Most men would have sex with women they find physically attractive regardless of their personality. But women don't always want to have sex with men they find physically attractive

I think this difference is absolutely crucial into understanding the difference between how we work. Of course, this is just in general. Everyone's different.

There are tons of men who women might find physically appealing but still not necessarily want to fuck. This is rarely ever the case for men. If you find a woman attractive, you're going to want to fuck her if she gives you the opportunity. It's as simple as that.

This isn't just because of a difference in sex drives. A lot of women simply would not fuck a man they don't feel comfortable with, even if their sex drive is high. Others may never fuck a man they don't feel an emotional connection to. Some others may still find someone physically attractive but not want to fuck them because of some ick factor, or because they're not their type, or because they don't fit their vibe, etc etc.

The opposite often happens as well. There are countless amount of times where a woman may find someone not very physically appealing and then suddenly start finding them sexually appealing once they get to know him. But in reality, all that's going on, is that the oxytocin rush from love is changing the way the man is perceived. It's why a lot of these same women will suddenly start finding an ugly man ugly again once out of love.

For most men however, it's quite literally a "would fuck" or "would not fuck". A woman who is seen as physically repulsive rarely if ever becomes magically sexy and very fuckable just because she is very sweet and charming to a man. Quite frankly, most men just don't care, although it's not our fault either. On the other hand, a woman who is hot but is an absolute narcissistic douche wouldn't suddenly be seen as unfuckable. It just doesn't happen.

Don't get me wrong. As men, we do get the ick too. I can't tell you how many times I've gotten turned off by a woman who just had a horrible personality. But when I didn't want to talk to her, it was moreso that I didn't even feel like giving her the time of the day, not that she became unfuckable. On the other hand, often times when a woman gets the "ick", she simply does not and will not want to fuck the man, even if he came right to her doorstep.