for no benefit, not even a Happy Meal.

asiancountrymusicfan · 2020-07-11T23:03:11+00:00

He doesn’t know the difference between you’re and your I think he has bigger problems than gold diggers using him for a free meal...

PrincessBeefloof · 2020-07-11T21:38:14+00:00

🤮🤮🤮🤮 shitty attitude and shitty spelling and grammar, AND a sprog??! Byyyyyeeee!

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-07-11T23:06:39+00:00

So many fucking red flags here! And then his clothing... Bet he doesn't spend money on his kid either. Did his kid earn it? 💩

mlc269 · 2020-07-12T00:14:02+00:00

Imagine thinking messenger had an “a” in it.

jeanneeebeanneee · 2020-07-12T00:13:29+00:00

Men put up profiles like this and then bitch that they get zero matches. I bet if you asked him to imagine he's browsing and came across this profile, would it appeal to him - all you would get is a blank stare. Scary.

Novemberinthechair · 2020-07-12T00:51:39+00:00

Oh, dude, fuck off.

thepastamancer · 2020-07-12T01:25:27+00:00

"Show me you like me for me"

Um could you provide us with anything likable??

PicklesNBacon · 2020-07-12T00:54:39+00:00

His grammar and lack of punctuation/capitalized letters alone would make me left swipe

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-07-12T00:43:52+00:00

Motherfucker you ain't into health and fitness with those puny arms. You don't deserve the privilege of my dine and ditch.

YesNoMaybe87 · 2020-07-12T01:21:39+00:00

But it’s perfectly fine to sex and ditch us 🙄 hate men

Wait__No__What · 2020-07-12T02:19:21+00:00

He lost me in the 1st sentence. Be open to bdsm?

And he sounds stupid as fuck. No understanding of sentence structure, grammar, capitalization, or punctuation. So to sum up: scrotey, cheap ass motherfucker, stupid, violent, rapey, and an all around entitled asshole with a WAY overinflated opinion of his own worth.

adajoana · 2020-07-11T21:45:13+00:00

Show their faces.

Shame them!

sadpourtoujours · 2020-07-11T22:33:21+00:00

Big lol.

ImPiqued1111111 · 2020-07-12T00:41:04+00:00

Is he trying to give off the impression he's rich with that ugly tile floor?

shmarhar · 2020-07-12T01:38:48+00:00

He's sadly mistaken how to use "your" and "you're." 👩‍💻

degnan1214 · 2020-07-12T02:36:25+00:00

So many repulsive red flags. Ugh.

iwantbrownies3 · 2020-07-12T02:00:46+00:00

That last paragraph barely made sense. Dude really needs to work on his spelling and grammar before demanding so much LMAO

Title	Imagine being a completely average man and thinking a woman needs to “earn” you😒
Author	nr2596
Upvotes	118
Comments	73
Date	July 11, 2020 9:14 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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