I went on a date with a woman who was 20 at the time when I was 27 and I got heavily judged by coworkers. It never led to anything and was a one off date, but for some reason I feel like all the women I worked with never treated me the same. I have seen posts on r/TwoXChromosomes talking about how its wrong for a guy who is "established" to get a younger woman because he is taking advantage of her.

Everyone shit on Leonardio Dicapario for dating hot young women. All of these women are actresses or super models, he isn't exploiting them for money. When people are adults, they can make their own decisions. Did he have transactional relationships with younger women? Probably but that doesn't make him a predator.

I think most of us would love monogamous relationships with the people we find the most attractive, but its incredibly rare to have a real bond with someone, and in meantime you can have hot sex with hot women that want you until you find the right pick.

Its less so men taking advantage and more so women complaining that they aren't getting the action from men that they want, or that they dont get the commitment that they want.