When you have internalized misogyny and proud of it 🤡

spinsterchachkies · 2021-03-18T23:20:39+00:00

We don’t have to be polite to men fuck you 👏🏻👏🏻

We don’t have to be polite, we don’t owe them shit that’s right! 💅🏼

We don’t have to be polite to men fuck you 👏🏻👏🏻

Lemon_bars_addiction · 2021-03-18T22:30:43+00:00

Imagine embarrassing yourself on purpose like this

throwaway32132134 · 2021-03-18T22:29:53+00:00

Because someone's grandpa shouting cat calls in the back of a waffle house at 3 in the morning isn't being polite to us so why return the favor?

Because the dude that faked leaving something at my job to get me on the phone and ask me out isn't being polite so why return the favor?

Because the "hey girl suck my dick" pickup lines in our tinder DMs aren't polite so why return the favor?

Because guy that grabbed me by the arm in the club and pulled me back after I didn't want to dance with him wasn't being polite so why return the favor?

Seriously, if a dude politely shot his shot I'd let him down nicely, but they almost never do.

RabidWench · 2021-03-18T23:02:20+00:00

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leadmemories · 2021-03-18T23:24:21+00:00

last time i was polite, he wouldn’t leave my side for 30 minutes and then followed me home on two separate occasions until i yelled at him. so hmm 🤔 this girl can fuck off

dembar126 · 2021-03-18T23:17:34+00:00

Her whole vibe screams "I'm one of the boyyss!"

2021-03-18T23:04:18+00:00

She hates her own gender that much 🤯

shelballama · 2021-03-18T23:02:24+00:00

But why did she have to make it into a stupid song? What happened to her in life that she thinks she's being "complimented?" So many more questions

Novemberinthechair · 2021-03-19T01:42:02+00:00

From the novel Gone Girl:

"Men always say that as the defining compliment, don’t they? She’s a cool girl. Being the Cool Girl means I am a hot, brilliant, funny woman who adores football, poker, dirty jokes, and burping, who plays video games, drinks cheap beer, loves threesomes and anal sex, and jams hot dogs and hamburgers into her mouth like she’s hosting the world’s biggest culinary gang bang while somehow maintaining a size 2, because Cool Girls are above all hot. Hot and understanding. Cool Girls never get angry; they only smile in a chagrined, loving manner and let their men do whatever they want. Go ahead, shit on me, I don’t mind, I’m the Cool Girl."

RojavaLover · 2021-03-18T22:58:16+00:00

The way she has consciously worn something very feminine and masculine at the same time to be appealing to men but also give off that “I’m one of the boys” and “I’m not like other girls” vibe 😂 Am I reading into it too much? I feel like the leopard coat with the masculine hat and everything is so constructed. She is the most Pick Me Pickmeisha I have come across. Go get hit by a bus please lol Regina George style.

pearlspaghetti · 2021-03-18T23:09:44+00:00

Yeah, let me be polite to all the men who have given me inappropriate “compliments”, glared at my body, followed me without even saying anything, and made me feel unsafe walking down the street, entering a building, or just shopping in Walmart at night. They absolutely, 100% deserve my courtesy. 🙄

2021-03-18T23:08:01+00:00

Because men are only polite when they want something, everything is fake coming from them.

lusigusi · 2021-03-18T23:07:05+00:00

Embarrassing

throwaway32132134 · 2021-03-18T23:37:26+00:00

When men start respecting, appreciating and valuing women then I will be nice. Until then I have no problem being rude. Men are not entitled to my number. On top of that have you seen how the majority of men act when you say no? They are rude and try to steamroll your boundaries. So instead of firmly sticking to what I originally said, it makes more sense to be nice? Has this girl not seen the way men walk over women? It's everywhere. The only time I agree with being nice is if a woman is in a dangerous situation, because being rude could escalate it. Why is she even making this her problem? Has nothing to do with her. When do men worry about how women feel? LOL. They are not owed my kindness. Plus is it just me or is she HELLA condescending. I feel like she's talking to women like they are children.

souredskittles · 2021-03-18T22:32:24+00:00

Hopefully she’s just extremely sheltered

pikkpie · 2021-03-18T23:18:28+00:00

The saddest part is that men probably treat her very poorly because of her appearance. Also, why is she dressed like a pimp?

PollyAnnaSunshine · 2021-03-19T00:18:11+00:00

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Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-03-19T00:02:35+00:00

I can smell the "not like other girls" through my phone screen

LeaNoodles · 2021-03-19T00:31:19+00:00

Because there's a certain group of men that believe if you're polite to them, you want to fuck them. Even if you're telling them no, your politeness makes them think they still have a chance. And guess what? These are the same men who will harass a women when they finally catch the drift that she doesn't want them.

aquietsword · 2021-03-18T23:31:34+00:00

Blink twice if your bf told you to make this

blackwidowe · 2021-03-18T23:43:17+00:00

That clapping makes me want to clap her upside the head.

snootdidanoot · 2021-03-18T23:48:17+00:00

Because when I'm polite to creeps they take it as a "yes" and start harrassing and following me therefore jeopardising my safety. When I'm rude and blunt they tell me I'm a bitch then they fuck off. I'd rather be safe than dead and brutalised thanks.

Lost_Kale90 · 2021-03-18T23:19:01+00:00

Umm no thank you.

2021-03-18T23:04:00+00:00

I also don’t wanna even grant her assumed definition of “hitting on” someone.

What hitting on someone actually is: Offering to buy her a drink Striking up a pleasant conversation Asking to have this dance

I highly doubt anyone is responding “impolitely” to these requests.

What is NOT hitting on someone but people try to act like it is: Doing any of the listed items above and then responding with an insulting expletive-ridden tirade when she says no. Grinding on random women you don’t know without their consent. Catcalling. Trying to start a conversation with an inappropriate sexual comment. Dick pics. Any dick pics. No one wants your dick pics.

shoesfromparis135 · 2021-03-18T22:56:37+00:00

That outfit tho. 👀

2021-03-18T23:25:28+00:00

as if most men are polite when they hit on women... and as if they're polite when you kindly reject their advances.

Savorycorncake · 2021-03-19T01:29:11+00:00

I’m polite bc I’m AFRAID

alien665 · 2021-03-19T01:35:42+00:00

I wonder if she realizes how dumb she sounds 😂

2021-03-19T00:08:50+00:00

Polite? Polite gets you nowhere when society will victim blame you if he kills you for being nice but rejecting him and victim blame you if he kills you for being rude. God if this woman tries any harder she’s going to rupture a blood vessel.

catlady4u · 2021-03-19T00:04:07+00:00

Wow. Who would have thought a simple 'No, thank you' was anything other than polite? I've been doing it all wrong 🙄

bizzybumblebee · 2021-03-19T01:38:07+00:00

hey, did you get picked?

PollyAnnaSunshine · 2021-03-19T04:10:09+00:00

She has such an aggressive vibe that this was uncomfortable to watch.

7Cuervos · 2021-03-19T06:24:03+00:00

Because we get raped, murdered and beaten. Thats why we arent polite to creepos.

onceuponasea · 2021-03-19T01:26:30+00:00

LOL nah sis

2ndMrsDeWinter · 2021-03-19T04:50:23+00:00

Glad she had time in her busy bro down schedule to tell all us ladies why were jerks

Tatterhood78 · 2021-03-19T05:51:06+00:00

No....

" 'Cause they don't really listen when I speak,

'Cause I don't know if random guy's a freak,

'Cause when I say no nowThey keep trying anyhow

And they "don't understand" no 'til I shriek"

Fuck this chick. I've had too much time wasted by guys who see politeness as an invitation to try and talk me out of a rejection and I'm not doing it anymore.

Lavender_flow · 2021-03-19T08:15:12+00:00

She can fuck right off. Sis why dont you go suck all their dicks collectively then. Leave the rest of women ALONE.

Fun_Sherbet · 2021-03-19T01:56:45+00:00

No thanks

blasphemeve · 2021-03-19T03:36:06+00:00

Because to them, politeness = consent

eatmypooamigos · 2021-03-19T02:09:12+00:00

How about they leave me the fuck alone. Why is that so hard to do

pikkpie · 2021-03-19T04:53:36+00:00

I can already tell that she comes from an extremely privileged place.

thinktwiceorelse · 2021-03-19T09:17:20+00:00

Because that's why I got two stalkers.

Street_Narwhal_3361 · 2021-03-19T05:17:05+00:00

Anyone else get the urge to haul off and pocket sand her right in the peepers?

Wildestrose1988 · 2021-03-19T12:33:55+00:00

Me: is polite to man who hits in me, I declined his offer

Man: Well then fuck you you stupid beetch. If I was rich you would say yesss

Lol rich men don't approach women while they're trying to walk home so no 🤪

pinkcityscape · 2021-03-19T12:51:40+00:00

I was polite and he violated me. So now what?

Milaedy · 2021-03-19T01:31:32+00:00

(Because they’re not polite to me)

K0rla · 2021-03-19T09:58:01+00:00

Yes, I can, but I choose not to because I shouldn’t tolerate disrespect just because I’m a woman. It’s so sad that she thinks she deserves to be treated like a sex toy.

Title	When you have internalized misogyny and proud of it 🤡
Author	donttextme_k
Upvotes	507
Comments	90
Date	March 18, 2021 10:22 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/m82d6h/when_you_have_internalized_misogyny_and_proud_of/
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