How many of you have women in your life and would you ever tell them your views on women?

Outrageous-Floor-424 · 2026-03-01T17:24:49+00:00

I have female friends, two quite close lifelong friends and several group-friends.

I don't ever tell any of them that dating is hard. Even the suggestion that it's a little bit difficult. You just can't say anything and expect not to get yelled at. Literally.

Otherwise I think they're my greatest friends. Wonderful people. Better at being friends than myself and my male friends in my opinion. But on there are a couple of issues that you just can't broach without serious social ramifications.

One is, as I say, how ubiquitous rejection is. Leads to yelling. The other is pointing out that some of the men they associate with are obvious rapists. Lost a group over that one.

Definitely recommend having some female friends around to every guy, but you gotta know to keep your mouth shut.

ViolentShallot · 2026-03-02T08:00:31+00:00

It's not that I would show my wife my posts. I have already.

AwardLimp2736 · 2026-03-01T22:57:38+00:00

I'm open about my views with the women in my life, but I just don't directly target any of them with my statement. When I say something like "women are often unsatisfied with the guy they're with because they think they can do better" I make it very general, hopefully making them reflect but not directly accusing them of this.

I've had many times women say "yep that's me" when describing something.

Online I'm a lot more sharp and matter of fact with my statements, so I wouldn't share what I write directly without giving some more personal context or cushoning, but I never hide my beliefs.

OmoshiroiKudamono · 2026-03-02T07:05:34+00:00

I tell them how the dating environment is. I would use normal people speak. The normal person isn't brain rotted from using this forum.

The "red pill" is NOT a political ideology. It just tells people how the dating scene is. It is up to each INDIVIDUAL person to do what thy want with the information.

MarioWilson122 · 2026-03-02T22:14:45+00:00

Yeah its quite hard to find women that are as logical as a man. Closest thing would be a woman that acts like a man. Since their experiences are so much different than men's, they can afford to be more emotional then men, so typically choose to be. So it will be hard to find such a woman, so it can be a waste of time trying. Thankfully I was able to get a couple that were like that, even still I don't expect to find too many more. Well at least not without really trying to do so.

RealityCold4693 · 2026-03-01T20:38:31+00:00

I mean, you really can’t have the conversations because it always turns into a struggle contest and then it leads to Well women get raped.

HighlightDowntown966 · 2026-03-01T17:24:25+00:00

All the time. But subtly

Cousin: "Hey, when are you going to settle for someone like that single mom over there and get married?? You're being too picky"

Me: "the same way Tommy settled when he married you?"

Her: Silence

Zabadoodude · 2026-03-02T19:34:44+00:00

I'm in a great relationship and have other women in my life too. I find most women agree with core redpill talking points if you frame it neutrally and don't use the cringy RP jargon.

wolf2424b · 2026-03-02T11:06:31+00:00

Generally speaking, no. Women tend to react very negatively to any observation which runs counter to the Women are Wonderful narrative.

In fact, that's the main reason I read and post here. It's one of the few places (physical or virtual) where you can speak the truth about men, women, and gender relations without being automatically silenced. It's nice to know that I'm not crazy and I'm not alone.

SeemedGood · 2026-03-01T19:09:02+00:00

Men become adherents of RP philosophy because they have a lot of interaction with women.

RP philosophy is essentially that which all experienced men used to understand about women and then pass down to our sons and nephews until that wisdom got disrupted by the lies propagated by feminism and an emasculated culture.

Modern RP is just men returning to that which we used to learn as boys from our more experienced elders.

PattayaVagabond · 2026-03-02T16:09:17+00:00

Most women I talk to IRL agree with my views.

Granted I mainly associate with Lower class white women that voted for Trump… so I’m not sure how other demographics think…

I-wanna-GO-FAST · 2026-03-01T19:53:32+00:00

What exactly do you think I might believe that I would be ashamed of? I mean obviously there are things that aren't worth bringing up to just anyone, but that doesn't mean that literally every woman in existence would react negatively to those things and even distance themselves from you for it.

My girlfriend probably thinks worse of women overall than I do. She also knows my reddit handle.

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abaxeron · 2026-03-02T13:20:37+00:00

My SO is my greatest fan here. 10+ years together and raising a child.

asb3s7 · 2026-03-01T17:38:33+00:00

Nah, women generally don’t think objectively (to the extent men do on average), aka they operate on ‘feelings over facts’ rather than ‘facts over feelings’.

For example, women are objectively more emotional than men, it’s a proven fact. But saying that to a woman, even if show her the data will make them upset. Because despite telling themselves and the world they are just as logical as men, they aren’t.

So it’s not worth getting them upset even if what I believe I’m saying is true. For women on the internet I don’t care. But female friends no.

Title	How many of you have women in your life and would you ever tell them your views on women?
Author	Present-Afternoon-70
Upvotes	27
Comments	118
Date	March 1, 2026 12:48 PM UTC (4 months ago)
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