General idea of how modern Western woman engage in sexual activity

shakeandbake8 · 2023-01-06T22:21:24+00:00

Chicks never seem to insist on a condom.

Which ironically makes me insist on a condom.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-01-06T20:49:48+00:00

I have a friend and he has around 60 bodies at 26

None of them were his GFs and almost all of them were not exclusive to him

He told me ~95% of them never made him wear condoms

M3taBuster · 2023-01-06T23:29:51+00:00

Probably 25-33%. Not a majority, but a sizeable minority that you're bound to encounter and have to specifically vet against if you want to reliably avoid.
I'd say 95% at least use some form of birth control, but only about 50% ALWAYS use condoms specifically.

Libertarian_Gamer · 2023-01-07T00:07:30+00:00

counting blowjobs? at least 60% between 18-30 have had at least 1 or two casual hookups. often pump and dumps where she thought she could get him to commit and then she gets used and damaged.

Preme2 · 2023-01-06T20:45:34+00:00

1). 30%

2). 0.1%

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-01-06T22:00:30+00:00

80%
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szclimber · 2023-01-06T21:48:40+00:00

I would say most have experimented but only for a brief period of time in between relationships. Most women are not sleeping with the entire basketball team

jayval90 · 2023-01-07T01:48:39+00:00

I would define all sex outside of a lifetime exclusive relationship to be casual, so probably like 80% at the very least.

Don't give enough of a shit about the second question to bother thinking about it.

NotARussianBot1984 · 2023-01-06T23:16:21+00:00

It's not casual sex, it's just short term serial monogamy. They are 'dating', just with <1% chance of marriage/kids, and not with men that would be good for it.

2) Hmm <30% based on my experience for the first time. By the end of the month? 1%

social_mule · 2023-01-07T02:50:45+00:00

Don't have an answer for the first question but I can count the number of casual sex partners I've had who insisted I wear a condom on one hand with fingers to spare. Women aren't demanding that their ONSs wear rubbers in any significant numbers.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-01-06T20:44:33+00:00

It’s actually not that many 5-10 percent. Though most people think it’s much higher.

https://www.bustle.com/p/the-size-of-hookup-culture-is-being-greatly-overestimated-report-finds-its-having-some-damaging-effects-61050

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-01-06T20:45:01+00:00

All
25%. You think they're going to tell Chad no because he forgot a condom?

Ohyarlysmiles · 2023-01-06T22:07:21+00:00

40-60%
Lol < 10%

Green-Quantity1032 · 2023-01-07T04:57:28+00:00

above 80% have engaged.
no idea, 40% always?

Kobe_curry24 · 2023-01-07T05:47:45+00:00

Women go through phases of sexual activity then phases of Celibacy most don’t want to hook up with random guys it’s why you even see them fck the same dude over and over but any women at a bar is guaranteed fucking

AidsVictim · 2023-01-07T06:18:44+00:00

My guesses 1) Ever had casual sex? Maybe 80%. Sometimes (ie after a breakup or "in between" relationships) have casual sex? 40-60%. Regularly have casual sex? 20% perhaps

There's a matter of definitions, locations, opportunity etc

2) a minority

WilliamWyattD · 2023-01-07T06:39:49+00:00

Regions and demographics vary enormously. There are UMC white areas in NE USA and Central Canada where the answer to question 1 would be something like 100% of women who are attractive enough to do so have had at least one casual hookup, depending how one defines casual.

There are places that are much more conservative.

globeaute · 2023-01-07T07:17:23+00:00

1) What percentage of women between 18-30 in North America do you believe engage or have engaged in casual sex/hookups?

20-25% max.

2) Of that group of women who've had casual sex, what percentage do you believe ALWAYS use condoms while being non-monogamous?

A horribly low percentage, which is why STDs are rising more and more. Plus new strains are coming up. Disgusting. 5%.

justforlulz12345 · 2023-01-06T22:24:13+00:00

Most women aren't racking up riduculous body counts. They are definitely sexually active but it's usually with boyfriends and FWBs in between relationships. That leads to a body count of around 8-12. The triple digit people you hear about are a very vocal minority of highly unstable women chasing ONS to fulfill some void in their lives.

Purple_Cruncher_123 · 2023-01-06T20:56:52+00:00

1) What percentage of women between 18-30 in North America do you believe engage or have engaged in casual sex/hookups?

Conservatively, I'd say 30-40% at the floor. After 25 and a failed long-term relationship or two, I noticed a lot of women lose their reservations about it for a brief period of time (either for a rebound or just to get a change of pace for a bit). Before 25, I would guess it's closer to 10-20%, with most insisting on relationships (though they may be misled or overlook red flags and unwittingly participate in the hopes of it leading to a relationship).

2) Of that group of women who've had casual sex, what percentage do you believe ALWAYS use condoms while being non-monogamous?

Probably half at best. So many people fall into heat of the moment and take them off without stopping. So it might start out with that intention, but doesn't always end there.

D_D_BA4 · 2023-01-06T23:34:11+00:00

95%. The lying is so pathetic, not fooling anyone.
About 40% late millennials and gen z seem to really dislike condoms.

Fancy-Respect8729 · 2023-01-06T20:46:30+00:00

1) close to 100% 2) 10%

suj1290 · 2023-01-06T20:41:50+00:00

1) 70-80% 2) 60-70%

Lord_Thanos · 2023-01-06T21:28:26+00:00

.> 80%
.> 50%

Perseus_the_Bold · 2023-01-06T23:13:29+00:00

I have no idea. And it literally doesn't matter to me.
I think more women at least try to get a guy to put on a condom than men take the initiative for it because women are more health conscious. As to what percentage? Again, no idea, not relevant.

SteelFox144 · 2023-01-06T21:49:43+00:00

1) What percentage of women between 18-30 in North America do you believe engage or have engaged in casual sex/hookups?

Practically all that haven't been in committed relationships for their entire adult lives, aren't religious fundamentalists, and have any sex drive to speak of. I don't think there's anything wrong with that either.

2) Of that group of women who've had casual sex, what percentage do you believe ALWAYS use condoms while being non-monogamous?

I couldn't even guess that. I think most probably ALWAYS use some form of birth control, but I have no idea how many ALWAYS use condoms specifically. If you're worried about STDs, people can get tested for those.

NewWayNow · 2023-01-06T22:38:57+00:00

1.) 80%

2.) 10%

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-01-06T21:27:06+00:00

Have experienced is over 80%, 99% of the at least moderately attractive and not super religious.

Currently engaging in..maybe like 30%

2023-01-06T21:04:52+00:00

My guess is ~85% have had sex outside of a relationship. Depends on what you mean by “casual”
75%

I live in an area that’s pretty sex positive though so people are pretty educated about sexual health and are much more likely to use condoms. That probably influences my estimates

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-01-06T22:16:56+00:00

1) What percentage of women between 18-30 in North America do you believe engage or have engaged in casual sex/hookups?

I know the actual stats on this so I don't need to guess. Anywhere from 70-80% of women have had casual sex at least once. Now if we're talking about having casual sex regularly? Probably around 20%.

2) Of that group of women who've had casual sex, what percentage do you believe ALWAYS use condoms while being non-monogamous?

I'd say 75% always use condoms, but this is completely a guess.

domdomdom333 · 2023-01-07T00:22:45+00:00

66%
100%

At least that's been the self report from the women I've talked to

mib732 · 2023-01-07T05:08:57+00:00

I have no idea. This probably varies from different socioeconomic cultural and racial groups. I have no doubt that women are having more sex then blue pillars suggest. That’s even if we can see that the amount of casual sex for the average woman is low. There’s always been an impetus to ensure that any type of bad behavior from women is obscured.

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Pilling_it · 2023-01-06T22:26:28+00:00

I don't care for either. I just deal with what's in front of me.

SDW137 · 2023-01-07T07:24:47+00:00

At least 40%, if not more.
Hard to say, 30%, maybe? I'm inclined to believe that it's definitely less than 50%, based on other people's experiences, even 30% is being generous.

My friend who is in his early 30's has a triple digit body count and says that he got away without using a condom with many of them (but I think that he lost track of the exact percentage). Of course, he did get STDs from one girl, and has ended up paying for birth control on several occasions. He claims though that none of those encounters has ever resulted in kids, besides the one that he has with his ex-wife, which was intentional.

I personally, would never have sex with a random without a condom, due to me being paranoid about STDs.

SoldierExcelsior · 2023-01-07T09:34:31+00:00

I've only had proffesionals require condoms not that wouldn't with them . I've had a few dozen hook ups with regular women and they've never asked.

I think 80% of women are having casual hook ups 65% of those are getting paid for it.

obviousredflag · 2023-01-07T16:31:46+00:00

about 70%
women dont use condoms, nice try. But concerning requiring men to use condoms on hookups, i'd say 90%

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2023-01-07T18:17:41+00:00

1.90-95%

5-10%

Only two women insisted on using condoms.

iamprosciutto · 2023-01-08T05:30:21+00:00

I would guess roughly 35% of single women 18-30 have casual sex at least occasionally.

I would guess maybe 25% of that chunk of the population insist on condom usage

Title	General idea of how modern Western woman engage in sexual activity
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Date	January 6, 2023 7:24 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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