Are there RedPill men, and potentially women, who are not angry about the current dating situation or the pill they've taken?

Werevulvi · 2025-06-04T09:39:05+00:00

I was way more angry about the red pill when I still purple pill. It was when I started to let go of that anger that I started seeing the red pill in a new light, and realized a lot of it is actually just describing what I've been seeing my whole life. Even if I to some extent am the anomaly, like I've never been interested in dating a Chad.

And although I'm still single, changing my perspective to red pill has made the concept of dating simpler. I now know much better what to focus on to attract the kinda men I want (ie men who want a serious relationship or marriage) by leaning more into traditional femininity, modesty, getting my body/weight into shape, and focusing my skills on home making and being nurturing. That that is what men generally want in a woman doesn't feel like a threat to me anymore, and it doesn't feel misogynistic either.

Schleudergang1400 · 2025-06-04T13:10:35+00:00

I am not angry about the current dating situation. Why would i? More freedom, more opportunities, more ways to connect, more ways to be a man/woman, more types of relationsships to have than marriage. Can't think of a time in history, where the dating situation was better.

Even if i wasn't successful in mating, i am pretty sure that i wouldn't be angry at the rules that evolved. I wouldn't want to restrict people's freedom so i can culturally force someone to be with me, even though they don't want to.

Hot-Impact-5860 · 2025-06-04T09:05:33+00:00

I don't care about my pill, I chose it, because people need discipline & order in their lives. They have absolutely disappointed me with their destructive free will. It doesn't even make them happy, look at all this bitching.

Puzzleheaded_Card_71 · 2025-06-04T22:40:20+00:00

There is a rage at first over the self inflicted pains of believing the blue pill nonsense, but it gives way to the fact that the red pill simply explains the reality of intersex relations. You can’t be mad at that, once you accept it. Knowledge is power and now red pilled people know what they need to succeed, if they are willing to do the work.

Psykotyrant · 2025-06-04T10:27:24+00:00

Not angry. More like frustrated, sad and resigned. I see no point in participating in a game that is extremely rigged, fighting against infinitely ballooning standards of women who are completely brainwashed by Instagram into designing average as beyond ugly.

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Zabadoodude · 2025-06-04T08:42:14+00:00

I'm happy in my relationship and my dating life in the past has been mostly positive. I'm not angry at women for liking what they like. Knowing what women like and how they can act has let me get better at attracting them and at vetting.

No-Rough-7390 · 2025-06-04T10:23:48+00:00

I mean, RP literally entails an anger phase where pissed in regards to your old modus operandi when it came to dating.

Anyways, I’m married so I don’t have a stake in the game now, but should I become single again you just gotta adapt to the marketplace. From speaking with the guys in my network, the things that enabled me to have a rotation in the past haven’t changed much so I guess it would just be rinse repeat.

soontobesolo · 2025-06-04T14:12:15+00:00

I took the red pill when I started dating after my divorce, so I could better understand the true dynamics of it all. Mostly by reading books and forums like this. The pill gives you truth, nothing more. What you do with it is up to you.

I'm very happy with how things turned out. I was able to improve myself dramatically over the last few years (physically, mentally, financially, professionally) and really have abandoned a lot of the counterproductive attitudes of my younger days, especially around dating.

The result was that I had a year or two of plate spinning and having lots of ladies fawn over me, which was an excellent part of the healing process, and I've now settled down with an absolutely spectacular gal, and done so on terms that work for me. (and her!) I feel like I'm pretty well set up for life, at least as far as dating goes. I have no concerns about it whatsoever. There are lots of great ladies out there, and I'll have no problem attracting them, should I decide to date others.

Joelypoely88 · 2025-06-04T14:26:16+00:00

I've never experienced anger towards dating, but have felt resignation sometimes. On a base level men and women are just following their biological programming. I can more understand if someone has a feeling of anger towards 'god' or 'nature' or whatever force created a potentially miserable situation.

weenieandthebutt · 2025-06-04T17:00:53+00:00

I mean you do get angry when you feel you're exposed to the truth and feel lied to all your life. That's what TRP refer to the "anger phase".

After you just learn to channel it through self-improvement and just learn to accept women for how they are. This includes having some female friends in your circle, having a good professional relationship, cultivating loving romantic relationships, being more empathetic towards certain female experiences etc etc as well as having the desire to slay some fit baddie.

Pepes_parrillaXXX69 · 2025-06-04T21:53:32+00:00

I mean, it's not much as anger at it is apathy. The dating world is unjust and stupid, blue pill wants to tell themselves it is not and that you just have to be yourself or some shit. What made me once angry was not how the world is, but how eager are some people to lie about it and keep up the myths that built it.

But like, I can't change that world, and I can't make bluepillers stop saying stupid shit, so what do I care? I'll just live my life.

Ego73 · 2025-06-05T04:36:31+00:00

I'm not at all angry. One is born in a set time and place, and has the power to choose whst to do with that situation. It is on me to develop further and be the best person I can be.

A lot of people will say that too much is expected from men, but I fail to see how that is. I don't really believe that all achievement by men is targeted at getting access to sex, but wouldn't it be great if some of it was? If female hypergamy is a reason for men to do great deeds, then it is, undisputably, a force for good.

SeemedGood · 2025-06-04T08:32:20+00:00

Not angry because once you get over the fact that you’ve been lied to about the true nature of women and just start adapting to the reality there’s absolutely no reason to be angry.

It is what it is, and once you know what it is you’re much better off for it.

That said, the general recalcitrance of our emasculated society to admit the truth does get annoying, and the thought of how this movie ends can be depressing, but neither are cause for anger.

Knight-Bishop · 2025-06-04T08:34:46+00:00

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forking_guy · 2025-06-04T10:04:28+00:00

That's supposed to be the point. It's natural to be angry at first; but when you accept things for what they are, you should just focus how to live your best life with that knowledge.

midnight_blue77 · 2025-06-05T03:32:46+00:00

I ain't angry about the current dating situation because I have a gf already. Even if I didn't I don't really see a problem. If I find a woman I like I take my chance and it will either work or it won't. That's life, and that's how it's always been. The red pill is just a symbol for reality. You either live in reality and just deal with it (angrily sometimes cause reality sucks) or you retreat into a fantasy bubble and soothe yourself with dreams.

PlainTundra · 2025-06-04T08:25:10+00:00

I am not angry, I'm in a LTR with my gf.

Is it due to personal dating success, that you find logic in the way dating and courtship is set up "biologically"

For me, it was a mix of both. I’ve never had much trouble finding girlfriends or casual relationships, and I’ve never used OLD. Growing up, I observed the dynamics between sexes around me and formed my own understanding. Later, I discovered that this perspective had already been explored and developed online under the name RP, a metaphor for seeing reality through a different lens. It was fun to discover other people reached to more or less the same conclusions I did.

kochIndustriesRussia · 2025-06-04T11:39:02+00:00

Its really not hard to find the women we prefer. They tend to be conservative and not on reddit and often not on dating apps lol. They're mostly in churches. That's where you find them if you're looking. There's scores of horny church girls ready to stay home and give you babies.

DiligentRope · 2025-06-04T09:37:07+00:00

From experience, Chad's are the most redpilled men out there, especially because they've experienced women's true nature first hand. I think for a lot of guys their first redpill is seeing how girls used to treat you in school, vs. after that summer you hit puberty and suddenly you're taller and more muscular with a deep voice.

I had this one flatmate in university a few years ago who was an absolute gigachad, he was a 6'5 punjabi, muscular, ex military, had big beautiful green eyes that girls loved, looked like a model. He'd talk about his experiences with women, it was easy for him, you'd think he loves women. But after telling his stories he'd say "they're all bitches, man". Completely serious about it, he just saw women as a fun time, that it was just his turn. And I'm 💯 sure that he never consumed redpill content, especially since his English wasn't so good. I've met a number of other chads like this, similar story.

They're not angry, but just indifferent. Meanwhile the rest of us that learned the hard way, many of us have a redpill rage phase after learning we were lied to our whole lives.

GreatWhiteSamaritan · 2025-06-04T09:06:40+00:00

the matrix is out to get us. just look at what they are doing to the tate brothers. but we will not lay out without a fight.

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