There is a stark difference between black pill ideology and TRP, contrary to what BP/leftbook will have you believe. The former asserts that the entirety of dating and gender dynamics is contingent on physical appearance, and that there is some small fringe of Adonises who are immune to the disadvantages and struggles experienced by most men.

While there is some truth to this, in that women are hypergamous and will invariably seek out the best possible mate using every asset at her disposal, including the enormous advantage of their perceived abundance for even low SMV women due to men’s nonexistent standards for casual encounters, this is not the entire picture.

Even the most charming, buff, tall, handsome, wealthy, successful and dominant male never truly has the upper hand. It may appear this way, but unless the woman is hideously unattractive she will always have options. Women are impulsive, emotional creatures who respond to familiarity and feeling in the moment, which can easily make them forget everything a man has going for him if he is not right in front of her.

While I don’t fall into the category of what you would call a “Chad,” I’m attractive enough that I know both sides of it. I have had women eating out of the palm of my hand only to go cold for seemingly no reason at all. An even more striking example was with a girl I hooked up with at a wedding a few months ago. I ran into her last week and she texted me almost immediately after we parted ways. She was clearly still very interested and likely disappointed that I didn’t pursue any sort of relationship after. She was cute but my interest level didn’t warrant a follow up. We texted casually over the next week, and I could see a night and day difference when I mistakenly RESPONDED TOO QUICKLY to a text. I watched as her response times gradually grew longer and longer until stopping entirely.

Before the women in here break out their pitchforks there was nothing awkward, clingy, pushy, inappropriate or uncomfortable said or done, simply a minor misstep was all it took for her to lose interest. A girl who I wasn’t even interested in, below my SMV, gone like the wind. And there you have it.