As a bisexual woman I will admit that aging can be a curse for some women in a society that deems youthful young women as being more valuable than older women. I don't make the rules, men have and they stated it perfectly clear that they don't find women at certain age attractive,perhaps 28+ is when they say we hit the wall. So, my best advice to you is, listen to them and move accordingly. Women do hit the wall,but it's by male standards.