Men work hard to get sex so they're entitled to promiscuity

EugeneCezanne · 2023-03-12T21:49:49+00:00

But it stands to reason that most of the most promiscuous men are the ones who DON'T have to work hard for it.

fakingandnotmakingit · 2023-03-12T21:56:58+00:00

Here we go again

Have sex if you want. Don't have sex if you want.

If you're going to be hypocritical and judge the opposite sex for it that's on you. If the opposite sex isn't attracted to that hypocrisy that's on you

People should stop doing things for approval and do what makes them happy. But also, don't complain if you then not considered as a suitable partner because of it.

Lazy-Sandwich9033 · 2023-03-12T21:31:59+00:00

Why shamed though? Can't you just admit that it's easier for them and that you're jealous? Why are you making your own lack of success their problem? And the irony is men still fuck them even though they supposedly should be shamed. Isn't that just participating in a shameful activity? But in your narrative that guy is winning. Hypocrisy.

EugeneCezanne · 2023-03-12T23:08:08+00:00

Let me just put my cards on the table: I don't work hard to get laid. In fact, I don't put in any more effort than women put in to sleep with me—basically just dress well, go in public and be fun around someone cute.

Nor have I put in a lot of effort to be in the "top 20%." I was born into a well-off family with the genes to eventually be smart and handsome (I swear I'm not trying to brag—my whole point is that it's not an accomplishment). If anything, the ease with which things have come to me has made me far lazier than my peers.

So when you say "work hard to get sex", I don't know what you're talking about. Most of the time, sex is just a natural byproduct of my lifestyle. I literally don't do anything any differently than I would otherwise.

You know who works hard at getting laid? Guys who don't get laid much. So you've got this all backwards.

deste_eloise · 2023-03-12T21:44:32+00:00

Lol this again.

100 in 3 hours? so most average guys are bad at sex?

KikiYuyu · 2023-03-12T21:37:18+00:00

No, not how it works. You are not entitled to people having positive opinions about you.

If you are promiscuous, some people are not going to like you, that's just part of the deal. If it bothers you, you got two choices: deal with it, or change your behaviour.

MyLife142 · 2023-03-12T22:49:40+00:00

Here we go again with this bullshit Every man can have access to sex if they choose to. The purpose of prostitutes is for men to have easy access to sex. Men make it hard on themselves!

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-03-12T22:54:56+00:00

As a woman, I have to do a lot to get sex. Such as getting ready, which is hours of prep time and hundreds of dollars.

There's no way I could get 100 male sexual partners in 3 hours.

Alt_Account092 · 2023-03-13T01:40:01+00:00

God, is sex the only thing men care about.

Women have life on easy mode because they can get sex more easily then men?

Seriously.

obviousredflag · 2023-03-12T22:23:41+00:00

Why shame the women who provide men with sex that they are so desperately looking for? You got your logic backwards. Shame women who don't have lots of sexual partners!

purplish_possum · 2023-03-12T21:42:20+00:00

You do realize that one gender can’t be promiscuous without the other gender being promiscuous as well. You know, fk men come from whores and whores come from fk men. You can’t have an angel whose father is drowning in adultery.

wtknight · 2023-03-12T21:33:19+00:00

One could argue that if women are able to be sneaky enough or lie well enough to be promiscuous, then they are entitled to be promiscuous, too. It's the same kind of argument, but men don't like the implications of it, so perhaps they shouldn't be so insistent upon claiming that they are entitled to promiscuity.

Stop_Maximum · 2023-03-12T22:26:50+00:00

To be honest not all men work hard to get sex, the ones that do have a hard time getting laid in the first place which makes it difficult for them to be entitled to casual sex. It mostly has to do with not being the attractive person someone would casually date or consider for casual sex. Sometimes not even relationships. I have “friends” like that, they don’t get 🐱 but talk about it tirelessly. If they do is usually after a long painful process or just get the younger ones.

I don’t think women should be shamed, because they don’t necessarily get sex easily and they don’t always fuck who they want. And think about it, if they’re sleeping with a guy that’s considered “basic” or “unattractive” is not HARD work. Same with the men, they might be there at the right time when some women might want to scratch an itch. It’s basically supply and demand.

januaryphilosopher · 2023-03-12T22:30:54+00:00

Even if they do work hard (doubt it, you're not racking up a high count if it's genuinely hard for you to have casual sex), trying really hard to do something bad is, if anything, worse. So men deserve more shame. And if it isn't bad, then women don't deserve to be shamed either.

jxjkskkk · 2023-03-12T22:38:09+00:00

This post goes a little too far IMO, but in general I think the disdain for “slut shaming” is EXTREMELY hypocritical given the average woman’s opinion on male promiscuity.

SentrySappinMahSpy · 2023-03-13T00:27:04+00:00

Women on the other hand don't need to do anything to get sex, they could rack up a 100 body count in 3 hours if they wanted to.

They can only do that because men are uncontrollably horny and have pretty low standards. You can't fuck without someone willing to fuck you.

They dont have to put any effort whatsoever into getting sex and intimacy, therefore they deserve to be shamed for being promiscuous.

Shaming women for something that is men's fault is entirely hypocritical.

2023-03-13T00:41:00+00:00

Whoa!

I’m a bit green on all things social media related, but would this be a troll posting?

Seems like a guy takes an extreme view, similar to poking a stick into a hornets nest, then be entertained by all the others getting worked up over it.

I’m an older dude, but his opening statements seem way off planet to me.

When I was young I definitely thought about sex a lot, had to fap often in order to help me be able to concentrate on the things I wanted to accomplish in life.

My sexual urges were normal and I considered them an annoyance. I wanted to be a man with some sound character and morals. I even had an incident where the opportunity was there but I didn’t want to.

Sex without a meaningful relationship seemed it would be empty and unfulfilling to me. Later in life I was able to test this and it stood true for me. More like masturbating into a woman then enjoyable sex.

Maybe I’m an odd one here, but if most of young life is about how to acquire pussy, it sounds pretty dam empty.

Jasontheperson · 2023-03-13T05:16:53+00:00

Threads seem more unhinged than usual today. Is it the weather? CIA psyop?

Definitely-Butter · 2023-03-13T09:09:45+00:00

Why do you guys have zero standards and will screw anything, then get mad at women because they aren't as pathetic?

Males could easily change the market if they stop being so desperate and sad. And no I don't want to hear "its biology" because what you're talking about is reproducing, not just fucking. You aren't reproducing with every woman you screw, so you have control over your "biology".

y2kjanelle · 2023-03-13T09:44:42+00:00

In what other areas of life does this also apply to? And why are the struggles of men only being considered having life on "hard-mode"??

And I always laugh when men bitch about women having it easier in dating and sex. Did men just wake up and forget they literally made it this way?

Body count isn't indicative of value or commitment or morality in my opinion. It's how they treat the people they interact with, period. There are men with body counts of zero who have murdered people and hate women. There are men with body counts of 100+ who are respectful, kind, sexually educated and good-hearted that I would trust with my drink 10000x more than a self-proclaimed "nice guy".

It's not the truth, it's your truth. The truth is that lots of different groups of people get benefits for things they didn't have to work as hard for. I'm a very social and outgoing person. It's easy for me to get along with most people, and I make friends very easily. There are tons of introverted people who have to work hard every day to get over social anxiety or socially awkward behavior. Why should I be punished because I was born with a better skill set than them in this particular area? Why should I be shamed because people tend to like my personality more?

Why rely on shaming to "help balance" this instead of encouraging and supporting introverted people to help them in social situations?? And I'm sure they'd appreciate it much more to receive support than to see extroverted people shamed just because they made friends more easily. They want to be included, not make everything worse for everyone else. Well, good, decent introverted people, I should add.

The fattest, thickest, driest pill to swallow for most people is that life isn't fair. I'm sorry a lot of men aren't seen as attractive, that sucks. Life isn't fair. However, there are plenty of ways to address this issue respectfully without shaming women. Ways that make society better and the dating scene much more enjoyable for everyone.

M0d3x · 2023-03-13T12:57:23+00:00

Women absolutely need to work hard to rack up high body counts.

You are just incapable of seeing the effort on their side.

SoldierExcelsior · 2023-03-14T04:47:57+00:00

Lol....you chose violence with this one...I think men are entitled to whatever they can get...not nessasarily because they worked hard.

JNRoberts42 · 2023-03-12T23:12:34+00:00

cough

Bullshit.

Women can easily find a man who will masturbate into them. But it isn’t safe and it isn’t satisfying. The very offer from a man she isn’t into is dehumanizing. No thanks to that. Go make your sex robot do what you want.

But when we find a fun, flirty, exciting man who likes women who enjoy sex, we can have a mutually satisfying good time.

That doesn’t happen often. Most men are kind of gross about their fetishes and demands and kinks and a whole lot of them are terrible in bed. A porn education isn’t. A lot are just selfish.

Women don’t get many viable offers. They get a lot of gross propositions. Men, too, can have all kinds of sex with women they find unappealing. Lower your standards about ten notches, and you can have the same quality of sex offered to women.

LupeDyCazari · 2023-03-13T00:00:04+00:00

I agree with this, bro.

Preach it.

I work like a dog so it's only natural I get to enjoy the fruits of my labor. If I want to cheat on the women I'm with, that is my god-given right to do so.

Because frankly, monogamy is not natural to begin with, second, women have it easy as fuck where cheating is concerned, especially attractive women, so if these women decide to cheat on me, I better cheat on them preemptively so it all balanced out and it's fair and square.

Bro, I remember the first time I visited an European club. Don't remember which Country it was, I only know that the age of entry was 18, and I was astounded and dumbfounded, as I am looking around looking for chicks who were horny/desperate/drunk enough to fuck me, I see this super fat ass Jabba the Hutt chick who could barely stand up on her own two feet because of how fat she was, surrounded by 4 good-looking, fit dudes, all trying to smash.

Chick wasn't even pretty.

Seriously, as I was looking at her I was wondering to myself when was it that whales gained the ability to speak human speech, and there she was, despite being a lot less attractive than I was, objectively speaking, she had these 4 dudes trying to hit her lamp oil ass.

I was pretty envious and jealous of how easy it was for this chick who wasn't even a ''Stacy'' getting a bunch of dudes like that. Maybe they even had a foursome with her to save up time and to make it fair for every dude.

Did you know Giacomo Casanova once had an eight-some with his friends and a chick? I wish I could do that too.

Anyway, I digress.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with a guy sleeping with women other than his girlfriend or his wife, and there is nothing wrong with a guy going on a pussy-rampage and fucking tons of chicks, either for free or by paying for it. Live your life, King!

Skadi793 · 2023-03-13T00:33:51+00:00

Based!

Aggressive_Grand_897 · 2023-03-12T21:59:03+00:00

It’s crazy how we have to explain this to feminists. They don’t understand basic biology

LordPeppino · 2023-03-12T22:14:16+00:00

they deserve to be shamed for being promiscuous.

They don't deserve being shamed, but they aren't also entitled to commitment if this is a deal breaker for many men (men aren't also entitled to that either).

My problem here is that women have a HARD TIME grasping the difference between men and women being promiscuous, pretending that both scenarios are the same thing.

And here your have a point: men promiscuity is earned.

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Lazy-Sandwich9033 · 2023-03-12T21:48:49+00:00

Good looking men always hot sex. It’s just the ones who aren’t good enough in their own who had to work to become providers think they hit a jackpot. When they are just being used. But that’s their prerogative!

Steakman1 · 2023-03-12T21:55:00+00:00

If something is viewed as bad or wrong, how does that bad thing being hard to do make it not bad?

Safinated · 2023-03-12T23:02:05+00:00

How exactly would that work? Will we be fined or imprisoned if we divorce or break up with you ?

Novadina · 2023-03-12T23:48:00+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with men being promiscuous because men work hard to get sex

I don’t understand the “because” here. Why is something being hard mean there’s nothing wrong with it? A lot of morally bad things require hard work - like being a dictator, planning to steal something, etc. I see no connection to whether something is wrong or not and how hard it is to do.

They dont have to put any effort whatsoever into getting sex and intimacy, therefore they deserve to be shamed for being promiscuous.

I don’t get the “therefore” here??? Why would something being easy mean “they deserve to be shamed”?! I find it pretty easy to sleep at night. Should I be shamed because I didn’t put any effort into sleeping whatsoever? Only people who have insomnia and still manage to sleep are good and everyone else is morally bad and should be shamed due to sleeping too easily?

it’s only the top 20% who get that privilege so if a man works hard enough to get to that point then he is entitled to all the casual sex in the world

So if a woman works hard enough to be top 20%, is she entitled to all the relationships in the world?

In reality everyone is free to have any consensual casual sex they want, no one is entitled to sex or relationships, and no one should be shamed for a normal thing most humans enjoy like sex. Who do you think these 20% of men are having the casual sex with? You think they should fuck a woman and then shame her for actually fucking him? “You worthless slut - I worked hard to get you to say yes to me, so you are a terrible person for saying yes! For shame! Women who aren’t immoral sluts only fuck someone when they have to work first, you should really regret having any fun with me!”

2023-03-13T02:16:28+00:00

There's nothing wrong with anyone being promiscuous. No one is forcing anyone to be with anyone else. Does this entitlement that you believe men have change my views? No, he has to be a virgin if he expects the same from me. I don't care that you have to work harder to go against my morals. You'll find someone that accepts you or you'll be alone. Everyone gets to make that choice for themselves and no believed entitlement changes it.

2023-03-13T08:48:26+00:00

So by that same vein, you don't deserve food, water and housing, since you were born into a life where these things just got handed to you? Happy people deserve to be shamed for their happiness because they are not unhappy?

Do your parents love you?

If they do, then by your logic, you literally don't deserve it. You don't deserve to be loved and you should be disgusted by yourself.

If they do not love you... well... that explains everything, doesn't it?

gymbro718nyc2 · 2023-03-13T09:12:08+00:00

I will do you one better.

Most men don't have to work harder to be tall, because it's in their genes. So a man who is short or weak should be relentlessly shamed and made fun of.

realgoodsexperson · 2023-03-13T18:56:41+00:00

I should be shamed for enjoying the privileges of my life?

By this logic, we should all be shamed for spending time in this app, as it is a privilege that not everyone has. Anyone who has taken a hot shower or slept on a nice mattress should be shamed for taking advantage of the opportunity to enjoy a pleasant experience.

DeepHouseDJ007 · 2023-03-15T03:48:19+00:00

I’ve never had to “work” to attract women or get laid, I don’t even know what you mean by that it’s not like you can go clock in somewhere for 8 hours any at the end you get a little free sex voucher. If you’re talking about working out and having a career and being the best version of yourself most men do that stuff because we enjoy having nice bodies and being able to afford nice things, it has nothing to do with sex.

Sex just comes naturally when you have high standards for yourself.

harmonica2 · 2023-03-15T04:03:41+00:00

I'm a man who has been told I have an unusual high body count and I had to work for it and put in an effort for sure.

However, when it comes to women, what if a woman has a high body count but she only slept with high value men? Would this make it acceptable for her in that case?

2023-06-11T13:33:30+00:00

You really are so full of yourself aren’t you? Doesn’t matter how rich, how handsome a person is, if they have a personality that is off putting, then they might get sex one time but that’s it. It you are just making some invisible list or have a little black book that makes you feel more secure than go ahead, but that attitude does not make you sexually appealing.

Title	Men work hard to get sex so they're entitled to promiscuity
Author	Lazy-Sandwich9033
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Date	March 12, 2023 9:29 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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