I feel like this needs to be directly addressed in terms of “only looks really matter”. There’s difference between “Im not attractive enough to get dates” and “Im not attractive enough for my shitty personality to be overlooked”. Sidenote: when I talk about about unattractive in this post, I mean the latter. What happened to this sub citing the 80/20 study that 80% of men were labelled unattractive but 60% got messaged from women? Thing is, you can away with not being hot if your personality is good. Thing is alot of guys arent as good as they think they are.

Alot, if not most, of these unattractive assholes claim they want to be good, but lie about themselves. Proof? See how fast most of them gawk at the idea that being good is rewarding in itself and the only thing they should want people being good/nice to them. To them, thats being a beta male cuck simp pussy. Hence, their idea of good/nice is being good/nice to a female just to get pussy. Also, remember that Elliot Rodgers called himself a gentleman and then went off to splash coffee onto people when the women didnt smile at him.

Other than the Elliot Rodgers types, these guys define being good as “as long as I dont commit crimes and crime, Im a good person”. An example: I guarantee most of those guys cannot figure what this guy did wrong: https://youtube.com/shorts/\_ke-Ep2Gu1E?si=hQjEK5xaF1HA7jIO.

These guys get mad when hearing “Well, if you tried to be a decent person, you’d get women” because they dont want to be decent people. Doesn’t matter that most women dont want assholes. There can 99 women at a party avoiding the asshole, but if there is even 1 woman that wants the asshole, THAT is who these guys focus on. Doesnt matter that she’s an asshole too, doesnt matter that she’s shallow, doesnt matter that she’s not stable, what matters is there’s a pussy between her legs and she’s willing to let an asshole in there.

So what’s the problem? If they’re not traumatized, women who date assholes are typically shallow. Now, the unattractive assholes are also shallow. Difference is unattractive assholes only care if a woman is willing to fuck. Shallow women only care if the guy is hot or rich. So yeah, those women might not care that you’re a piece of shit, but if youre not hot, theyre not even gonna give you a chance.

In conclusion, there’s a difference between “Only looks matter” and “Im too much of a dick for most women and not hot enough for shallow women to over look my shitty behavior”.