Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 Approaches

Hey Guys,

I just recently past my first 1000 Daygame approaches and thought I would share my results of this journey.

I tracked almost all my approaches from day one and I thought we could talk about your experience/numbers and what you can expect as a beginner. The 1000 approaches were completed in Germany over the last 1.5 years.

Briefly about me: I started in Daygame in October 2022 and all 1000 approaches that we are talking about today were carried out in one German city. I was terrible with women before (and to be honest I probably still am - but better than I was a year and a half ago).

About my appearance so that you can classify the results: I am 1.85m tall when I started I was slightly overweight. I got rid of that pretty quickly and I am now quite toned. In terms of fashion, I was a complete catastrophe at the beginning, but luckily that got much better very quickly. I would say that I generally look relatively good.

So now the numbers:

• There are 1059 approaches in the data set:
• Of those, 931 stopped when I spoke to them
• I got 125 numbers
• Of these, 59 responded to the first message
• In the end, 20 agreed to a first date
• which then resulted in 18 dates (so 2 never came or canceled the date)
• I kissed 8 of them (most of them on the first date when I eventually figured out how to have proper first dates)
• And that ended with 2 lays

Here are a few ratios and percentages for those who don't want to do the math themselves:

• Open to Number: 11.8% (One number every 8.47 approaches)
• Open to Date: 1.9% (For a date I have to make 52.95 approaches)
• Open to Lay: 0.19% (one lay every 529.5 approaches) (a bit stupid to even calculate that but for the sake of completeness)

A few more words about how the numbers have changed over time. In fact, the open to number ratio is incredibly constant and has basically not changed at all over the 1.5 years - which more or less means to me that I don't seem to have learned anything when it comes to daygame. My changes in appearance from overweight to toned also had no statistically significant impact. My number to date ratio has improved somewhat over time but it is a relatively modest improvement (but my evaluations say that it is statistically relevant). The biggest change from date to kiss was over time and it wasn't slow, but as soon as I figured out how to do a first date properly it skyrocketed - but that took a good 10 months.

Personal opinion/evaluation:

If you look around and see what the approximate numbers are that you should use as a guide, I am well below everything you can find. Open to Number in particular seems to be my weakness. But some of the data you find online is probably a bit exaggerated by some coaches in order to attract customers. Which is one reason why I'm writing this post here. I would be interested to know what it looks like for you, what are your numbers? What is realistic as a beginner? How would you classify these results and what are your experiences?