I don’t even know what to say 🤦🏼‍♀️

NotYourPlayThing-55 · 2022-03-24T07:23:59+00:00

Oh my good god.

How many more ways can he tell you that you're just a placeholder until the actual woman he wants to marry comes along?

Run, sis..run.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2022-03-24T12:34:58+00:00

And got turned down 😂

No one's laughing, sis

whiskey_and_oreos · 2022-03-24T06:45:34+00:00

"I love you but -"

Aaaand we're done here.

NowTruly · 2022-03-24T09:47:26+00:00

This isn't even FDS, but ... if ANYONE proposes to the other person after a four years and they get rejected, isn't it just time to cut bait and move on? Where do you even go after a "no" on that topic, after 4 years?

ladylikesometimes · 2022-03-24T06:33:40+00:00

If she leaves, big IF, he’ll marry the next one within a year and she’ll be more baffled. I see it all the time.

daisy_0720 · 2022-03-24T07:46:40+00:00

Him: "I like where we're at now" = "I like using you for sex and stringing you along for my convenience while getting all the bangmaid perks that require no commitment on my part. I'm audacious enough to do this because I know you're desperately in love with me and won't leave, so I can waste your fertile years until I find someone I deem to be more in my league, at which point I'll drop you without a second thought and marry the new chick in less than 6 months, leaving you broken and reeling while I ride off into the sunset."

Her: "Thoughts/opinions??"

creamtart_ · 2022-03-24T06:32:43+00:00

I swear a scrote can straight up say that he doesn’t care about her and he is using her for sex, but the Pick Me will still be like “bUt wHaT dOeS hE rEaLLy mEaN???”

112419nua · 2022-03-24T07:38:14+00:00

Together 4 years and "not ready"... yet we also hear that "a piece of paper doesn't change anything." 😒

Junior-Lion7893 · 2022-03-24T11:47:20+00:00

Yeah, at this point… I would just end the relationship and finds someone who’s willing to marry me.

I had this happen to me when I wanted something serious with my ex and he was like I love you but I need more time. At that point, it was just awkward since there was no movement in the relationship. It literally killed whatever feelings I had for him and I withdrew from him.

She needs to leave him. The more time she spends with this guy will make it harder for her to leave him.

HammyLet · 2022-03-24T11:14:48+00:00

I’d rather rip out both my ovaries and french braid them into my hair before I propose to a man

fogtree567 · 2022-03-24T07:13:16+00:00

He doesn't think 30 is old enough to be married? Is he waiting for retirement lol.

spinsterchachkies · 2022-03-24T10:33:31+00:00

And she is so baffled and confused. She did everything she was told to do by the libfem propaganda. She did everything right. The perfect woman ladies.

Davina33 · 2022-03-24T08:50:16+00:00

This is so sad man. He will never marry her and I would never propose to a man anyway. Four years, he is just using her. I hope this is her wake up call. No man is getting so much as a cooked meal out of me without a ring on my finger.

Professional-Ad-457 · 2022-03-24T07:48:37+00:00

If she dumps him he’d grow a pair and suddenly think marriage is a great idea.

heartfeltrespect · 2022-03-24T07:07:49+00:00

I’d be gone. A no, is a no whatever way you cut it. What’s next it’s not you it’s me lol! Come on now…. It’s been 4 years.

The_Cat_Empress · 2022-03-24T13:25:37+00:00

I'm sorry, but if he's 30 and saying he's "not ready for marriage" then what he really means is he's not ready for marriage with HER.

It's so damn insulting I want to gently shake OP and say "F*CKING LEAVE!!"

makeawomancum · 2022-03-24T06:38:44+00:00

Another moment where all I can say is. Oh honey… 😭 if he wanted to, he would.

ItsFreezen · 2022-03-24T11:39:16+00:00

Because Scrotes just waiting for the "perfect women" to come around. And Your the placeholder.

Far_from_deceived · 2022-03-24T11:32:19+00:00

Just to add: I’m also sure she paid for the fancy hotel and everything, in hope he would get his best birthday gift: her proposal. Delusional.

I’m sorry for her….

Jazzeebee27 · 2022-03-24T08:09:55+00:00

It’s going to hurt but… DUMP HIM. Men usually know if they would marry you fairly quick. Don’t waste any more time on him sis. Also.. don’t propose ever again ❤️❤️ Happy healing

aliencatparade · 2022-03-24T07:47:02+00:00

"I proposed to my bf -"

Spotted the problem.

AphoticEnigma_ · 2022-03-24T09:00:54+00:00

Never ever propose

pastel_skies_222 · 2022-03-24T08:08:22+00:00

They’ll never get married… He‘s wasting her time. I hope she dumps him and finds someone who actually wants to settle down with her.

Also I don’t understand why he’s not ready for an engagement…i think he just really doesn’t want to. But i bet he would propose to a woman he REALLY likes

Determinedblonde · 2022-03-24T06:36:43+00:00

They’re the right age, the birthday sounds like a wonderful time for an engagement…I don’t get it either. It’s bad enough that she had to propose, but to turn her down as well? 😬 time to dump him.

TVsFrankismyDad · 2022-03-24T14:42:22+00:00

You a'int the one sis, it's a simple as that.

Guarantee that if she gathers up her self-respect and actually dumps this guy, he will marry the next girlfriend within a year. That's always the way this shit works. The forever girlfriend finally gets a clue and leaves and then the loser who strung her along marries the next one in a heartbeat.

julietides · 2022-03-24T08:04:20+00:00

She's asking for thoughts and is gonna be told to communicate 🤡, but usually, when men proposed and are rejected, they end the relationship. She shouldn't live with the rejection either.

happy_and_healthy · 2022-03-24T11:02:06+00:00

That's horrible imagine being a forever girlfriend and even being rejected 🤦🏻🤦🏻🤦🏻

Gerltofen · 2022-03-24T11:14:49+00:00

She has a lot to ungrow, this is embarrassing

VetOrRegret · 2022-03-24T08:46:20+00:00

I hope this is a wake-up call for her! Any additional time or effort towards him would be wasted. 4 years is well beyond time for marriage. If he wanted to, he would!

Swiftie107 · 2022-03-24T11:49:12+00:00

She should seriously run he is dragging her along to see if something better is out there

candyfox84 · 2022-03-24T15:45:27+00:00

I bet she paid for the hotel too.

WestAtmosphere · 2022-03-24T15:54:10+00:00

Gosh, there's nothing more embarrassing than having to propose to a man.

Bella_Keira23 · 2022-03-24T15:49:13+00:00

How could she not see that he’s just waiting for someone else he deems fit?

minid2020 · 2022-03-24T17:58:13+00:00

Ma’am look up placeholder and you will see a picture of you.

Risoa · 2022-03-24T19:42:53+00:00

ironglaciers · 2022-03-24T21:56:05+00:00

Sis. Honey. Please leave his ass.

esthermaniii · 2022-03-26T22:50:03+00:00

This is so embarrassing. Get some self esteem, please. I hope she opens her eyes 😐

MofoMadame · 2022-03-27T10:36:31+00:00

She probably planned, packed and paid for the vacation too.

Junior-Lion7893 · 2022-03-24T12:35:21+00:00

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Title	I don’t even know what to say 🤦🏼‍♀️
Author	Crystal403
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Date	March 24, 2022 6:27 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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