Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?

rabel111 · 2025-04-08T02:50:50+00:00

When there is a men's space that isn't accountable to women, it triggers man hating feminists. It's not that feminists can't come here and post ideas, its that feminists can't control the narrative here, can't shut down men who speaks the truth, and that drives feminists absolutely nuts.

JohannReddit · 2025-04-08T02:09:34+00:00

It's lame. There are subs that auto-ban you just for participating in this sub.

UWontHearMeAnyway · 2025-04-08T01:59:38+00:00

Because, any space where we can be in a group together, it's seen as a threat to their takeover. Remember, equality was never their goal.

iainmf · 2025-04-08T03:58:55+00:00

Feminists believe that men bonding or having an identity as men keeps the patriarchy in place. While coffee-shop-feminists may not say they believe this, I'm sure they have absorbed this idea from other feminists. This partly explains why feminists are so opposed to non-feminist men's groups.

See: Flood, M. (2002-2003). Engaging Men: Strategies and dilemmas in violence prevention education among men. Women Against Violence: A Feminist Journal, 13: 25-32.

We should be wary of approaches which appeal to men’s sense of ‘real’ manhood or invite them to ‘prove themselves as men’. These may intensify men’s investment in male identity, and this is part of what keeps patriarchy in place ([Stoltenberg 1990). Such appeals are especially problematic if they suggest that there are particular qualities which are essentially or exclusively male. This reinforces notions of biological essentialism and determinism and denies valuable qualities such as strength and courage to women.

Nevertheless, community education addressing males should speak to questions of identity. Boys and young men often struggle with the formation of their gendered identities, negotiating competing discourses of manhood and heterosexuality. There is often a dichotomy between their public projection of a confident masculinity and their experience of private anxieties and insecurities (Mac an Ghaill 1994: 99). These processes of identify formation represent a critical opportunity for violence prevention. Education campaigns can model identities based on moral reasoning, justice and selfhood rather than gender-identity anxiety, dominance and manhood (Stoltenberg 2001).

Flood is basically saying we should not let men (or boys) form identities as men. Men's identities must not be gendered, and should be about 'justice' and doing the right thing. Of course, by this he means being feminist.

bulimic_squid · 2025-04-08T02:13:22+00:00

Ever wanna know who rules over you? Check who you can't criticise.

This sub hold a big fucking mirror up to generations of feminist leaning women and men.

You don't even need to criticise their movement. You just need to speak "outside" of it.. so talking about men's issues becomes a zero sum, zealous argument.

If their worldview is built on the fact that men are always wrong, and women never are, then as soon as you start giving examples that break this view, their programming tells them to double down.

I know a lot more men that will openly listen to and try to empathize with women, than I do the opposite, and that's extremely telling in my view.

When do we get to speak about our issues as men? And why do they act as if we should be asking for permissions, or taking up as little room as possible when we do?

See my first point.

Ooooeq · 2025-04-08T02:06:34+00:00

We are living in a badly written black mirror episode where women have transcended accountability and obtained social immunity to spewing hate towards men

FilthyOrganick · 2025-04-08T02:57:16+00:00

Stigmatising potential opponents has become the default for left wing/ feminism

Salamadierha · 2025-04-08T05:28:19+00:00

You need to learn how to defend your presence here. Strictly, don't defend it. Go on the offensive.

"Ahh, you're just an incel posting on the mensrights sub".

oh, so you think: "that boys should get a shit education?"
"that it's fair that men die younger but have to work longer?"
"that boys raped by women should have to pay child support if she gets pregnant?"
Or any other impossible to attack position that we support here.

Make them defend their position. You'll often get a few people coming along to check out what you're saying as well.

Tiny_Professional358 · 2025-04-08T02:08:08+00:00

Reddit is mostly pro feminist and “men bad” can’t have people debunking the bias narrative.

chengannur · 2025-04-08T05:20:32+00:00

Look at the good part, eventually the hate towards the word incel will be wiped away as it becomes /anyone who disagrees with them is an incel/.

And why does anyone else want an approval from someone else for standing up for what he believes is right, from his life experience.

And the younger ones will be more sympathetic to our causes as unlike us, they do have access on how the world works rather than experiencing it themselves and the understanding what's what and by then this all will be common knowledge. By then no amount of media whitewashing is going to help the other group.

lazymud68 · 2025-04-08T02:19:17+00:00

Because misandristic women hate when men expose their hypocrisy and misandry. They rather benefit from misandry.

BigBadBootyDaddy10 · 2025-04-08T20:23:01+00:00

Pull up a chair 🪑 got a story.

So, about a decade ago I went through a divorce. Without kids in play, the D was as amicable as you can get.

After the D, I decided to work on me. Two years of working, working out, reading, listening to podcasts. Everything in my life was suppose to bring balance in my life - and it did. Mind you, I did not date at all during this time. Focus was on me.

I stumbled upon a YT video which was nothing more than stories read off Reddit. This lead me to the 5 letter acronym message boards. I jumped on the forums. Yes some of it was toxic. But majority of the content was uplifting and inspiring. There was a sense of unity and an accountability.

Fast forward a couple years and I keep seeing the group being labeled as misogynistic and toxic.

I thought to myself, “wait, bunch of dudes want to be left alone, how does this hinder a female movement?”

Light bulb went off.

Ok-Cranberry-9558 · 2025-04-08T10:42:15+00:00

Because women can't stand the fact that men have a place to network.

It really "disempowers" them

GodHand7 · 2025-04-08T03:23:39+00:00

Because you're trying to escape the simping plantation, I love women but that doesnt mean i will ignore their mistakes or just receive their hatred "like a man". Anti sexism is also being anti misandry but the usual "justice" warriors never even think about that

Iriltlirl · 2025-04-08T02:12:19+00:00

It's Reddit, lol. Headquartered in San Francisco. What else do you need to know.

BowtiepastaMasta · 2025-04-08T01:59:15+00:00

Because you can’t ask questions anymore. Have conversations.

ElegantAd2607 · 2025-04-08T02:05:30+00:00

Because it's not menslib. It doesn't cater to feminists.

kongeriket · 2025-04-08T02:38:14+00:00

Social media tends to attract extreme personalities. It's also extreme personalities that tend to stick around to do moderation.

Of all social media, Reddit is still the worst in this because of the way moderators are chosen/selected/promoted.

And because of that, Reddit became far more unidirectionally radicalized in a way other places haven't (although X is trying that too these days). Also, due to its background of attracting niche interests, Reddit became a place that augments the weirdest and abnormal ideas.

Almost every fact of life that is absolutely normal for 97% of human life on Earth is controversial on Reddit.

Men's rights was until about 5-6 years ago negatively coded even in mainstream society - so of course it became super-duper-haram in a nichemaxxing sandbox run by pedos, feds and far-Leftists (which Reddit really is).

This will gradually change across social media as generations change. But Reddit will be the last to change.

BeepBeepYeah7789 · 2025-04-08T12:16:10+00:00

One reason is this common perception of men:

"You are already privileged; why are you asking for/demanding MORE??"

DizzyAstronaut9410 · 2025-04-08T03:46:04+00:00

Somehow the idea that men are systemically disadvantaged in any areas is still wildly unpopular (despite massive heaps of evidence), especially within left leaning circles (which is what Reddit is).

Suspicious-Sleep5227 · 2025-04-08T04:33:16+00:00

People with contrarian views do not get banned here. The rest of Reddit hates that.

black_orchid83 · 2025-04-08T05:27:43+00:00

I've gotten automatically banned from other subs for being in this one but I don't care

Rad_Knight · 2025-04-08T05:54:31+00:00

Because people think incredibly unnuanced.

AbysmalDescent · 2025-04-08T15:20:12+00:00

It's mainly rooted in misandry and delusional persecution fantasies from feminists. The fact that incel is even used as a slur in the first place implies a great deal of negative projection, misinformation and misandry. It should be pretty evident to you why there is so much misandry on reddit, given how normalized and open it is.

Jersey_Suks · 2025-04-08T17:21:30+00:00

Because females are the privileged sex and feminists see any struggles us men face as opposition to their vendetta

olamdaniel · 2025-04-08T03:21:27+00:00

Because reddit is known to be extremely leftist/woke and anything that goes against their ideology is cut down

Heavy_Consequence441 · 2025-04-08T03:58:08+00:00

Because females want to bury logical dissenting viewpoints and keep their 'men bad' narrative

Tiger4ever89 · 2025-04-08T06:37:55+00:00

i only engage in AskMen groups.. and games related.. oh and vent group.. i visit other groups but i never comment over there.. Reddit is mainly Liberal anyway, so anything you say that is valid in the real world.. is invalid in the online world

Smoothsailing4589 · 2025-04-08T20:12:10+00:00

I am a liberal who is a men's rights activist, which puts me in a weird position. I have been banned from a popular liberal subreddit because some feminist posted an article saying all men who are MAGA are incels. That was a man hating post for sure. I am a liberal, but men's rights comes first for me, so I replied to the man hating post in a polite manner by pointing out that it was a man hating post. I got attacked by about 100 feminists who called me an incel (I am not an incel) and they were swearing at me and they were calling me derogatory names and all sorts of stuff. They were acting hysterical. I was acting calm and respectful and I replied to all of their replies and I used facts to disprove all of their claims. Their claims were all based on feminist lies from decades ago and I wanted to give them some real statistics. I even suggested that they should watch the documentary called The Red Pill, but they were unwilling to open their minds and they refused to do so. Then I got permabanned and the only reason given was a very arbitrary reason- "Misogynistic post". But NOT ONCE did I post anything misogynistic. Here is the problem with these people- they are totally unwilling to open their minds and research men's rights issues. They flat out refuse to do so, and instead of doing just a little bit of research they act like tyrants and they go ahead and ban you. They are not about democracy or anything like that. Their minds are closed. Feminism is a very toxic, authoritarian movement and it is not based in facts.

No-Cartographer-476 · 2025-04-08T09:36:18+00:00

They just hate all male spaces. But infiltrate all female spaces and somehow thats a big no no

StockButterscotch764 · 2025-04-08T02:28:48+00:00

Consider the “here”….You simply have a lot of narrow minded, ideological (leftist lunacy esp.) idiocy on this platform….& then consider what those opinions are worth…..not a hell of a lot obviously…..so keep your chin up….& keep making sure your voice is heard….as Tom Golden would say….”Men are good….and so are you”.

RevolutionaryRip2504 · 2025-04-08T12:26:53+00:00

As a female, I joined this sub because I realized that the feminist movement was pushing hatred towards men and I wanted to see mens perspectives. This sub is SO needed.

welshrebel1776 · 2025-04-08T10:46:06+00:00

Male spaces are getting fewer and fewer

Jammapanda · 2025-04-09T16:06:51+00:00

feminists issue isn't "misogyny", it's men having any rights at all, and being treated even close to a human being.

Polyfluorite · 2025-04-08T05:35:28+00:00

Just commenting so I get auto banned

LateralThinker13 · 2025-04-08T13:34:22+00:00

1) Feminism is informed by Marxism. (Seriously, look at the Postmodernists and the original suffragettes)

2) Marxism is a zero sum game. To give time, space, or energy to anyone else's movement, yours has to LOSE.

3) Feminists will not sacrifice, admit, or give up anything because it's not just Marxist, but a supremacy movement cloaked in the illusion of equality (go test this).

Knowing the above, it's obvious why most of Reddit (a mostly leftist cesspit) would hate us. We are taking away from women's spaces just by existing.

ArabicanStout · 2025-04-08T15:41:06+00:00

Because ultimately (modern) feminists, and progressives don't want men to have rights, they want a subservient slave class.

EverySingleMinute · 2025-04-08T22:11:34+00:00

The site is extremely liberal and besides being mad at the world, they always want to blame someone else for their misery.

jessi387 · 2025-04-08T02:10:14+00:00

Same reason gay rights were hated up until a decade and a half ago

Finlander95 · 2025-04-08T14:13:55+00:00

Just by commenting on this sub autobans you from multiple popular subreddits. If I go to any womens rights subreddit I get banned for just taking part in conversation. Its crazy to see how west is losing basic freedoms like free speach. Every sub is a circlejerk of people who identify certain way. As a centrist its annoying to see.

chrisgamin · 2025-04-08T14:32:09+00:00

because feminists say they want equality and so complain about everything that men have better than women, but when they hear of it being reversed they instantly call it barbaric and say that you are against women's rights, also this is vaguely of topic but they say things such as 'we're not just objects' but then shower themselves in make-up to try to look more attractive

Fafurion · 2025-04-08T14:40:38+00:00

I got auto-banned from a subreddit yesterday when I commented on a post just simply for having posts here. It really puts into perspective just how little people give a shit about men. I joined MensRights to talk about my experiences with how I was abused by my mother and sister growing up, and my experiences with false accusations and sexual harassment from women that get swept under the rug by literally everyone under the guise of me being 'lucky'.

It's disgusting to be 'punished' by a subreddit that isn't even a political or issue subreddit (its a fuckin subreddit about interesting stuff) for trying to seek comfort and community about something you're a victim of. Imagine if a subreddit just insta-banned people for posting in 2X or Feminism, there would be riots in the streets, but once again its Men so it's fine. Fuck them for making me feel like my issues not only don't matter, but should be punished for speaking up about them.

Ok-Consideration8724 · 2025-04-09T09:28:14+00:00

Look at the first four letters of the sub. That’s your answer. They just hate men. Simple as that.

Business-Fee-9806 · 2025-04-09T13:36:09+00:00

Ive been banned from multiple subs for literally just being in this one, it's because discrimination against men, especially straight, white men, is the last bastion of "publicly acceptable" groups to be crappy to.

Also Reddit being a left wing/liberal hive doesn't help.

Iamscaredofpeople69 · 2025-04-08T02:18:16+00:00

Anything connected to mens rights has been tarnished by the “red pill” movement and people similar to them. Its also been politicised so naturally it will be hated by some

LateDream · 2025-04-08T06:23:14+00:00

Reddit is a terrible website. Hatred of non-minority populations and entire communities are okay if they are anywhere right of centre. This ramped up during the covid 19 years when posting in critical subs would get you banned from ones like pics.

Spicy1 · 2025-04-08T09:16:30+00:00

Did you know I’ve earned automatic bans from other subs just for being a member of this one? It’s crazy

Significant-Bed375 · 2025-04-08T13:40:23+00:00

They've rigged the game so that all complaints about women are off limits but it's open season on hating men

World-Three · 2025-04-08T13:41:36+00:00

Posting in here is like asking for help. If you ask for help you're not a man. If you want men to be better off somehow you hate women.

Furthermore, anything that can be taken to be against women makes you an enemy of women.

But somehow feminism is okay for everyone. If the adolescence show showed anything, it's that women have the same level of contempt for boys who are lost, and potentially violent. And instead of nurturing better behavior from those people, they're just discarded without further consideration.

There's a subreddit for the show, you can read into it as long as you like. But the show imitates fact, and that fact is illustrated in replies from ordinary people who have nothing to do with the show.

ReceptionInformal749 · 2025-04-08T14:21:34+00:00

Let them hate

Complete-Junket-8209 · 2025-04-08T20:29:54+00:00

It's true we are real people with real feelings and it's feels like everyone else can can speak up but when we do it it's wrong

DrakenRising3000 · 2025-04-08T20:47:56+00:00

Because they hate men and anything that even comes remotely close to acknowledging “victimhood” in men is a threat to women’s social power. They can’t stand even a smidge of a loss in their control.

Glad its still slipping through their fingers.

AnFGhoster · 2025-04-08T21:13:52+00:00

It's a space dedicated to advocating for men and calling out feminism's contradictions. The institutional level strangle hold feminism has on society, the culture, and the allowed conversations sees that as a threat their their status quo and thus need to reject the reality we expose when we call them out.

Norfolt · 2025-04-09T14:32:21+00:00

No narrative control

antifeminist3 · 2025-04-10T17:06:31+00:00

Feminists do not want male spaces because of their prejudice against men. They project there prejudice onto men stating they will have 'misogynistic conversations.' You should hear women on the internet talk about misandry in full public view.

iceyorangejuice · 2025-04-08T09:48:23+00:00

Ugly, miserable, hateful women. Many such cases.

hendrixski · 2025-04-08T10:51:17+00:00

Mostly because society doesn't allow men to be victims and we havs the audacity to point out that men have been oppressed for thousands of years by things like military conscription, genital mutilation, gendered laws, and social expectations that value male lives less than female comfort.

ALSO... because some people here mistakenly blame women for these problems instead of blaming misandry for these problems. That unnecessarily ruffles feathers and detracts from our cause.

MNResources · 2025-04-08T03:50:25+00:00

How far we wanna go down the rabbit hole?

hottake_toothache · 2025-04-08T13:00:39+00:00

People don't care about men and they find it repulsive that this sub does.

AdSpecial7366 · 2025-04-08T15:19:51+00:00

Tbh, idc.

We just need to make sure this sub doesn't shut down.

We're already past every other feminist sub except TwoX and AskWomen.

Let's keep putting in the work!

waterboyh2o30 · 2025-04-08T09:46:00+00:00

Some people want traditional gender roles, and they refuse to clarify what specific roles they're referring to. It's deceitful, and they're likely hiding their true views because they know it'll make them look bad.

No_Promotion_2533 · 2025-04-08T12:41:24+00:00

Because they are extremely threatened when men have became aware of of being made second class citizens and wanting equal rights, this terrifies the privileged, they are scared to death of actual equality.

Anyone who's not a selfish peice of shit would advocate and support us when we're being discriminated against. Funny how men supported women for rite to vote, when they received they're very first privilege, rite to vote, no draft, it went on and on from there.

Negative_Comfort6848 · 2025-04-08T12:49:25+00:00

Because it brings truth to a platform where everyone assumes by default that men are privileged.

Here people debate with facts a reality that goes beyond the surface and everyone assumes it's true.

omarkayyam · 2025-04-08T13:47:36+00:00

Same with a lot of subjects, politics is a great example. Extremists views where the other side has no valid points at all. Common sense has gone out the window, so to agree with someone with opposing opinions is verboten.

Monk_in_process · 2025-04-09T05:30:54+00:00

Now I have decided whenever someone starts saying men this men that I am gonna share them the link of this sub

50pciggy · 2025-04-09T06:40:33+00:00

Story as old is time, because there’s a lot of groups who get incredibly afraid when they see they can’t control “men’s spaces” if the term even exist anymore

Altsncro · 2025-04-10T07:11:56+00:00

This sub is hated on reddit because it disagrees with a lot of what reddit people are. Most people on Reddit are usually very liberal left leaning...and the idea of Male issues or men's rights is typically associated with the "red pill" movement or other conservative ideologies that go against what most reditors believe In.

So typically when this sub is mentioned they immediately put it in a context that the entire subreddit is against/the opposite of everything they believe in.

Like what other comments mention, this subreddit does cover and reveal legitimate problems and issues with modern western society but at the same time this subreddit also enables and encourages some rather uncool behavior.

In the end although it's essentially a fruitless effort, we as a community need to double check and keep a high standard of our own fellow MRA so we don't end up like the feminist community: People who just let anyone waving the flag spout whatever nonsense they want solely Because they are a "Ally". We need to keep our standards high.

TheOriginalBatvette · 2025-04-10T14:42:55+00:00

Why be so concerned with what people think if those people are already predisposed to be against you? Just show them this: https://youtu.be/_YDqm7LXt2g?si=Omp-Y0ngjwGyo-SE they may not like it but he was the pinnacle of male class and civility.

mrmensplights · 2025-04-11T05:22:57+00:00

Advocacy movements for women have traditionally scapegoated men by casting them as oppressors. That is how feminism has built solidarity with women - by using identity politics to bundle women up into a tribe and then using power dynamics to declare that the enemy tribe - men - is out to get them.

The result of this strategy is a pervasive misandry tied to these movements, and because these movements have become the primary secular dogma of the west there is now a pervasive misandry in our society.

Nothing is more offensive to someone from this new religion than men talking about their problems and advocating for themselves:

First, they've been taught since they were children that men are a powerful oppressor. It's hard enough to sympathize with the powerful. It's down right offensive to sympathize with the oppressor.

Second, because men have been cast as the villain in this drama for so long there's a strong sense that men suffering is revenge or justified and even karmic; That men deserve it.

Additionally, there is also a existential fear in feminist special interest groups that social concern is a zero sum game. That if men start putting forth their problems and society feels the need to address them then that will take away from concern and funding feminist groups secure for female supremacist projects. They feel this generally, but such social concern for men also directly contradicts their central message. It's paramount that feminism groups convince everyone that oppression is an active and ongoing phenomenon if they want the most funding.

Lastly, men discussing their issue and advocating for themselves cuts against this limiting idea of a male gender role. Even the most liberal left leaning women will still viciously attack men for not giving up their seats, opening doors, stepping in to protect them, and above all not being stoic. Of course, men discussing their issues and advocating for themselves stands in direct contrast to these feelings.

This is just one angle, there are many other reasons. On reddit I think this is most prominent reason why. But it also triggers people due to gender role and behavioral expectations, and also cuts against the evolutionary psychology and sexual strategies of women.

rahsoft · 2025-04-11T08:14:03+00:00

Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?

Because like some things in life, if it can't be controlled, used, or manipulated to suit someone's agenda.. It gets hated.

When you have an argument (debate) with someone over an issue, and they can't provide a counterargument, constructive criticism etc but instead engage in personal attacks... it gets hated.

Many in society cannot cope (and likely have been raised without emotional resilience) with a world comprised of different views, opinion, beliefs and the fact that maybe they are holding on to information that is incorrect. It's like an online kindergarten..

Reddit is not a particular good example of a representation of society(unless you are looking for examples of hubris and ignorance.)

They are the useless third of society( ref. Golgfrinchans from hitchhikers guide)...

MooseExisting1203 · 2025-04-11T15:31:45+00:00

I see alot of comments in here generalizing and blaming women for your issues and perhaps thats actually why people dont like this reddit.

Tomspookery · 2025-04-12T08:14:46+00:00

Crazy how any time start a sentence with "both genders" or "women too" or "men too", everyone starts coming at you calling you a misogynist.

Cloxxki · 2025-04-12T10:43:29+00:00

Imagine thousands of us would wear skirts and join a Ladies Run together. They'd care about actual women's tights and that there might be a yin to that yang.

XavierMalory · 2025-04-13T05:47:01+00:00

Because Reddit is a very leftist-leaning social networking platform, and thus we are not liked because we go against that narrative.

This evening I was Perma banned from a sub Reddit by a bot. Just because I’ve posted things here. I didn’t break any rules in the other sub Reddit, I didn’t say anything hateful or controversial, I was just banned because I’ve made comments here. Welcome to Reddit.

Realistic_Map_5668 · 2025-04-14T05:47:10+00:00

Men bonding with eachother seems valuable for humans. You are the ones who have to go to war and build the houses. You need to get along to do that. I’d say the reason it’s perceived poorly is the implicit tone of resentment towards women. Idk if this group blames women for the state of the culture, but I think the social perception is that you do.

Women need strong families to survive. We are more vulnerable than men are. It seems to me that economic necessity is increasingly pulling women into the workforce, men are feeling inadequate as providers, women are unable to spend as much time on social and community contributions due to working, men are facing increased skepticism about reproducing from their female peers. Everyone wants the same damn thing. The family is weakening and it sucks for the culture as a whole, not just men.

AdGlobal3888 · 2025-04-14T10:50:34+00:00

So called definition of feminisim has vanished. They have just become about hating men instead of equality

SatisfactionNo7345 · 2025-04-14T17:29:45+00:00

Women can take exactly 0 criticism in any way, also anything that's good for men but doesn't benefit women = bad. All your attention and fruits if your labour should benefit women in some way.

No-Astronaut2025 · 2025-04-14T22:19:51+00:00

Probably because if you don't play the game you can't be controlled

Once you have a wife and kids they can control you through them , emotional blackmail

I'm into personal freedom and 'normal' relationships just ain't my thing

JeweI-Divine · 2025-04-15T20:14:27+00:00

Because it is literally a circle-jerk?

Tiger4ever89 · 2025-04-08T06:37:58+00:00

i only engage in AskMen groups.. and games related.. oh and vent group.. i visit other groups but i never comment over there.. Reddit is mainly Liberal anyway, so anything you say that is valid in the real world.. is invalid in the online world

justanother-eboy · 2025-04-08T07:14:30+00:00

Female supremacy is the narrative lol

nhhbhygf · 2025-04-14T22:55:13+00:00

It’s just not the same for us men as it is for women they get lots of free passes we don’t tbh

burp-scented-perfume · 2025-07-28T22:09:35+00:00

ive only seen negative things here if im being honest. just a few minutes ago i saw someone saying "men can lift heavy things and lead armies, women can't do that" there's quite a bit of misogyny.

Ok-Imagination-299 · 2025-04-08T04:43:14+00:00

Yea exactly 👍

DaveinOakland · 2025-04-08T03:20:37+00:00

Because a lot of the posts aren't even about men's rights, they are just mad at women.

Main_Following1881 · 2025-04-08T06:13:07+00:00

Too many controversial posts here

anillop · 2025-04-08T02:35:10+00:00

Because sometimes people come post some pretty crazy shit in here, and that gets shared around the rest of Reddit.

Gengis-Naan · 2025-04-08T02:52:58+00:00

If you look at the comments in this post and can't figure it out, i don't know how to explain it to you.

young-steve · 2025-04-08T03:56:00+00:00

Look at the replies that you're getting. That's why.

myfilossofees · 2025-04-08T22:27:58+00:00

It’s because many men (obviously especially in this sub) don’t believe that it’s not women creating oppression of men but other men. See that’s the biggest thing, you most likely don’t believe in the patriarchy yet patriarchy impacts men even more than women. Of course not all feminists agree it impacts men more, but all will concede that the smashing of the patriarchy will 100 percent benefit us all.

bigskycaniac · 2025-04-08T02:54:39+00:00

Men are the enemy. Band together.

LibrarianStrong7882 · 2025-04-08T06:26:12+00:00

reading these comments i think i can see why. its actually made me tear up. in my opinion, men have never been an oppressed group. yes there are sub-groups that include men, but as a whole, you guys have done pretty well for yourselves in history.

i think that the idea of men being oppressed in todays society is quite funny. i think what is concerning people, is having to make room for everyone else.

if we look at history, men have been the protectors, the providers and the leaders. women were nothing more than a sex doll and a maid. in the last 200 years or so we have made some real differences for womens rights, and now we are seeing women be all the things that men can be. but we also grow babies. and for some reason, in history, men have not liked our ability to do that, so have tried very hard to control it and us.

i think because we can now legally and physically do what men have done, it has left them feeling useless? (please correct me if im wrong, i am just saying it how ive seen it.) because women dont HAVE to be wives to be seen as an actual human in society and we dont NEED men for good sex, it leads men to feel angry at women for taking away what has always been their right to have.

i am truly terrified of where we are today. the ideals and the anger i see and feel towards women is nothing short of scary. it seems there is a hatred that is new and still brewing.

anyways to sum - mens issues always have and always will be important. chats and groups like this are great and there are real issues to tackle with mens mental health and violence in young boys. i think people get angry at groups like this because it is an easy and dangerous place to hide and spread hate and violence against women, WHICH is very scary and we dont need anymore of it.

please correct me on any points i have made, i am always open to feedback and changing my mind <3

EDIT: also like 50% of posts on this group is bashing feminists or just complaining about women lol

Material-Ad-637 · 2025-04-08T17:13:52+00:00

There is a lot of stupid anti women incel shit here.

Not all of it. But there is

Title	Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?
Author	Awkward_Purchase9176
Upvotes	819
Comments	333
Date	April 8, 2025 1:55 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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