Men on lesbian apps. I’m tired of it

PurplePillDebate-ModTeam · 2024-05-18T12:49:17+00:00

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Snoo20855 · 2024-05-18T05:24:05+00:00

The fear of being labels transphobic has now pushed women into letting creepy men into our spaces. Who gives a shit if we get called names by these men?? Why are we accepting this as how it is?

This shouldn’t even be controversial, but this sentence alone just lets you know how much of a slippery slope the whole “I identify as X…” and “respect pronouns” thing becomes. I’ll just leave it at that though.

Plagusthewise · 2024-05-18T08:35:08+00:00

Looks like the chickens have come home to roost, it’s not like a majority of us have been saying this for years at this point but we were always flagged down for being transphobic or bigoted etc etc.

Sorry it’s effected you in this manner, this is in no ways a personal attack on you but, this is exactly what happens when we allow this ideology to go unchecked, the whole enforce/respect everyone’s whacky pronouns, make spaces more inclusive, like of course there’s going to be a large percentage of creeps and mentally ill individuals that will jeopardise these once safe spaces, especially female only spaces and cause damage.

Don’t like it? push back, like more people are starting to do, it’s the only way to change this ridiculous situation.

AreOut · 2024-05-18T07:52:54+00:00

weird people doing weird things, color me surprised

N-Zoth · 2024-05-18T05:11:20+00:00

Reason #1001 why you shouldn't use dating apps.

Ok-Dust-4156 · 2024-05-18T09:15:58+00:00

You can be canceled for transphobia now.

Hatefuleight-36 · 2024-05-18T06:10:11+00:00

Lmao wtf do these idiots think they’re going to achieve? Most of them would be sub 5’s even if they were actually trans and attempting to pass as female would probably make it worse, I have no idea what kind of idiocy drives people to employ this strategy.

DarkChiaotzu · 2024-05-18T05:41:03+00:00

This. This annoys the absolute shit out of me. They really think that their sad sorry porn videos can come to life if they join our apps. It’s disgusting. These men’s minds are literally blown out of their damned heads when they realize that women live their lives without them.

ThatSign4722 · 2024-05-18T08:16:20+00:00

Dominic didn't even try to hide it, straight up "he/him". Why the fuck would there be a "he/him" option on a lesbian dating app?

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2024-05-18T07:00:29+00:00

Lily/ Eva looks feminine to me and could be a masc woman???

A few look like they could be early in their transition journey.

But it is obvious a lot of them are just into getting threesomes.

When I posted here that more straight men are more open to dating bisexual women than straight women with bisexual men because they want threesomes, many men got mad. But literally this is the case. They aren’t more open minded, accepting, and equitable. They want threesomes.

indigo_pirate · 2024-05-18T08:38:14+00:00

Majority of places now in socially acceptable/ liberal world. Completely outlaw transphobia of any degree.

So OP until that’s addressed anyone who says they are a woman is one.

John_Oakman · 2024-05-18T08:56:15+00:00

As others have noted, those men are exploiting the same mechanisms in place that was originally meant to protect at risk minorities, and any policies levied at them can & will be turn around and be used to oppress at risk minorities.

General doctrine and policies by default tend to be inflexible when dealing with ulterior motives and loophole and exceptions, while rule patching are also similarly exploited by those same types of bad actors (even if technically from opposite factions).

The question now becomes, which group and their ulterior motives are you willing to tolerate? (Of course there's always the option of standing alone and go down while not compromising on one's moral virtues but that kind of grandstanding isn't going to have much of an effect in the material world).

And as some will of course expect to be noted, what can law & social norm abiding males do to police their social superior men? (because we know damn well that neither women nor real men will change anything as it's an affront to their moral character or something to that effect)

AidsVictim · 2024-05-18T09:25:47+00:00

That sucks but it's not like it's anything new, it's just affecting your subgroup now.

EntertainerWild7391 · 2024-05-18T08:25:31+00:00

This was bound to happen and I feel like it is somewhat self-inflicted given women show larger support for trans rights.

SupportRemarkable583 · 2024-05-18T05:16:19+00:00

Let me she/them tiddies

upalse · 2024-05-18T09:16:24+00:00

Gender desegregation was a mistake.

k0unitX · 2024-05-18T05:23:42+00:00

Who gives a shit? The liberal cult, unfortunately, and most non-cis women are members. So, yeah, nothings changing.

alwaysright12 · 2024-05-18T08:54:52+00:00

Why are you surprised?

Stunning-Spirit5275 · 2024-05-18T12:07:29+00:00

As long as they clearly state they have a wiener, I see no problem. Let people decide for themselves accordingly: sexuality IS on a spectrum

WhiteHalo2196 · 2024-05-18T05:49:07+00:00

Ok. I don’t know what this has to do with the purple pill though.

YearnsToDestroySun · 2024-05-18T08:47:20+00:00

Leftist cultism to its ultimate conclusion. Used to love the Democrats when they were about helping the lower class primarily. Now it's just all about race and gender hustling for the sake of narcissistic virtue signaling.

My God the left group delusions have gotten so bad that they gaslight people into believing that our president isn't a vegetable....or Trump is just that zomg evil that even a vegetable president is better than him (give me a break). Or, have to jail trump because they can't beat him on the issues - that's nerve wracking. I don't care if he deserves to be in jail or not, but if that's all you're trying to do because your side can't be compelling to the voters on the issues - that scares the shit out of normal people with half a brain!

Biden 10 years ago is a way different PERSON than the confused fool now. I can't ever get over how he's not mentally competent to stand trial, but yet he's somehow competent enough to have the most important job in the world.

Sorry for the rant, but the Democrats have betrayed my trust in them.

obviousredflag · 2024-05-18T09:31:12+00:00

When can we just stop including everyone.

When enough people uninstall/stop using the app and give that as a reason.

bielsasballholder · 2024-05-18T06:03:45+00:00

It’s genuinely beautiful seeing feminism eat itself alive. 😂😂 And women are finally getting a taste of equality and not being the trump victim. 😂😂

The male equivalent of this is probably whores and bots, that’s what we have to put up with when on dating sites. Women (and men) doing all they can to acquire money from men. While men are now doing all they can to acquire sex from women (including pretending to be women).

Or watching porn and having to wade through fatties and transformers. 😂

RevolutionaryEye5320 · 2024-05-18T07:15:54+00:00

Horrendous. This is utterly disgusting rapey degenerate criminal filth, and I say that as an MtF myself. These twats deserve jail time for sexual harassment.

I'd say males, regardless of gender, should either not be allowed on lesbian apps full-stop or only under very specific conditions, i.e fully passing + functioning voice + post-op and must state they are MtF on their profile.

The point of MtF is to live as a woman (gender), not to menace females and make a fucking nuisance of yourself.

W-Pilled · 2024-05-18T06:56:02+00:00

I bet there's some Chad out there that has one of these profiles and still pulls

Savings_Builder_8449 · 2024-05-18T09:25:16+00:00

men are tired of women invading male spaces too. annoying isnt it?

Scarce12 · 2024-05-18T08:11:56+00:00

It's hypocritical to claim there's historically been a "patriarchy" that's forced women into gender roles while overlooking how society forces men into gender roles, and making no social advancements on this, as is the case here.

abaxeron · 2024-05-18T10:17:13+00:00

What are we supposed to debate?

To quote Hannah Gatsby, "You made the rules. Read them."

It's not "being pushed"; passive voice is out of place here. WOMEN have been pushing the idea that gender is nothing but a side effect of hierarchical social conditioning.

I'm glad that after almost a century of quoting and repeating "One is not born, but rather becomes, a woman" and all the similar nonsense, women themselves start reconsidering.

As the saying goes, better late than never.

The Her app is created and managed by a woman. All questions... to her (badumtsss)

ArguesAgainstYou · 2024-05-18T09:43:51+00:00

ITT: Open transphobia.

The app literally advertises as a dating portal for LGBTQ Folks. If you didn't want all of those letters you should have gone for a different app. There isn't even a hint of "this is for bio women only" in their self description.

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Sargeras13 · 2024-05-18T11:43:59+00:00

Thats the thing about identity politics, it runs on a hierarchy

BiffTannenCA · 2024-05-18T11:55:31+00:00

Liberals hoisted on their own petard. Gotta love it. They voted for this batshit extremism, now they must eat it.

J-MAMA · 2024-05-18T12:28:27+00:00

It’s being pushed that we accept whoever says they’re non binary or trans into women’s spaces to the point it’s no longer women’s spaces.

When can we just stop including everyone.

I mean, this is what y'all wanted lmao.

What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

CryptoThroway8205 · 2024-05-18T12:45:58+00:00

Same as straight guys going to lesbian bars hack. Less competition

NockerJoe · 2024-05-18T07:07:04+00:00

Eh. Men were told to open up basically all of their spaces to women and more or less have, to their detriment. If gender specific spaces are bad for the gander they're bad for the goose too. This is the logical end point of all spaces having to be uber inclusive.

JohnGoodman_69 · 2024-05-18T09:54:52+00:00

6 years ago https://np.reddit.com/r/rant/comments/7w668s/why_the_hell_is_grindr_letting_women_on_now/

I disappear off the app for a few months and come back to find that there are now women all over the fucking place.

FUCKING WHY? Grindr is a motherfucking gay hookup app. I don't (and probably most other people don't) go on Grindr to meet nice lovely ciswomen with big tits. I Go on Grindr to get my boi pussy pounded. Tinder is a thing that exists you fucking assholes. Go there and stay there you fucking straight fags. Just to be fair to absolute cretins who thought this was Good idea and to the equally awful straight women who choose to use Grindr,I looked up the reason.

Literally nothing but platitudes about fucking diversity.

FUCK YOU.

NO.

Most men on Grindr don't give a fuck what your pronouns are as long as your attractive. Hell,if anyone had a serious issue with to FtMs being on Grindr,I'd be kinda pissed about it.

The real issue here is allowing these fucking entitled women who'd been using the site for years now to have some legitimacy. Oh you don't like other hookup apps because men are being to sexually forward? You want to know why that's the fucking case? BECAUSE THE MEN ON THOSE FUCKING APPS ARE ACTUALLY INTERESTED IN WOMEN.

Gay men are a Minority in society,so having spaces specifically for us is actually extremely useful. If we're going to go down this fake inclusivity road,then just allow straight men on to be super fucking inclusive you shit heads.

When the fuck did these fag hag pieces of shit get the Goddamn idea that they're welcome on Grindr? It's not your space to find your YAAAAAS QUEEN gay best friend. I find the kind of women with this attitude abhorrent and patronizing. Honestly,if you're a woman om Grindr,Delete the app (or yourself) as soon as fucking possible. You are pushing out men I might actually be interested in and replacing them with your stupid fucking face.

This whole thing reminded me of this absolutely insufferable article from some insufferable feminist site I read a long ass time ago.

The whole article was essentially this fucking retard complaining that the gay community had a misogyny problem because she was being given (and rightfully so) the cold shoulder by all the patrons at a gay bar. 👏SHITHEAD👏 The reason you're not getting a warm reception is because it's a bar for gay men. You are neither Gay,nor a man. At least if you were a straight man,you'd be nice eye candy,but you can't even meet us halfway. I wouldn't go to a fucking lesbian bar and expect great service because It's not my place. It's for lesbians.

I'm actually really beginning to understand SJW types who talk about safe spaces now and that makes me want to kill my self more than I normally want to kill my self.

Eat shit you fucking retards. If you unwelcome as a woman on Grindr then that's a good thing. You should be fucking banned,not encouraged because now that you're obnoxiously taking up space,the straight men are going to come in and fucking ruin it. Hopefully it'll push gay people towards using better hookup apps in one instance where capitalism isn't a lie.

Odd_Ad5171 · 2024-05-18T05:16:05+00:00

They do it because it works, rarely. So blame the women that give them attention

Lovers691 · 2024-05-18T09:03:44+00:00

Didn't know the lesbian dating app was called HER, how quaint anyways these people are clearly mostly opportunist, most trans people will transition because of their dysphoria or just the plain desire to look like the sex they see themselves as. Incidentally, from what I have heard on 4chan there are quite a few trans women on Grindr

stefan00790 · 2024-05-18T10:06:28+00:00

Actually I applaud them . Good job adaptation to enviroment at its finest . I think that the last strategy if you are a man and are unable to date or struggle with dating woman ... is to identify as a women in order to gain the "trans people buff " so women can't be toxic nor hate you because of the "Men stigma " they will be afraid of being labaled "transphobic " and woman care how are they labeled by a society . Good strategy S+ tier . Now its woman's turn to adapt to this strategy without being labaled transphobic .

Planthoe30 · 2024-05-18T10:36:37+00:00

You can thank the Wokies for that. GenDErlEsS SpOrTs hur durr. Maybe try not being woke or supporting insanity.

Post-Posadism · 2024-05-18T11:04:49+00:00

Can't you just swipe away the people you don't like? Isn't that kinda the point? Like seriously, if simply seeing someone who you (mis)gender as male on a dating app that advertised itself as explicitly inclusive to trans and non-binary people triggers you, you're the one being a snowflake here. Your only contention, given that you have the power to dismiss as many of them as you want, would appear to be with trans and non-binary people (and possibly men too) merely existing in front of you. That is disgusting, textbook transphobia; shame on you.

theory_of_this · 2024-05-18T11:06:12+00:00

What exactly are these people doing?

The majority are men who identify as men but trolling the service and women on these platforms. Is that correct?

Friedrich_Friedson · 2024-05-18T11:29:02+00:00

It’s being pushed that we accept whoever says they’re non binary or trans into women’s spaces to the point it’s no longer women’s spaces.

The problem with this being...?

Grinder should only be for men. It’s about men. Same for HER

Anyone for whatever reason can download a dating app. You can't police what people download lmao.

dislikesBSS · 2024-05-18T09:11:56+00:00

Grindr is for trans and NB people, so they can use that.

Feeld is for hookup and threesomes/group sex.

It's not like these men dont have anywhere to go..

Men on lesbian apps. I’m tired of it

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