N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-10-20T16:44:22+00:00

This topic is trotted out, boring, and pointless. Women are never going to stop doing what they do and men are never going to stop doing what they do. It's like when an unstoppable force meets an immovable object. Eventually the entire world crumbles and falls into a black hole. This topic is a black hole.

Ainsleygz · 2023-10-20T15:17:45+00:00

One more day to think of original comment ideas for the new thread!!

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-20T02:04:51+00:00

I've been thinking about if or why I care about this topic.

I've figured out that I don't want young women to believe musty insecure men who shame, insult, and rage out at them for having whatever consensual sex they want.

Seems my duty as a Fairy Homother to guide the next generation of women into their best sexual selves. 🧚‍♀️

ktdotnova · 2023-10-19T02:11:18+00:00

At the end of the day... men do not want to pay full price for someone other men have gotten for free.... and since it was in the past... they got a higher product for free... but you're (the man) is supposed to pay full price for a lesser product?

ChasingThatBag666 · 2023-10-18T23:42:17+00:00

Are the standards for what makes a man promiscuous significantly different from what makes a woman promiscuous? A lot of guys here say over 5 is too high for a woman, but I really doubt that guys who have over 10 or even 20 bodies are considered untouchable. I can't tell anymore. But over 40 is not good. That's too much, man!

Opening_Pattern_301 · 2023-10-18T11:26:22+00:00

Damn bro, the amount of mental gymnastics some women pull just to refuse to accept the fact that many guys find them plain unnattractive from a romantic pov, yes, men are allowed to have romantic desires too, i guess it makes sense since we live in a society where women are raised to believe male attraction is something they re granted from every guy unless theres something wrong with the guy ie: hah he must be gay, hah he must be a mysoginist, hah he must be intimidated, hah he must he an incel, hah he must be jealous, hah he must be insecure, shame shame and more shame and attacks towards a man's masculinity.

If that doesnt works then lets resort to make the target feel excluded or inferior ie only inmature men care about it, real men dont care, men who get laid dont care, men who care deserve to be alone, in real life no one cares etc etc etc

That shit is straight up psychological violence, only difference is that men who, complain, disagree, speak against or break under it are fragile while women are victims in the eyes of society(as long as the perpetrator is a male), promiscuous hoes know this and thats why they abuse it withouth any repercussion.

Anyways, women complain so much about the men they date, they call them assholes, abusers, players, cheaters, emotionally unavaible, hahahah, if men like those can get partners what makes you think a guy who cares about a potential ltr's past wont? Ridiculous 304s.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-18T04:48:19+00:00

Why do y'all think women who have sex are more likely to cheat?

And please miss me with shoddy research data. And skip the "pair bonding" nonsense.

YTScale · 2023-10-18T02:05:44+00:00

there’s no discussion to be had.

women with higher n count are more likely to cheat. i don’t necessarily think it’s a reflection on her standards or self-respect unless it’s approaching or exceeding triple digits…

higher n count represents a low barrier to entry. a low barrier to entry means it’s easier for someone to access… a relationship may raise that barrier a bit, but it’ll still be lower than a woman with, say, 1 n count.

if it didn’t matter then girls wouldn’t lie almost every time when asked to make it seem lower than it is. they recognize it matters, as do men.

Far-Lake-9724 · 2023-10-18T00:48:29+00:00

Think about people that married their high school sweetheart. I can think of 3 couples off the top of my head. (I went to a big high school).

They started dating around 15, 16, 17, stayed together through college and are now married.

Their n count is 1 maybe 2 at the most.

I highly doubt they care about your pill color, n count, or what you think of modern men or modern women.

-snickerss- · 2023-10-17T18:59:03+00:00

I'll say this again: As long as the virgin shaming of men continues and pulling off women is seen as a "reward", the stigma behind high N women won't go away.

ComfortableJeans · 2023-10-16T06:47:31+00:00

I care, yeah, but I take sex and my romantic relationships very seriously. I don't sleep with a woman unless we're in a relationship and have developed real feelings towards one another. I've had plenty of offers, but I've only been with two women and kissed three, all three of those were in relationships. And I'm near 30 years old now. Honestly, without the emotion and romantic aspect, I just don't have the WANT for sex without love in me. That being said, in a relationship, it's every day. Sometimes multiple times a day. I love making the person I love feel good. There were times I'd be "giving" sexually without looking to "get" for myself.

I met a girl a little while ago, I started to really like her we talked all the time, and I could feel myself starting to fall and obviously she felt the same way.

Then I found out that she had been in multiple threesomes, had sex with at least 30 people that I'd known about and very likely more than that. A few friends even let me know they'd slept with her, because they could see we were getting close and wanted to be open about it.

I instantly lost any desire to be with her romantically. We could be friends, but the thought of having sex with her became something I had no desire to do.

For me, given that I take sex to seriously and want to reserve it for people I have a special connection with, the thought of just giving it out so freely, as though it's nothing, is very off putting. It means a lot to me, I'd like it to mean a lot to the person I'm having it with also.

But outside of relationships, I don't much care what other people do. If you want to sleep with a 10,000 people, go for it. We can still be friends, but that will make you a total non option for me. Which is fine, you shouldn't make decide what who to sleep with based on whether I would be in a relationship with you or not anyway. Same goes for any decision in your life.

It doesn't make you a BAD person, but it does make you someone I wouldn't want to be in love with, and that's okay.

If you're a person that sleeps with everything with a pulse and wants a partner that has less than 3 people though, you're insane and I have to roll my eyes at that. It's hypocritical and ridiculous.

Proudvow · 2023-10-16T01:20:07+00:00

If women constantly say they won't change their standards to accomodate men and men should stop whining about it, why do they keep attacking men's standards in these threads? Men's preferences should also be beyond critique.

The hypocrisy is insane.

SlowEffective8146 · 2023-10-15T22:14:17+00:00

Been talking with a girl for a few weeks and her count is 6.

She's pretty great aside from that. I mean she's cute, she's my type exactly and our personalities mesh. I just promised myself that 5 would be my hard limit and I'm concerned I'll regret it if I go with this girl.

Should I continue?

armpitpics · 2023-10-15T21:32:24+00:00

To all the men who say they're not allowed to have a preference for a low n-count, from now on, I'll only allow you to date women with negative n-counts. Anything above -1 is off limits.

4SSh01e · 2023-10-15T10:14:14+00:00

One hilarious argument I see here is: "Men dislike promiscuous women because even a woman who is rather indiscriminate didn’t choose their ass".

While it might be true for some men, there are still plenty (like me) who actually have been with such women and have also rejected advances of women numerous times in their lives. So these blatantly transparent tactics of calling men who don’t want their partner to have sucked dozens of dicks as:

Young and dumb.
Incels with revenge fantasies
Insecure about their performance in bed

are still pathetic attempts at shaming and bullying men into accepting something that is innately repulsive to them.

If women truly think they their past doesn’t matter and they don’t want to date men who care about it, then why do they react so violently to it? I see it the same way men get pouty about some woman saying she wouldn’t date someone short, of a particular race, of xyz. They are getting pouty because they wish they were in her dating pool.

You know who is not in my dating pool? Gay or bisexual men, therefore I give zero shits about what they do or what they like. We all hear how promiscuous gay men are yet zero shits are given.

Finally, all resident former hoes gloating about how their past didn’t affect their chances at relationships or how they are in a good one right now. Sincerely, con-fucking-gratulations, we do not wish misfortune on anyone and as long as you are a decent person; we wish you a happy and prosperous life. Our only point is that given a choice, we wouldn’t date someone like you, but if there are other men who don’t care then good for you.

pterry-dactl · 2023-10-15T10:02:17+00:00

Met a really cute guy a few weekends ago and spent the weekend with him.

He's a very sweet natured hippy lad with a toned body, beautiful curly hair and gorgeous blue eyes. Very upbeat and optimistic, great company. He's 25 and quite energetic and vibrant.

Apparently he struggles to orgasm through sex, partly because he has a really tight foreskin. He said he doesn't want it removed because his friends that had theirs removed as adults lost sensitivity.

So basically he comes round, chats with me for hours, makes me cum and then goes to sleep.

I really want to make him cum, hopefully if it continues being a regular this we can not use condoms and that will hopefully help.

I'm taking a long break from relationships so enjoying casual sex at the moment. What I like about it is that you meet so many interesting people with all these sexual quirks. And they all have that one thing they're really good at in the bedroom.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-15T09:52:12+00:00

My high n count husband is taking high n count me out for dinner. We might fuck later. We both smell good. I’ve applied a scent that I know he likes: https://www.luckyscent.com/product/46642/avatar-by-hilde-soliani

armpitpics · 2023-10-15T02:14:12+00:00

My n-count is high. Now I'm afraid men of PPD won't like me.
Also penis and hentai. Thank you for listening.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-10-15T00:24:25+00:00

My N count started going up while I was in a relationship

MyLastBestChance · 2023-10-14T22:29:40+00:00

If a woman has to be fairly indiscriminate in order to have sex with you, it would follow that the only women you will have sex with will have relatively high n-counts.

I think that explains the reason these guys think women all have high n-counts, women who are choosy never choose them 🤣

hisdivinity · 2023-10-14T22:14:51+00:00

What is a high body count for a man aged 26?

Ainsleygz · 2023-10-14T21:02:09+00:00

Drop names not numbers

noafrochamplusamurai · 2023-10-14T20:59:53+00:00

This is my n count

N= X +2a( 6.02-3.4)b÷(3ab+3.6X)+585

Solve for Z

sticksmcgee47 · 2023-10-14T20:57:24+00:00

I have never understood why a body count preference is so controversial compared to other preferences. It is the most fair preference to have. You control your body count. No one can control how their face looks. Or their height. Or disabilities they may have. And people have requirements when it comes to your height or attractiveness.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-10-14T20:50:45+00:00

I have killed 7 people in hand to hand combat

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-14T20:17:48+00:00

I stopped counting after high school. Nobody has cared since.

So, I tend to assume those who care the most are still in high school.

Ok_Finger_6818 · 2023-10-14T19:56:29+00:00

Guess mine 🤗

Training-Banana-5017 · 2023-10-14T19:45:44+00:00

My body count is two and instead of my looksmatch I want to find my body count match cause any women who has a body count that could fill a starting lineup in any masculine sport is unappealing to me.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-10-14T19:20:26+00:00

Pretty sure the mods know what’s going on and they’re trolling us at this point lol

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-14T18:21:37+00:00

My body count is 31

The majority of that was my 20’s though.

Ainsleygz · 2023-10-14T17:44:09+00:00

Do condoms affect pair bonding

HolidayWhile · 2023-10-14T17:41:49+00:00

In depth N count statistics when

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-14T17:31:58+00:00

My N count is somewhere around 75-80. I actually have a list of names of most of the women I have been with to remember

princedune · 2023-10-14T17:07:35+00:00

yay another n count thread!

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-14T16:41:17+00:00

Is the purpose of this thread to post our N counts?

kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-10-14T16:40:24+00:00

I love my N count

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-14T16:37:30+00:00

They're here! 👻

Maybe this time, I'll find out the so-called consequences for having sex.

In the meantime, I'll keep getting plowed by my Chad boyfriend. 💦🍆

MyLastBestChance · 2023-10-14T16:29:24+00:00

Oh goody, the sour grapes extravaganza 🤣

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-10-14T16:16:58+00:00

Let’s hijack this and make it about the coffee date debate!

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-14T16:14:59+00:00

Y’all have discussions on N count WEEKLY? What’s there to talk about? The only people caring about N count are insecure. That’s it.

MalePsychopath · 2023-10-14T16:13:14+00:00

sluts = hot 🥵

But also sluts = bad 😡

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-10-14T16:11:38+00:00

Boo,find better material!

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