Guys like Fresh and Fit or Andrew Tate are really promoting a kind of old school polygamy with rampant hypergamy. They provide advice for how men can become elite, and how women chasing high value men can better attract and keep such men. With respect to hypergamy, they will tell women their chances at getting the kind of man they are hypergamously chasing given what these women currently have to offer or how they are behaving. The gurus will also tell women how to level up.

But in terms of the big picture, most of these gurus have no advice for how average men and women can learn to find a mate on their level, learn to be sufficiently attracted and attractive to them, and get on with loving their mate and living life. Generally speaking, the implicit advice from them is become a high mate value man or have a horrible romantic life. And if you are a woman, learn how to attract and keep such a man, or die alone with cats.