Women with OnlyFans

ggleblanc2 · 2023-07-19T04:12:14+00:00

That's an interesting way to gain subscribers. Walk away from this predator.

peter_venture · 2023-07-19T04:22:30+00:00

She doesn't want you. She wants your money. There should be no confusion here.

FifthGear · 2023-07-19T04:18:40+00:00

Scam

goodmod · 2023-07-19T04:22:44+00:00

Don't subscribe.

She's only using you for money.

sgt_oddball_17 · 2023-07-19T04:29:43+00:00

Run. As far as you can from that conwoman.

WhereProgressIsMade · 2023-07-19T04:47:30+00:00

Just delete the contact and ghost her.

You should put having an onlyfools on your list of dealbreakers. I saw some data that 80% of guys do. When you factor how many simps there are out there that’s pretty much everyone. Women don’t respect simps. Don’t be a simp.

A more general rule of thumb: A woman that is both interested in you and worth your time will go out of her way to be with you and not put up blockers like this. Here are some personal examples:

One ex found a coworker to take her shift so she could make it to something I was going to after a few dates.

One ex bought plane tickets to fly me out to see her for a long weekend. A few months in and she didn’t make all that much.

My wife started planning and paying for almost half our dates after the first few.

On_the_Cliff · 2023-07-19T04:58:40+00:00

She's putting an extra condition (one that benefits her, of all surprises) on having a relationship with you. In other words: you, as you, are not of sufficient interest to her.

I suggest you return the regard.

Big_Psychology_6658 · 2023-07-19T05:15:08+00:00

Honestly, when I posted this I was partially looking for people to tell me to indulge in some shape or form, but hearing everyone being a voice of reason was nice. It helped even better than what I wanted and made me consider the lengths of going to in a relationship even if I decided it was just for sex. So thank you everyone for helping me respect myself.

jimjam696969 · 2023-07-19T04:40:46+00:00

Run!

2023-07-19T05:29:10+00:00

She will only advance the relationship when you subscribe. That is not a romantic relationship, but a business deal. Stop thinking with your penis and start using your brain, buddy.

Rdo889 · 2023-07-19T05:59:12+00:00

why would you even continue to speak with someone like that, jesus

hellswrath88 · 2023-07-19T06:30:58+00:00

The fact that you are even considering this is crazy.

shit-zen-giggles · 2023-07-19T06:00:55+00:00

It's a scam. All she's interested in is getting your money.

Abort contact.

Sorry, you had to go through this emotional manipulation. It's a nasty strategy.

Tanto_Monta · 2023-07-19T04:52:33+00:00

Don't listen to mermaid songs. OF is a no-go for whoever girl you want to call it girlfriend.

Loud-Mathematician76 · 2023-07-19T07:41:04+00:00

Sounds like a sex worker is trying to emotionally manipulate you into paying for her digital escort services. I bet the business is not going so well if she has to do such open street sales and 1on1 negociations to get more customers. She will obviously repeat this behavior immediately with the next victim, given that she does not seem to have other reliable income streams.

OP you deserve way better!

thanks_man12 · 2023-07-19T04:46:34+00:00

Stay away from OnlyFans whores bro. Online prostitutes don’t make great partners

KrazyJazz · 2023-07-19T06:02:46+00:00

she says she’ll only advance the relationship if I subscribe to her onlyfans.

Walk away. Now. It's a trap.

Almighty_Bidoof424 · 2023-07-19T04:40:29+00:00

Either way, you deserve a better woman than one that whores herself out on onlyfans.

JCgamerX · 2023-07-19T05:07:47+00:00

walk away. she wants uour money and that's it

NunjaPiznes · 2023-07-19T08:16:43+00:00

The fact that you even wonder about this woman gives away huge simp vibes. Have some self respect, man. Never ever pay attention to these people.

Elterchet · 2023-07-19T10:54:35+00:00

Dude kick her off your life. And do it in some glorious fashion that makes her feel like utter shit for what she does for "a living" . I keep having encounter after encounter with these women who have commodified themselves in one way or another and every single time without fail they're complete fucking human garbage. And the time or two that I've made the mistake of stating that I have a negative opinion of this sort of work on Reddit, oh my GOD the harpies descend upon me and tear me to pieces. I mean they get MAD. Seriously these people are fucking toxic, textbook narcissists, and they're inflated view of themselves and what they do is utterly delusional and they really don't deserve anything good from anyone.

Edit: JESUS CHRIST I posted this comment and literally seconds later got a message that I've been permanently banned from r/offmychest for "participating in a red pill/ incel subreddit" LMAO like they actually have some kind of bot or algorithm that's looking out for people in their fucking sub to comment on one of these to auto ban them! It's kind of funny but then it also is a little bit scary at the same time like some 1984 shit. Well fuck them I'd rather be in this one than that one if that's the way they run. Who the hell went to the trouble to set all that up for that automatic ban thing to happen anyway? Very enlightening experience this morning.

BurnAfterEating420 · 2023-07-19T04:49:09+00:00

Did this woman randomly message you and tell you how cool you are?

I mean seriously dude, how big a chump are you?

saito200 · 2023-07-19T08:36:09+00:00

It baffles me how you even have to ask this question to be honest XD

There's no question, there's only you cutting contact

2023-07-19T08:47:10+00:00

😂😂😂 lol wtf , you need to pay to get the honor to date a promiscuous woman ? It should be her begging for a man to date her

Ahielia · 2023-07-19T09:27:36+00:00

Wouldn't this imply that all her subscribers are her "boyfriends"?

Techincept · 2023-07-19T05:57:34+00:00

All you can do is make your own only fans and join hers if she joins yours for the same price.

Tanman55555 · 2023-07-19T05:54:01+00:00

OF removes her leverage

CptKillsteal · 2023-07-19T06:31:06+00:00

Dude get out...

SeaworthinessJust560 · 2023-07-19T07:36:26+00:00

Did you hang on with her in person? If not , it is a scam. You probably talking to a dude

Njaulv · 2023-07-19T07:59:41+00:00

She is scamming you. It is not even prostitution. She is just using you as a paypiggy. You mean nothing to her except for the money you pay her as with all of her paypiggies, of which I guarantee she has many.

Interestingly enough, there is also a decent chance you are talking to a guy with this "nice conversation." This is how Andrew Tate got rich. Have a cute girl pose for pics and do webcams for paying customers while he or another guy chats to the person to milk them for money.

Current_Finding_4066 · 2023-07-19T08:00:00+00:00

Find a normal woman. She is trying to exploit you from the get-go.

VenusFlyNino · 2023-07-19T08:12:31+00:00

If that's not a joke, then her behavior is really gross and abusive. You must be really hurt to think she could love you for a second. Please, get away from her. Have some self respect.

P. S. OF doesn't "feel" like prostitution, IT IS. I am a woman and if I want to enjoy my sexuality, I don't need to sell it.

anonymeaime · 2023-07-19T08:28:42+00:00

Please disconnect from her psychologically first. Then phase her out physically.

ElectricalSoil546 · 2023-07-19T09:03:53+00:00

Walk away from it. Don’t empower the whore.

xyzjoysibar · 2023-07-19T09:27:27+00:00

Do these OnlyFans whores realize how clownish they look when suggesting stuff like this? Christ.

Huge_Buddy_2216 · 2023-07-19T10:21:10+00:00

First off, this is a scam. In the modern age of feminism / girl bossing / digital prostitution, it is incredibly common for women to think that it's OK to manipulate men into giving them money. Other women will stand up for women like this as well, consistently falling on victim blaming (iT'S hiS fAuLT foR FaLLiNg FoR iT).

Women are now using men's loneliness as a way to manipulate them into spending money on them. Romance scams are common all over the world, but none is more normalized or accepted than the kind the woman is pulling on OP.

Second off, never, ever trust a woman who has at any point in the past done sex work. This obviously includes prostitution, but also includes stripping, camming, or OF. When a woman starts down this road, she begins to look at men as nothing more than walking bags of money. She will latch on and drain you of everything you own if she can. You are not different. You are not special to her. Nobody is special to her but herself. Her phone is full of other men who think they're special. She'll cycle through them one by one sending loving responses.

You cannot trust a prostitute.

shroud_of_saints · 2023-07-19T07:39:08+00:00

Besides the fact that this is just a way from her to finesse men into paying for her prostitution.... Why would you even consider a girl who does OF? You don't care that thousands of other dudes jerk it to her naked photos? I mean, come on man, have some self-respect.

JFedererJ · 2023-07-19T08:40:14+00:00

When I ask her about it she says she’ll only advance the relationship if I subscribe to her onlyfans.

Lmao. Ahhh man, fuck me this made me laugh. Honestly, I'd have laughed so hard if a woman told me this with a straight face.

I'd tell her I'm totally down with it, but she's gotta subscribe to my PayPal for 40 dollars a month if she wants to advance the relationship with me.

So call it even and forget about the whole subscribing thing?

HatingMakesMyDayFr · 2023-07-19T08:53:23+00:00

Cmon brother you shouldn’t even ask us about this

These-arent-my-pants · 2023-07-19T09:05:25+00:00

Don’t encourage that type of behavior. She’s basically locked the goods behind a $40 paywall, yea no thanks. There’s an endless supply of free porn and there’s plenty of women who don’t have OF.

markieboy99 · 2023-07-19T09:06:15+00:00

Bro have self respect, you don't need such nonsense in your life, she just wants money and she's just using her sexual leverage to gain an advantage..

Move on and pursue someone who is mutually worthy of your time

Top-Gas-4121 · 2023-07-19T10:23:50+00:00

She's not a nice girl, she's an opportunistic piece of crap preying on lonely SIMPS like you.

Livid_Pilot7043 · 2023-07-19T10:29:12+00:00

It's off subject but I think the simps that pay for only fans make it a lot harder for other men in dating, also I look down on those people porn is free

HeartofStihl · 2023-07-19T10:31:47+00:00

Nothing conflicting. Next her ass.

gudinn · 2023-07-19T10:37:37+00:00

Smart tactic by her. Gain your friendship, so you slowly fall in love, only to try and get 40 dollars out of you. If she's Lucky you'll keep the subscription for multiple months. She only has to do this to around 20/30 guys and she can live a very nice life completely paid by simps and all she has to do is texting and tindering. Please dont fall for this, maybe let her know its an unethical way to do business but dont fall for it.

Muzzled_Walnut · 2023-07-19T10:40:10+00:00

Walk away she's obviously just after your money.

lavalord238 · 2023-07-19T10:46:24+00:00

OP. This girl is running a scam. 110% you are not the first and won’t be the last guy she has done this too. She doesn’t like you. No she doesn’t. Yes I’m right. You’re wrong. She’s never liked you. This is the harsh truth unfortunately. Please do NOT give her any money.

Mythrin · 2023-07-19T10:54:48+00:00

Don't lower yourself mate. She's playing you for a mug.

Plus-Pollution-5916 · 2023-07-19T11:05:57+00:00

The only thing you needn't to be confused about is that she is wanting your money but not you.

onlywill121 · 2023-07-19T11:13:15+00:00

Stop talking to her, she’s playing you as well as a hundred other blokes.

SimpleKindOfFlan · 2023-07-19T11:32:57+00:00

Is this is a joke post? You laugh in her face and say Next! Wtf is the problem here?

Lolaindisguise · 2023-07-19T11:56:29+00:00

It is prostitution and what kind of person does this? You can't build a life with anyone who only wants you to subscribe to advance the relationship, how many other people are "subscribing"?

Chaos92muffin · 2023-07-19T12:10:31+00:00

Man too man lets have a heart too heart moment.......what the absolute fuck is wrong with you?

There are millions of girls in this world if she doesn't get it from you she'll get it ftom someone else.

Luxtaposition · 2023-07-19T12:11:57+00:00

Kollv · 2023-07-19T12:47:17+00:00

Unpopular opinion: You're a pathetic simp and part of the problem. How dumb can you get?

I will get downvoted to oblivion and that's fine. But simps are literally giving power to these evil women and encouraging this filthy behavior.

BoomTheBear86 · 2023-07-19T13:53:21+00:00

You have to be at a pretty fantastically low point to consider paying a woman money to “advance the relationship” via a method that allows you access to media she is already letting other men access for the same price.

Like, seriously, think about that. You can only “be with me” if you pay (enable) me selling my intimacy to other people and now, also you.

This shouldn’t even be a question. There is a word already in use that is used to describe women who only enable men to have intimate relationships with them for money and are explicit about it. You know what that word is.

whatdoesottoknow · 2023-07-19T13:54:10+00:00

Very similar to what some girls do on dating apps where they'll engage you in conversation but end up saying, "I don't use this app much but I'm active on instagram". Just a funnel tactic to gain more followers. This girl has taken it up a notch as a means of financial gain from the men she meets.

Totoro631 · 2023-07-19T15:33:35+00:00

Open your own only fans (Post pictures of dumb stuff) and say sure, but you need to subscribe to mine as well and make it 50 a month.

haekz · 2023-07-19T15:49:04+00:00

Bruh 💀💀💀

Exciting_Bluebird_53 · 2023-07-19T16:39:13+00:00

I wouldn't.

I'd never date an only fans girl on principal. To me they're little more than internet prostitutes.
Would you ask someone to pay a monthly fee to date you? I've no doubt you'd be embarrassed to even think of doing that, and yet this woman, without a tinge of regret or integrity, just asked you to do so, while you know she's going to try and seduce some other guys through her job.
(Because she's going to inevitably insult you) tell her you go out with women who put real value on themselves, not monetary.

AChromaticHeavn · 2023-07-19T20:46:44+00:00

As another woman; no. No subscription, no only fans, no relationship. She's not interested in a relationship with you, she's interested in stringing you along for your wallet. Walk away, and find someone who doesn't have a body count, and is worthy of you.

Glimmerofinsight · 2023-07-19T20:48:43+00:00

As a woman, I'd say RUN!

The women that I know that do Only Fans are not suitable relationship material. Attention whores, every one of them. Shallow, materialistic, and self-obsessed. Nope. Just nope on outta there, buddy.

StormPotat0 · 2023-07-19T22:31:44+00:00

You fell HAAAARRDDDDD on her thirst trap.

Sorry bro but you better wrap that up quick. That "Nice and Pretty" face is a facade. You also might want to look up the "Halo" effect.

Best of luck to you bud.

Rty4848 · 2023-07-19T07:28:56+00:00

Ask for trial run before you sign in. Maybe a blow job or something.

RainbowJeremy24 · 2023-07-19T09:18:59+00:00

Is this post for real? Are men really this dumb?

BigPhilip · 2023-07-19T09:36:35+00:00

I will reply to you only if you subscribe to my OnlyFans.

Mine is 20$ a month only. It's a good deal!

(Now seriously... tell that woman, if it is a woman and not a fat lad who enjoys scamming people from his basement, to buy a rope and hang herself. )

Source: I am a fat man in a basement, but I only play videogames and I don't scam anyone.

ALiteralAngryMoose · 2023-07-19T06:10:03+00:00

Nah m8. Tell her to piss off

aigars2 · 2023-07-19T06:48:47+00:00

In an actual relationship that would be considered an attitude of a child, you do this or else... You don't want to stay in that, because that won't end there. But this sounds like scam.

2020bowman · 2023-07-19T06:56:07+00:00

Tell her you only subscribe to people who subscribe to yours

coming2grips · 2023-07-19T07:12:09+00:00

Walk away

Not issue with her having OF. Issue is forcing you.

No-Knowledge-8867 · 2023-07-19T07:13:06+00:00

How many other guys do you think she's pulling this same bullshit with? She's a black hole to your time, energy, and soon to be your money if you continue. You could spend those things much more wisely. End it with her, but take the satisfaction in telling her why. Let her know that no level of superficial beauty can mask the ugliness of her values and ethics. Tell her that she has shown herself not to be worth the meagre sum of $40. Walk away with the confidence of knowing that you turned her down. Then don't waste another second or thought on it. You're better than that.

ABEBUABDU · 2023-07-19T07:15:11+00:00

dude walk away from this woman seriously that should be a given why ask these questions here.

DutchOnionKnight · 2023-07-19T07:32:12+00:00

You move forward on your onwn.

Wakka_Grand_Wizard · 2023-07-19T07:34:13+00:00

Forget it mate. She is just using you

Kevidiffel · 2023-07-19T07:42:59+00:00

That's.. a scam.

Throwawaydhxj · 2023-07-19T08:13:00+00:00

Yeah baisicly a scam

wackedoncrack · 2023-07-19T08:18:33+00:00

Don’t walk,

Run.

BoeingA320neo-9 · 2023-07-19T08:48:52+00:00

“I will only be in relationship when you subscribe”

You can’t make this shit up

Mountainking7 · 2023-07-19T08:58:05+00:00

Bro, I am confused about your confusion. That's a predator and worst part a broke one. As french would call it, it is "chantage".

It's (yes it's) not dating material. Just run away.

Edit: The evil side of me wants you to do this:
Propose a counter offer at a restaurant/dine in and tell her once you sit down with her, you'll subscribe for 1 year on the spot (if that can be done, I have never opened that crap website). And then GHOST HER and DONT GO.

Professional-Lab-157 · 2023-07-19T09:19:53+00:00

Get away from this sucia ASAP. Any woman with an Only Fans is not worth your time.

Dr_Alex_Wesker · 2023-07-19T09:45:24+00:00

Don't spend a cent to Onlyfans girls. It's not worth.

amethystwyvern · 2023-07-19T09:46:59+00:00

I'm sorry OP but this shouldn't even be a question. Have some respect for yourself.

love-me-tendies · 2023-07-19T10:25:10+00:00

my goodness brother why are you even considering continuing a relationship with this woman?

marcusdj813 · 2023-07-19T11:15:41+00:00

If she's requiring you to part with $40/month to be in a relationship with her, she's not worth the trouble.

Phi87 · 2023-07-19T12:24:57+00:00

Seems like a big red flag.

Fuzzy_Department2799 · 2023-07-19T12:40:15+00:00

Jesus man run dont walk run.

B1uefalc0n · 2023-07-19T13:19:04+00:00

She is hunting for subscribers. i guarantee you she is talking to like 20 other dudes and saying the same thing to them. Dont simp for that prostitute. She is just trying to fool as many guys to subscribe and then string them along for as long as possible.

GhoulishPanther · 2023-07-19T13:20:12+00:00

Ghost her brother, that red flag can be seen from space!

hottake_toothache · 2023-07-19T13:22:35+00:00

Don't be confused. Run.

astrodonnie · 2023-07-19T13:25:32+00:00

Run.

IthunkItandIsaidIt · 2023-07-19T13:29:05+00:00

Do not subscribe to her OF lol

Vibekindddd · 2023-07-19T13:38:31+00:00

OP… are you dumb?

MightyRed123 · 2023-07-19T13:45:56+00:00

Lmao fuck that she's just using you, dump her ass

Sendmeloveletters · 2023-07-19T13:47:27+00:00

Bro have some fucking self respect. Don’t pay ANY chick just for fucking existing

V3N0M3 · 2023-07-19T14:15:51+00:00

follow on onlyfans, why jump through the hoops of dating when you can see her naked for 39.99$ a month?

woman literally put a price on her head. sounds perfect!

elebrin · 2023-07-19T14:18:22+00:00

You want to date an amateur pornstar? Then this is the kind of shit you are going to deal with.

We shouldn't accept this sort of thing from the women we date. I'm married, but if my now-wife had done porn I wouldn't have ever gotten involved with her. The point of the dating process is to weed out people who you can't build a relationship with in the long term, and to learn what you yourself are willing to accept (and what you have to do to yourself to make yourself acceptable).

I wouldn't date women who hang out in bars and drink, who do porn, who date multiple men at the same time, who do drugs or smoke weed, who crash their car every few months, or any of that. Heck, I had some second thoughts when I found out that my wife didn't do yearly medical exams like how everyone is supposed to, or talk to her financial advisors on a regular basis. I am a responsible adult man, and I expect a responsible adult woman.

When you marry into a family, you are agreeing to become part of your family's social safety net and look after the people who are having problems. You are doing that on hard mode when you hook up with a woman who has a bunch of problems to start with. She isn't going to be able to help you then, and she's going to be all but guaranteed to turn YOU into the dependent. Those are the people to avoid.

NotBaron · 2023-07-19T14:41:05+00:00

Hahahaha...

Just walk away brother

jas4870 · 2023-07-19T15:05:50+00:00

Run away. It is prostitution.

Lui_Le_Diamond · 2023-07-19T15:07:52+00:00

Predatory. A relationship shouldn't cost anymore than it naturally would from bills and food.

2023-07-19T16:07:05+00:00

40 dollars for onlyFans? I won't do it even if it was free

jurassic_junkie · 2023-07-19T16:30:01+00:00

Wait, no fucking way this is a real question. lol

Don't be so gullible everyone.

2023-07-19T18:00:10+00:00

That’s a no for me. She is not worth it.

rebeltrooper09 · 2023-07-19T18:08:29+00:00

walk away...

Gduarte · 2023-07-19T18:13:25+00:00

Subscribe to someone who charges less, take a snapshot and say “I’m dating this girl instead”

GlassHalfFull132 · 2023-07-19T20:49:26+00:00

Dude. She is literally tricking you into giving her money. That's all this is.

ShityistDisciple · 2023-07-19T21:13:44+00:00

Lie she might be doing this with other men. She is taking advantage lonlyness.

Or leave her she is not long term girl

Ok-Yogurtcloset7394 · 2023-07-19T23:10:14+00:00

Honestly just forget about her. its one thing when someone wants you to Accept that they do only fans, but demanding you to subscribe, like honestly. this girl won't make you happy bro. don't be stupid.

harumi_aizawa · 2023-07-19T23:15:39+00:00

Get away.

There's plenty of women that aren't greedy online prostitutes.

Good luck to you brother 👋

walterwallcarpet · 2023-07-19T08:28:36+00:00

Most girls, even the 'nice' ones who are so charming and pleasant to talk to, are doing a mental calculation of where you fit in the 'Looks, Money and Status' bracket. That's your side of the equation. They, in return, provide sex. If it goes anywhere, it should be an exclusive relationship.

If she's handing it out elsewhere, walk away.

zoxzoxzo · 2023-07-19T08:30:37+00:00

What is there to be confused about? She is an online prostitute that cares only for money and she is baiting you. Please don't fall for this and don't be a simp. I mean even if she didn't insisit on you subscribing to her, the fact that she has an OF is 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

dependency_injector · 2023-07-19T06:37:53+00:00

I doubt she can give you something more than sex. If that's what you want and the price is fine, go for it.

valspare · 2023-07-19T06:49:18+00:00

When a woman asks me that, I say:

"Porn is free on the internet, why would I pay for yours?"

Its fun to hear them try to justify it.

And no, I stop talking to them here.

Really-IsAllHeSays · 2023-07-19T12:14:04+00:00

Don't be a simp. Walk.

dollarBillz007 · 2023-07-19T14:14:43+00:00

Don’t do it. Any girl I’ve ever talked to w a OF sent me things for free I didn’t have to pay for it. Your being used it feels like.

Degenerate76 · 2023-07-19T14:59:57+00:00

It's profitable for her to do this, because out of the hundreds of guys she's simultaneously catfishing, a small percentage will be stupid enough to fall for it. Don't be one of them.

GrandpaTheBand · 2023-07-19T13:20:15+00:00

Do not subscribe. This shows her interest is only in $$. Stop talking to her. In your heart, you know she is not worthy.

Find a normal girl. One with intelligence, self respect and a work ethic. A girl who realizes that hooking up with lots of different guys, getting money for doing soft porn isn't empowering, it's degrading.

Professional_Ad8074 · 2023-07-19T22:58:09+00:00

Wow. No no no. Red flag baby all the way.

I have an OnlyFans but i have it set at $4.99 a month(lowest amount) but I have it set that new users get free trial lol. I don’t ever send men in my social life to my OF. They get that shit for free (if I’m talking to/dating them)

Don’t be deceiving and photoshop it-because it’s just weird vibes to do that. I’m sure your intuition is probably nudging at you to stop talking to her-your ego probably is what wants to keep talking to her.

A subscription set at that high of a price usually means there’s extra perks as in priority chatting etc, which should already be happening if you’re talking…

❣️❣️

Wasteofoxyg3n · 2023-07-19T09:40:27+00:00

I am talking to this girl who later told me she has an onlyfans.

If you had any self-respect, you would have stopped talking to her immediately after that.

GioeleSavoca · 2023-07-19T10:05:04+00:00

Go to a church, it's way better for your mental health and you don't get in touch with modern day prostitutes !

leadfarmer154 · 2023-07-19T09:01:49+00:00

Bro I'm going to very harsh with you. She tells this to every guy who is trying to get with her. You are very naive, and have yet to learn the true nature of women. I'm going to hope this is a very blunt wake up for you. Even considering this is extremely beta. The only play here was to immediately laugh at her and move on to one of your other options. She lost all respect for you when you considered it. Please spit out the blue pill.

Svenhelgrim · 2023-07-19T12:43:01+00:00

Tell her you want a live, in person sample of her work befor eyou will subscribe.

Also accept that there is no future with this woman.

friedmozzarellachix · 2023-07-19T14:07:29+00:00

Don’t be a pussy. Stop asking Internet forums for advice and ask HER why she wants you to subscribe.

BigDaddyDeliciousD · 2023-07-19T17:30:36+00:00

Is probably a black dude😅

TheSystem08 · 2023-07-19T07:34:27+00:00

Dude.....

Ok-Magician-3426 · 2023-07-19T09:58:58+00:00

I see lots of red flags that china would be jealous of

pookiednell · 2023-07-19T10:16:30+00:00

Mate don't waste your time with people like that it's honestly not worth it

Butthole_Enjoyer · 2023-07-19T11:58:01+00:00

Bro, is this your first time using online dating?

norwaydre · 2023-07-19T12:03:10+00:00

Flying_Reinbeers · 2023-07-19T12:08:36+00:00

She's for the streets OP

denvercaniac · 2023-07-19T13:06:30+00:00

There is only one choice. Make like Pantera and Walk.

Komabeard · 2023-07-19T13:30:31+00:00

Tell her that she looks more like a $5/month sub

Reptilian_Brain_420 · 2023-07-19T13:50:23+00:00

She belongs to the streets

Claytonius_Homeytron · 2023-07-19T13:51:10+00:00

BAIL, my dude!

ehWoc · 2023-07-19T13:51:44+00:00

Open your eyes. She obviously isn't interested in a relationship.

Sea2Chi · 2023-07-19T13:53:35+00:00

Yeah, don't do that.

It's either a very unorthodox relationship dynamic that most guys will not be ok with, or it's an attempt at gorilla marketing.

Either way, that's a level of complication in a realtionship that you don't need.

Also, when you say talking to, do you mean talking to in person or online? If it's online only there is a chance that's just a dude who stole someone's photos.

mrgoodtime81 · 2023-07-19T13:56:52+00:00

Then you are dumb. Ghost and block her. Dont date girls that have or have had only fans

Jedi5676 · 2023-07-19T14:15:17+00:00

Not a nice girl, just trying to get subscribers. She is playing you like any customer service person sadly but the huge difference is that she is not upfront about it

herp225577 · 2023-07-19T14:44:19+00:00

Run, don't walk.

Gurt_Frobe · 2023-07-19T14:47:18+00:00

The fact that you’re conflicted about this is a bigger problem than the situation at hand. Don’t cuck for this gash. Nobody is THAT desperate. She has no self respect, therefore she doesn’t deserve yours.

knight_call1986 · 2023-07-19T14:52:53+00:00

She is hustling you fam, keep it pushin.

External-Context-782 · 2023-07-19T14:55:06+00:00

It’s obviously a scam, don’t trust her one it, she’s definitely done this with others. but this really goes to show the power women have to blind a Mf with false senses of home and literally convince him to give her money to make her stay.

CRobinsFly · 2023-07-19T15:09:19+00:00

LMAO. IF my significant other had an only fans, not only would I not be subscribing, but I would demand a portion of the revenue AND rights to make content with her.

What a joke to think you should subscribe to have access at a relationship. May as well be spam.

Significant-Comb-180 · 2023-07-19T15:14:27+00:00

That is a trap, get out fast!

alabamaispoor · 2023-07-19T15:28:52+00:00

Lmao that’s prostitution

Jay-Ames · 2023-07-19T15:37:52+00:00

It should be clear as day what she is doing. This is 200% just a way for her to get more money and she will NEVER EVER advance the relationship.

9chars · 2023-07-19T15:39:10+00:00

Are you new to woman? Run far far away from that woman quickly. You are being taken for a tool...??? Don't simp on woman like that. That shit is NOT normal.

2023-07-19T16:05:51+00:00

Run! Run like the wind!

Use that 40 dollars to better yourself or donate it to a worthy cause. And hey, you just dodged a bullet.

Big_Fat_Polack_62 · 2023-07-19T16:25:24+00:00

Bruh.

OCDbeaver · 2023-07-19T16:46:43+00:00

if its online then likely its some guy being paid to impersonate the person to drum up business.

stent00 · 2023-07-19T16:48:10+00:00

Only a sith deals in absolutes

TheCryptoKeeperHodl · 2023-07-19T16:49:37+00:00

Run…. Or play a little bit and then RUN

HoplaMoy · 2023-07-19T16:52:05+00:00

Don't do it. She probably tells everyone that. She's trying to scam and lure you in.

Kxdan · 2023-07-19T17:29:33+00:00

Leave. Fast. Women like this are the dregs of society. Anyone with an onlyfans is a porn star. You gonna take a porn star home to mom?

AgileHuckleberry1741 · 2023-07-19T17:33:52+00:00

That is scam.

She just want extra $40 bucks a month.

Find her nudes in other places.

In any case, if any women want to get money from men in anyway, it's a scam.

Ukedive · 2023-07-19T17:38:23+00:00

subscribe to an simillar written channel abd send her a screenshot of that. ask her in the same message what's the next base in your relationship is 😅🤣

Professor_Sqi · 2023-07-19T17:44:07+00:00

I'll only advance if you subscribe

Yeah no. If you're liberally minded with selling photos/videos of your SO then fine, but there's still a significant difference/line to be drawn between your public showing and private relationships. Bail my man. This is a trap

lewandisney69 · 2023-07-19T17:51:11+00:00

Lol onlyfans is already one of the biggest red flags there is

MatildeLover128 · 2023-07-19T17:59:58+00:00

Don’t do it.

Lonewolf_087 · 2023-07-19T18:48:52+00:00

Don't do it. If she liked you she'd probably not care if you did or did not subscribe lol.

Crap_Robot · 2023-07-19T18:55:35+00:00

She’ll only move forwards with your relationship if you pay her to continue sending nudes to other men and you’re confused about your options? 🤨

OP - you deserve better. Even if it’s just you for the next 5 years, that is a far better option than someone who barely respects themselves and clearly couldn’t give a shit about you.

Respect yourself my guy. You’re definitely better than that and if you’re struggling, feel free to DM me to chat.

This kind of piss poor behaviour should not have to be tolerated and she should be ashamed of herself for ever having suggested such gutter level shite.

Stay up man 👊🏻

nightingale_39 · 2023-07-19T18:56:13+00:00

Run as fast and as far as you can 🚩🚩🚩

SmartMoneyisDumb · 2023-07-19T19:15:17+00:00

Run Forrest run

lasciate · 2023-07-19T19:51:46+00:00

Someone who asks for cash upfront for a "relationship" is a prostitute, regular dating-prostitution (paying for meals, entertainment, transportation, etc.) aside. The idea that someone is "confused" about whether they should lie to a prostitute to "advance the relationship" for free or just walk away is insane. Either:

You're okay with hooking up with a prostitute, in which case you're asking whether you should defraud her or
You're not okay with hooking up with a prostitute, in which case you're wasting her time and yours.

Regardless, never give someone money for something they don't have to deliver, especially when it's something illegal, especially over the internet, especially when they're essentially anonymous, especially...

Also, "should I lie to a prostitute so I can 'date' her without paying?" is not relevant to Men's Rights.

MegaAlex · 2023-07-19T19:53:32+00:00

I wonder how many other guys she says that too, JK it’s all of them including the clerk at the gas station.

Bergatario · 2023-07-19T20:11:08+00:00

At least the old-school prostitutes gave something for your money. Stop the madness and go meet real women.

TerdMuncher · 2023-07-19T21:16:23+00:00

Create your own onlyfans. Charge $80. Tell her to sub first, then don't return the favor.

Octopus0nFire · 2023-07-19T21:36:00+00:00

XLuccaX · 2023-07-19T21:41:59+00:00

First off, that is prostitution. Second off, why are you talking to a girl with OF? You really think that’s gonna produce good fruit? A bad tree cannot produce good fruit.

Nicholas_VI · 2023-07-19T21:50:40+00:00

Run away, very very fast.

SuspiciousGrievances · 2023-07-19T21:53:12+00:00

Leave her on the curb, she is a hoe and is playing you for a fool. Don't be that fool. Ghost that hoe.

eddboat112 · 2023-07-19T22:00:26+00:00

Dont subscribe. Fuck "advancing" that relationship at this point. Recreational use only.

Ozhubdownunder · 2023-07-19T22:05:50+00:00

She is asking for a conditional contractual relationship. If that’s the type of relationship you want, subscribe.

Cultural_Ad_7107 · 2023-07-19T22:18:22+00:00

Don't do that shit dawg. You deserve way better. She isn't the one if she's trying fork some dubloons outta you. You need to find somebody that is on the same page as you.

E-roticWarrior · 2023-07-19T22:47:39+00:00

These digital hookers are wild!

hellcat82 · 2023-07-19T23:07:53+00:00

Rub one out, then take a nice walk in nature. Read your post out loud. Sounds ridiculous right? Cause it is. Then move on and enjoy having an extra $40 in your pocket a month and not having to play games with sex workers.

ToWelie89 · 2023-07-19T23:24:11+00:00

This shouldn't even be something to think about, just forget about her and find someone better.

Elterchet · 2023-07-20T00:49:37+00:00

dump her

2023-07-20T01:03:36+00:00

Lol what? Mate that’s called a scam.

BigDaddyDeliciousD · 2023-07-20T01:22:54+00:00

If you can not see you are being scammed I think you deserve to pay the 40$😅

Realistic-Note-6377 · 2023-07-20T02:07:46+00:00

Subscribe or block her. She wouldn't care either way.

f0xpant5 · 2023-07-20T03:34:56+00:00

I agree with the overall sentiment here - hard avoid, no need to paraphrase what's been so well said already, but also;

This is a put off for me, like sure, in a new relationship if you think she's attractive, you want to see and hopefully interact with Naked her, but what a anti climactic spoiler to see it all ahead of time. Might just be me, but a huge part of what I've enjoyed in new relationships is the anticipation, the build up, the excitement and butterflies, getting to that point is a reward. This just feels cheap, you get the buffet early and for me at least it would detract from her desirability.

My 2c.

RedditModsAreFags9 · 2023-07-20T03:36:50+00:00

Bro she’s just rinsing you. Don’t do it. If you’re dating her that kind of “content” should be free to you.

enkilleridos · 2023-07-20T04:24:43+00:00

She's farming you.

dungeonmonkey69 · 2023-07-20T05:45:47+00:00

Helllllll nah. Fk that prozzie. Only way I'm going anywhere near an OF hoe is if she's giving me a cut to do films with her lol

obesetial · 2023-07-20T06:37:16+00:00

1 do you think she is looking for a relationship?

2 what about this story tells you she is a nice girl?

3 if you are going to pursue, flip the script. Tell her you are waiting to get to know her before you subscribe.

MaxTheCatigator · 2023-07-20T08:07:25+00:00

That's how she gets her subscribers.

Who wants to date a prostitute?????

One general rule: The only possible reaction to any ultimatum is a No. Time to move on.

donaldcargill · 2023-07-20T08:45:00+00:00

She is using you to get a subscriber and if you subscribe she will loose all respect for you. Move on and give that forty bucks to a charity instead.

DolbecEntertainment · 2023-07-20T12:14:32+00:00

RUn she is a predator! XD

The_Equalitarian · 2023-07-20T16:34:43+00:00

She wants you to pay her in order to advance the relationship....AKA she wants a sugar daddy

xXNulliusInVerbaXx · 2023-07-21T07:57:20+00:00

Leave her.

sharksville · 2023-07-21T16:00:33+00:00

Subscribe for just one month and posted it everywhere online for free, find a way to get that 40 bucks back and tell her that you’re not into prostitutes and leave her. Period

hp02121 · 2023-07-21T21:29:18+00:00

Don't be a sucker.say no and move on

pokebabe2015 · 2023-07-22T20:52:29+00:00

I'm an OF girl and I wouldn't ever make my partner or someone I'm talking to sub to me!

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LynxesExe · 2023-07-23T21:11:31+00:00

Get the fuck out, she just wants your money.

Also, as a general rule, I wouldn't even consider dating someone who makes money by posting naked pictures online, I wouldn't trust someone like that and, maybe even more importantly, it's a job you'll manage to make a living out of forever, or for 10 years... or 5...

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Irishlassxx · 2023-07-24T15:31:13+00:00

Wait what thats just insanw. She is using you!

peachyavacodzz · 2023-07-25T17:27:04+00:00

Can anyone buy a onlyfans for me and I’ll cashapp you the money I don’t want it to show on my transactions?

Accomplished-Load509 · 2023-07-26T20:32:28+00:00

Seems to be scamming you.

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