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That's the hard part I'm facing- finding an outlet. I've never stopped lifting hard and slaying at work, therefore I'm stuck in a place where I'm feeling like shit but there's no new field I could focus on due to the fact that I didn't get comfortable and slow down before. Gym doesn't give me the "big rush" anymore, since I've been at it for years, I still love it and it has become a part of my lifestyle by now. It's like doing coke for years to the point that the kick makes you feel okay instea…
/r/askTRP23/09/19 09:47 AM
1

/u/Ridabewa , /u/Bestimeshine thank you guys, I needed to hear that to let go of this ridiculous idea to keep me away from the pain I'll experience for the next few nights, cheers.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 10:37 PM
1

You're mixing up preselection and attraction. "Attraction can not be negotiated" applies to relationships with women that already "know" you and once they start losing the spark it's very hard/not worth the effort to ignite it back on
/r/askTRP07/05/19 11:44 AM
1

This is pathetic. Hit the sidebar and start with "There's this one girl" by Matty.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 10:18 AM
13

Whines about being fat, doesn't even post his height, weight and assumed caloric intake. You're a certified retard
/r/askTRP30/04/19 09:20 PM
2

TRP has nothing to do with religion, it's an ideology to help men improve themselves, I guess we can all agree that it has evolved way past only being about the sexual marketplace, women and sex is a byproduct of you constantly improving. A priest can be redpilled. (Aware of the world, accepting the reality as it is, focused on his mission) despite the fact that he can't fuck or that he believes in afterlife and all that jazz. True MGTOW can be redpilled, if he decides to have nothing to do with…
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:41 PM
2

Oh, if you're competing it's different and then even more so this sub won't be of much help to you. When it comes to PCT your bloodwork is the best indicator if you need it or not, but then again, it's relatively cheap, so always having it ready just in case is good. Best of luck at your competition.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 01:54 PM
2

This, there's no point to be messing with sarms only. It's like those guys that run a Test-E only cycle at 250/week, shutting down their natural T while basically having absolutely no benefits of such low dosage + having to follow the same PCT protocol just like they were to run 500/week.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 01:36 PM
19

I didn't make a move, because I wasn't sure if I wanted to, but I knew that I could have. Stop lying to yourself, pussy. Her interest levels were high but dropped drastically due to you being a little bitch that is afraid to escalate. Move on and improve.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 01:05 PM
0

Wrong sub, browski.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 12:46 PM
12

What does her being religious has to do with you approaching her? You two haven't even been on a date and you're already feeding your hamster with imaginary obstacles that might appear in the future. Also, cashiers are nice to everyone so you might be misinterpreting that as IOI
/r/askTRP28/04/19 02:02 PM
13

Throw a coin, how the fuck are we supposed to know
/r/askTRP27/04/19 07:01 PM
61

It's pretty obvious what he's doing and you see right through it. You handled it well by not really paying it too much attention, it's your girls job to shut down thirsty guys and it seems like she's doing just that. Don't worry about the guy, worry about your girl, if she crosses any lines- kick her to the curb.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 03:02 PM
1

Read /u/GayLubeOil posts or just shoot him a message, he'll give you a detailed answer on this topic.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 08:36 AM
13

Shut the fuck up you pathetic waste of oxygen. She didn't make you do anything, you willingly became her orbiter, you willingly came back running after she threw you a bait and you most likely are responsible for her leaving your sorry ass. Get yourself together and start focusing on bettering yourself instead of being such a little bitch
/r/askTRP27/04/19 08:10 AM
10

Do you prefer people calling you a racoon or a trash- panda?
/r/askTRP27/04/19 06:34 AM
3

"Oh yeah, I also throw up after every meal"
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:33 PM
3

Being friends with someone in order to leech out their connections isn't really friendship. But then again, orbiters come up with various rationalization to justify them being in the orbit. Other than that- your opinion here is very popular and widely spread.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 12:03 PM
9

"You're the first girl I've ever spoken to"
/r/askTRP26/04/19 11:41 AM
9

You would know this subs opinion on the topic if you bothered to at least skim through the sidebar. What the fuck is up with all these "Oh I have this controversial idea about male- female dynamic, what do you guys think?" Posts lately, where there's at least 10 threads with in-depth theory on the subject
/r/askTRP26/04/19 11:41 AM
1

I remember having a similar experience a few years ago. I was banging 6-7's and occasional 8's for a long ass time. Rarely approached 9's and of course, I had the perfect excuses for myself "Oh they seem dumb" "I'm good with what I've got" and so on. Then, I met this stunning 9, she was interesting, funny and hot as hell. I won't lie, she made me drop my ball and my provider behavior started showing after a few dates and a bang, which made her cut me off with "I'm sorry, but I'm not looking for …
/r/askTRP26/04/19 10:42 AM
0

Sweet home Alabama
/r/askTRP26/04/19 07:12 AM
2

Setting boundaries will let the girl know if she acts out in a way that crosses one of them- you'll move on, because it's a behavior you don't tolerate in a relationship, that's it. It will remove the "but we're just friends" card from her hand. So if a situation, where she's meeting guys 1on1 happens, you already know what to do, without having to come here for advice
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:45 PM
9

Practice. The more attractive women you talk to, the more attractive women you sleep with, the easier it gets. There's really no mental circlejerk that is more effective than good ol' experience
/r/askTRP25/04/19 07:20 AM
5

If you don't set up boundaries early in the relationships it's no ones fault but your own.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 06:08 AM
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Autism
/r/askTRP24/04/19 12:00 PM
1

Show her a little bit more affection after sex
/r/askTRP24/04/19 11:53 AM
14

Women in love by Rollo sums it up perfectly
/r/askTRP24/04/19 09:48 AM
9

I'm no desperate You sure about that?
/r/askTRP18/04/19 06:43 AM
4

I love how you're making all these assumptions based solely on something as vague as "I think they're interested"
/r/askTRP18/04/19 05:04 AM
4

Well, not really, shit tests are for her to find out if your frame is as solid as you're portraying it to be, disrespect, on the other hand, is to ridicule you, the difference is hard to explain but I believe we all have sensed it naturally. While I agree that you shouldn't cut people off at the first sign of disrespect- that would be stupid, I believe OP is talking about continuously being disrespected and just brushing it off.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 07:27 AM
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It might be that way when you've got no abundance. When you do, you don't simply "let go" of what others have done. You cut them off because while your inner game is strong enough not to react emotionally you also know that you don't need toxic people that try to push your buttons and cross boundaries in your life, because you much rather spend time with people that cause you positive emotions. Plus, stoicism =/= not having self respect. Just because you don't angry ant something it doesn't mean…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 07:11 AM
3

Posts like this perfectly display the dangers of RP for autistic people
/r/askTRP16/04/19 07:04 AM
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By reading the sidebar
/r/askTRP16/04/19 04:17 AM
20

When it comes to online dating and setting up the first date, doing the whole "Meet me at x on y" doesn't really work for me, because A) there's not enough attraction via text for her to jump through hoops for me, because I'm no Ryan Gosling. B) I don't know her schedule, it might not align with mine, so this approach might lead to her declining and then you enter this weird game of "well maybe day Z then?". I almost always ask about their schedules and imply we should do an X activity if we're …
/r/askTRP15/04/19 12:23 PM
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It accomplishes you not wasting any more of your precious time
/r/askTRP14/04/19 07:25 PM
6

Oh hey, you're back at posting this bullshit again. Here's the top post from the previous one /u/MrAgamemnon: He's posting every other day at this point. The details change just a little bit every time. A quick recap: He is BPD. He hates the girl and wants to break up. This chick fucked some other guy, but he didn't want to believe that guy, so he decided that it was actually some other guy fucked the girl... So he was going to manipulate someone and try to "spy" on someone else... The chick is …
/r/askTRP14/04/19 01:54 PM
1

Are you colorblind, because the flags are bright red
/r/askTRP14/04/19 09:20 AM
12

Share what advice you fucking goof? Party street waitresses make their living by flirting with gullible idiots like you. Not only she got you hooked to come back again, she also made your hamster spin out of control trying to rationalize why you're such a pussy "Oh, I was too happy with my progress I forgot to ask her #" "Oh, it was too busy" "oh the timing wasn't right". She gets hit on by 100guys each day, it's in her nature to "flirt". Stop obsessing and focus on yourself so that you don't fr…
/r/askTRP14/04/19 08:56 AM
8

A waitress "flirted" with you??? Wow dude, that's incredible!
/r/askTRP14/04/19 08:49 AM
2

You're the man- take the lead. As long as you get your dick wet every time you invite her out, it doesn't matter who initiates
/r/askTRP14/04/19 05:29 AM
2

Escalate
/r/askTRP14/04/19 05:28 AM
0

Inject T and constantly chew gum. You'll have a shark jaw in about two months
/r/askTRP13/04/19 07:37 PM
2

Hello, Buzzfeed
/r/askTRP13/04/19 12:34 PM
6

I usually ask "what's up" once. If they're still playing games I remove attention and act like nothing actually is up. They eventually break and ramble about what made them mad, then we fuck and cuddle.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 08:23 AM
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The answer depends very heavily on the situation. Since you're the only one here that knows the girl, only you can make the right estimate. You want to punish bad behavior (in your scenario- cancelling the plans and doing your own thing) and rewarding good behavior (her acknowledging her wrongdoings and basically begging to have your dick in her mouth), which also happened. But there's no universal rule on how long a soft next should continue.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:31 PM
5

This is a really poor quality bait, my dude. Step up your game.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:59 AM
4

Oh yes, because all women that want to cheat on their husbands usually add the guy on their social media. Good job showing her you're a stalker. Move on.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 10:46 AM
2

That's what happens when people not ready for LTRs get in to LTRs. He had a naive idea of what an unicorn should act like (in this scenario, not ask stupid questions) but she's not an unicorn, so she's not from his made up fantasy. And he got mad at her for that. It sounds fucking retarded and it is fucking retarded. Stick to spinning plates, OP.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 10:17 AM
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What do you feel about reading the sidebar?
/r/askTRP12/04/19 09:29 AM
1

While reading is great I also believe it can be a slippery slope like video games/tv, just more socially acceptable. If you're reading any kind of material that helps you improve yourself- it's great, even if it's some romance novel that you manage to abstract something useful out of. Now, if you're reading just for the sake of reading and not taking anything from it, it's pretty much the same as spending your time watching a movie you won't remember in a few days. So yes, you're correct about s…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 08:55 AM
7

I really like how you can't contain your autism and get angrier and angrier with every paragraph. "She's such a sweet and unique girl, that fucking bitch HAD the audacity not to sleep with me after I wined and dined her". Just tell her you'll bring your toxic hazard suit and if she flakes again- ghost.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 06:46 AM
4

"Controlling" the dynamic is not worth having to pay child support for the next 18 years you dumb fuck
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:41 PM
2

If you're lifting to boost your ego by putting on 12 plates sure, but if you're doing it like /u/ChadTheWaiter100 for that deep slow squeeze your cheeks will be rock solid
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:25 PM
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DEEP squats and DEEP legpress
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:08 AM
0

It really depends on how you carry yourself, but whenever a new potential plate declines without a reschedule I usually hit her with "people with manners usually offer a time to reschedule". While it can look needy depending if such bold teasing is your natural state or not, it either A) makes her reschedule or B) makes her decline again letting you know for sure she's not interested.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 07:55 AM
2

Pretty much this, acting all beta might fuck up your image in the office. Just tell her you're in a relationship, it will probably make her want you even more, but you'll have a legit excuse (in her eyes), to shut down her attempts
/r/askTRP10/04/19 01:52 PM
1

Read the sidebar you shit-test failing, feminine fuck.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 12:45 PM
2

You shouldn't submit, but it shouldn't be through physical strength, or at least, it should be the very last resort. Because if someone manages to force you to react aggressively (for example threatening to fuck someone up after they shittest you) it just shows your lack of frame. Since you already look like you could rip someone in half all you need to do is work on passing shittests, or basically- banter between guys, you'll be solid.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 12:29 PM
3

Im always ready to fight someone if anyone wants to try me. That's not "alpha". That's you being insecure about yourself always being ready to fuck anyone up who is willing to test your crumbling frame. It's not a good train in any form of relationship. While women do love "bad boys" they love the idea of it- being capable to defend her from any possible threat, even if it's physical, but not actually fucking people up that look at you the wrong way. Confidence is a thin line and you're stepping…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 12:19 PM
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Nice hamster my dude, put a leash on it while you still can
/r/askTRP08/04/19 12:09 PM
2

I've never been in your situation, but my friend was, he used some local hook up forum, with very strict rules on their joint profile. They would both meet the girl for a coffee date first to see if they click. Weirdly enough a lot of hot girls would hit them up and they had quite a few flings as far as I know. But eventually she pressured him in to MFM threesomes which broke their relationship because he didn't like it but still went with it, oh welll.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 12:34 PM
6

You're one bitter bitch. She didn't do anything wrong, you let her toy with you and you willingly became her orbiter. If anything, you should be angry at yourself, thus fueling you to become better.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 06:55 PM
6

If only there was a post named "How to maintain your bitches" that would be cool.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 06:00 AM
1

OP, the hostility may be forewarning that you aren’t fitting in to the society. We either have a different idea of what a hierarchy is, or you just told me not to advise what you just advised. Hierarchical structure in highschool is pretty simple, because physical strength plays a big role there, so you not only get shit tested but also physically checked by shoulder bumps and someone cutting in line to see what you do. How he reacts to this is completely up to him, but it's nothing more than pe…
/r/askTRP05/04/19 12:28 PM
2

No, "hostile" behavior is to check you and make sure where you fall in the hierarchy ladder. New guy bump is you being more interesting to others, because they don't know shit
/r/askTRP05/04/19 12:08 PM
3

Once you involve yourself, you're part of the outcome, too. This is so fucking important, not minding it is the fastest way to be labeled as "that guy", whatever the social situation it might be.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 12:04 PM
5

The difference is, if she left you, she'd never take the responsibility and just put in on your shoulders thus justifying her actions to herself. But if you feel this is the right move, best of luck. Don't neglect yourself and maybe you'll climb out of it without too much trouble.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 09:53 AM
7

You'll never be able to bring and maintain the right attitude to the table. She'll get closure, you'll get even more confused and strengthen your oneitis, which will make the breakup process even more painful. But we all know you'll do it regardless, so go out there and fuck yourself up.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 09:02 AM
1

Your frame is way too fragile to be in a LTR But I still think it's a fucking dumbass thing to ignore a goodbye hug over. This is the dumbest sentence I've read today. While you're right about her throwing a fit for nothing, you're very wrong in letting it affect you. She's a child, hold her hand and tell her she'll soon fall in love with your soft baby cheeks.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:56 AM
3

Did someone cut off your balls or have you always been such a pussy?
/r/askTRP03/04/19 11:53 AM
5

More like she went out on a crappy date with you being too afraid to escalate and decided it's better to go with the other guy, if this is what the market has to offer.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 05:51 AM
2

You too, don't forget to hydrate.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 02:15 PM
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Go for it, who cares, just make sure you're ready for: *The relationship never being as good as you're currently imagining it was *Trust issues *Giving up control *Her having the control *Being pushed towards "the next step" with more force, eventually facing the same ultimatum again. *Making another post after two months about how you fucked up. Recovering takes time, fucking other girls help, but it's not a cure. Dealing with yourself is. But hey, you won't listen, so why even bother?
/r/askTRP02/04/19 02:14 PM
2

Only thing was that it could work out, which means she doesnt leave him. That's it. That's not an indicator of "working out". If Billy stays in a relationship where Stacy fucks his best fried every Thursday, but he doesn't leave her, is it still "working out"? A thing doesn't have to be "non-toxic" to work out. Bad shit can work out too. No, my dude, when we're talking about bad shit in a relationship it doesn't work out. Just because two people are staying in a toxic relationship they're both n…
/r/askTRP02/04/19 02:03 PM
3

Just because some retard posted such idea here it doesn't make it a theory. Women stay in abusive relationships not because they perceive their inadequate partner as "alpha" but because they're codependent and neurotic as fuck. It means that the relationship is never good, it's toxic, the codependent woman always pushes the buttons, gets slapped, retreats and the cycle continues. The man is always on edge, without any control over his actions, or in other words, his frame is basically non existe…
/r/askTRP02/04/19 01:44 PM
1

How do you even know your test levels are low if you can't even find a decent clinic to do proper blood work? Come on, my dude, you can't be that dense
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:25 PM
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"Nah, you're the first girl I've ever spoken to"
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:21 PM
3

While low test can be linked to depression it's usually not the case. Get your blood checked first, before making any assumptions regarding your hormones.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:19 PM
1

Shittest encyclopedia exists for a reason
/r/askTRP01/04/19 07:13 AM
3

Not sure about the kiss, because it seems like there wasn't enough attraction (yet!) between the two of you, but fuck that, congratulations on managing to go out solo and have a good time, that shit ain't easy
/r/askTRP30/03/19 09:46 AM
1

No need to get your head bashed in over a girl. If a mateguarding idiot steps in between the two of you and says something in between the lines of "she's with me"- de-escalate the situation "My bad, enjoy your night", give her a smile and walk away.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 08:00 AM
2

It seems that you're simply upsetti she didn't choose your spaghetti that night. Plus, she was very open about it to get back at you for canceling and it looks like it's working
/r/askTRP30/03/19 06:56 AM
2

To be fair, it seems like you've got absolutely no problem playing the aggressive game, if you feel like it's too much tone it down a bit for the next few dates, and if it doesn't suit you- ramp it up again.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 06:35 AM
8

"Nah, you're the first girl I've ever spoken to"
/r/askTRP29/03/19 01:13 PM
1

They always shittest to see if your frame is as solid as you're displaying it to be. There might be some more pressure since she's "disSapPoINtEd tHaT YOu DiDnT TeXT", so be sure not to get defensive and DEER.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:51 PM
3

Don't stop leading. Hit her up and tell her where and what you two are doing, be prepared for some shittests about not showing enough interest.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:42 PM
6

Do you prefer people calling you a racoon or a trash panda?
/r/askTRP28/03/19 03:38 PM
9

This. "Only text for logistics" mantra is to prevent idiots like OP from shooting themselves in the leg.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:27 AM
3

You're being played, my dude. She throws you a bait and you swallow it like a sperm whale. Congratulations, you're officially an orbiter.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 06:06 AM
4

It's too situational to give you an answer. The only "method" is to escalate and see to what level of escalation is she responding positively.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 05:53 AM
7

It's literally pinned on the sidebar- "CorporateLand", are you even fucking trying?
/r/askTRP27/03/19 11:03 AM
6

You really shouldn't mess with steroids if you can't even find the right sub to post the question
/r/askTRP27/03/19 10:36 AM
0

What's the problem then?
/r/askTRP27/03/19 07:57 AM
-1

Why don't you do some reading yourself? There's a thing called sidebar and it has the shittest encyclopedia.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 07:43 AM
2

Yeah, straight up insult them to make sure they know your frame is fragile as fuck and you've got no idea how to pass shittests
/r/askTRP27/03/19 07:40 AM
2

Most small establishments don't have enough data to store more than two weeks of footage, so it constantly overwrites itself
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:34 AM
2

I don't think it's lack of abundance but your current state. It usually takes some time to fully heal and regain your composure and while fucking other girls is the best remedy, continuously going on new dates might stall your recovery process because you're shifting your focus from yourself on to someone else and new each time. Because a guy of your status and capabilities should have natural sky-high abundance once you're fully over the break up.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:31 AM
6

Rejection always stings to some extent, abundance is not to dwell on it, learn from it (if possible) and continue acting rationally. Oh and, 15 dates in one month solely out of dating apps is a great number, but aren't you burning yourself a little too much, since you're still fresh out of LTR? If it works for you- it's all good, but such tempo might actually do you more harm.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:23 AM
2

What would you do if a guy disrespected you?
/r/askTRP26/03/19 09:22 AM
3

She nexted you, my dude. Accept that you were a little bitch, learn from it and improve. If she's going to approach you for validation and you'll drop your spaghetti by following your plan of telling her "I DiDnt LiKE tHe WaY YoU dISrEspEcTEd me" it's just going to show that she was right and you really are a little bitch. Ignore it ever happened when/if it comes to you two interacting
/r/askTRP26/03/19 09:15 AM
3

It depends, if you're attracted to CP, maybe it's not something you should share. Then again, if we're talking music or other interests that are generally accepted- it doesn't matter. For example I love to listen to gregorian chants when working, it does attract some banter from male colleagues, but that's it, it doesn't affect me negatively in any way shape or form.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 08:52 AM
1

If you need to ask- just text for logistics and escalate throughout the date to display interest.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 05:23 AM
3

Good job on holding frame, my dude.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 05:22 AM
5

What?
/r/askTRP25/03/19 08:36 PM
17

How does it feel to still be in her frame?
/r/askTRP25/03/19 10:52 AM
9

All you do is rationalize. I don't want X, I don't want Y, I dont want Z, because money is not important. Beggars can't be choosers, you don't want things not because you had then and they brought you no joy, but because you DON'T have anything and the only way to get them is to work (It's not just materialistic things, but also all the social benefits having s goddamn career brings you). Your mindset is fucking weak, you're trying to make yourself believe that giving up is the right choice, whe…
/r/askTRP25/03/19 08:38 AM
16

You're pathetic. Not only are you a lazy fuck, you're also stupid enough to think that anything you've just said makes any sense. Yeah, working is hard, get over it and get to it.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 08:22 AM
1

Do you think people are going to read your bullshit rationalization why your situation is different and getting back together is a good idea? Enjoy the shitty relationship you grabbed out of the dumpster and don't post here asking to pass all the newly found shittests in the future
/r/askTRP24/03/19 06:13 PM
25

Trust your gut boyo.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 04:47 PM
6

She's not seeking YOUR nudes, she simply wants to sext since you're away, which is a good sign. Don't send her your noodle, sext with her, make her in to a walking slug until you come back.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 04:46 PM
18

I didn't know racoons knew how to use the computer
/r/askTRP24/03/19 08:16 AM
3

Read the sidebar you lazy fuck
/r/askTRP23/03/19 08:53 PM
2

This isn't your personal blog
/r/askTRP23/03/19 04:55 PM
1

What makes you think we earn our money online?
/r/askTRP23/03/19 10:42 AM
6

E S C A L A T E You're literally doing everything backwards- telling her you want to fuck her through text and then applying no kino IRL, since you "haven't even hugged yet". Get yourself together, that's not how you play the game
/r/askTRP23/03/19 10:24 AM
2

Change your mindset. Whenever I decide to go on a tinder date I don't go there with the intention to sell myself and try to get in to her pants, I go there with the intention to see if she's worthy to hook up with. I crack inappropriate jokes, call them out and pressure flip most of their shittests. While this doesn't lead to 100% success it just weeds out the girls I wouldn't be able to click with.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 08:01 AM
2

A few years ago I met up with my Ex LTR 6 months after the break up, she had some papers of mine that I needed, I was completely moved on at this point with absolutely no desire towards her in any way shape or form. Well, she didn't, and tried to get some sort of closure. She basically told me that after the break up she jumped on tinder and matched with every muscular guy she saw (I've been a gym rat for 6 years, so it's kinda hard to top, but there's plenty of guys more ripped than me). I laug…
/r/askTRP23/03/19 07:57 AM
1

You're right, but I'm sorry, this topic has so much literature that is much more well written and in depth than your post. There's really no need to repeat it, unless it's a summary of a FR.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 06:45 PM
1

If you're sure there will be no potential drama- ghost her without explanation if you feel like it.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 06:43 PM
1

Finding my mission required for me to actually tune in and listen to myself, because I always had goals (I want to own a flat, I want that car, I want that piece of shit Roomba robo vacuum with a surveillance camera I'll never need, I wanna benchpress 3 plates) that I had to grind to achieve. But there was nothing connecting them. I think it was during one of those melancholic train rides after listening to Peterson podcast I listened to myself and decided what I really want to do and I've been …
/r/askTRP22/03/19 03:34 PM
15

You're pretty much fucked. Most of the time BPD's hold their symptoms in check at the beginning of the relationship (because they know their behavior is unacceptable, but there's just nothing they can do to fix it, it's like there are some neurons missing that would connect understanding and acting it out). Once the honey moon phase passes and she "has" you, that's when shit goes down hill. This isn't 100% accurate but to be fair, it's not worth the risk. But we all know you'll "try and see". Ca…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 09:03 AM
2

Can I rent out a spot in your safety bunker?
/r/askTRP22/03/19 06:11 AM
1

Mind your own business
/r/askTRP22/03/19 05:53 AM
1

Yeah, but it doesn't test your frame. Your value is lowered by lack of experience, which you don't have.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 05:26 PM
2

No
/r/askTRP21/03/19 03:39 PM
39

We? Do whatever the fuck you want.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 02:48 PM
3

Don't forget that she still has to be polite to a potentially new hire. It seems that she didn't know he chose not to work there.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 02:36 PM
3

That doesn't sound like a shittest in your given situation
/r/askTRP21/03/19 02:16 PM
1

Isn't exredpill just a bunch of women that lurked the forums but eventually got caught and now are "terrified" by men?
/r/askTRP21/03/19 02:02 PM
1

Cardio has a lot more benefits besides losing weight. If you're also surfing you can change the type of cardio, from X to, let's say, 15mins of incline walking.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 01:14 PM
1

You're doing great, stop tripping.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 01:09 PM
1

How many of the 8's and 9's have sucked your dick? Tinder match count means nothing.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 01:06 PM
2

I'm not really getting it. You saw the messages and in the messages your girl told him that she's inviting you also? That's a good sign, not sure why you're tripping if that's the case. Anyway, it's a good thing you have set the boundary, there's no need to repeat it, she knows it's there and if she crosses it, there's no back-paddling for you- you know what you have to do. I could just tell the guy to meet us straight at the public study place, but if he asks for a ride, im not about to give a …
/r/askTRP20/03/19 07:17 PM
36

Yeah, I bet he's being friends with other people too.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:51 PM
27

No play my dude, the ball is out of your court. Jus do you, maybe they'll reach out, maybe not. Don't linger on it tho.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 04:43 PM
3

Sounds like a shit test, if you always pass them she'll repeat it from time to time just to make sure your frame is that solid and not just a hoax (will you get jealous or not). AA or ignoring is the way to go.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:02 PM
1

Wait, you're trying to say that women don't always act logically? And they sometimes don't ACT like they SAID they would??? That's crazy.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 10:44 AM
1

Judging by your post you've got a lot of internal problems you need to deal with first and it seems that the woman is just making everything worse. Let her go, before you get too attached and fuck yourself over even more. Let go and keep on working on yourself.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 07:30 AM
12

she had experienced very traumatic sexual abuse as a younger girl In theory this girl would make a good LTR partner What kind of theory are you reading, my dude?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:29 PM
2

Sugar boosts you up fast and then crashes fast. Easy to digest carbs, like oats will fuel you (and your brain) up much better. Also, 3hours is a solid amount of time, don't forget to take breaks. Back when I was in uni, study-gym-study was the perfect formula not to burn myself out
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:54 PM
10

This is just pathetic
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:30 PM
12

She's 2 drinks in, probably had 2 extra at the club when you messaged, no wonder she didn't respond. Should've waited until the next day to reach out, not because it's some "rule" but because the timing would've been better.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:34 AM
1

I can't find the post, but some time, an EC gave a great comment on this topic and how "being full alpha" is the way, even though he looked at it not as a continuum, so there was no 80-20. Hopefully he'll see this and give his two cents because I can't be trusted to make an accurate quote.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 04:39 PM
63

My week is always the same... Work night shifts, sleep, eat, go to the gym, shower, eat, head to work. During the weekend I just hang out with friends. But most of them are busy with their girlfriends or only want to party. You're displeased with your current lifestyle therefore you're not happy about yourself and trying to project it on to someone else- in this case, not having a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 08:28 PM
1

That's why snooping is only advised if you're willing to hard next her. Because once you go behind her back there's no way to pull it out without taking a substantial amount of damage to your frame.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 06:13 PM
1

This is where covert communication comes in to play, in my opinion. A girl does something that doesn't fly by you, you covertly express your displeasure while still being able to deflect any accusations and maintain frame, it can be an eyeroll, different intonation, extra second of silence. And then you begin to imply dread. Because I also think that dread without a reason known to both parties won't have a positive effect (for example if you're snooping her messages behind her back and then dre…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 05:54 PM
292

TRP is uncomfortable because it puts all the burden of life on your shoulders and to accept it means to accept that you're a fucking failure that needs to improve. Not everyone wants to do that
/r/askTRP16/03/19 09:52 AM
9

You've made a grammatical mistake. She's an ex girlfriend now.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 09:20 AM
8

Stop rationalizing her behavior, and stop lying to yourself. You're not confused about the weird text, you're not sure if she's fucking someone else and it butters your egg rolls. At the end of the day, it doesn't matter, she's just a plate, right?
/r/askTRP15/03/19 01:30 PM
2

That's because 80% of the questions can be answered by reading the sidebar. This isn't relationship advice sub nor is it TRP Q&A. Don't expect to be handfed and do the work yourself
/r/askTRP15/03/19 12:55 PM
48

"Yeah, that's why I date women"
/r/askTRP15/03/19 12:53 PM
2

It doesn't matter if you respect your managers or not, it's about trying to compete with them, as long as they have power over you there's no benefits to prove to your colleagues or the manager himself that you're better than him, that's a stupid move. Now, displaying your skills and competency to someone that can kick the old manager out and assign you as the new one is the right way to go. You gotta follow the rules to climb the ladder.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 11:06 AM
1

You don't
/r/askTRP15/03/19 09:35 AM
16

Are you vaccinated?
/r/askTRP14/03/19 05:20 PM
3

That's all that really matters, people are shallow in a nutshell, everything we do is for validation and pleasure (thank you pappa Freud) but raising these hypothetical questions "what would you really do if you were the only person on this earth" is pointless, because that scenario will never happen
/r/askTRP13/03/19 07:25 PM
4

Clear what up for you? Can't you think for yourself, can't you identify your own goals and ambitions? If not, then you've got much more work to do than lifting
/r/askTRP13/03/19 07:20 PM
7

If you're trying to dig deep and find some bullshit philosophical answer- the alternative of not improving is much fucking worse than actually grinding your ass at whatever you do. To accept existentialism is to give up, because yeah, there's no purpose, so what? Are we supposed to soak that in and not do anything with our lives? I'd rather improve myself on all aspects, including physical appearance and have a long lasting feeling of fulfillment at the end of the day than indulge myself in temp…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 06:49 PM
2

If you can maintain frame and emotional stability to demote her- sure.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 06:43 PM
4

She's displaying red flags, the ones you would've seen if you vetted her better. But you didn't, so now you're stuck in a relationship where your partner doesn't respect you. Take it as you want.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 06:38 PM
11

You nagotiated a boundary She crossed the boundary You verbally ASKED her to not to cross it anymore and then DEER'ed afterwards It's time to demote her, my dude. She bashed right through your frame and now you're in hers.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 06:25 PM
-3

Why do you think the most upvoded and popular posts, even the "How to get laid like a Warlord" doesn't really have examples on what to say exactly instead they're there to describe and analyse the situation and what it does to your frame and what your frame should be- because game, or let's just call it social interactions, can not be learned by reading and repeating exact lines, unless you want to come off as Zucc during interviews. Even your notorious "wig" line can be pulled off by an asserti…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 06:16 AM
1

Either listen to what people are saying and get your shit together or stop going. Stop working out and feel the existential crisis that comes with seeing your gains fade and bf% grow, live through the process of deceiving yourself that you still look good and only dumb fucks soend their time obsessing over their physiques, experience the demotivation that comes with realization that you'll need at least 4 months to get back to where you were. Maybe that will teach you a lesson
/r/askTRP16/10/18 07:25 PM
5

Back when I was in uni, I remember taking a bus and noticing a women that had a big ass ketchup stain on her cheek climb in. "Wow, she'd feel so embarassed if she knew what was going on" I thought to myself. The next day, sitting in the same bus, I recalled the incident, the only thing different was- I couldn't even remember how she looked, which mede me realize that people don't actually give a fuck about you as much as you think they do.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 03:48 PM
9

Your problem is at the very essence of you're drive- trying too hard to get laid, thinking too much about your game actually fucks up your play. The best results happen once you stop caring, approaching women because you like the social situation itself, coming in with no expectations but always open to the possibility of fucking, instead of burdening yourself with "calculated approaches" in order to get laid. Take a break from gaming women, heck, maybe even take a break from this place
/r/askTRP14/10/18 12:52 PM
1

People keep forgetting that it's a numbers game out there. It might get a little overwhelming when you read all the FR's of guys seducing and fucking 9's on the same night, what they don't include is the countless flops that happened previous nights. Don't sit on this and move on.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 11:21 AM
6

Stop trying to turn a woman that isn't relationship material in to one that is. All mentally "healthy" individuals know how to behave in a relationship, women especially. She knows she shouldn't be having an active relationship with her orbiters while shes committed to you, but she does it anyway, because you didn't establish boundaries soon enough. She's not really at fault, she's acting this way because you let her. Your mistakes on the other hand are: Bad vetting. Didn't establish boundaries …
/r/askTRP13/10/18 11:36 AM
3

You broke all the rules Didn't screen a woman Argued with a woman Lost temper in front of a woman Showed and capitalized on your weaknesses in front of a woman Didn't establish boundaries Had no control of the relationship DEER'ed Wrote vomit-inducing texts basically telling her why she was right in dumping your pathetic ass. Back to the blackboard my dude, which is the sidebar.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 02:06 PM
9

Hello, brand new member of the red pill lifestyle, please read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 02:00 PM
5

Keep her as a plate for when you'll visit home on holidays. Not as a LDR.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 09:25 AM
0

Yes, a lot of people are feeling like little bitches. Quality post
/r/askTRP13/08/18 05:54 AM
1

Your ego is your enemy. "Hurr durr I want to be her only option,". No, my dude, if she's your plate, more often than not- you're hers, that's the reality you need to accept and not delude yourself with unrealistic expectations.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 05:44 AM
2

I believe whisper has covered the importance of establishing the dynamic very early in the relationship, can't remember if it was a thread or a comment. You are right, you did fuck up by playing the "...you get the second" card and then not following through. The dynamic between the two of you is already set- you pay for dates, she fucks you. If you're not happy with that it's time to reduce attention and only invite her to your place to fuck, until she breaks.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 05:39 AM
4

I get the impression he would screw me over if he thought it would get him higher up the ladder Welcome to the world of grown ups. Either take action to get rid of the pest or maintain frame and don't let it get to you.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 09:22 PM
20

BUT I still don't think I can give her the life that shes living now. I am scared she'd leave me for someone from a wealthier background. Have you even read anything off the sidebar, my dude?
/r/askTRP03/08/18 09:20 PM
1

Hey. And move on with your business
/r/askTRP03/08/18 08:49 PM
5

Next her? Yes
/r/askTRP03/08/18 04:55 PM
5

There's a number of "experiments" where guys straight up ask 100's of women if they want to have sex with them on dating apps. Only like 2% message them back, and even then it's not a guaranteed lay.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 12:30 PM
14

Yeah, it makes you their beloved orbiter.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 10:20 AM
5

Judging by the post, you don't have the confidence to own the fact that you're a virgin. "yeah, it's my first time, hopefully you'll make it memorable" So the next best scenario is to fake it that it isn't your first time.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 08:44 AM
4

Plausible deniability is almost always necessary, unless the girl straight up tells you she wants to swallow your load. LMR is a common phenomenon, gotta learn to move past it, but you also need to know when the stop and try again next date without catching a rape charge
/r/askTRP03/08/18 08:40 AM
1

Then get the fuck out of here with these ridiculous hypothetical questions you fucking egg
/r/askTRP02/08/18 11:15 AM
3

What did you inject? You need to start pct accordingly, based on the amount ant half-life of the drug used. No HCG should be needed. There's also a very high possibility your body will recover naturally if it was only a single injection.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 11:11 AM
5

It's subjective. Only you can tell how fast your body recovers, but, if you've been out of the loop for quite some time I'd suggest to spend the whole week doing very light exercises+stretches to get it going. I haven't skipped more than two weeks of gym in a long ass time, but whenever I do, I jump right back in and suffer the sweet pain of sourness in silence.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 10:13 AM
-1

https://youtu.be/2tM1LFFxeKg Educate yourself
/r/askTRP01/08/18 02:04 PM
3

With a close-to-the-wall woman the relationship won't be able to naturally evolve. She doesn't have the time to be in a LTR for 3 years before planning anything more serious, because her pussy clock is ticking. If you won't put the bun in the oven, she'll find someone that will.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 10:06 AM
2

It means you will be dealing with a constant push for commitment and creating a family. Why would you put on such burden willingly?
/r/askTRP01/08/18 09:48 AM
5

Wall means that a woman will push for commitment and try to create a family with basically whoever is willing at that point.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 09:44 AM
1

Morality is subjective, redpill is not, therefore our personal answers on this topic doesn't matter
/r/askTRP01/08/18 09:05 AM
1

Yes, I know girls don't like guys who smoke but its really just for that look That's pretty cringe my dude.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 07:24 AM
6

You DEER'ed too much. There was no reason to explain yourself, especially to a plate. You left because you were bored, that's it, let hear deal with it. Such action without explanation would've been enough of dread for her hamster to run wild (uh oh, my actions tonight weren't enough to entertain him, what did I do wronnnnnggg).
/r/askTRP31/07/18 04:04 PM
7

disappear until she maybe hits me up? Yes
/r/askTRP31/07/18 11:57 AM
2

What's the issue? Kinky girls are great for finding out what you like/trying out new things.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 10:45 AM
18

Tell her exact date and time. If she plays the "busy" card without a reschedule let her be for a few weeks.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 09:50 AM
19

"Don't worry, I'll do all the heavy lifting" "We can just stretch and get pizza afterwards"
/r/askTRP31/07/18 09:13 AM
4

You're already fucking it up by thinking so much. Just shoot a text via IG and invite her to workout with you (you must outsquat her to assert dominance) if it goes well grab a coffee/drink afterwards. Stop stressing.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 09:02 AM
2

Why would you do that? I have rejected a few women in the past, but not because I was planning on inducing dread, but because I was simply too exhausted to fuck. I guess you could say it had positive results, because they were more eager to fuck in the morning, but I really don't see the need/point of such form of dread.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 12:28 PM
3

Nice bait, my dude.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 11:24 AM
9

I've worked my ass off in order to reduce my ego, that such things wouldn't bother me. If I want to fuck, it doesn't matter if I'm the first or the third option of a girl I'll never see after that night. As long as I'm personally happy with myself and my current value that is on the incline- I don't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 09:35 AM
4

Remove the avoiding women part from your list and you're good to go. You dontt need to completely monk it up if you're not feeling like it. If you're improving on all aspects of your life, there's no reason to neglect game
/r/askTRP30/07/18 09:20 AM
2

I would be interested to hear some opinions on that. What could be the cause of that believe? Too many guys approach them, they get told they are pretty all the time You answered it yourself
/r/askTRP29/07/18 08:48 AM
3

Stop with the theoretical bullshit. Straight out ignoring a woman only works in high school drama shows, where the edgy longhaired vampire isn't capable of maintaining eye contact and it makes the innocent bombshell moist. In reality (yeah yeah, there are exceptions, but we're not about that life) you need to show interest in order for something to happen. The tricky part of it is to maintain your attention at the required level, but it becomes natural once you had enough practice. Be the man an…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 11:47 AM
2

Too little context. He might've drunk dialed in hopes she'll take him back, or maybe he was trying to invite her over, thinking you weren't with her that night. Who knows.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 08:24 AM
8

Posts like this feel like sand in a condom. You're literally doing the complete opposite of what is preached here and still ask for support? What the fuck do you want? To hear that everything is going to be OK? Newsflash- it wont, unless you're willing to man up and get back on the track of improvement.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 08:58 AM
11

You're her girlfriend
/r/askTRP26/07/18 08:07 AM
7

OP said it himself, that RIGHT now he's starting to realize that he was treating her badly I’ve been too alpha/asshole. Everything was my way, with very little comfort from me. I see how I could’ve been a little nicer without being too beta. But at times I just didn’t care, and she was happy to be along for the ride. So if he takes her back and changes his behavior due to his newly found beliefs- she'll dig her claws right in to it.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 12:19 AM
35

You're 24, capable of sleeping with 3 new girls per week. Why would you sacrifice all that just for the wish to have kids someday in the future. She threw the ultimate shittest at you, but you held steel solid frame and showed her the door. Or so it seems, in reality her nuke actually did damage to your frame, I can tell by your hamster running loops. I’ve been too alpha/asshole. Everything was my way, with very little comfort from me. I see how I could’ve been a little nicer without being too b…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 11:57 PM
7

Did this relationship made me a beta? No. You let yourself become beta, because you felt comfortable, thus steering your tingleless relationship in to it's inevitable end. What should I do? Block her and lift (maybe at a different gym than her PT)
/r/askTRP25/07/18 07:06 AM
9

It's completely up to you. If you want to keep the relationship only sexual- switch the dynamic that way. If you want to do some activities together and then fuck- do that. There's no rules when it comes to this, because it's subjective. I, personally, usually like to spend some time with my plates outdoors- hikes, dog walking, museums, movies etc. (Basically activities I enjoy doing alone, but don't mind to be accompanied by a female I find hot)
/r/askTRP24/07/18 04:23 PM
6

He's the son of the ceo, of course everyone will be on his dick.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:30 PM
18

Should I confront her on it and command respect? No. You don't ask for respect. I’m honestly furious and wish to dump this bitch, but feel like I’m way too invested with the lease and a paid vacation coming up. Would you rather deal with the consequences of the break up, or stay in a relationship you don't want to be in, with a person that doesn't respect you? You didn't listen and jumped the gun, thus fucking yourself over. There's no one else to blame.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 12:07 PM
4

Have you even read the sidebar? A high value man has options, so if he dicides to go axe throwing and one of his prospects flakes, it's not a big deal, he just rings another plate up. Worst case scenario- he'll go axe throwing by himself, because he wants to try the activity (not a bad scenario at all). Now, let's move onto micro- communication, telling a girl to come to an X place on Y time shows confidence, assertiveness and the ability to lead, plus, it let's you avoid all kind of bullshit an…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:18 PM
11

Most of us wouldn't get ourselves in such situation, because we'd tell the girl what we're going to do, and invite her to join in.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 03:56 PM
1

Stading up, while you were sitting down was her trying to asseri dominance, but since you stayed in your frame she soon lost it, hence the shaky euet contact.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 12:16 PM
68

How much of a bitch I was when looking back at my past adventures.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 12:14 PM
2

https://youtu.be/nAZkWeRACjs https://youtu.be/cY5k09VpR8s 3 https://youtu.be/BGJ-jR8PSkc
/r/askTRP14/07/18 05:03 PM
3

life coach Use of drugs Pick one.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 04:53 PM
2

If your value is high and you know what you're doing, you can text as much as you want, if you've got the time for it because A) you don't give a fuck and B) you've got enough experience not to flop. The rule is useful and told to a lot of people here, because it decreases the chance of ruining the "relationship" before you even get to meet the girl, because, let's be honest, a lot of people on askTRP are only starting their journey and are doomed to make mistakes.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 10:30 AM
33

"trash" talk between acquaintances isn't a shittest, it's just banter. Gotta learn to take it and throw it right back. Pressure flip in a non insulting tone and manner works the best, but it has to be tactful. Sometimes you'll get thrown a curve ball you can't catch, A&A in such cases.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 10:26 AM
7

Ask her out --> flakey behavior --> 1-2 weeks of nc --> hit her up --> flakey behavior continues --> nc forever
/r/askTRP14/07/18 09:20 AM
1

You are interested in me to go uh 🌚” What?
/r/askTRP13/07/18 10:10 PM
1

Pick a decent route with a nice spot to kick it, stop there to "refuel" and escalate.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 10:09 PM
1

Are you serious?
/r/askTRP13/07/18 11:04 AM
5

Your post seemed autistic and then I saw the "I'm a MGTOW" line.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 09:07 AM
24

Depends Hell no
/r/askTRP13/07/18 08:55 AM
7

Wrap it up regardless
/r/askTRP12/07/18 09:03 PM
42

Anthony is the real MVP, cuts toxic people out of his life like it's nothing. As for you, stop being a bitch and own up to your actions, no matter what they are. You ate the cookie now deal with the consequences (some actions cause irreparable consequences, and when that happens, you need to move on)
/r/askTRP12/07/18 08:55 PM
27

Why are you even thinking about plates at this point, my dude, take care of your health, if they'll break- who gives a fuck.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 11:14 AM
30

Tea, movie, balcony view, collection of X, your dog, your bondage equipment, protein shaker that hasn't been cleaned for 3 weeks
/r/askTRP11/07/18 09:07 PM
3

Don't acknowledge it, don't respond. Behave like you behaved prior to that at the party, don't bring it up. If she asks you whats up simply tell her you've been busy, change the subject, escalate.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 08:01 PM
1

Narrow grip, focus on tightening your upper back and traps, don't be afraid of your knees going past your feet a little bit. That's how Dimitry Klokov does it, and he knows his shit. https://youtu.be/BGJ-jR8PSkc https://youtu.be/a2tycd7W0oI 21:37
/r/askTRP11/07/18 03:24 PM
1

Read the main sub, it's filled with field reports of men maintaining frame.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 10:11 AM
1

of course i don't ask her when she's free, but tell her the when and where Stop taking everything you read here so literally. If her schedule is a mistery- ask her when she's free and then tell her that the two of you are going to X place.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 09:39 AM
3

Validation.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 09:11 AM
0

I contemplate life every day while eating cardboard chicken. Nothing gets me going like a quick existential crisis.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 09:04 AM
1

Well, this situation you described fits my point. You didn't ask, because you casually wanted to know- you asked, because you wanted to know if he has any credibility, but you probably knew he didn't from all the other details, because a man with a high N count knows what he's doing.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 07:51 PM
3

I can't imagine a normal conversation between two males where it casually reaches the question "what's your N count" where neither of the parties are trying to measure their dicks. For your N count to be high your smv has to be high therefore people don't even ask, they automatically assume that you get laid, that's why guys that talk about how many chicks they've banged, or use the line "Ugh, I'm just tired of ONS, I want someone to connect on an emotional level, you know" when talking to girls…
/r/askTRP10/07/18 07:41 PM
2

Search engine is your friend https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2w2ine/longterm_relationship_game_theory_a_beginners/
/r/askTRP10/07/18 04:00 PM
5

Check your frame my dude. Your verbal slip up just goes to show that you don't really know what you're doing. You tried to verbally express abundance, which is mistakr #1, and then you don't even walk your talk- instead of getting with "plenty of other girls" you're stuck thinking about this one, which is a mistake #2.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 12:48 PM
2

What the fuck are you talking about. If you don't want to ltr a man with a high N count- don't. It's a subjective choice
/r/askTRP10/07/18 10:52 AM
1

High N count of a female, for some people, is a redflag when it comes to LTR's (pair- bonding, commitment, alpha widow, cock stare and so on) And there's nothing to argue against, because it's subjective.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 10:39 AM
9

Basically become as stoic as possible. You're not in control and therefore not responsible/phased by the actions of other people, you can only control your own actions and emotions. So if your plate goes MIA and reaches out to you later on, you don't become an asshole saying something inbetween the lines "I dont give a fuck that you ghosted me", because you actually don't give a fuck and there's no reason for you to verbalise it- you simply invite her over and bang, as if the MIA period never ha…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 12:38 PM
2

Own it. You deserve all the good things happening, because of all the work you've put in to better yourself. This is now the norm- don't settle for anything less.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:24 AM
1

What's your question?
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:14 AM
12

"Hey guys I've been red pilled for 10 years but I'm still going against the core principles of TRP, please help" Fuck you.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 08:59 AM
5

Well,.when I approach a new subreddit I escalate by reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 08:44 PM
3

If you're not fucking her- you're not doing it right. Approach and escalate after the first exchange of prolonged glances, don't just stare her down to death.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 08:41 PM
3

I'm new here so go hard on me. Go hard on the sidebar
/r/askTRP08/07/18 02:38 PM
9

recently got back together with the ex. Are you a raccoon? Stop digging through the trash
/r/askTRP08/07/18 07:47 AM
11

Go out and pull instead of indulging yourself in such theoretical bullshit
/r/askTRP08/07/18 07:46 AM
9

No. If you say a compliment, because you want to and not because she wants to hear it, it won't do you any harm, because your thought process goes like this "I really like her X, I'm going to tell her" instead of "Oh, I want her to like me, I guess I should compliment her on her looks, because bitches love that"
/r/askTRP07/07/18 07:38 PM
1

By not having autism and being able to grasp the most basic concepts of interpersonal communication.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 02:47 PM
3

There's no point in salvaging a sexless relationship
/r/askTRP07/07/18 09:16 AM
13

You don't.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 08:50 AM
4

Respect your bus driver, don't skip classes, do your homework, don't cuss. Girls love that shit.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 06:56 AM
2

It's not about your emotions. It's about making a woman feel them, teasing, escalating, push-pull and so on.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 06:55 AM
0

Posts that get put on the front page require some effort, they need to be relevant, structured and informative in order to reach any kind of success. You chose to write about a topic that can not be simply based on your opinion, so you need to get back to the drawing board and do some research instead of trying to come up with bullshit excuses like "hey guys, this is just to kickstart the train of thought" what would qualify you to deem the ideas i put forth as bullshit are you by any chance exp…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 11:31 AM
-2

Yes, you're entitled to having an opinion, you're not entitled to sharing your idiotic ideas, especially about subjects that require a more scientific take on things, without providing anything to back you up. This isn't your personal blog where you can get away with "IT'S MY OPINION" when posting made up bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 11:04 AM
8

"I'm no scientist but let me scientifically speculate about things without providing any sources to back me up"
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 10:49 AM
10

Download the sidebar and don't come here until you're done reading it.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 10:36 AM
2

What the fuck are you talking about. No man wants his girl to get fucked by another dude. TRP doesn't preach that, but it preaches abundance- if, your girl got piped down by another man, you walk away and don't look back, because AWALT.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 09:20 AM
22

What's your question exactly? You're not capable of maintaining a LTR, which is fine, but that's how it is. You're seeking maximum individual happiness and being in a LTR seems to be getting in the way, move back to spinning plates and don't cave in, because the relationship is over. She wants you to be her BB, and you're not about that life.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:36 PM
1

Are you colorblind?
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:33 PM
5

Don't respond Stop overthinking. You got your fwb back and you're moving on with your life. Enjoy.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 07:46 PM
2

I believe nofap is bullshit. Rubbing it out once a week, without porn, to release the pent up tension is the way to go (especially if your T levels are on the higher end of the spectrum and you become "animalistic" after a few days of not letting it out) Now, regarding the girl- don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 07:37 PM
13

Don't. Who cares if she's married or not if you're only trying to smash. Assume attraction and treat her like you'd treat any random woman. She'll tell you herself if the possible marriage will become a problem, once you start escalating.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 09:45 AM
8

A&A "Thank you, want to see my badge collection" "That's what got me into BDSM"
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:19 PM
6

Dread in a LTR can be a bit tricky and only you can find the balance between enough and too much, because you know your partner better than any of us. Plus, a lot of guys misinterpret dread for pretty much showing your partner "hey, I've got different options" (this works on plates) when it should be "hey, I don't really need you" (this works when you're in a LTR). And when these two get mixed up, it might nuke the relationship. Then again, it's suggested to always run slight dread when in a LTR…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:13 PM
2

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6o90gp/the_eunuchs_of_the_red_pill/
/r/askTRP02/07/18 12:21 PM
8

What does it say about handling the exclusivity talk?
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:25 AM
25

Tell her that you haven't read the sidebar and will get back to her once you do
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:10 AM
3

Have you considered getting checked for autism?
/r/askTRP01/07/18 08:42 PM
16

She's keeping them for validation while looking for a high value man to pipe her down
/r/askTRP30/06/18 10:49 AM
2

No one can help you, if you're able to identify the problem, but refuse to take action in order to fix it.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 10:52 PM
28

Its a shittest. Your response was good. Keep at it and don't bring it up to her in the future.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 07:31 PM
9

I said that she was ready to fuck the other day Oh boy
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:53 PM
14

"Have a good time, hit me up once you come back"
/r/askTRP28/06/18 04:19 PM
36

should I contact her to tell her that’s not the case so she’s not so upset No or for my own good stay away Yes
/r/askTRP28/06/18 02:40 PM
7

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/39qnwd/how_to_talk_to_everyone_you_see/
/r/askTRP28/06/18 12:06 PM
15

I'm proud that you managed to hold frame and follow through with your initial plan. Good job.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:47 PM
24

To be fair there's a million of possible reasons- she's on another dick, and will reach out to you once shest done, some personal problems, she figured she doesn't want to continue this with you, she's dead. The important thing is-, you shouldn't give a fuck, that's why abundance is very important. Get more girls into the rotation, this one might or might not reach out in the future, but by then, you won't care anymore.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 02:42 PM
8

"Sorry, I'm not ready for a relationship at the moment" Or anything inbetween the lines of this bullshit. You shouldn't sacrifice your own happiness to keep the unstable girl happy and you also need to accept the fact that you're not responsible for how she will react.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 12:05 PM
1

Well then you're posting on the wrong subforum.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 11:47 AM
1

Your assumption is incorrect. Men (at least "red pilled" men) dont want to reach financial success to impress women, they want to be able to afford nice things (cars, houses, etc.) for themselves, to enjoy life more.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 11:42 AM
1

You're more attracted to the game, of "seducing" a woman, that's why you'd rather start a new game then continue playing the old one. Nothing wrong with that, if that's what you're in to.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 11:06 AM
2

NMMNG can do wonders to people.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 10:07 AM
1

"Hey guys I've read the sidebar, but Im doing the complete opposite, please help" No, fuck you.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 09:51 AM
3

It's too situational to give an advice. I pretty much feel it when it's time, and I make sure that she feels it too by escalating and building up tension throughout the date, so when she gives me the eyes, we both know what's up.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 08:31 AM
6

Grow a pair and do things that you enjoy, she can tag along if she wishes, if she continues to act bitchy, pay her less attention- this is your trip, don't let a female ruin it.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 08:18 AM
5

There is no advice besides go for it. Worst case scenario- a girl will reject you, but who cares? This is where all the theory falls in the face of practice, just fucking go for it, because no book, no post, no message will help you overcome the rejection anxiety. Only gaining experience will.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 08:15 AM
1

When you say "a kid" do you mean it literally? Because if so, getting jealous that your LTR finds a child cute is some next level shit. If that's not the case, then yes- it was a shittest, and as you know, the main goal of a shittest is to check ones frame, and it seems like yours is cracking after that one. You're overinvested (increase abundance) and on some self-destructive kind of path, why the fuck would you ever go for the "Oh you're back? I didn't even notice", when your LTR returns from …
/r/askTRP27/06/18 04:52 AM
1

Because I'm sick and tired of bitches like you, that come here expecting us to fix your mental issues. Go see a professional or stop fucking crying. It's like being fat, but refusing to go to the gym
/r/askTRP27/06/18 04:45 AM
0

Go see a therapist if you believe that your childhood traumas are manifesting as mental issues.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 04:39 AM
2

It's hard to say without knowing the details, because they could've either been unresponsive, or you simply don't know how to flirt. Usually, when a girl is not interested, she shuts your flirting attempts down, but doesn't ingore them.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 04:36 AM
4

I remember reading a discussion under some post, which ended with a conclusion that when your value is high, you can get away with very beta-ish behavior, if it's taken out of context, like enrolling in long ass text convos with a girl, or showering her with compliments, as long as you do it in confidence from the place of outcome independence. (You don't text her, because you believe she wants to, you text her because you feel like it and if she's not receptive/goes cold after that, you move on…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 07:04 PM
6

No, you don't owe her anything. To be fair, you're acting kind enough and not leading her on just for the pussy.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 05:48 PM
3

Just hit 3 a month ago.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 05:46 PM
5

Bench press 4 plates
/r/askTRP26/06/18 04:38 PM
5

You should play it cool regardless
/r/askTRP26/06/18 01:21 PM
5

In a loud club yesterday a girl asked me "What do you want?" when I approached. I also get that "dissy" looks when I come in to dance. Those are just shittests. Learn to pass them. Also, it seems that your whole self image/confidence crumbled, because of this encounter. Work on being more stoic also.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 12:32 PM
4

I second this. If you want results you actually need to step out of your comfort zone, both in the gym and the kitchen. But, noticable quality results are usually enough motivation to withstand the hardships.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 12:19 PM
5

Your plan sounds autistic as fuck. Just invite her over and if she suggests something else it's up to you to either accept or refuse, no need for you to follot through with your rape plan. Addressing the second question- stop overthinking and just say what you've got planned. "Oh, we're going to my favorite place" "Gonna go check that new bar out"
/r/askTRP24/06/18 11:08 PM
1

Bringing it to what practice, if you're not practicing?
/r/askTRP24/06/18 11:01 PM
1

Always assume attraction, always escalate. You didn't escalate, didn't create sexual tension. That's it, don't expect the woman to do all the work.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 11:00 PM
3

It's because people rarely cold approach at all.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:05 PM
1

So instead of getting her a pregnancy test, you're here to speculate?
/r/askTRP24/06/18 08:56 AM
2

Strength standards are calculated based on weight.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 08:02 AM
3

To see if your value is as high, or are you just faking it.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:25 AM
8

https://www.trp.red/p/mattyanon/274
/r/askTRP23/06/18 03:16 PM
1

Oh come on now, my dude. You're running the asshole game, which is fine if it suits you. But you also need to be comfortable with the other end of the stick- being too much for some girls. Which is what is happening right now, she basically crawled to you and you still kicked her. Either adjust your game or stop acting surprised when your high risk behavior flops.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 10:00 PM
15

When someone posts some theoretical bullshit like this it clearly indicates, that the poster himself, hasn't gone out and applied anything in real life. Why the fuck would you ever have the need to jump between "characters" when you're a fit, confident, successfull man that is outcome independent?
/r/askTRP22/06/18 01:55 PM
8

Ive checked this subreddit and the main r/theredpill to see how can I change but I cant find any clear steps on how to start this journey. Try checking the sidebar, my dude.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 03:38 AM
1

If we're talking about interaction between a man and a women trp preaches not to take her seriously, while remaining confident, assertive and outcome independent
/r/askTRP21/06/18 02:02 PM
7

Occupy yourself, if you're busy working/lifting/meal prepping/reading/attending a hobby/having a boys night out you won't have much time to play video games, and if you'll still decide to use it to play them, it won't harm you as much because you'll be playing during your time off, because you were productive and moving forwads during the rest of the week.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 12:33 PM
26

Becoming a photographer because you want to, getting to fuck models as a bonus- ✓ Becoming a photographer so you could have a chance to fuck models- X
/r/askTRP21/06/18 12:20 PM
14

The fuck are you on about. You're getting surgery. That's it.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 11:53 AM
8

I completely stopped drinking once I started lifting more seriously. Stagnating the progress and wasting a whole day feeling hungover and not getting anything done was the highest motivator.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 09:44 AM
1

There wasn't enough attraction for a first date hook up, the LMR was too strong, but it doesn't mean you won't be able to smash on the second date. Set it up.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 07:06 PM
2

It seems that you're the one that needs to re-read it my dude. she gets to hang out with you, not just for the purpose of fucking It seems that my description fits the shoe. Now, we both agree on the fact that her behaviour has a lot of red flags= not ltr worthy= no promotion= the relationship stays only sexual at best. Oh look, that's what I just said in the first place.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 06:20 PM
1

You're lost in your own terminology. FWB- a chick that has a sexual relationship with you, but you also do things outside of sex sometimes (no exclusivity) Are you planning on becoming exclusive with her? I'd hope not. If so, why the fuck does your childish ego care that she lies when the relationship between the two of you will never go past revolving around sex
/r/askTRP20/06/18 06:08 PM
8

Stop being a baby. She's a plate, as long as she's fucking you on your command and you enjoy time spent with her- it's as good as it can get.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 06:01 PM
2

You're not reading much here, period. If you were, you'd know that there is no exclusivity between you and your plate, and it can go both ways.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 05:56 PM
3

That line might work when the girl is actually catching feelings, not when she isn't. You described the dynamic of the relationship very well- you're pretty much her sugar daddy and she pays you with her pussy. If you're fine with that- continue spinning her, if not- drop.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 03:57 PM
16

She's just a plate. Give her all the space and time in the world.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 03:45 PM
4

"If you give them an inch, they'll take a whole mile". If she's used to you paying for her it's your fault that you didn't manage to draw the right boundaries during the early stages of the relationship. Fix it right now will be tough as shit, because she's used to you acting as a provider, she feels entitled to your money, because you let her think so.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 02:23 PM
3

Break up with her asap. The relationship has no future and you can't even enjoy it while it lasts because you're not getting any. Move on
/r/askTRP20/06/18 02:18 PM
1

Did you really create a post back to back just because someone dissed Julian in your previous one?
/r/askTRP20/06/18 12:43 PM
5

That's what you get for being a retard and getting in to a conversation about feminism with a girl you're currently dating. (You should avoid this topic with everyone) And to make matters even worse you openly told her that her behaviour made you upset and now you're feeling some type of way. She was right in calling your behavior childish. Learn to shut up about certain things. Take it as a lesson
/r/askTRP20/06/18 08:34 AM
1

I mean if you're trying to educate the younger crowd do it properly. Include basic stacks, what drugs go well with each other, what drugs don't. Include estimates to when to start the pct, depending on the half-lives of the drugs used. More info on hcg. Info about what blood tests to take and what they indicate. (For example which receptor indicates that your natural test production is shut down and which one indicstes that your production is fine, but only your T is low ((increase/continue PCT)…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 08:18 AM
2

You do seem healthy from what you described. Try cutting weed out for a month to see if it's playing a role.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 10:04 PM
3

Get your T levels checked again to confidently cross it off the list. It seems like your libido is low, it can be caused by a lot of things- stress, unbalanced diet, lack of rest, drugs or, in some cases due to repressed psychological problems.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:50 PM
1

You answered it yourself. Ignore it. You come there to visit your mom and relax, focus on that. You're a young adult that is doing fine on his own, you don't need to put up with Herbert's bullshit anymore. If you don't like staying around him when you're visiting your mother- reduce the time spent with him- take her out somewhere without him.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:42 PM
19

It means she's been stalking you for years. If I were you I'd check my apartment for "bugs", because she's giving out psycho vibes. Also get checked for autism if you're actually serious.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 10:52 AM
4

No one is diminishing your progress. But if you're a bitch, it doesn't matter that you were even a bigger bitch a year ago- you're still a bitch. I'm happy that you're moving forward, keep at it.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:35 AM
5

Since you're always using A&A it might have evolved in to an inside joke, a sort of teasing. I always used to tease one of my plates by using baby voice "Boo hoo, lot at me not knowing what thong to wear today", which eventually evolved in to her doing it also whenever I was being grumpy/out of character.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:33 AM
1

Stop being a special snowflake and playing the victim. "Boy oh boy Im so deeply damaged I can't experience love, oh man, I hope I won't poison this precious innocent girl with the venom that I cary inside. Fellow redditors, please support my point of view by telling me that I am special and unique so I could justify the suffering and continue my way downhill without trying to get out of the mess Im in". Suck it up and start bettering yourself, we're here to help you move forward, not keep you in…
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:23 AM
1

You dissapoint her-> she curbs you= rejection. Asking her out is the least of my problems. It's the process afterwards. I've never done this shit before Do you also have problems with reading comprehension alongside depression? Ask her out- worst case scenario you'll gain experience.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:13 AM
0

I'm not afraid of rejection because I don't feel like i'm out of her league, I'm afraid of things going well. Quality hamstering right there my dude. You ARE afraid of rejection, because you believe you'll fuck up after the first step. Grow some balls and ask her out, worst case scenario, you'll gain some experience.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:02 AM
1

Just like you would interact with anyone else. DONT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT. The redpill isn't some secret club, so what else are they supposed to find out besides that you're a confident, assertive and a driven individual? Shut your mouth and ignore it. The fuck has that got to do with your workplace?
/r/askTRP18/06/18 01:43 PM
3

If it bothers you- plate them instead
/r/askTRP17/06/18 09:59 AM
80

To be fair, weighting in at 71kg you've got nothing to worry about because you're far away from being "too big", speaking objectively. That being said, the whole point of amateur lifting is to feel comfortable in your own body. You want to be a 110kg 12%bf bear mode- go for it. You want to be ripped- go for it. Go for whatever physique you like. I, personally go for the bigger build, with barnyard backs and tree trunks instead of arms, but I never look down on smaller, leaner guys, because at th…
/r/askTRP17/06/18 09:56 AM
5

You're correct. If she didn't like the kino between the two of you, she would've told you/showed you (unless you can't tell when a person is feeling uncomfortable). What she did instead was use it as a method of dread against her boyfriend ("Uhh, that guy was really touchy with me tonight"- which translates to "Other guys are showing interest in me")
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:04 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/83ah8u/ltr_the_bare_minimum_you_need_to_know/ Use the search engine next time.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 06:22 PM
3

If you're willing to face the negative consequences such stunt might bring- go for it. If not- don't. If you're spinning plates you could simply let this one slide and avoid the unnecessary drama
/r/askTRP16/06/18 11:25 AM
1

is it a Friday thing? Summer
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:11 PM
5

My objective is to fuck, not to get pity. Yeah right. A man that has a few plates on rotation wants to fuck an ex-ltr that dumped him, definitely doesn't sound like oneitis. Your whole usage of NC is all wrong. No contact is supposed to help you get over/move on with your life, but instead you're using it in hopes that your ex will reach out to you, for reasons unknown. Delete block and forget. Focus on adding more plates to your rotation instead of this petty bullshit.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 06:41 PM
12

You should only sext with girls you've fucked before and are going to fuck soon (tonight, for example).
/r/askTRP15/06/18 01:20 PM
4

A woman knows how to get validation from a man? Hmmm, I don't know, dude, sounds weird as fuck. He's either an orbiter and she keeps him on a short leash. Wouldn't be surprised if he does work related favours for her. Or, she has a thing for creepy old guys.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:39 AM
5

The girl was shittesting you to see if you're worthy to get with her hot friend, that's how hens sometimes act. Treat it as a regular shittest. "Wow, you're lucky to have such a good, protective friend", "you're right let's go to the dancefloor/another place".
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:34 AM
16

That's why you don't listen to what a woman says. Actions>words
/r/askTRP15/06/18 06:03 AM
2

While I agree with this, I believe that in your specific situation, you should fuck her, fuck her more than once. It will help you get rid of your ridiculous mindset and insecurities
/r/askTRP14/06/18 03:19 PM
9

No. Unless they're making dinner, then you could bring some wine.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 02:10 PM
4

It's not about trust, it's about attraction.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 08:57 AM
2

The only use I found from practicing cold showers every now and then is that they're really good at waking you up, when you're feeling sluggish as fuck. That's about it.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 05:17 AM
2

https://therationalmale.com/2016/06/06/the-talk/ https://www.trp.red/p/mattyanon/274
/r/askTRP13/06/18 06:02 PM
2

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8ntlth/how_to_really_succeed_at_tinder_not_just_another/
/r/askTRP13/06/18 12:09 PM
4

What have you done to improve and get rid of this mindset you have?
/r/askTRP12/06/18 08:01 PM
11

I really love the saying "Money comes first, fun comes second", but I believe you need to find a balance between the two, because enjoyment is a huge motivation when it comes to work, so it positively correlates with a higher income and a faster way to the top.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 07:59 AM
1

Nice hamster to justify your oneitis. "I've never been with an used up, post wall, woman before"
/r/askTRP12/06/18 07:48 AM
6

Check your T levels
/r/askTRP12/06/18 05:36 AM
35

Splash her face and touch her underwater. Batista bomb her in to the pool.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 05:36 AM
6

You flopped once you told her you're not using her. Why do you care what she thinks of you if you're leaving in a few weeks, even if you weren't you shouldn't give a fuck Actions> words. If she's fucking you, it's all good. Good job on ruining that by letting her make your hamster spin.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 12:29 PM
11

Her being a slut isn't the problem. You, being insecure, is. Work on that. I believe a lot of new members feel a dissonance between the idea of not settling for less and abundance/stoicism. We shouldn't settle for anything less than we deserve, but we need to perceive reality as it is- most girls are sluts with high N counts and various sexual adventures, which usually makes them bad LTR partners, but great plates.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 11:05 AM
1

To read the sidebar. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2rkz4s/older_players_late_40s50s_up_tell_us_what_you/
/r/askTRP11/06/18 10:54 AM
12

You don't fix red flags- you avoid them That's not how you display abundance
/r/askTRP10/06/18 12:36 PM
26

Don't forget to tip your fedora after dropping such line.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 12:23 PM
10

What will you gain from doing that?
/r/askTRP10/06/18 12:13 PM
1

https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/
/r/askTRP10/06/18 11:46 AM
0

It's a bit too complex to give you an answer. Only you know her well, and only you can answer this- is she really against threesomes, or is she just putting up an act right now. In both cases you could make her join you in a threesome, but one will be fueled by her desire and the other by the fear of loosing you.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 07:52 AM
1

but am unwilling to give up what I've built in my LTR. There's your problem
/r/askTRP10/06/18 07:44 AM
19

No, but I love not hitting on girls and then hamstering that they're too easy for me.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 01:28 PM
1

If she's just a plate- it shouldn't. Now if you're screening for a LTR, a high N count might be a redflag you should avoid.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 09:33 AM
1

Yes, my dude
/r/askTRP09/06/18 08:42 AM
1

No. You fucked up when you lost frame and got in to an argument with a woman, and as I understand it was an argument over text which is even worse. Then you continued your journey downhill by apologizing, which basically translates to "Yes, you managed to crack down my frame to the point where I can not control myself, and I am very sorry for being a weak person".
/r/askTRP09/06/18 08:28 AM
8

If it bothers you- dump her, if it doesn't- don't.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 07:43 AM
2

This just goes to show that you're not really "getting it". Theory- shittests, push pull, kino, etc. Shouldn't be looked as just theory, but more as a state of mind. A girl is testing you? You don't stop mid-conversation to come up with a comeback, it should happen naturally. Kino? You don't just inadequately touch a female every 5 minutes, because you know you need to- it has to happen naturally. The only advice is to approach more and the theory will settle in. If you'll go out with a cheat sh…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 10:43 AM
5

1) That's great, /u/Whisper has a great post about guiding your LTR to be a better partner and fulfill your needs. 1.1) it seems that you've hit a wall. Maybe your frame cracked or she isn't perceiving your value high enough for her to follow your "commands". Apply slight dread, continue to increase your value (a perfect combination of those two would be finding a new hobby) 2) Constantly check yourself. Sometimes I read a very interesting article I'm dying to share with others/have a discussion…
/r/askTRP06/06/18 11:14 AM
12

Don't acknowledge it It's her job not to cross boundaries, it's your job to lay them down. If her lifestyle/social circle/whatever is something you dislike- that's your problem, that's why you screen girls before ltr'ing them.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 10:47 AM
14

Cutting negative people out of your life is one of the key elements of self improvement and overall quality of life. Just like she, herself, isn't yours, so are her problems
/r/askTRP06/06/18 10:32 AM
13

Do you even read what people are telling you?
/r/askTRP05/06/18 08:42 PM
16

Stop being so naive. Actions > words.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 08:31 PM
1

https://youtu.be/6XF0AxT_pyw A great video on this topic.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 08:26 PM
13

She's not feeling sexual with you,. Dump her and hit the sidebar ASAP
/r/askTRP05/06/18 08:24 PM
6

If you ignore them without a deadline; for example a date you set up in three days time, of course they might lose interest
/r/askTRP05/06/18 10:43 AM
1

She's using you for validation/free meals/whatever, she's also wasting YOUR time without even offering you her pussy in return- bad trade on your part. There's nothing to do but dread the fuck out of her, if she comes around don't agree to anything less than Netflix and chill, if not- who cares.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 10:39 AM
3

Yeah right. You're not busy enough to game a 6, but if it's a 7, you're magically too busy. Stop lying to us, and most importantly- to yourself
/r/askTRP05/06/18 04:46 AM
10

What the fuck is this autism inducing text? Go out and pull.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 04:11 AM
1

250 of deca isn't that high, so you should be fine, unless you'll notice some puffiness around your nipples. Don't run nolva for pct tho, it doesn't go well with deca. Also, be prepared to increase test if you'll start getting the "deca dick"
/r/askTRP04/06/18 08:14 PM
2

Sorry for the late reply. If you'll be running test only cycle there's no need for AI, running some hcg mid cycle if your balls will begin to shrink is a good idea, and then for PCT use clomid, or clomid+ nolva to regain your natural test.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 07:57 PM
15

This guy has it all figured out, I guess it's time to delete the subreddit and shut down the whole manosphere. Whatsup
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 10:51 AM
10

"what else have you got to offer" "Absolutely disgusting! That's why I only date women" "Cool beans"
/r/askTRP04/06/18 10:21 AM
3

If you want to increase the size of your social circle going out alone usually does the trick. But I'd suggest some different events/locations than bars. I once went to a 5days long knife forging class just for the sake of it, met some really interesting guys there.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 10:19 AM
4

It makes no fucking sense. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and start moving forward with your life.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:34 AM
1

It's not your perfectionist mentality, it's your fucking hamster hiding behind your fake ego. Come in to terms with it and accept the fact that you're afraid to approach women not because they're not good enough, but because you're feeling anxious for some reason, once that's done, you either identify and fix the cause of anxiety (but because you seem to like to lie to yourself- it won't work) or just brute force through it.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:28 AM
1

Escalation =/= compliments. You need to create, maintain and increase sexual tension between the two of you when escalating, when that happens, the atmosphere itself stands out from the crowd and since females are emotional creatures- so do you, because of the tingles.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:22 AM
5

I’m aware of the methods of passing shit tests, like agree and amplify No, you're not. https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:18 AM
3

She's a plate, it doesn't mater what or whom she's doing. Also, her behaviour seems unstable, so I'd suggest you stop putting your dick in crazy it nver ends well.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:10 AM
2

Stop browsing lilpeep's subforum and read the sidebar
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:04 AM
1

It won't stop, because most of the time such behaviour is caused by actually body image issues
/r/askTRP04/06/18 02:59 AM
12

As /u/vandaalen once said "Who gives a fuck what a dead person thinks"
/r/askTRP02/06/18 09:25 PM
6

The girl has game, can't deny that. Actions> words
/r/askTRP02/06/18 04:31 PM
11

How the fuck is it going against the theory when in reality it's the prime example that the theory is correct? You were her AF and he's her BB. You didn't give her commitment, so she found someone that did.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 02:51 PM
59

Do nothing and then post about it here
/r/askTRP02/06/18 02:40 PM
7

"Let's talk tomorrow at my place, pick up some cake from the birthday" You did nothing wrong, if that's the style of game you go for, what you need to understand that game isn't universal and sometimes your methods fail in certain situations, even if they work 90% of the time. That being said, you didn't really cross any lines, don't fall in to her frame via her emotional tantrums and keep treating her like a child.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 12:49 PM
15

Tell her you're leaving at xx:yy, if she's not ready by xx:yy- leave.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 09:58 AM
28

IF YOU ARE NOT GETTING MATCHES, ITS BECAUSE YOUR PICTURES SUCK. Absolutely agree. All it took was one good picture of me holding a dog on a leash with forearm and bicep veins popping off to pop off my matches.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 07:33 AM
2

Hcg (pregnyl, ovitrelle...) would've tackled the shrinkage. What did you use for PCT, how long did it take for your T levels to stabilize and get back on track?
/r/askTRP01/06/18 05:18 PM
19

Yes No She's not LTR material, move on, or accept her back and continue to suffer.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:16 AM
3

You're too young to aim for older girls, they basically could babysit you. Also, your insecurity is fucking ridiculous, you should be happy that your genetic potential is kicking in early.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 11:23 AM
1

What's the case?
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:02 AM
10

You should only go to the festival, if you, yourself, want to. Judging from this post, it seems like you don't. You're lacking abundance, my dude. Work on that.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:47 AM
10

Take this as a lesson to never argue with idiots again.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 09:10 PM
4

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3d5u6t/first_post_syndrome/
/r/askTRP30/05/18 09:09 PM
15

Offering to pay on the first date might be a wrong move, because it sets expectations in the future. The best way to get out of it is "I'll get this round, you get the other"
/r/askTRP30/05/18 07:29 PM
3

Wait till/if she hits you up next weekend about the visit. If she does- move forward, if not- ghost.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 07:15 PM
12

You have no idea what happened when he left, if he actually acted clingy and annoyed her or if she simply made that up, you're giving 100% credibility to what a woman said in this context. Also, why the fuck would he need to dread a plate that just broke, in a venue he hasn't been before, when he can simply leave and find another chick in a venue he's comfortable in/hit up another plate/whatever. You're like a bull seeing red, completely ignorant to what people are saying.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 07:12 PM
11

You're implying that he should've done something (mate guarding instead of walking away once she started grinding on you (displaying abundance).
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 04:07 PM
25

If for whatever reason "your girl" openly gets with another guy, the worst thing you could ever do is walk away with your tail tucked in. You don't need to get into a fist fight. At least go dance with another girl, don't be the guy having his period on the dance floor. You can prevent all this by having a frame that isn't shit. Can't agree with this. If such situation ever occured where my plate got hijacked by another male mid- evening I'd probably leave to another venue/invite another girl ou…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 12:48 PM
10

That's her trying to show of her value (she's wanted by other men) and spark some sort of jealousy within you (she gives it to other men). So, she either wants you as an orbiter, or your dick. It's up to you which one it will be. Don't acknowledge it, your response was fine. If it happens again, you can usite it as a bridge to say something in between the lines of "prove it" and fuck her like an animal.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 10:35 AM
9

You fucked up by telling her that her actions upset you, it shows a complete lack of frame. If a similar situation happens again- start walking out as soon as she picks up the phone and indulges in a conversation. If/when she asks "why" tell her she looked busy and you've got other plans to attend to.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 10:17 AM
14

Start your journey by reading the sidebar and figuring the situation out by yourself. It will be a much bigger help than us telling you what is up
/r/askTRP30/05/18 09:57 AM
2

This all the way. My very first gym was a heavy-metal-old-ass-equipment-basement type of gym. The owner took me under his wings and showed me the very basics, taught me how to calculate my macros and identified weak body parts. Six years later I can do everything myself and have achieved great results all thanks to a strong foundation
/r/askTRP30/05/18 09:24 AM
1

Good job failing to read the rules of this sub, jackass
/r/askTRP30/05/18 05:07 AM
1

Oldspice wolfthorn leaves no stains
/r/askTRP30/05/18 05:06 AM
12

"Oh I'm with you on this one. Can you believe that blond males statistically earn more, how unfair is that?" But then again, it's best not to indulge in such conversations at all
/r/askTRP30/05/18 03:55 AM
1

That's why I said, that a good PCT is more important than the cycle itself. But oh well, it's your body.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:05 PM
1

What is the other stuff? You're playing with your hormones, a good PCT is more important than the cycle itself. Rise in estrogen and unstable T levels due to a bad PCT might lead to you feeling slugish/unmotivated/depressed
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:38 PM
2

What's your PCT?
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:34 PM
10

Why don't you go to a relationship subreddit so you could get an answer from women since you care about what they say so much
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:33 PM
11

Cut contact and move the fuck on.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:32 PM
1

Good job on the counteroffer for the first girl. If she's really a 9 she's probably used to getting free dinners with the help of Tinder. As for the second girl, go there with the intention to enjoy the game, look at the date as a bonus, not the other eay around.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 11:15 AM
6

Go out, enjoy yourself, escalate, fuck her right in the pussy.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 11:15 AM
3

You're the Captain, so act like one. Don't like the trash your woman keeps around YOUR garden/basement and refuses to throw it out? You order a truck to come over, load everything there and wave it goodbye. Lead by example, not by words. When she goes at you for doing that, make it clear that if she shits all over your place again you'll be waving goodbye to her next time.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 11:11 AM
3

"How To Talk To Everyone You See." Is a perfect post on cold approaches and the mindset to have while attempting them.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 09:36 AM
2

It's not fucking rocket science. If you want to go on a date/fuck/whatever a girl you ask her out. If she flakes you forget her and game other chicks, if she comes back sometime in the future- cool, whatever. If she doesn't- cool, whatever.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 09:21 AM
4

Go on a date, regardless of how it ends, if you find the girl interesting enough for a second date, schedule it after 3-4days of minimal/no contact.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 09:09 AM
4

You're treating her as an equal and believe she deserves and needs a rational and logical explanation of your actions, when that's why you fucked yourself over. You only talk about sex. Mitochondria is the powerhouse of the cell Give me a reason to come over I'm dying of cancer
/r/askTRP27/05/18 06:47 AM
13

You're acting like a child, everytime she says something you don't like, you huff and puff and go radio silent. Instead of using A&A and defusing the situation but still keeping the environment playful/sexy. Then you followed her lead and put yourself in a situation where you explained yourself "I did X bevause you acted Y" (which came out like "I punished you by removing attention, because you acted moody"). Your frame isn't solid because you're not outcome independent, if you're running such g…
/r/askTRP27/05/18 06:26 AM
19

That's what you get for DEER'ing. She broke your frame, you explained why you used dread on her, now the tables have turned and she's using dread on you, by not coming over, because "you hurt her feelings".
/r/askTRP27/05/18 05:58 AM
4

Don't listen to her words. You held frame and got to fuck her at the end of the day- everything's fine.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 10:02 PM
1

Desire can not be negotiated, and this goes both ways. If the sexual spark isn't there, what's the point of the relationship?
/r/askTRP25/05/18 10:01 PM
2

TRP doesn't encourage that, it's just that based on stone cold facts and statistics marriage is a bad move for a person seeking maximum individual "happiness". If you want to get married and all the positive aspects outweigh the negative ones- go for it. MarriedRP exists for a reason.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 01:43 PM
1

Because we're putting ourselves first
/r/askTRP25/05/18 01:24 PM
3

Don't lie, you're insecure about the relationship with her and you don't like the fact that she doesn't reassure you by giving you her phone/social media access. Would you be mad at her if she didn't let you drive her car or wear her thongs?
/r/askTRP25/05/18 08:52 AM
3

What are you going to say? "I want you to give me your phone, because I'm feeling insecure?" You're not ready for a LTR, not like it's something worth being ready for, but still.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 08:46 AM
12

I really don't understand the point of such questions. Are you incapable of calculating the risks yourself and then making a decision that will have an impact on your life, or are you simply looking for a green light from people you've never met before? If you don't care about the friendship and all the drama stunt like this might bring- go for it, if not- don't.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 08:22 AM
28

I imagined word's paperclip plugin saying that
/r/askTRP25/05/18 08:09 AM
4

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1ri870/on_apologies/ Read it.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:21 AM
5

There was this exact same thread where OP told his roommate, that was in a relationship, that he wants to fuck her, because he sensed sexual tension. It ended with the girl telling everything to the boyfriend and OP got unnecessary drama and no pussy.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:20 AM
5

You felt the relationship wasn't working, so you did the best thing for the both of you- stopped wasting each other's time and cut ties. Now the withdrawal is kicking in and you're wondering if you did the right thing. It will pass, own up your decision and stick through it.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:17 AM
5

This rule applies to a job you want to keep/is important to you for other reasons
/r/askTRP24/05/18 05:14 PM
5

3 plates and then you can retire
/r/askTRP24/05/18 05:13 PM
5

Are you serious?
/r/askTRP24/05/18 03:13 PM
1

F o o d is what makes you grow, workouts are more individual, but as a rule of thumb heavier weight, higher intensity 8-12reps is for growth.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 10:39 AM
1

Food.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 10:27 AM
3

No. She won't give you the real number and it will make you look insecure
/r/askTRP24/05/18 09:36 AM
10

At what point did she branch swing if you were the one dumping her/fucking her while she was in a relationship? She's probably down for you cock again.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 09:32 AM
3

She's 34, it's pretty much the last chance to lock someone down, and you're in her sights.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 09:31 AM
7

Right after highschool.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 06:04 AM
2

He told her not to tell you about the assault, but purposely left a mark on her neck for you to see?¿?¿
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:23 PM
1

Shut the fuck up, the main purpose of askTRP is to clarify theory found on the main sub/manosphere, which usually surfaces as people asking specific questions, not directly discussed in the sidebar, hoping to get a specific answer. What your lazy ass is doing is asking a very broad question that IS answered and discussed in many threads on the mainsub, sidebar included. People here are trying to help others to become better, not hold their hands all the way, so shut the fuck up and use the searc…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:12 PM
8

Do it. It blows my mind that in the year 2018 of our lord and savior JC, seeing a therapist is still a stigma. Take care of your mental health, my dude!
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:48 PM
1

What did he do, exactly? And what was her reaction?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:43 PM
2

It's not sad and depressing- it's the truth (in the eyes of a nihilist). We can compare it to TRP in a way- do the truths spread here make you sad and depressed? Does the realisation of AWALT make you feel blue? At first, maybe, but once you realise and accept that it's the truth it doesn't bring you any negative emotions, because you're no longer living in the dream.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 05:57 PM
12

"the restaurant is booked, I'll cook at my place instead, bring some wine"
/r/askTRP23/05/18 02:04 PM
3

Keep it civil, but keep your distance.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 01:59 PM
0

This is where I like to think of myself as an optimistic nihislist, the analogy was in all honesty made up on the spot but hopefully you get what I'm trying to say. I can tell. You basically described what existential nihilism is and tried to wrap it up in a new name. Nihilism itself only tries to show the truth of the world and life, people, especially snowflakey teenagers tend to misinterpret it in to something deep and depressing, when it's not.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 01:09 PM
2

Cool beans
/r/askTRP23/05/18 12:41 PM
3

It was back in my late teens- early 20's, when I used to work as a bouncer. The environment was different so the rule didn't apply. Plus it's not the point of the comment nor an answer to the question.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 10:59 AM
5

Get her in the front seat of your car, touch her inner thigh and it's smooth sailing from there. Drive to a forest, fuck with the doors open. The possibilities are endless. I had a coworker that I used to drive home and fuck in the car near her apartment almost daily.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 10:34 AM
27

Of course they don't want to accept the fact that a bunch of apes have cracked down the code of their sexual behaviour
/r/askTRP22/05/18 01:39 PM
3

Go to an event you want to, shoot her a text: "I'll be at X on Ytime, join me".
/r/askTRP22/05/18 10:42 AM
7

She teased you and instead of playing along and building up sexual tension that would eventually break through her LMR you called her a whore. Invite her again sometime in the near future and pretend like nothing happened, escalate and fuck. But she might not be down for it anymore so start looking for a new girl(s)
/r/askTRP22/05/18 10:15 AM
63

If you suspect she has BPD you get the fuck out of the relationship
/r/askTRP22/05/18 08:39 AM
5

There's a difference between talking about bumps you encounter and how you manage to overcome them, focusing more on the latter, and whining about how life is tough.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 08:34 AM
13

How come they're around when you're meeting with girls?
/r/askTRP22/05/18 06:24 AM
3

Stop overanalyzing such simple bullshit, not everything is a groundbreaking discovery. It seems you're controlling the relationship just fine, holding frame and not putting up with her shit. But you're paying too much attention to details and it's making you look for meaning where there is none. For example: Like, even hours before she came over recently, when she was ready and rearing to come over... Well no shit, you two see each other only 2x a week, the girl seems crazy about you, you postpo…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 06:22 AM
7

I usually put a sock on my dick
/r/askTRP21/05/18 01:42 PM
4

Change your perspective. You had a chance to test out your knowledge and you successfully managed to fuck a chick. Congrats. STOP THERE and move on, she might hit you up in the future, she might not, who cares, go out and fuck local women.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 12:09 PM
5

You either invite them yourself or form a different circle. Also, such cases usually indicate that you bring no value to the table and aren't that fun to hang around.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:33 AM
3

So how does it get to the point where she calls you a "Fucking gay ass faggot" ?
/r/askTRP21/05/18 10:40 AM
4

My social circle is pretty tight and I'm quite inactive on social media. It doesn't matter when you cold approach.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 10:24 AM
4

argument you can't win Thats why you don't argue with women. Once they start to cross the line of a discussion trying to drag you into an argument you DON'T follow them. But even if you do get in to an argument like an idiot such disrespectful behavior should not be tolerated.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 10:23 AM
2

Are your "servants" fucking you at the end of the day?
/r/askTRP21/05/18 09:26 AM
6

Put a chain on your hamster- it's running wild. Stop following, stop obsessing, stop orbiting.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:46 PM
3

Wrap it up, my dude
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:44 PM
8

"Hey guys, I've got a "flaw" that no one pays attention to besides me"
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:43 PM
3

Actually, LMR for travelers leaving soon is usually lower, because they're also looking for an ONS, no strings attached, while abroad.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:39 PM
8

She's already moved on leaving you behind. You should too.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:38 PM
11

Yes. She's just seeking for attention/validation. Don't give it to her.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 09:57 PM
3

https://i.imgur.com/n8umjWj_d.jpg?maxwidth=640&shape=thumb&fidelity=medium
/r/askTRP18/05/18 08:34 AM
6

Stop listening to what she's saying. If you don't want to commit to a party slut- don't. There's nothing you can do.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:02 AM
1

Introspection
/r/askTRP17/05/18 08:55 PM
1

This. Also do things you currently think are stupid. For years I thought horse riding isn't for me, I just had this prewired negativity towards it, but one day I said fuck it, rang my plate that rides and told her I'd like her to teach me the basics. Next Sunday is going to be my 4th lesson and I'm loving it so far. I don't think it's ever going to become a hobby of mine, but at least I've done it.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 08:50 PM
1

Your boundaries are weak, and they're quite hard to lay down once the relationship isn't fresh. Your boundaries will constantly be tested, but she needs to understand that you're gone the second she pushes you too far. (Next time she tries to purposely make you jealous you up your dread, if it happens again you leave) Reduce all other initiations but sex. As long as you get to fuck her whenever you please it's all good. You aren't the prize in your own eyes- increase your value and love yourself…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 08:47 PM
1

This is an interesting article on the subject https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8hyxfe/female_researcher_gets_redpilled_while_studying/
/r/askTRP17/05/18 04:59 PM
8

Take it as a lesson and learn from it. You don't owe people anything, if you're asked a question you're not comfortable with, and are pressured in to answering don't cave in and tell them it's not a subject you want to discuss with them. When it comes to finances my dad used to say "your finances are your business, never tell anyone how much you've got, it's never going to do you any good" and it stuck with me for life. Not even my closest friends I've known for 20 years know how much I make.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 04:50 PM
3

Is this the plot of cars 4?
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 04:29 PM
3

If she causes unnecessary drama or not
/r/askTRP16/05/18 05:03 PM
26

Crab mentality or crabs in a bucket is a way of thinking best described by the phrase "if I can't have it, neither can you".The metaphor refers to a bucket of live crabs, some of which could easily escape, but other crabs pull them back down to prevent any from getting out, ensuring the group's collective demise.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 04:25 PM
1

Don't hamster trying to look for validation when pulling off shit like this. Accept the reality- the relationship won't last and you're not man enough to break it up and not waste each other's time, like /u/vandaalen said. But when it comes to opinions of others- it doesn't matter as long as you stay true to yourself and don't try to hide behind lies.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 10:33 AM
3

Whisper in a dress
/r/askTRP16/05/18 09:48 AM
13

As long as it doesn't bother you who gives a fuck what we think. There's no right or wrong, if your moral compass doesn't tingle- do whatever the fuck you want.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 09:47 AM
4

Yeah, it's called rational thinking.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:37 PM
1

Welcome to the real world. I still remember the shock and disgust I felt when I found out my LTR at the time, before any knowledge of the manosphere, had over 20 partners. "WHAAAT SHES SUCH A SLUT HOW DARE SHE FUCK OTHER GUYS BEFOR MEETING ME??? HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO FEEEEEEL NOW?" Right now I couldn't give two fucks with how many guys a girl has been, as long as she adds value to my lifestyle.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 09:41 AM
5

LMR isn't a redflag, not being able to maneuver around it for 10days is a flop on your side. Withdraw attention until the weekend, invite her over again and don't pussy out this time.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 08:50 AM
8

You're pretty much doing the complete opposite of what the manosphere is all about. Your happiness, your quality of life, your motivation to become a better man is 100% dependant on a female that dumped you. That's fucking pathetic. Shift your focus from her to yourself, become a better man because YOU feel the need to, work on yourself so YOU could enjoy life more, not because you want to make someone else jealous/angry.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 05:50 AM
2

Stop worrying about other people
/r/askTRP14/05/18 12:27 PM
89

Because you're inexperienced and try your hardest not to fuck up when a girl shows interest. It should pass once you brute force straight through your fear and smash a few chicks. Also, there's a method used by therapists to treat phobias, where a patient is told to exaggerate a scenario that is causing him fear, but in a funny way. (For example if you're afraid of public speaking you should say to yourself "oh boy, I can't wait to forget my whole speech once I step on the stage"). The acknowled…
/r/askTRP14/05/18 12:22 PM
3

I think you should post this at the relationship advice subforum because you're hamstering for validation that you're doing well and should try your hardest to keep this relationship with a wall-hitting woman. You've got no abundance. If you feel like you've slipped, shut the fuck up and get back up, don't acknowledge it to your partner, only to yourself. If you feel that your partner is acting out of line/disrespectful, apply dread. But you know all that.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 11:31 AM
10

You schedule another meetup, if she flakes again you hard next her.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 11:21 AM
5

"Dick hanging lower than your balls" - Rich Piana, forever in our 💓
/r/askTRP14/05/18 09:12 AM
28

Stop looking for excuses and start working on yourself. There's a lot of men on this and the main sub that managed to turn their lives around in their 40's after wrecked decade long marriages and stagnation.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 12:13 AM
2

Didn't you post this on the main sub already?
/r/askTRP11/05/18 02:53 PM
12

No. You're not an emotional tampon. Especially not a voluntary emotional tampon.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 02:47 PM
5

"Oh yeah, I'm finally getting some sunshine" "Not really, can I sit on your shoulders?"
/r/askTRP11/05/18 02:43 PM
7

Nexting girls that are playing games/refuse to reschedule/do not show interest is a go to advice for a high value man that has options. If you've got 5 more girls on the back burner, who cares if this one flakes, you just ask another one out. Now if you're in a situation with no options of course nexting might seem like a bad move, but that's what we preach- more options= more outcome independence= less problems. If such scheme doesn't fit you, do whatever the fuck you want to do.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:20 PM
5

You answered it yourself Just accept that she's gonna talk and meet up with other men because that's obviously what's she's gonna do to succeed in this field If you can't handle it- next.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 11:29 AM
1

Good job, do whatever works for you. Enjoy your plates!
/r/askTRP11/05/18 09:01 AM
10

You're going through the anger phase. It will pass. In reality there's nothing to be angry about. Once you truly accept women for who they are and stop expecting the impossible it all clicks together.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 08:14 AM
32

Roses are red Violets are blue Back to the sidebar, is best for you
/r/askTRP10/05/18 07:23 PM
10

If she falls for her dance partner you should be thankful, because then you'll know shes not worth your time and commitment.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:19 PM
2

Yup. You can still try it with the girl #2 this weekend, cos an adequate amount of time has passed since you smashed
/r/askTRP10/05/18 01:40 PM
2

It might be too soon. You could propose similar scenarios for next week to them on Monday.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 01:38 PM
8

Message to girl #1: "hey, come over for that dice game I promised this Friday" Message to girl #2: "Hey, I'm making spaghetti and meatballs this Saturday. Join me"
/r/askTRP10/05/18 01:33 PM
8

Nothing, she's a plate.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 12:59 PM
9

The knowledge of manosphere is imprinted in the brain of every man, we even can call it one of Jungs archetypes. But the society makes men dismiss the natural ideology and adapt the bullshit that turns men in to bitches, because it's "the right thing to do". This doesn't affect everyone equally, that's why some men are more "woke" than others, natural alphas and all that bullshit
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:46 AM
2

Change your routine to a 4 day split (or even a 3day split if you've got enough powder to go through back/tris chest/bis days) and fill the remaining days with 2-3 sessions of Muay Thai, leaving one day to rest.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 07:25 AM
7

Don't shoot up your school
/r/askTRP09/05/18 06:26 PM
2

You didn't even need to write so much, the title was enough- good job on reaching the 5 months of NC, now make it 10.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 06:14 PM
8

I allowed her to do most of the talking and I also did not show I am needy in anynway. I did not get any sexual vibe from her. In other words you didn't apply any kino, didn't escalate, didn't tease, created no sexual tension between the two of you. Good job, I'm sure she's very eager to suck your dick on the second date!
/r/askTRP09/05/18 11:24 AM
11

I really wanna see her and try to make it a LTR. And before anyone says anything about oneitis it’s not that type of situation. I have other plates but this one is different. Shut the fuck up. First of all, why would you even consider having a LTR with a woman that is acting like this? You say you've swallowed the pill but still have no grasp on the most basic methods of game. Shes using dread ON YOU, and you're falling for it big time. Ar first you didn't want to LTR her, but as soon as she rem…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:24 AM
3

Meditaion, gym, your own special rituals. Meditation will help you become more grounded all together. Gym is your sanctuary, you're there to work out and work out only, due to physical activity your mind won't have the freedom to roam too much, plus, what's the point in worrying about anything in the gym, when you'll only be able to tackle the problems after your workout. And then the rituals, every Thursday I go to the public sauna, I leave the phone in the locker and just relax, no new/old pro…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 07:26 AM
7

Getting laid shouldn't be the goal of becoming the best version of yourself. It's just an added bonus for putting in work
/r/askTRP08/05/18 07:03 PM
60

You should not have agreed to such bullshit in the first place- you've got better things to do than meet up with jealous boyfriends. But since you did I'm guessing you'll have to suffer thru some cliche quotes and empty threats. Remember that you will be in control of the conversation, he most likely will come from a place of anger/jealousy, so the flow will be in your hands.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:23 PM
17

They put it there to plug it in hopes to get even more validation/attention
/r/askTRP08/05/18 02:53 PM
1

AWALT is a broad generalization that is correct in majority of the cases, leaving the exceptions insignificant. It's also not a shameful generalization in any way shape of form, it's simply used to name a natural behavior of females.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:08 AM
9

What the fuck are you even on about. 28 is nowhere near to fall in to the category of an "old guy".
/r/askTRP08/05/18 08:22 AM
18

Or maybe you just have no banter and instead of saying a witty comeback you straight up throw out insults
/r/askTRP08/05/18 08:02 AM
2

Don't reply at all. Radio silence for a few days, after that set up a date. If she agrees and meets up with you act like like nothing happene, also be prepared to get shittested more than usual. If she flakes be prepared to drop her. Also, if you'll LTR her you deserve all the drama, she, without a doubt, will bring in to your life.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 11:52 AM
5

You're 17, your hormones are all over the place. Also, young adults your age start looking for the meaning of life and develop the special snowflake syndrome which leads to a light depression combined with a wish to rebel against everything. Best course of action is to go see a therapist to simply have bi-weekly chats where you vent out and come home feeling 100x better.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 11:40 AM
1

No comfort, little communication, but don't completely ignore her. "Hey, gotta go, really busy week. Let's catch up on Friday at my place" or whatever in between the lines.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 11:31 AM
3

You experienced LMR. There's no bulletproof way to go through it. Sometimes you just have to accept it and smash on the 2nd date, no biggie. Also, don't listen to her words. She kissed you and let you touch her in ways a woman that doesn't want to get fucked by you wouldn't allow. Stop hamstering, set up another date and escalate some more. If she declines/flakes or continues to completely waste your time- next her. Her pussy isn't worth it.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 11:18 AM
26

Either drop her, or get your shit together, whatever the case may be, because you're obsessing over her way too much and it will only get worse.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 08:45 AM
15

Stop overthinking it so hard, be a fucking man instead of occupying yourself with "waiting to see if she's going to make a move" which directly translates to "I need validation from this woman to know if I'm really as good as I think I am". As long as she's responsive and down to fuck whenever you want it's all good. Also the "I gues she was craving chads attention" is cringey af.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 12:58 PM
9

Oooooooohhhhhh, she used the word SEX he-he-he Set up a date and don't text too much/at all until you meet her. Also, be prepared to be disappointed if she looks like a 4 just from her pictures.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 12:48 PM
8

You already know, what you need to work on, my dude, stop lying to yourself Holding frane Dread Abundance Back to the sidebar
/r/askTRP05/05/18 12:35 PM
7

You need to wait at least as long as it takes for you to read the sidebar before replying.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 12:31 PM
1

If she's a hb9 she gets hit on/asked out a lot, which means she knows the game inside out and has a lot of options. So she actually might be spending time with her parents and not prioritising someone she barely knows over them (which is the right thing to do for everyone). Or she might be choking on some dick right now, you will never know. There's nothing you can do at the moment, but wait for her to reach out to you and offer a date and time. But don't focus on it. Meet other women, and If it…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 10:02 AM
7

This is a prime example, why Whisper's post needed to be bumped backed up.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 09:50 AM
1

She's just seeking validation for acting as a good partner. She probably hasn't been with someone as strong-framed as you, so she tries to make sure that her attempts are noticed. You handled it good by ignoring. A better thing would've been to positively reward her "good behavior" by giving her a fucking of her lifetime. But if you were busy, ignoring was the next best thing.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 08:29 AM
7

Yes. If a man indulges a woman in a conversation, he's just showing what kind of a pathetic beta male he is!
/r/askTRP05/05/18 08:16 AM
5

Why are you hamstering so hard? She pretty much asked if at the age of 26 she's still as/more attractive than the average firm-butt'ed teenager.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 05:48 AM
2

She's your plate, and you are hers. She's not playing anything, probably just fucking another guy(s) for the 4 days that are left.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:09 PM
5

This is a quality bait, I'll give you that.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:00 PM
12

there were IOI's That's how they keep orbiters spinning. she wouldn't accept it from someone else but for me she just does and doesn't know why Did she accept your dick? Also why the fuck do all the "we are friends, he is like a brother to me" shit in the first place? She wanted you to stay in her O R B I T make me believe she is an unicorn that is actually interested in me and going out of her way for me. NO
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:19 PM
15

What the fuck are you even rambling about? Basically, you willingly thirdwheeled for no reason and then got butthurt that two people that knew each other before you knew either of them, fucked. That's some next level shit. Apparently the information that is displayed in the sidebar just flew over your head, it's time to read it again, not just skim through headlines. Also read NMMNG so you'd learn to say no to people "abusing" you.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:07 PM
2

Treating women like children is overall a great thing to do. She starts to rant about some bullshit- you nod your head and smile She tries to start an argument- you ignore her attempts and continue doing what the fuck you were in the first place She pushes your buttons to the point where you want to dive head straight in to the argument completely demolishing everything she's saying with rational and supported arguments- you ignore her, because there's no point in arguing with a child. She's cry…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 01:36 PM
7

Punch her in the stomach and then smack her ass. Jesus, stop acting so autistic and just say hey
/r/askTRP03/05/18 08:57 AM
2

During the period of my late teens, mid 20's I was in a similar situation as you. Studied, worked graveyard shifts, worked out and lived in a dorm that would set me back only 60€ per month. After I had enough money I bought a storage unit, rented it out. A few years later bought two more, rented them out. Then moved onto bigger objects. Right now I can easily live off the passive income without having to work.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:10 AM
4

If it was an expensive belt I'd quadruple text a bitch to get it back
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:05 AM
5

Stop taking other people problems onto your shoulders. Especially the problems of fucked in the head exes.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:50 AM
7

There is no advice. Women like to fuck, that's it. If the fact that she took variety of foreign cock in her past bothers you don't LTR her. If it doesn't, still don't, because LTR's are not worth it.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 01:35 PM
55

She wants to lock you down because she perceives you as a high value man. You probably gave off "relationship material" kind of vibes throughout the date, used too little kino, didn't escalate enough for it to be a first night lay. You'll still probably get to fuck her soon, but I'm almost guaranteed that either right before or after sex you'll have to endure the "what are we" talk.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 11:55 AM
13

Back when I was learning about existentialism in uni, this realisation that you don't owe anything to anyone, but also that others don't owe shit to you (and you can get mad at them) stuck with me throughout the years. It took me some time but I managed to free myself from saying yes to things against my will, just because I thought it was right. I still remember the rush of joy and feeling proud as fuck when I consciously stopped myself from agreeing to something and saying no instead.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 07:52 AM
2

Go to your doctor and tell him you need your testosterone levels checked out, or contact a lab that runs blood tests and go to them directly, whichever suits you better. Knowing your levels would be a much better indicator than how you're feeling. For example, I got my T levels checked after I had a nasty flu for two weeks, it came back almost TWICE below the norm. (Honestly, I wasn't feeling too bad, but had problems staying erect). Then, I did another checkup a month later when my body has rec…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 07:29 PM
7

So how will you know if your T has increased?
/r/askTRP30/04/18 07:18 PM
12

This covers a very specific situation that often pops up in askTRP. "How to act when a LTR crosses or mentions crossing a boundary". The go-to answer is ignore it and stay unphased. I believe that instead of staying completely indifferent you should covertly express your dissatisfaction with her actions, if it's not something very out of the line (like planning a girls night out to a club). By covertly I mean doing something she'd catch but wouldn't be able to drag up to a conversation (like a s…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 03:04 PM
1

Why don't you start reading their posts? More often than not they will include examples of their behaviors back in their "blue" days as an argument for a point they're making.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 11:52 AM
6

This. I always leave my phone charging in the kitchen over the weekend, because when I'm in no rush to get out of bet I usually spend an extra hour in it, after I wake up, using my phone. But when it's in the kitchen I have no other option but to get up.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 11:06 AM
1

I don't know if I got very lucky with tinder or if my expectations never were high for it, but the app did the job for me. I'd usually get 2-5 matches per week (and since I didn't swipe right endlessly those matches were at least of some quality) and usually push for a date about 3 lines in. So I was having at least 1 date off tinder per week if I wanted to. After about 15 tinder dates, 9 of them ended in maximum 3rd date lays.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 11:03 AM
1

And then you grew your balls back and did the right thing. Nothing to be ashamed of there. Your self worth shouldn't be based on actions of some slut.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 09:14 AM
4

It's only humiliating as long as you take it like that. The only pathetic part in your story is that you still tried to make it work with her, not the fact that she made out with another man.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 09:01 AM
2

Your description of her is a nightmare. You should be fucking happy a relationship with such a toxic cunt ended. Hang in there.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 08:58 AM
37

It means that you shouldn't settle for less. If shes being disrespectful, causing unnecessary drama, playing games you've got no time to play, or doesn't live up to your standards in any other way shape or form- you move on and never look back.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 08:12 AM
2

It really shows that you've been following the manosphere for a day. Majority of people following the ideology are nothing what you're stating. Men bettering their lives, cutting down chains that are holding them back from freedom, focusing on themselves instead of others, for a change, and fucking women along the way. Just because there's a lot of angry lost newcomers, focusing only on women, on the askTRP sub, ir doesn't mean the whole manosphere is like that
/r/askTRP29/04/18 09:08 AM
3

If your frame is as solid as you say why are you here seeking for agreement from strangers? Do whatever the fuck you want to do, I just think you're not ready for a LTR if your mindset is "I'll stay with her until she upgrades". It should be "I'll stay with her as long as I'll want to"
/r/askTRP29/04/18 09:01 AM
2

I'll just butt in and say that I'm proud of you for going out of your comfort zone and actually trying, my dude.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 11:14 AM
1

What are you trying to say? What are we supposed to take from this mess???
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 06:35 AM
3

Add google to your arsenal. I also believe you mean pressure flip. https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/
/r/askTRP28/04/18 06:28 AM
1

Why were you looking for a relationship with her before even fucking? Instead of chasing her, hit the sidebar, it will do you more good
/r/askTRP28/04/18 06:25 AM
7

Plating them and then letting them "drop" you, because you offer absolutely no commitment usually works, plus you get to fuck then a few times more.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 10:41 PM
2

Why the fuck would you even bother to find a meaning in whatever she's saying, as long as she's rimming you? You gor yourself a catch there my dude
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:12 PM
1

If she does that it means she doesn't think your value is high enough for her to chase you
/r/askTRP27/04/18 05:24 PM
2

She's about to hit the wall and if you wont commit she will probably try to find someone that will
/r/askTRP27/04/18 03:25 PM
1

NO. Read the fucking essentials. https://www.google.lt/amp/s/therationalmale.com/2011/12/27/women-in-love/amp/
/r/askTRP27/04/18 02:51 PM
10

All jokes aside, be VERY careful. Don't delete her texts, and I wouldn't suggest meeting her in face, or becoming aggressive with her (like telling to fuck off). If she's crazy don't give her a reason to unleash the crazy on you. Hopefully she will get the hint herself if you'll keep ignoring her. I had my taste of crazy and it doesn't taste good. Long story short- I was fucking this soon-to-be married chick and one night she just starts going through her purse while we're both chilling naked af…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 02:38 PM
20

File a restraining order. If you'll stop posting in about two weeks we'll know what happened
/r/askTRP27/04/18 02:19 PM
3

Your plan sounds good. In the meantime start looking for a new plate, because this one might be breaking soon
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:45 AM
4

She wants you as an orbiter and that's exactly who you are to her. If she's really a hb9 she knows the game inside out and is playing you like a child. Delete. Forget. Move on.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 09:31 PM
4

WATCH THE WHOLE VIDEO TO FIND OUT! (Not clickbait!!!) She's an ex. Move on.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 04:23 PM
1

You need to constantly be improving and moving forward in order to keep other people interested, especially LTR females that are always looking for the best option. (THIS SHOULD NOT BE THE REASON BEHIND YOUR DRIVE TO BETTER YOURSELF!) She's just too comfortable with you right now, probably thinks you're not going anywhere so she doesn't have the wish to try as hard to please you and thus keep you. Dread game will work wonders if you know how to use it.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 09:48 AM
5

"all red pill" would be to next a cunt that has crossed your boundaries. She's not relationship material. A plate at best.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 08:31 AM
3

It's an unconscious action, that can be seen between males also. When someone is charismatic, interesting and dominating the conversation, other people will usually start mimicking his posture, for example if the AMOG leans back and spreads his arms, it's very likely that people that are listening to him will soon do the same.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 06:21 AM
0

Did you read the whole post, or are you just taking lines out of context to make your argument valid?
/r/askTRP25/04/18 10:08 PM
1

Such conclusion is wrong. It all comes down to parenting, and one could argue than in order to raise a child right, his father figure needs to have a lot of knowledge that can also be found here, on TRP. But if you fuck a lot of women it doesn't mean you will be a good father, such assumption is fucking stupid. Now, if we'll look at it from another side- in order for a man to fuck a lot of women he needs to have a high SMV, looks, character and wealth plays a big part in that, and those things a…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 06:36 PM
8

Schedule a meetup. Then post on askTRP what to do when you meet her, and then end your trilogy by posting about how she kicked you in to her orbit. OR, avoid all that by reading the sidebar
/r/askTRP25/04/18 06:26 PM
2

====> sidebar
/r/askTRP25/04/18 02:33 PM
2

It's most likely all in your head, you gotta learn to relax and not stress yourself about your performance. If you think it's not in your head- fix your diet, get some multivitamins, extra ZMA, you can try adding tribilus for additional libido boost. Check your T levels. But then again, it's most likely psychological, go see a shrink.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 11:31 AM
6

"pluck her unibrow" "Spike her drinks" "Toss her salad" It's a stupid question that deserves a stupid answer. Don't think too much about it.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 09:09 AM
6

Set up a date. "You're getting drunk with me this Friday at Xlocation Ytime"
/r/askTRP24/04/18 07:11 PM
6

This sounds like a LDR, and they never work out/are not worth the effort. Even her texting habbits are chipping at you, imagine she gets absolutely wasted on a a nightout and only texts you in the morning saying she drank s bit too much, your head is going to explode. Downgrading her to a plate or completely nexting her would be the best course of action, in order to avoid all the drama and anxiety.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 07:06 PM
16

Didn't even read. She's a plate, you shouldn't care what or whom she's doing. Because she's just a plate. And you can be hers.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 06:47 PM
1

S I D E B A R
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:58 PM
1

Seems like a manifestation of a deeper psychological problem. I'd suggest seeing a shrink, take care of your mental health, my dude, no shame there.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:52 PM
15

Is this how you get nudes from young adults?
/r/askTRP23/04/18 07:58 AM
15

Next her and work on yourself, because you're a fucking insecure pussy and there's no way the relationship could last with your crumbling frame. Also, next her because she's hitting the wall at 200km/h.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 06:56 AM
2

Stop overthinking things and fucking ACT. You have a problem on your hands- you either A) Create yourself an Instagram account and do whatever the fuck you want to do or B) Own the fact that you don't need the instagram account, since you managed to get to where you are without it, and to whatever the fuck you want to do.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 06:52 AM
5

Smoke two packs every day
/r/askTRP22/04/18 04:46 PM
1

I have a friend that seemed like a natural back in the day- tall, buff as fuck, made decent money for his age, fun to be around. He'd message at least 5 new girls every day, so he always had some sort of options. And then he got in to a LTR- proposed after a year, she sucked his wallet dry and then dumped him for a richer dude. It took a year and a half form him to recover. His journey was very interesting to watch from the side.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 06:30 AM
2

It doesn't matter if she did say the truth or not. If she did- my post applies, if she didn't /u/SirKolbath post nails it. The main point is that such behavior is disrespectful and shouldn't be tolerated.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 09:54 AM
4

You don't need to be a genius to understand the most basi rules of interpersonal communication- a skill people with autism lack. You basically called her a complete piece of shit that can't even make you cum straight to her face, and you're surprised that she didn't take it well. If you were really capable of managing to run such an asshole game, you wouldn't be here, because you'd know the consequences of it. But you don't, so you said it without thinking, just because you read it somewhere on …
/r/askTRP20/04/18 09:15 AM
5

This is the dangers of RP, when someone with autism reads the sidebar and then uses the knowledge gained inappropriately/out of context.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 09:09 AM
16

You set a boundary, she crossed it. You shouldn't be losing respect for her, you should be losing respect for yourself, because you're not doing anything about it.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 09:05 AM
11

You're taking the wrong approach here, buddy. You should do and try things YOU find fascinating, not others.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 08:30 AM
10

In the next episode of "all in the name of fun" a girl sucks her boss' dick for FUN. It's clear by your rationalisation of her actions that you don't want to break it off. And I'm not saying you should, I'm just saying you should focus on increasing your abundance, because this isn't looking too bright. A female, that you're in an exclusive relationship with, shouldn't be put in such a position where she mocks you because another male told her to, for fun. And if she is' she should know how to s…
/r/askTRP20/04/18 07:29 AM
3

What the fuck
/r/askTRP20/04/18 06:51 AM
10

Come to terms with the idea that the relationship won't last. Modeling is a very "shady" business. I've known and still do know quite a few model chicks that would outparty me every day of the week with the amount of drugs and cock they take. Since the environment is so stressful, the best way to relax is to get fucked by anyone who is willing (co-worker, the boss, a random guy she meets at a photoshoot in a new ciry) while doing blow. She already showed that the value of her boss is higher than…
/r/askTRP20/04/18 06:45 AM
3

Throughout the years and many bulks, I never bulked to more than 17%, because any closer to 20% and my face becomes the perfect moonshape even with a beard. 15 and lower I get that sharp jaw popping out.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 06:33 AM
1

You're better at handling them in English, because you're using examples you've read here or got from somewhere else. So you're just mimicking. A&A is basically banter, it takes a lot of wit.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 10:31 AM
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It's perfectly fine to do stuff with a plate. Doesn't have to be just sex and nothing else. This. I used to go on proper two day hikes and then fuck in a tent with one of my more sportsy plates. It was great fun.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 10:27 AM
3

A girl should be wanting and pushing YOU to be in a relationship with her. Not the other way around.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 03:31 PM
3

Did you clench your fists while saying it?
/r/askTRP18/04/18 07:21 AM
1

Well then go for it. Inspire others to create. I take great joy in growing tomatoes in my balcony, i fucking love that shit, but it doesn't mean it's right for everyone, but it's right for me, because it brings me value and joy.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 07:18 AM
4

Stop lying to yourself. You're feeling sad because you experienced a huge wave of self confidence boost by lifting, reading, doing all the other shit to better yourself, but then STILL had a lot of failed interactions with women, as youve said yourself. Work on that. Read the sidebar posts about outcome independence and acceptance of failure.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 07:14 AM
4

That's because TRP doesn't have a direction when it comes to finding yourself and your goals, but puts a massive emphasis on following them. If you find the process of creation fascinating- go ahead and create. But it doesn't mean that everyone should.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 07:10 AM
1

By the way, from all my knowledge, her ex wasn’t really alpha. Bad Job, depression, doesn't know how to fuck. There is one exception where he could beat me: He seems to be an extrovert person and really popular on their community and church) How do you know all this, have you talked to him? Have you fucked him? Or are these just rumours your CURRENT girlfriend told about her EX, that dogged her? If she's openly showing signs that she still thinks about her ex- next, you deserve better. When it c…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 07:05 AM
-7

Please stop forcing your broscience down people's throats. While I completely agree that fats are necessary and very good for you, you need to take an adequate amount, according to individual goals. Back to buzzfeed my dude.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 01:41 PM
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Drop the fats to 80-100. Get your protein from chicken, greek yogurt, egg whites and tuna if youre on a budget and dont want to spend money on salmon/steak. Get your carbs from rice oats, nuts(also use it as a main source for fats) and bananas. There you go. It's not rocket science.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 12:24 PM
21

When providing such a biased opinion, link the researches used.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 06:48 AM
3

Move on right to the sidebar
/r/askTRP16/04/18 07:26 PM
6

What pride? You're fucking stressing that a chick you didn't have the balls to make a move on (nice hamster btw, coming up with excuses why you "didn't want it") jumps on another cock. It's literally none of your business so why are you making it about you. Only thing you should be worried about is why you're such a pussy and go hit the sidebar.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 02:10 PM
1

Yes, now you forget her. Game other women, maybe she'll come around herself, maybe not. It doesn't matter anymore.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 11:31 AM
13

Find other options. Or stay in a relationship that is causing your hamster to spin out of control, untill you fuck it up and she crushes your very existence. It will be a good cornerstone to ACTUALLY start reading the sidebar and start evolving as a man.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 10:22 AM
1

That saying is true, but you don't need to take it so literally. It basically boils down to "If she's attracted to you she will make it easy". For example- if she's busy she will tell you in advance so not to upset/anger/waste your time. You can't expect a female to do all the work, unless your value is very high. But we all know where we stand, so we need to act accordingly. I don't expect a hb9 to ask herself to be fucked by me without me initiating, my value isn't that high.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 09:49 AM
1

Anything between the lines of "Meet me at X on Yday/time"
/r/askTRP16/04/18 09:33 AM
1

Jesus fuck. She warned you in advance she might be busy so it's better to reschedule, so she wouldn't be forced to flake on you. Instead of acting like an adequate human being, you decided to misinterpret RP ideologies and PUNISH her by going NC, when she actually actec RIGHT in such situation. And now you want to backpedal. Shoot her a text with a new time for a meetup. But she might actually flake on you now since you acted like a soyboy that skimmed through the two first posts of the sidebar
/r/askTRP16/04/18 09:27 AM
3

https://www.removeddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8br11o/übermensch_mode/
/r/askTRP16/04/18 08:07 AM
6

NMMNG preaches staying true to yourself. Identifying the emotions you're feeling alongside your goals and wishes that stem from within you. It doesn't mean you should express your uncontrolled emotions like a child, throw tantrums everytime something doesn't go your way.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 06:41 AM
3

Why don't you treat her like you would treat any other girl that is at least somewhat interested in you. And if you're planning to continue talking to her via tinder and not irl you definitely have autism.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 06:36 AM
3

Are you one of Zuckerberg's AI prototypes? Of course some plates stick to you more than others, better looks, better head, better sex, better status. Abundance isn't about NOT having feelings, it's about being able to walk away when your boundaries are being crossed, or you're not feeling the "relationship" isn't worth it.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 07:39 PM
4

What about misinterpreting what people are trying to say and then arguing about things people initially didn't even mention, it seems you're having fun with that either, since you're doing it a lot ITT. But hey, whatever floats your boat my dude.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 09:21 AM
4

Is it fun being delusional?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 08:54 AM
3

I'm pretty sure that an out of shape billionaire could fuck any girl you'd point to.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 08:47 AM
1

USE YOUR OWN FUCKING HEAD Do you want to fuck that young slut? - go for it. You don't want to fuck that young slut?- don't. The only beta behavior here is not being certain. There's no universal rule whether you should fuck other girls while in an exclusive relationship or not. It's all up to you. See, thats why you don't even get in to a relationship in the first place- so you could fuck random girls without even having to think twice.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 08:42 AM
4

Don't contact her anymore. She doesn't seem interested. It wasn't even a flake since you didn't even manage to set up a date properly.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 08:25 AM
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Women are more attracted to men that look after their physiques? Having a good body and regularly working out increases your self confidence which manifests in to all aspects of your life??? What the fuck¿¿¿???¿?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 07:49 AM
14

I usually cover the current state of BTC during intercourse
/r/askTRP15/04/18 06:34 AM
6

She shouldn't be anything more than a plate. Do you have the time to deal with a person suffering from a massive mental trauma? You don't even know in what ways it has manifested. It's thin ice my dude, not sure if you should continue to step on it. Don't try to be a hero and ditch the crazy one.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 08:54 PM
8

Finally, after 10 months of hard focus on increasing my benchpress managed to bench 3 plates. (308lbs/140kg)
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 02:33 PM
1

Inform us once you get to rail her. I'm quite certain you'll pull it off. Good job!
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 07:39 AM
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ITS NOT YOUR JOB TO MAKE SURE SHE DOESN'T CROSS THE LINE WITH ANOTHER MALE. Shout this shit till your ears ring. You, as a valuable man, have only one job to do- set boundaries, which you've already done. That's it. If she crosses them in any way, shape or form your next move is clear. Doing nothing might seem counterproductive, but that's the onl thing you can do. She knows how she should act in a relationship and if she chooses not to, no matter what excuse her hamster comes up with curb that …
/r/askTRP13/04/18 07:30 AM
6

The same reason why RPG games with deep story lines are more interesting than a game that simply offers the combat mechanics. Even at porn, all the shit with "stories" or "reality" are popping off like crazy. Everyone knows that porn is fake and doesn't transfer to real life like that. You don't just walk in to a room and fuck a chich for two hours and walk away. Erotic literature focuses on the storyline, the buildup and reflects a real life possibility of it being possible
/r/askTRP12/04/18 10:40 AM
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https://www.google.lt/amp/s/therationalmale.com/2012/08/22/just-get-it/amp/ Your question is answered in the "just get it" paragraph. Read the whole article tho.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 10:33 AM
1

Well how did the approach end? Did you smash, did you get her number and set up a date? Or you simply said hi and she gave you a nod?
/r/askTRP12/04/18 10:09 AM
11

Rumors spread like wildfire, especially in tight communities. If your game is off and you give out a cringey/weird vibe, or approach too many women without f-closing you'll get a reputation for being "that guy".
/r/askTRP12/04/18 10:00 AM
3

Are you skipping school to go to the gym?
/r/askTRP12/04/18 09:56 AM
5

Such posts make me cringe my teeth. "Hey guys, guess what, the world is a DARK AND SCARY place, everyone is a twofaced motherfucker and are trying to cut your throat. Good thing wenhave the TRP mancave to crawl back in to" No my dude, not everyone is trying to get you as long as youre worth something. Yes, you need to be aware of the people that surround you, because there's plenty of them that want to use and abuse you. But there's only a few people that can easily manipulate you and they usual…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 06:50 AM
1

How do you deal with the bad days? I've noticed I have a crash every few weeks for a day or two where I fall in to this neurotic state where I feel like shit (mentally). I usually embrace it by acknowledging it, trying to find the roots of it and just waiting till it passes, which it does. (I believe that you have to stay true to yourself at all times). But I'd like to know how other men deal with such days?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 07:55 PM
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No. Consistent partying and getting smashed is a pretty massive red flag, therefore plate material at best.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 07:48 PM
5

"I don't actually fuck girls, I'm gay. I've been fucking guys twice a day since last December, how many girls are YOU fucking?" Cringelord
/r/askTRP11/04/18 10:39 AM
1

Congrats on the updates. Seems like you found yourself a really good plate. Happy for you, my dude.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 10:04 AM
1

What do you mean you don't think if you should feel good? You think you've got no right to move forward as a man? Feel proud of your accomplishments? Take pride in the physique you've forged in the gym? You're allowed, you're entitled and you should. Stop being a bitch.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 09:35 AM
6

Why don't you cut the wounded lone wolf bullshit and become a better person instead. If your current friends are pushing you away why don't you form a new circle instead of hamstering why it's like that. If you're a depressed sack of shit no wonder people don't want to hang with you. We're social creatures, wee need friends. If girls don't show interest in you- work on that. Quit bitching and start fixing your life. The problem isn't everyone else- it's you.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 09:24 AM
4

Why do you care? The answer is yes. He managed to fuck the virginity out of your little slut and skadoodle outta there without promising any exclusivity
/r/askTRP11/04/18 09:02 AM
2

He was the one she couldn't lock down. But it shouldn't matter to you. Also, don't rush in to a LTR so fast, see if she's actually worth it first.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:38 AM
3

As Rollo said alpha and beta are just abstracts. Alpha is an abstract for a strong, dominant male. Beta- the contrary. You can be in a LTR and have alpha traits, you can fuck hoes every other weekend and have beta traits.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 03:21 PM
2

Did you skip sex-ed in highschool?
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:37 PM
4

It's perfect. You walk the dog and meet a new chick. Two birds- one stone. There's also plenty room for kino, plus a plausible deniability to invite her over "Gotta feed my dog".
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:58 PM
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What do you want to hear? That it's ok to fuck other women while in a relationship so you could validate your hamster and say to yourself "Well the guys on the redpill subreddit said I could..." Man up and make a decision that you think will suit you the best.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:06 PM
1

Clickbait title at it's finest. "Hey guys, I've made a single observation and it supports a point of view I hold. Let me reach as far as I can and generalize it" It's a good thing you're noticing red flags and becoming more picky with women, but come on...
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 10:38 AM
2

There's n+1 reasons why she flaked and you shouldn't be concerned about any of them.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 08:12 PM
3

I stuck to a 4 day split for over 6 years. Obviously the excersises have changed,, but it's basically the same shit. Right now I'm at 6ft2 (190cm), 209lbs (95kg), ~12%bf. I kept everything simple, including my bulking and cutting diets, reducing or increasing calories and macros, increasing or reducing the amount of cardio. This just goes to show that not everything has to be complex in order to work as long as you stay consistent.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 07:45 PM
1

How is telling them to clinge to the blue ways except from a different end of the stick, instead of telling them how to improve themselves helpful?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 03:03 PM
1

Most men are bluepilled and reject the truths preached here, so the entire manosphere should be shut down because it doesn't suit the "majority of men"?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 01:52 PM
2

Terrible advice and terrible insights. Just because you selfishly loved a girl and she decided toccurb you, since you were acting needy, hurt and overall lost frame, doesn't mean that this is the general case. You need to love yourself first. Once you do, your love for others becomes "pure", you no more seek to be loved back, you no more seek validation. But if you're weak, you'll want to get back everything you give, even your emotions, and if you're in such mindset I could see how loving someo…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 12:24 PM
3

Keep hamstering my dude. If you want to gamble your life on marriage- go ahead. No one says that women can't bring any quality to your life, besides sex, but you don't need to marry them in order to achieve it.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 08:43 AM
5

You shouldn't stress about that. It's HER decision not no see anyone else, because your value is high enough for her to want to lock you down. (You can't even be sure she will keep that "promise"). You didn't agree to anything yourself, so it shouldn't bother you at all.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 08:14 AM
10

The things you want, you can easily obtain from a plate. But hey, it's your choice and Im not going to try to talk you out of it. You still need to scan them both for much longer than a few dates and a few fucks before you give out the promotion.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 08:09 AM
10

Is the wish to commit to either of these girls genuine or are you forcing yourself to believe that "it is the right thing to do"?
/r/askTRP30/03/18 08:04 AM
5

Occupy yourself, so your mind doesn't have the freedom to roam.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 05:36 AM
0

It's called the RED pill because of communism. So yes, WE
/r/askTRP29/03/18 07:58 PM
7

Amused mastery is the best way to get out of a direct question you can't ignore. What do you do for a living "Spam my referral links" "go out on tinder dates" "organised crime" "make skateboarding videos"
/r/askTRP29/03/18 07:50 PM
1

I feel you. There are days where I need to force-swallow the chicken down using water. But cooking my meals in advance saves me time that I usually don't have; to cook 5 different meals every day.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 05:10 PM
12

it gives them the impression you have a life besides them. It shouldn't be just an impression.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 03:21 PM
1

It makes me fucking mad and i just want to say hell no..! and move on.. Do it. You've laid the boundary. She knows the consequences that will follow if she goes out with that guy.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 11:14 AM
8

Buy chicken, eggs and tuna in bulk. Boil the eggs, put the chicken in the oven store the tuna in the cupboard. Put the meals in tupperware for the next 3-4days and keep them in the fridge. Easy life, easy protein.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 08:41 AM
12

Your approach is wrong. If a guy I don't know walked up to me at work and asked how my weekend was I probably wouldn't indulge in a conversation with him. Now if I was at the gym, or sitting on a bench enjoying a coffee and and another male sat down I'd be up for a chat. It's not your social status, it's your approach.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 08:22 AM
1

I've tried various different things throughout the years and have found what works best for a specific goal (bulking, cutting, maintaining, increasing vascularity, growing strength)
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 04:53 PM
1

Are you talking about doing a show/competition?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 04:18 PM
15

How do you regain passion to lift? I've been doing for over six years and at this point it's mandatory, but nothing more. I don't really enjoy it and the "afterglow" doesn't last for very long. I go in, do the routine and leave. Last time I was excited for gym was when I bought a new PWO. Any tips?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 02:39 PM
2

Maybe I have missed a link to the sidebar yes you have https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:30 PM
3

Now that's a proper response. If OP truly feels that way, hats off to him for actually finding a relief from suffering inside his own head.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 12:04 PM
1

That's just hamstering yourself out of the reality. Just like in Sopranos, Tony didn't want to accept that looking after his mother was a burden, restricting his freedom. It doesn't matter if you're doing it out of compassion, respect or whatever else. It doesn't bring you freedom mongoose is preaching. All I'm saying is that the example doesn't fit very well for this topic.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 08:15 AM
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So sacrificing yourself to take care of your father (In no way am I trying to say that it is a bad thing to do) helps you become free of fear and brings you "freedom"? That sounds quite the contrary- clinging hard to keep him close to yourself, trying to hide from the fear of losing him for as long as possible. (Again, not trying to devalue your actions, just pointing out the flaws in your example and the point you're trying to get across).
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 07:46 AM
1

In this context average= rational. And in order to achieve anything you should want to have a rational understanding of your own abilities and possibilities to attain a certain goal.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 05:11 AM
6

Actually struggling with a mental illness vs. a cry for attention. While suicide threats should not be taken lightly they're usually not followed through, mostly because the "victims" get the validation, affection and attention they seek after the cry for help has been published. They vent out and calm down.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 01:23 PM
0

That's because everyone wants to be acknowledged and share their REVOLUTIONARY ideas. I mean science of psychology is a great analogy to the manosphere. We're moving past the Freudian, Jungian and all the others mumbo-jumbo phase, where everything was based off observations and/or introspection, and demanding more strong evidence based theories/ideas. Which is a lot harder to provide, I guess some people still want to cash in on rewriting the same shit in other words.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 12:51 PM
8

The quote I absolutely love is "The worst number of women to have is one"
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 12:04 PM
5

girls trying to get in my head and make me feel bad/ making me feel like I’m in a relationship when Im really not? Im mean Im not but damn this bitch is trying make me feel bad with this boyfriend nonsense. You answered it yourself. From what you wrote she can't be anything more than a plate. There's nothing wrong with what you're doing. Keep fucking her if you feel like it. If it brings you too much drama drop her.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 08:58 AM
5

Is this what special snowflakes ideology has lead to? Average men, thinking they're above average doubting if compliments about their mediocrity are genuine or not?
/r/askTRP23/03/18 07:32 AM
7

She tested the waters. You showed that you don't like the idea of her meeting up with the ex. (She already knew it, but still wanted to see if it's true). Now it's out in the open. If she follows through- you know what to do. This is a basic test of your boundaries.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 09:31 PM
1

I agree, but it's not what OP tries to argue. Once you're introduced to the manosphere and have a solid foundation of theory under your belt, you're no longer "blind", unless you outright refuse to accept what you're reading.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 09:21 AM
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That's why girls are the masters of the game. She flat out rejected you, but threw a little meaningless bait, to keep you in her orbit, and you swallowed it like a chump.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 08:58 AM
1

She'll hit you up herself, once trouble in paradise starts again, as long as you fucked her good.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:47 PM
1

Ideally yes, rely on learning from the history of others to avoid experiencing it yourself where possible; but the reality of the lesson will never teach you so harshly and effectively as when it cracks you over the head like a sledgehammer. This is the only part that makes sense. If you're at least adequate you shouldn't need to try heroin to know it can fuck you up. Just like you shouldn't need to experience a certain type of suffering to know that the world isn't all that colorful and happy. …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 02:22 PM
14

Too many variables to give you an universal answer. Short version- yes. Long version- it depends heavily on her relationship and who she's with. If it's a high value man she's happy FOR THE MOMENT with, it will be hard to outgame him.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 08:40 AM
6

Act like nothing happened. Because nothing actually did happen. She just made a big deal out of nothing and you supported it by being apologetic and falling in to her frame. Forget it happened, if she brings it up just brush it off like it's no big deal, tell her you'll call her a big clean nun next time.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 08:18 AM
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While I agree that theory should be put in to practice. I don't think you need to cross the seven circles of hell in order to swallow the pill. Theory helps us avoid them. You don't need to experience your girl riding Chad in your bed, as long as you know that you need to set boundaries early on, and walk away if they get crossed. You also don't need to fuck someone's wife, if it goes against your moral compass, to know that this shit happens and woman don't give two shits about the "bonds of ma…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 07:51 AM
3

I'd say the sub is only now starting to actually realised and accept the difference between LTR's and relationships with plates. Of course it will be be hard to spike and keep a woman's interest if you're pushing for a relationship after the first date, because it shows her that you're not a challenge, you're ready to commit at thr snap of her fingers= no options. But once you're in a relationship this does not apply anymore, because the whole dynamic changes. By then she already knows you COULD…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 07:22 AM
8

There's a big difference between having girl friends when you're both on equal terms and when you're friendzoned. When it's the former you get access to her friends, more invites and in some cases even connections. When you're friendzoned you don't get access to anything except being her emotional tampon.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 11:51 AM
1

My go to method is to force myself. Yeah, I might not want to lift today, because I've been at it for 6 years and don't feel as motivated, but I chug down my preworkout and have no other options left, but to go. Yeah, I might not want to get any business done today, because I feel lazy, but I ring people up and tell them I'll be on time and have no other options, but to go there. I might slow down, but I don't let myself fully stop, because there's a high risk of getting stuck.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 10:18 AM
2

You've guessed it right it's most likely A. Don't beat yourself over it, it's really hard to build a solid attraction through texts, especially via tinder for it to last the whole week. It doesn't indicate anything.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 03:39 PM
1

This isn't your personal blog. You should care about the content you're posting on the main page.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 09:20 AM
1

I don't think anyone suggest to go against your emotions here. TRP only tells you to learn to know the difference between the emotions that stem from you and the emotions you've programmed yourself to feel because it's "socially expected to". Actually, quite the contrary. RP preaches for you to find your own passion, work towards your own goals and create a better life for yourself . All these things require connecting with your inner self and doing what you feel is right, for you, not for anyon…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 09:15 AM
5

Your mom wants your dick. Freud approves. If you come from the 1% no wonder your mom doesn't want you to be seeing lowlife sluts, because of status and reputation
/r/askTRP14/03/18 04:59 PM
3

Regardless whether you'll be able to slay the girl or not I'd like to applaud you for having the balls to pull off such an uncomfortable approach. Good job!
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 08:15 PM
3

No, you're not doing alright. Even if you're not acting needy to her face your hamster is spinning out of control and eventually it will break your frame.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 08:09 PM
5

I agree with this, tho I think you'd enjoy the game more with a bro than a girl you've never met before.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 04:53 PM
7

Girls don't want to come off as sluts and nothing says slut like going STRAIGHT to a guys place she met online. Meet her at the bar, invite her over to your place to look at X and fuck her. "Oh, I just went over to his place to look at his supreme dragon dildo and then it JUST HAPPENED, because we had great chemistry"
/r/askTRP13/03/18 06:35 AM
19

Lift weights- admire gains
/r/askTRP13/03/18 06:22 AM
2

In two months you could've read the entire sidebar and made your own opinion on what aspects to implement irl.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 05:33 AM
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Once they find a crack they'll start chipping at it very careful, but continuously. A few years ago when I was in a LTR I bought my ex a gift she wanted for her birthday, without even thinking twice. Then she started asking for more things (purses, dresses, vacations and so on) "oh, come look at this dress, I REALLY would like to have it" which has never ever happened before prior to that. Thank God I was aware of her actions and didn't fall in to the hole of BB. "Materialistic gifts are not an …
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 05:30 AM
4

I believe that this Aristotle's quote would fit perfectly here "IIt is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it" Many times have I seen people here and in the real world jump the trigger to inadequately defend their beliefs or discard a source without even trying to think there are other angles to look at the same situation.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 03:08 PM
7

Mate guardian is trying to control your woman because you're afraid she will find someone better and dump your insecure ass. (I FORBID you to go clubbing) Controlling your woman is giving orders to make your relationship better. (You should make lasagna tonight, babe.) When you're "controlling" you don't try to remove red flags like mateguards do. Because redflags means she's not LTR material.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 02:09 PM
7

She was the one that nexted you. And it seems that it is fucking with your hamster if a single text message brothers you so much.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 02:05 PM
1

What's so confusing? She responded because your message sparked enough interest for her to. That's it. It doesn't mean anything more. It doesn't mean she wants to fuck you, it doesn't mean she's fallen for you.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 11:40 AM
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Girls get shitton of messages on dating websites. Even average looking ones. So you either have to be really good looking or communicate in an unusual way, in order to spike their interest
/r/askTRP11/03/18 11:28 AM
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Next her. The amount of disrespect is too big to try to "fix" it by implementing dread, and it will only increase in the future. Save yourself the trouble now.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 11:22 AM
1

Look at her as an asset. She brings in money towards your goal. If you drop her as a client, you will lose money. As a man, you should be in control of your urges, the temptation should never overpower you.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 08:48 AM
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If you believe that fucking her might have some negative outcome on your career, mess up future client opportunities or just put a black spot on your PT resume- don't. No pussy is worth it. If fucking a married woman messes with your moral compass- don't. Staying true to your beliefs and yourself is very important. If you've got your life in order just as you've described you shouldn't have any problems having other plates that wont interfere with your goals and your beliefs.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 08:33 AM
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So basically you're saying that your exes will always blame you for the break up. You're only responsible for YOUR OWN actions and thoughts, who cares what a woman, that is no longer in your life thinks? Also, fix your formatting please.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 07:35 AM
8

It might be a sign that you're trying too hard and your thirst is showing.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 07:00 AM
1

I don't think there's anything wrong in wanting to fuck someone else when your LTR acts up (because such behaviour pushes you away from her) as long as there's no intention to fuck other girls to get back at your LTR for acting up. If she misbehaves a lot, maybe you should consider breaking up with her and just spin plates. When you weight the pros and the cons, it might actually be better for you. Now, if she doesn't talk to you for a few days, in order to show her real/fake abundance I'd reall…
/r/askTRP11/03/18 06:58 AM
1

You're worried that a female you're fucking probably had intercourse with someone better than you?
/r/askTRP10/03/18 10:42 PM
3

Yeah bro pictures are for fucking betas. i mean even talking to women is a beta move if you're not fucking 10 seconds in to meeting her you're a complete beta
/r/askTRP10/03/18 10:35 PM
5

Fucking talk to people and make connections. Jesus, what else do you expect? Some elaborate step-by-step plan on how to sneakily trick other people in to being friends with you?
/r/askTRP10/03/18 10:29 PM
3

I'm jacked and usually the best looking at s party . I think all that gets to my head and fucks with my ego. Sometimes I expect bitches to melt within 30 seconds and expect them to do all the work. If that doesn't happen I feel like I blew the set
/r/askTRP09/03/18 09:18 AM
4

Accept the reality- you're not as hot as you think you are. It's a common mistake seen here. Everyone gives themselves a really good overall estimate 7-8/10 when in reality it's most likely not the case. Once you're confident in your own skin you shouldn't get cold feet anymore.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 08:41 AM
1

Everything from suggesting dietary/lifestyle changes to trt.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 07:01 AM
2

Why the fuck would such thing trigger you? If it's an "open" question just answer it openly "What did you think?" I'm quite certain Bush did 9/11. capitalism doesn't give us equal opportunity.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 04:59 AM
1

Why are people so afraid of actually checking their test levels? Especially when experiencing side effects that have a high chance of being caused by low T. Stop speculating and get the bloodwork done.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 04:24 AM
10

Oh yes, nothing says wife material better than regularly going out clubbing.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 04:18 AM
4

Why don't you continue bulking up to at least 200lbs+ so you'd have something left after a cut
/r/askTRP09/03/18 04:15 AM
1

I don't think there is a bullet proof way for these things. It's basically a mental battle you need to win yourself. I believe introspection is the best approach for this. Also, I think that we can look at it as a phobia, and a popular way to treat phobias is exposure therapy- a type of therapy where you actively are exposed to the things causing you fear and distress, when creating various scenarios in your head. Eventually getting used to and overcoming them.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 04:09 AM
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While this looks like a lazy answer it's the best one. RP doesn't have an unlimited amount of theory. To be fair, there's not that much theory at all. And if you're truly willing to swallow the pill you gotta plow through the good and the shitty texts/articles to get a full understanding of the concept. I know everyone these days wants a shortcut to everything, but cutting corners here might lead to misunderstandings, misinterpretations or focusing on the wrong things.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 04:14 PM
10

Does this look like a subreddit of your university?
/r/askTRP08/03/18 03:58 PM
1

"she's not yours, it's only your turn" was the hardest grain of the pill to digest, personally. While I understood it, I didn't really accept it at first. I still wanted my turn to never end with every girl I spent a longer amount of time with. I wanted to be the best, her only priority, the one she never forgets. Such unrealistic expectations for myself would give me anxiety which would transcend in to neurotic behaviour and in to my everyday life. With a lot of introspection and rationalising …
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 04:47 AM
9

why would she branch swing down? You sure about that?
/r/askTRP07/03/18 04:03 PM
3

Because it's better to overanalyze every situation to the point where if a girl doesn't say bless you after you sneeze she doesn't respect you as a man and never will.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 11:45 AM
19

You did great. Good thing you slowed the escalation down and tried a different approach. Meet up with her again give her the dick.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 11:36 AM
3

Next and focus on graduating.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 11:15 AM
1

I don't really see how you can hate a job you're actually good at and your pay is more than adequate. Once you have 200k in your bank you can make smart investments and live off passive income having more free time than necessary to do shit you enjoy, if that's what you're after. Financial independence is a very powerful possition to be in and to reach that good pay IS mandatory.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 12:06 PM
2

Philosophising about life is a pretty fun thing to do at 03:00, but it won't get you anywhere in real life. It's better to "sacrifice" 5 years in your early 20's becoming a "professional", making connections and building a solid foundation for your future than waste your youth "enjoying life" just to come to a realisation that you're basically done in your 30's. But hey, that's just me, at the end of the day- do whatever makes you happy.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 11:31 AM
1

Money comes first, hobbies come second. If you can combine these two- great, if not- oh well.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 10:10 AM
1

Go to bodybuilding forums. Read on stacks and PCT protocols, find out your local prices. Also read threads about side effects and how to deal with them. Anabolics are not to be messed with and if you can't do the research on your own, you shouldn't be juicing in the first place.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 10:08 AM
5

Oh. This would benefit the mankind greatly. You're the hero we don't deserve. Get your shit together and stop acting like a child. Yeah, she cheated on you, so fucking what? Now go on and use this negative energy to work on yourself instead of becoming a V for Vendetta edgelord. Jesus.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:38 AM
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Never said you should keep the other girl. I highly doubt you've got anything to benefit the society and men in general. Was she smuggling kids? Is she spreading Russian propaganda? Did she do 9/11? Or is she simply a low life whore, you know, the kind that is absolutely everywhere. But hey, if you're too weak to get rid of the hatred let it consume you.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 07:04 PM
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Move on, don't demote her to a plate, don't wait and see if she's changed. Simply remove her from your life, cut contact and move on. It's great you've got another chick waiting for you. Now, talking about your edit I wouldn't follow up with the "ruin-her-life" revenge plan, because that just shows you're hurt by her actions. Letting go will be a much better lesson for your personal growth than seeking and/or getting revenge.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 06:55 PM
5

If you truly believe you're too numb go see a therapist. There's no magic phrase or a motivational quote we can help you with. Take care of your mental health my dude.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 10:10 AM
5

It's not about the N count, it's about how she treats you and how much value she brings in to your life.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 05:57 PM
11

Who the fuck cares as long as you enjoy it
/r/askTRP04/03/18 02:59 PM
5

Don't talk about RP isn't just a cheesy quote from the fight club. It's for your own safety. Bluepillers don't want to hear controversial truths and you shouldn't try to convince them, even if you feel like you're helping them. In conversations where you don't have much to say- listen Let them speak, ask questions, let them feel like they're teaching you something (how to get laid by sending good morning texts) you're not there to make friends, but to make connections.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 03:17 PM
5

I had a few ltrs, after swallowing the pill myself, but I always knew they were temporary and will only last as long as it will bring ME happiness. I never cared that I might be replaced as soon as someone better than me shows up, because I love myself and don't need it from others. As soon as the happiness faded I would end the relationship without trying to "salvage" it.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 09:32 PM
3

That's fine, I never said that you should indulge in anything more. I'm just saying that people usually have unrealistic requirements for females and then they get angry and/or upset at them for not being able to live up to something that is simply impossible.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 09:25 PM
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They don't love you in a way the blue pilled mind might expect to. But it doesn't mean they don't experience love at all. Once you accept that this is the truth and stop expecting the impossible, you'll be able to create and enjoy a romantic relationship with a woman, if that's what you're after (and it seems that op is) "Women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of." - Rollo. ( https://therationalmale.com/2011/12/27/wom…
/r/askTRP02/03/18 09:19 PM
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That's because you don't know how to love. Your love is selfish, your love wants validation, you want to be loved back, you are weak. Learn to love yourself first, so that you won't seek love from others. Females are wired differently than us, they will neber be able to express the intergalactical love people crave so much. But that is ok, that is fine. As soon as you wrap your head around it, you'll stop expecting for it, and just enjoy their company. Outcome independence, in this sense, means …
/r/askTRP02/03/18 08:12 PM
5

Your hamster broke the wheel
/r/askTRP02/03/18 12:34 PM
8

TRP preaches being open to the possibility of getting hurt, but not being affected by it. Not being afraid of rejection (but not shutting yourself off from trying). Being outcome independent (but still creating relationships with other people) and so on.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 07:51 AM
4

If you were exclusive she shouldn't even create a situation where she could possibly cheat. It's a woman's job to make you feel secure in a relationship, because you're the prize that might walk away at any sign of your boundaries being crossed.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 07:15 AM
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If you say shit that gets taken the wrong way learn to think before you speak. There's a very thin line between being blunt and being fucking stupid. Regarding her feminist message she probably was just having banter with you, because it was similair to your entitlement message. So yes, you failed by taking it seriously.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 07:05 AM
2

Even if she was his girl, her relationship with a dude she used to smash, would still be none of his business. If he's not retarded enough to actually try to rape her once she's there, you have nothing to worry about. If they'll fuck- she's not ltr worthy. If they won't- she's probably still not ltr worthy, but hey, they didn't fuck. To do this, simply ask her to call you once she leaves his house because "you'd like to know if she's okay". If she takes longer to call you back than It would take…
/r/askTRP01/03/18 06:51 AM
1

Average is good. It means biologically your sex drive is there. Take care of your body by providing it with vitamins and minerals. If youre experiencing a lot of stress look in to that.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 04:14 PM
15

Silent treatment- childish game teenagers play, where you purposely ignore someone because you're butthurt. Soft next- a reduction of attention to a certain person, with no hopes to get at them, or to "teach them a lesson". Simply because you don't need them in your life anymore. If a person you've nexted is still in your group of friends you don't need to completely ignore them, just don't go out of your way to do anything related to that person.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 03:27 PM
2

If you're hitting the gym hard make SURE you take your vitamins. Get that zinc and vitamin D. Hop on some Tribulus for a libido boost. Also check your T levels to know if it's a biological or a psychological problem.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 03:22 PM
3

That's the problem with working out. Once you get hooked you'll never be fully satisfied. As a fellow gym rat that has been doing it for 6 years I can say I'm most likely much more conserned about my body than an out of shape guy that hasn't hit the gym in years. I catch myself feeling bad after missing gym for two weeks due to an ilness even tho I still look quite solid, objectively, but subjectively, I believe I look like shit. It's much easier to get a big confidence boost from the gym for be…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 03:16 PM
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I believe that the most important part of becoming self- aware is being truthful to yourself. And that's why I don't purely agree with the idea of fake it till you make it that is spread here. Faking if might lead to straying away from reality, becoming overconfident or overindulged in to things to the point where you no longer can judge the situation adequately. Being true to yourself and in the process of digesting the pills leads to you identifying your own weaknesses and objects that are cau…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 05:15 PM
1

No, such posts are not appreciated here. Lowkey, fuck, not even lowkey bragging about meaningless things does not belong on the first page.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 06:29 PM
2

Right back at you, friendo.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 11:49 AM
1

Well, if you truly believe that there's a difference between inviting a girl over for a drink or for a movie if your game is on point then there's nothing else we can discuss.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 11:46 AM
0

Yes, but what you'll invite her over for doesn't. (A movie, a drink, a comic book...)
/r/askTRP23/02/18 11:39 AM
1

Invite one of your plates to come with you if it's a group thing.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 10:49 AM
1

It doesn't matter. I know, you know and females know, that once they agree to come over it's not to do X unless X is fucking. If your game is off there's no way she will reconsider no matter what you have to offer at home. Unless its your 900 sq foot cryptocurrency mining rig.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 10:47 AM
2

If a girl isn't pushing for exclusivity it means there won't be any untill SHE feels ready. And if you'll push for it will cost you a lot of value, because you're walking down from the pedestal on your own free will, you're de-crowning yourself as the prize. She then has nothing else to prove to you.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 08:08 AM
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Shes most likely trying to pull you back in to her orbit. So the only thing you can do is ignore her. If you truly feel like there's a chance and are not phased by the idea of getting rejected reply with something quite straightforward like "Staying in tonight, watching the Titanic. Drop by."
/r/askTRP23/02/18 07:51 AM
3

She's likely projecting her dissatisfaction with her own physique+ masking her fear of you leaving her.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:18 AM
1

You handled this quite poorly my man. Responding and indulging in to a full blown conversation with a retard, thus making yourself one. Saying you've got people to back you up. This just shows that you're worried "uuuuh, if you do that my brother, who is two years older, will fuck you up" Hamstering the situation so much Nothing has happened and you're already reaching out to your friends and askTRP, when the whole situation is a fucking joke.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:05 AM
1

Not acting. BEING confident.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 01:04 PM
3

Don't acknowledge that they're ex's of your woman. Act how you would act normally in a social situation where you don't know the crowd- talk to people, get to know them. If it so happens that you'll start a conversation with one of the guys, resume to my first statement. If they'll try to break your frame by saying some shit like "You know I and X used to hook up a few years ago" don't fall for it, it's a basic powerplay. (you can respond with something like "She upgraded quite well, eh?")
/r/askTRP20/02/18 12:38 PM
1

RP is so much more than just women. And you're forgetting the most fundamental truth spread out here- stoicism. ‘Who […] is the invincible human being?’ Epictetus once asked, before answering the question himself: ‘One who can be disconcerted by nothing that lies outside the sphere of choice' Skepticism and negative thinking has poisoned much stronger structures than RP. For example existentialism- right now it's basically a synonym for apathy and despair, when in an objective reality it couldn'…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 10:25 PM
1

All that hatred towards the world bullshit gets praised here because a lot of people of this sub are driven by hate- hate for women, hate for successful people, hate for alphas that bullied them. There's no compromise, so posts with only shades of black comfort them and connect to their ideology.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 09:43 PM
1

It probably won't work, because girls don't want to accept that they're sluts and if they'll simply agree to jump on your dick, they won't have a reason to justify it "oh it just happened" "I wasn't planning on..." "It was the alcohol".
/r/askTRP16/02/18 07:22 AM
2

Just buy bondage ropes, watch a few beginner videos and give her the experience yourself.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 10:10 PM
5

It doesn't matter. As long as she brings value to my life she can stay.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 10:08 PM
5

You're right, only trained for over a decade during my teens.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 08:37 AM
10

It depends on your mindset. Martial arts can either teach you self discipline, respect, and how to defend yourself thus boosting your confidence. Or you can learn how to become a fucking douche that looks for flights at bars to validate himself.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 08:20 AM
13

Abundance positively correlates with self confidence. Once YOU, recognise YOURSELF as a high value man, as the prize, you will know that if the current relationship would end, you'd go out and find a new girl to fuck in no time. There's no need to actually have plates while in LTR to maintain that, but it takes much more work with yourself.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 06:23 AM
2

Identify and avoid BPD women, just a few scrolls down over at that weird collection of texts at the side. I've never read them myself, because why would you ever put anything of any value there, neither should you.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 06:11 AM
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Fuck, you're right. Be right back, dropping my plates for not providing cheap labour!
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 04:31 PM
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While I understand what you're trying to say, I don't really follow your given examples "I set up a date with this girl and she flaked BUT she said she's free next week. Should I give her another chance?" If she flaked and offered another time for a date why wouldn't you accept? Especially if it's a first date. Life happens "My relationship has all sorts of red flags BUT she's never been shady before, should I trust her?" Judge her by her actions, not her words. If she's not doing anything shady…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 02:28 PM
7

it’s not like I’m staying friends with her in hopes for her to come around. If she does, cool. If she doesn’t, Not my problem and not my fuck to give Stop fucking lying to yourself and us. If you truly felt that way you wouldn't be posting here.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 11:35 AM
3

It's not even OP's turn since they're not exclusive. She's just a plate everyone can spin
/r/askTRP14/02/18 11:29 AM
3

Passing shit tests successfully has very little to do with theory. Theory mostly helps to identify them, other than that it's all about wit and sharpness of your tongue. It's the same as having banter with the boys, you can't prepare for it, because its situational and if you'll try to be all technical about it you'll come off as Michael from The Office trying to tell the "up dog" joke. https://youtu.be/8kMqpZ5GKQM
/r/askTRP14/02/18 06:55 AM
4

Jesus, can't you make such a simple decision on your own? Why do you care about "how it looks". If you feel like going there, because you believe it will be fun then go, if not- don't. If you are thirsty and desperate you will look thirsty and desperate everywhere you go.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 05:33 AM
1

This. You're in no position to try and change her behaviour, just like she isn't to ask you to lower your expectations. If it's not working, there's nothing wrong with you or her, you two just don't match well.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 08:38 PM
13

I remember when my old friend reached out after a being dumped by his toxic ex, I tried to tell him that he should be happy that such a horrible relationship has ended and she was very likely fucking other guys on the side and showed no positive traits as a long term partner. I soon noticed that he was having none of it so I just had to shut up, before coming out as a hater.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 05:28 AM
8

It's not about breaking hearts, it's about being able to move on as easily as possible, and if that means completely cutting someone off, well then it's something you need to do. Stop clinging to the idea of having the last laugh and saying the super deep line that will completely shatter a girls heart after a break up and she will always remember you as the one. That shit only happens in movies, you shouldn't focus on that.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 08:52 PM
1

Sometimes, "improving your game" means "Knowing when to walk the fuck away". You know, like now. THIS. You can't game every woman just like you can't recover from every fuck up you do, no matter how much of a hot shit you think you are. Knowing when and being able to walk away is a part that is essential for the quality of life and your smv.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 01:30 PM
1

It's just that people tend to ignore the truth by not being true to themselves. They'll mask the manipulative behaviours of others with thoughts like "I am a good person and I should do this"/"I'm a fucking alpha and there's no way I'm being used, I WANT to do this, because Im alpha"
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 05:45 AM
5

It looks so simple when you read it but it's very fucking hard to actually have such a mindset. Thats why working and I mean actually working with yourself is very necessary, no book, no text, no speech will ever make you put yourself first if you're not willing to dig deep and hard in to your own mindset and battle all the demons and insecurities. People don't want to do that, especially guys over at askTRP, because they're so full of themselves they believe they're already complete and perfect…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 01:51 PM
25

This, this is the only response you should follow. You verbally expressed a very specific boundary. If anything similar happens again be a man of your word and walk away. There's nothing else you should do.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 01:50 PM
1

The most basic stuff. I've been a gym rat for 7 years, I take multivitamins, extra omegas, extra zinc, extra magnesium and D3 daily. It's usually enough to endure 5 workouts, work and have a healthy sex life. If not, tribulus does the trick.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 01:01 PM
1

This hits the spot. I remember in my last LTR I couldn't perform very well for a few weeks due to overexhaustion and lack of vitamins. And she would keep on mentioning it in a very sly way, by asking "Is everything OK? Are you still attracted to me?". While it wasn't a direct jab she would still mention it and thus show that she also notices that I can not perform and she made sure I knew that. Good thing I was aware of my own self and what was happening and didn't let these comments get anywher…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 10:11 AM
2

Are you her therapist?
/r/askTRP27/01/18 12:04 AM
49

Isn't inviting someone over for "school work" code name for fucking while in highschool?
/r/askTRP26/01/18 03:17 PM
3

You didn't pass, because you obviously showed and told her you were bothered by breaking whatever you had off. A pass would've been "Okay, have a good rest", and then dread the fuck out of her.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 03:05 PM
3

Tell her you've already made other plans (don't explain any further, also you actually should make other plans in such scenario) and then offer her another date to meet her
/r/askTRP26/01/18 11:41 AM
7

Your comment history is a fucking disaster. All you do is spew RP meta terms in the edgiest way possible without making any rational sense. People like you shouldn't be allowed to give advice
/r/askTRP26/01/18 08:08 AM
9

Yes, women that have sex are gross. Eww.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 08:01 AM
3

You can't be mad at a woman for not being able to experience relationships and love in a way she can not. It's like being angry at an android phone for not being able to run iOS apps. If you want to enjoy relationships and female company, you need to accept that women won't truly love you, not because they chose so, but because they're wired that way and asking for anything more is jusy pointless.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 06:37 AM
3

Where's the amused mastery in your given example?
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:19 PM
3

Smooth way to directly tell her you fail at keeping any kind of mystery
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:53 PM
41

Thats why abundance is necessary. It overrules the fear of losing someone you "love" and it also let's you actually experience "love" and enjoy it, instead of being an emotionless animal who really is just afraid of being hurt. Does it really matter that a woman can't really truly experience the intergalactical love, the love that breaks in to the fourth dimension and gives us purpose? No. It does not. As long as she brings value and positivity in to your life you should enjoy it, instead of try…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 11:45 AM
2

As closing remarks say "Mistakes were made making this presentation, just like last Friday's night" -while looking at the beast.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 09:50 PM
2

As washed up as it sounds, you shouldn't care what people, especially on the internet, think of you, as long as you know yourself that you're solid. Since you've mentioned that you meditate, this should help you be aware of yourself at most times, meaning you understand and identify your emotions before letting your body instinctively react without thinking. Use this. When you start to feel uncomfortable reinforce the lockdown. Also you can start using more gestures to accompany your speech so t…
/r/askTRP19/01/18 09:59 AM
5

Come on now, you don't need to prove to me that you're a high value man, because A) I don't care and B) Neither should you. Why are you seeking validation from total strangers? You've already pinpointed the problem-, anxiety, now it's time to find out what it is being caused by, my guess would be seek for validation, when you lock eyes with someone that has a strong frame/high value you feel awkward because you're not sure if you're "better than them". Stop comparing, stop seeking for validation…
/r/askTRP19/01/18 09:42 AM
2

It's not anger. It's about emphasising. Your question is absolutely meaningless, how the fuck are we supposed to know how to get nudes from a certain female none of us has met and/or interacted with. So instead of asking this, you should be reading the sidebar so you'd know how to get nudes on your own it it gets you off.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 09:35 AM
3

How do you know people respect you if you can't even look them in the eye? Eye contact is so much more than just looking at someone, it's a complex, meaningful ritual, us animals do. It varies from being a power play, a tool of intimidation and asserting dominance to letting a girl know it's time for her to get down on her knees. It's not somr skill you can learn, it comes from within you, if you can't keep the contact it means there's something within you that is holding you back (anxiety, lack…
/r/askTRP19/01/18 09:14 AM
11

I think you need to point out that you're a 9/10 smv natural alpha a few more times. I'm not sure I'm convinced yet. Looks will only get you that far, SMV consist of other, much more important aspects (social skills, confidence, power, wit). But hey, if chanting that you're a Greek god helps you become one then go ahead, do whatever makes you feel more confident.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 08:20 AM
3

Crying is an emotional outlet, meaning you don't know how to deal with the current emotions that are overwhelming you, so you let them out through tears. There's no shame in crying, though there is shame in reasoning behind it. If you're a solid, high value man and a dog you've owned and loved for a decade dies- no one will devalue you if you cry. Some here might say that "by crying in front of a woman you're showing your weak spots" the fuck is she going to do? Kill more people/pets you love? N…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 11:34 AM
7

Link her blog
/r/askTRP18/01/18 08:45 AM
3

A b u n d a n c e . She can do whatever she wants, if it doesn't fit your criteria- next her. You're not her father, you're not her mentor, you're her lover. If she acts like an attention seeking whore let her act like that on her own, IF such behaviour triggers you. Also, don't be afraid of the "unnecessary" male attention. If your value is high enough it wont metter. If it still does matter- work on yourself
/r/askTRP18/01/18 08:35 AM
1

In my early 20's I worked as a bouncer at a strip club. And I gotta say, I had some wildest and craziest sex there, starting from strippers and ending with bartenders. I didn't really have to game too much, I guess my work possition on itself indicated my strength and dominance, mix it with banter and dirty jokes that everyone used to crack there and there you go. All I really had to do was occasionally, whe the opportunity occured, offer one of the girls a ride. We'd usually hook up during the …
/r/askTRP18/01/18 08:28 AM
8

Thank you for your response. I won't lie, I sometimes do have a problem with trying to explain the reasons behind my actions, because I believe that without explanation there's a lot of room for misinterpretation. But then again, I also understand that what people might misinterpretate is none of my fucking business because I'm only responsible for my own actions. I need to work on this with myself.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 11:31 AM
1

Reading The Medium is the message actually made me think about this- if what she says to her close(est) female frinends overrules how she acts with you.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 11:10 AM
2

I highly doubt it, because the older messages were sent a week ago. It has happened on a few occurrences before where she couldn't get to her phone at the moment.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 12:00 PM
1

When did your LTR send that message to her friend ? About a week ago
/r/askTRP07/01/18 12:00 PM
1

No, only studied Pavlovs classical conditioning, where you tase someone for pushing the wrong button. I guess I don't understand is this is a cry for comfort or she's just acting out and asking for dread
/r/askTRP19/12/17 11:10 AM
1

How could I have handled it better, because I believe everything would've went pretty much the same regardless of what I've said
/r/askTRP19/12/17 11:00 AM
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